https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w en-us 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC 2025-04-24 12:54:29 UTC hello@padlet.com xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149133 Derogatory: showing strong disapproval and not showing any respect for someone

Define these terms, as informed by your own experience and expectations:
okay: what does it mean to say it's 'okay' [hurtful but acceptable? hurtful but necessary? hurtful but truthful?]

sometimes: what is the circumstance or context? how regularly or irregularly makes 'sometimes'? 

]]> 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149133 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149135 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149135 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149137 1. Listen without judgement 
2. Speak with care 
3. Ask to clarify 

]]> 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149137 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149139 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149139 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149140 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149140 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149141 Derogatory: showing strong disapproval and not showing any respect for someone
 
okay:
sometimes: ]]> 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149141 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149143 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149143 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149144 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149144 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149147 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149147 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149148 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149148 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149150 Derogatory: showing strong disapproval and not showing any respect for someone
 
okay:
sometimes: ]]> 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149150 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149152 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149152 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149154 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149154 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149155 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149155 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149156 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149156 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149157 Derogatory: showing strong disapproval and not showing any respect for someone
 
okay:
sometimes: ]]> 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149157 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149158 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149158 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149159 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149159 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149160 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149160 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149161 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149161 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149162 Derogatory: showing strong disapproval and not showing any respect for someone
 
okay:
sometimes: ]]> 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149162 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149163 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149163 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149164 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149164 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149166 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149166 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149167 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149167 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149168 Derogatory: showing strong disapproval and not showing any respect for someone
 
okay:
sometimes: ]]> 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149168 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149169 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149169 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149170 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149170 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149172 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149172 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149174 Derogatory: showing strong disapproval and not showing any respect for someone
 
okay:
sometimes: ]]> 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149174 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149179 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149179 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149181 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149181 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149183 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149183 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149185 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149185 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149186 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149186 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149187 Derogatory: showing strong disapproval and not showing any respect for someone
 
okay:
sometimes: ]]> 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149187 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149188 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149188 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149189 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149189 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149191 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149191 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149192 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149192 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149194 Derogatory: showing strong disapproval and not showing any respect for someone
 
okay:
sometimes: ]]> 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149194 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149195 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149195 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149196 2023-07-11 00:36:43 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2642149196 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645869484 2023-07-16 23:01:46 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645869484 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645869638 2023-07-16 23:02:31 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645869638 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645870040 2023-07-16 23:04:38 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645870040 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645870061 2023-07-16 23:04:45 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645870061 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645870099 Derogatory: showing strong disapproval and not showing any respect for someone
 
okay:
sometimes: ]]> 2023-07-16 23:04:51 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645870099 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645870123 2023-07-16 23:05:00 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645870123 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645870157 2023-07-16 23:05:07 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645870157 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645871219 2023-07-16 23:09:13 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645871219 https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645907169 yes sometimes if you are close to the person and both know each other's limits]]> 2023-07-17 00:26:30 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645907169 https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645908286 2023-07-17 00:27:46 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645908286 https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645909886 2023-07-17 00:29:33 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645909886 https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645910153 no because even if the other person is ok with you saying it, it doesn't give you the right to say it to them because derogatory terms have historical backgrounds to it that could be harmful to the other person ]]> 2023-07-17 00:29:52 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645910153 https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645910315 It's not okay to use derogatory terms because it makes people feel disapproved and disrespected. It is very offensive and will make someone insecure and afraid to face society. Derogatory terms are meant to insult others, so even if you use the term sometimes, it will still hurt others even if you didn't mean it.]]> 2023-07-17 00:30:03 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645910315 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645911054 Derogatory: showing strong disapproval and not showing any respect for someone
 
okay:
sometimes: ]]> 2023-07-17 00:30:54 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645911054 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645911503 2023-07-17 00:31:17 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645911503 https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645911558 yes, only if they know we are joking and no feelings are hurt. If feelings are hurt, it was taken as an insult and that's where we have to apologise and take a step back. ]]> 2023-07-17 00:31:20 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645911558 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645911808 Derogatory: showing strong disapproval and not showing any respect for someone
 
