https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix Using your answers from the activity we did in class on Thursday, complete the padlet. Each group needs to create one sticky note for each section. On your sticky note, write the word "Emotions" and write your four answers and briefly explain why you believe the couple would feel this way. Next, write the word "Stressors" and write your four answers and briefly explain why this would be a stressor during this stage. Finally write the word "Decisions" and write your four answers. Please put the names of all group members in your sticky note. en-us 2022-04-13 17:00:21 UTC 2022-04-20 13:23:42 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150236344 Emotions: excited, nervous, hopeful, happy 
Stressors: planning a wedding, wandering about your partner, your future, finances 
Decisions: wedding, future, whether to opt. out, housing/finances, children ]]> 2022-04-20 12:33:35 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150236344 gisselapineda https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150240297 Emotions: excitement, anxious, curious, stressed 
Stressors: understanding each other's reactinos, learning to share certain things, living together (finance and property), learning to cooperate and be considerate, getting involved with each other's families. 
Decisions: having kids in the future, getting married, living together for love (not becasuse you "need" someone) ]]> 2022-04-20 12:36:46 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150240297 madelynmahar https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150240997 Emotions:
- love, towards each other( that's why they are getting married)
- trust, they are trusting the other to love them forever
- nervousness, to commit to one person wholely and completely
- excitement, to marry the person they love

Stressors:
- commitment, sometimes commitment is scary to a person
- weddings, so many things need to be done and everyone is stressed
- children, the prospect of them and raising them (maybe worried about messing them up)
- adjusting to each other, trying to find the right tune to live and cooperate with each other, and preparing for the rest of their lives

Decisions:
- whether they want to get married
- Whether they want kids

]]> 2022-04-20 12:37:20 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150240997 gisselapineda https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150243010 Emotions: scared/worried, happy, fustrated, excited, hopeful
Stressors: infertility problems, finances, family, balancing work/activities, being new to parenting, relationship with spouse
Decisions: breast milk or formula, parenting style, what supplies are needed, finances, work decisions, influencing values/beliefs to the baby, leaving bad habits behind for the sake of the baby, appointments. ]]> 2022-04-20 12:38:55 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150243010 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150243968 Emotions: nervous, scared, loving, overwhelmed.
Stressors: what if you're not a good parent?,
mentally/physically prepared, infertility, your partner.
Decisions: breastfeeding/formula feeding, money$, how you want your child to grow up, the child's environment. ]]> 2022-04-20 12:39:43 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150243968 paigewilliams9 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150244117 Emotions- Happy, Excited, Scared, Nervous
Stressors- Money, Finacial, Where to live, Can't be a dog, Commitment
Decisions- Jobs, Kids? , Moving in, Habitat 

]]> 2022-04-20 12:39:49 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150244117 madelynmahar https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150246397 Emotions:
- anticipation, for the new baby or being parents
- apprehension, that they won't be good parents
- love, towards their child and themselves
- excitement, to have a baby with each other

Stressors:
- carrying the baby, all of the discomfort and worries that go with it
- buying supplies, spending a lot of money on them
- infertility problems, not being able to conceive can cause stress
- birth complications, all the things that could go wrong or does go wrong

Decisions:
- how many children to have
- whether to bottle feed or breastfeed]]> 2022-04-20 12:41:15 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150246397 gisselapineda https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150246468 Emotions: stress, fatigue, insecure, accomplished
Stressors: learning to understand your kids, balancing life tasks, doing the "right" thing as a parent, dealing with child independence, keeping them safe, lecturing bad actions, being in charge/setting authority, finances
Decisions: giving in to society's expectations, encouraging independence, saving/spending, "gentle" parenting, authorative parenting, work]]> 2022-04-20 12:41:18 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150246468 paigewilliams9 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150247296 Emotions- Scared, Worried, Happy
Stressors- Money for kids, No pregnancy (infertility)
Decisions- Keeping the kid, Fit Parenting, Values

]]> 2022-04-20 12:41:55 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150247296 gisselapineda https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150248270 Emotions: sad, relieved, bittersweet, accomplished
Stressors: being wigthout children, finances, worrying about the kids, re-building a relationship with spouse, work 
Decisions: keeping the house or moving, staying in contact with kids, staying together with spouse, supporting kids from afar or closely. ]]> 2022-04-20 12:42:35 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150248270 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150249075 Emotions:
-Overwhelmed, -anxious, -hopeful, -thankful.
Stressors: 
-Finding love, -Money, -If they'll have a good life, -If they'll ever come back.
Decisions:
-College, - housing-visitation, transportation.]]> 2022-04-20 12:43:14 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150249075 paigewilliams9 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150249752 Emotions- Happy, Worried
Stressors- Independence, Money, Controlling
Decisions- Controlling  ]]> 2022-04-20 12:43:39 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150249752 gisselapineda https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150249924 Emotions: confused, depressed, motivated
Stressors: mid-life crisis, traveling, living with only your spouse, moving, work, building new relationships
Decisions: moving, divorcing, re-marrying, getting pets, work ]]> 2022-04-20 12:43:47 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150249924 gisselapineda https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150251514 Emotions: depression, fulfillment
Stressors: sickness, taking care of each other, death,  being alone, finance
Decisions: seeking medical attention, where to live during final moments, will, contact with family ]]> 2022-04-20 12:44:54 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150251514 paigewilliams9 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150251686 Emotions- Scared, Happy 
Stressors- Alone, Worried about kids
Decisions - Controlling ]]> 2022-04-20 12:45:02 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150251686 ebonienolen https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150252156 Emotions: Anxious, confused, happy, nervous, scary

Stressors: Children, marriage, meeting parents

Decisions:Joint bank account? have kids? get married? housing situation?]]> 2022-04-20 12:45:18 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150252156 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150253031 Emotions: 
-Grateful, -relaxed, anxious.
Stressors: 
-Will/insurance, - partners death, -health, -family.
Decisions:
-Will, -Cremated/buried/donated.]]> 2022-04-20 12:45:58 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150253031 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150253374 Emotions: depressed, excited, grateful, anxious 
Stressors: housing, kids/grandchildren, money, work 
Decisions: vacation, retirement, grandchildren, 401K]]> 2022-04-20 12:46:11 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150253374 paigewilliams9 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150253694 Emotions- Depressed, Lonely, Lost
Stressors- Money, What's next?
Decisions- Retirement, Stay or go?]]> 2022-04-20 12:46:27 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150253694 madelynmahar https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150253834 Emotions:
- joy, to have children and be parents
- frustration, at being first time parents and not knowing what they are doing
- anger, at themselves and maybe sometimes their baby
- love, towards their baby and each other

Stressors:
- bills/money, having to raise a baby and have enough money to buy more things and pay their bills
- arguing with children/each other, over money, bedtimes, childcare, etc.
- schooling for children, where to send them to school and whether to send them to preschool
- the world around their kids, not knowing what people around them would think about or do to their kids and wanting to protect them

Decisions:
- what kind of scholing are the kids going to have?
- if fighting, are they going to get a divorce?]]> 2022-04-20 12:46:34 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150253834 paigewilliams9 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150255644 Emotions- Sad, Scared, Stressed
Stressors- Money, Becoming sick, Love one dying
Decisions- Travel. Cremation? ]]> 2022-04-20 12:47:55 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150255644 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150255955 Emotion: Overwhelmed, loving, Spiteful, Greatful 
Stressors: Money, Am I raising my child right, rules, behavior, peers.
Decisions: Values, Environment, Discipline, Education]]> 2022-04-20 12:48:05 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150255955 ebonienolen https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150257491 Emotions:Caring, excited, happiness, worried, fear

Stressors:Finances, sleep deprivation, roles, infertility, safety

Decisions:Whether it was a good idea or not, breastfeeding or formula / both, how many children they want, living situation, changes and having adaptability]]> 2022-04-20 12:49:14 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150257491 madelynmahar https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150260187 Emotions:
- sadness, at letting their kids go
- fear, at what they might encounter
- frustration, as they rebeling or learn to be independent
- feeling lost, not knowing what to do now that they don't have a child to take care or or even because their kid doesn't need them anymore

Stressors:
- child rebeling, them not listening
- college fees, having to find ways to pay for them
- the kids moving away for college or because they need to get away, their kids leaving them and moving
- more time without kids, finding purpose and what to do next