okay:
sometimes: ]]> 2023-07-17 00:31:33 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645911808 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645911937 2023-07-17 00:31:42 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645911937 xmspadlet https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645912069 2023-07-17 00:31:50 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645912069 https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645912776 hui qi: no as it is highly offensive
Valerie: no using these terms are offensive as they bring people down and are meant to cause hurt 
austin: no. efforts put into making the society a more inclusive and understanding one will be wasted.
yeow yeong: no. it makes a divisive and toxic environment for all]]> 2023-07-17 00:32:34 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645912776 https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645913379 we shouldnt use the terms even if its meant as a joke]]> 2023-07-17 00:33:15 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645913379 https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645916018 Yes: If the derogatory term is targeted to a friend whose close to you, they will take it as a joke usually.

No: Basically everyone in public will be offended and would not take it well]]> 2023-07-17 00:35:54 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645916018 https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645917720 Okay: The person does not feel offended
Sometimes: Something that's brought up once in a while

Possible Yes Reason:
- As long as there is no harmful tone, it should be fine

Possible No Reasons
- Even if there is no negative intention, the word has harmful meaning regardless.

Overall Stance: No
- The term itself is harmful. While there is no bad intentions, there is a still negative meaning behind the word and it is something that should not be normalised despite the fact that some people are okay with it.

- Even if certain people are okay with it, this would just encourage more usage of derogatory terms. ]]> 2023-07-17 00:37:34 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645917720 https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645917831 These terms are used by people nowadays to categorise a certain type of person which is very disrespectful. These terms cannot be used so casually as it might hurt some of the people without you knowing. These terms should not be used only if the person you are saying to allows it as a joke. No one should be insulted unnecessarily just because of their ancestors past. Using derogatory terms is rude and may insult others, thus it should not be used as an insult.]]> 2023-07-17 00:37:41 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645917831 https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645919691 yes because they also say it so they think its fine when someone call them derogatory terms. 
no because its not polite people may feel hurt. should not joke about it if you dont know the meaning.]]> 2023-07-17 00:39:23 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645919691 https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645920123 no. derogatory terms are highly offensive as it is often used for discrimination or social prejudice against people with disabilities or of a different skin tone. These words are commonly used casually and everywhere, while people who use it may not know the emotional damage it can cause to those who take it personally. Although jokes are made with derogatory terms, there is a limit to it.]]> 2023-07-17 00:39:50 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645920123 https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645920176 Aaric: It is okay to use degatory terms sometimes an example is, A monkey by definition, is “any mammal of the order Primates, including the guenons, macaques, langurs, and capuchins, but excluding humans" When used on people with different skin tones, it is considered offensive. However calling the animals by their appropriate names is not a slur. It’s even ok to call certain people “monkeys.” After all, small children are often likened by their parents to the person-like beasts, and this affectionate appropriation of the term has been in existence since the 1600s.

]]> 2023-07-17 00:39:52 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645920176 wethekingsabove https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645920198 We believe that it is acceptable to use derogatory terms in certain situations. 
Characterisation of such terms: racial slurs and insults. 
Reasons:
1. A way to show friendliness and banter
2. Sometimes someone is too much of a * and you need an equally strong way to show your opinion.
When it is not acceptable: 
1. Using it for no good reason(catcalling)
2. utilising these words to incite hate and racism( e.g. on reddit)
3. Suing it to joke with people you dont know well

]]> 2023-07-17 00:39:53 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645920198 https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645925668 when we want to defend ourselves and not get taken advantage  when we are using it to explain something such as when we are trying to show that these words are offensive]]> 2023-07-17 00:45:36 UTC https://padlet.com/xmspadlet/qdfa9qcw0t2ehm7w/wish/2645925668