Decisions:
- sending their kid to college
- how to let their kid be independent but still help them]]> 2022-04-20 12:51:10 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150260187 ebonienolen https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150261731 Emotions:Stressed, fulfilled, jovial, sad

Stressors: Children becoming more independent, finances, getting bullied, not spending enough family time

Decisions:Changing schools, moving homes, go to church?, morals & values]]> 2022-04-20 12:52:18 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150261731 ebonienolen https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150265997 Emotions:empty, worried, thrilled, excited

Stressors:will they be okay?, what if they're in danger?, will they come visit? , could they handle it?

Decisions: What to do now?, will they go to college?. parents could go out more on vacations and other things.]]> 2022-04-20 12:55:21 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150265997 madelynmahar https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150266577 Emotions:
- emptiness, without their kid or with an empty house
- uselessness, they feel unneeded by their kids
- freedom, they can do and discover things outside of their kids
- joy, their kids are thriving and living their life

Stressors:
- finding out what to do now, discovering oneself again
- not being able to reconnect with their partner as a lone couple, feeling out of sync with each other without their kids
- separation, some people can't take it and need to divorce
- having grandkids, their children going through childbirth/parenting (can be good stress)

Decisions:
- what to do now that their children left?
- do they travel?
- do they divorce?]]> 2022-04-20 12:55:48 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150266577 ebonienolen https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150268737 Emotions:exuberant, kind, sad, busy

Stressors:finances, not enough time, sickness, retirement

Decisions: taking care of parents, sending parents to nursing home, pets, wills & beneficiaries.]]> 2022-04-20 12:57:15 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150268737 ebonienolen https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150270819 Emotions: Grief, depressing, wise, responsible

Stressors: finances, counseling, death, being a burden to kids, after-death thoughts

Decisions:pets, cremation, burial, nursing home]]> 2022-04-20 12:58:43 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150270819 madelynmahar https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150272052 Emotions:
- sadness, that their lover passed away
- depression, because they are getting older
- hopeless, without partner or because they don't have much time left
- dread, that they might be close behind their deceased partner

Stressors:
- spouses death, losing them
- their sickness, dealing with it and finding a cure (or maybe not finding a cure)
- medication, paying for them or keeping track of them
- finalizing will, divying things up and making those decisions

Decisions:
- do you travel?
- what to do now that the oove of your life is dead?
- what to put in the will?]]> 2022-04-20 12:59:26 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150272052 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150282417 Emotions: Stress, accomplished,goals, dreams, obstacles.

Stressors: learn about difficult situations in life, personal finances, family, friends, goals for which you have to work.

Decisions: Focus on what is important and live your life in a healthy and full way.]]> 2022-04-20 13:06:30 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150282417 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150287474 Emotions: scary, excited, happy,love, nervous. 

Stressors: Form a more responsible life, have doubts about your decisions.

Decisions: Make the best decisions for you and your future.]]> 2022-04-20 13:09:47 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150287474 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150294162 Emotions: Stress,insecure,worried, anxiety, happy, nervous. 

Stressor: Responsibilities and nerves to know how to raise a baby and all the things you have to do to make everything go well.

Decisions: Believing that you can do your best for that baby, and be happy to start a family.]]> 2022-04-20 13:13:59 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150294162 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150302960 Emotions: thankful, happy, peace, sadness

Stressor: feel that your children are growing up, you stop having so many responsibilities, and it's time to take advantage of life.

Desicions:Accept that it is time to live your life, and share your time with the family you formed.]]> 2022-04-20 13:19:14 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150302960 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150306686 Emotions: Depress, happy, confusion.

Stressor: reach the age where you need help from your children, home, work.

Desicions: Ask for help from the people you feel you need, and live with the certainty that it is time to be calm.]]> 2022-04-20 13:21:30 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150306686 https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150320095 Emotions: grateful, love, peace, empty.

Stressor: wanting to go back in time to be able to live things and moments that you didn't do.

Desicions: be thankful for what you have, for your family. And enjoy each day with happiness.]]> 2022-04-20 13:23:42 UTC https://padlet.com/lgammon/quvdleh3226yifix/wish/2150320095