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      <title>GENDER BOXES- BOY/MAN by Jana Lynne Umipig</title>
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      <description>What are the messages and expectations that we raise boys and men to norm?
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      <language>en-us</language>
      <pubDate>2020-09-24 13:46:30 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>flora</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/825151343</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>they aren't supposed to cry or show any emotions</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-13 14:54:12 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Nkesjah</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/825479726</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Boys like to eat a lot and also play rough and to not cry so they wont look weak</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-13 16:04:01 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>anjolina </title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/825482612</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>boys usually have to give off a strong man image </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-13 16:04:40 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>andrew</title>
         <author>andrewdelgado0051</author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/825495378</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>men have to be strong and give off a feeling of protection and show no feelings and be a man have a tough image. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-13 16:07:22 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>shamira </title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/825506758</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>be respectful no matter strong, show that you're a fighter not has in hitting someone but having the mindset to never give up be loving cause tables could turn</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-13 16:09:48 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>karell</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/826164712</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>the generalization for men when growing up is that they have to be strong and be <strong>courteous and be helpful to the community and be respectful.</strong></div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-13 18:20:42 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Iriea</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/826379713</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Boys usually have to give up their innocence in order to conform to societies norms They have to act tough all the time to be accepted</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-13 19:18:11 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Serenity</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/826380133</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Boys can be wreckless, and have to be tough, not show emotion. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-13 19:18:19 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Aisha                  </title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/826381759</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Men has to be strong. If they have any feelings their acting like a girl. They are protectors rather than getting protection </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-13 19:18:52 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Leo</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/826383161</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>To not cry since crying is not for boys and also men are the ones who take charge of their family when older.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-13 19:19:18 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Nicholas</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/826386083</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Men have to be tough and strong and they should be able to work and take care of themselves. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-13 19:20:15 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title></title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/826387123</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>To not have emotions to be strong no matter what , to play sports. </div>]]></description>
         <pubDate>2020-10-13 19:20:36 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Juwelz</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/826396986</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>To hide emotions, not cry. To be strong and breadwinners.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-13 19:23:39 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>evan</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/826670171</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>men dont cry<br><br></div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-13 21:06:49 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/826670171</guid>
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         <title>cheyenne </title>
         <author>cheyennegibson0045</author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/826724114</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>emotions are sign of weakness, they ¨have to be tough¨ </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-13 21:35:37 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Amaru </title>
         <author>amarufowling0097</author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/826848220</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>men have to man up and be strong and show more toughness that might prepare them for the world.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-13 22:56:46 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Sabrina</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/828565706</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>as a man you are taught that you have to be tough ,powerful , manly,dont have a weak body , you shouldnt cry , an show no emotion.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-14 13:36:10 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>I honestly don&#39;t know and I don&#39;t care either</title>
         <author>christianclark0064</author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/828730882</link>
         <description><![CDATA[]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-14 14:14:45 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>orwin </title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/829090066</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>as a man you have to take control and be tough and powerful because people will try to take advantage on your downfall.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-14 15:34:42 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Marilyn </title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/829345106</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>For men to not show that much of emotions and to not cry in front of people sometimes adn to be real tough when things come around.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-14 16:31:53 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Sarai</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/831504474</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>✨Toxic Masculinity✨That’s it, that’s the tweet 😩🤚🏽.<br>Wait here’s a list actually:<br>•always need to be strong &amp; tough physically<br>•never be weak<br>•always need to be strong &amp; tough mentally<br>•never be emotional <br>•always fight for the girl<br>•always get the girl<br>•never hit a girl (but they (r)ape them tho lol that’s ironic)<br>•consent what’s that?<br>•can’t be affectionate towards lover<br>•being gay takes away masculinity <br>•needing to be complete masculine to be a man<br>•being straight = being a man<br>•men don’t (r)ape apparently they should just be glad someone came onto them<br>•men don’t cry<br>•if you do anything thats not a physical activity you aren’t a man<br>•Men don’t cook, they don’t clean but let me tell you they’ll buy that ring<br>•being married=being a man<br>•man did sexual assault? no way woman too emotional.<br>•Can’t wear anything feminine.<br>•Can’t do anything fun without being called gay/sus<br>•Gay is an insult to man.<br>•Man smart? Duh. Man get all A’s? Lame they are a Nerd<br><br><br></div>]]></description>
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 08:01:55 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Javon W</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/832198709</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>to express your true emotion towards everything </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 13:22:47 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/832198709</guid>
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         <title>Mia Valentin</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/832375887</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>men are told that they have to be strong and be the provider for their family they are expected to not be vulnerable and to act "manly". If men wear things that might seem feminine their sexuality is questioned while if girls wear more "masculine" clothes they are looked at as more so just a tomboy. Men are expected to be all these things that society tells them to be all these stereotypes.  </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 14:03:23 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Toxic masculinity is a thing. </title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/832598865</link>
         <description><![CDATA[]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 14:53:11 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Amaya Cook</title>
         <author>amayacook2024</author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/832944649</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Toxic masculinity is a little bit like the roles forced on women but the opposite, men are forced to be emotionless and strong. This is a bit of a different issue but they are trained to be subconsciously hostile towards anything feminine since that makes them seem gay and weak. Men are told that their only roles are to be at work and providing for a family <em>not</em> actually bonding with their children because "that's a ladies job". Men are also (since women are told to be and act submissive, since men want power) oppress women and believe they have rights over them. Trying to control them and basically force them to be working breeders for society. You also see TM in small ways like when a man gets upset to "man up" or "get a pair". ykyk</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 16:08:42 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Rodwin Nurse </title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833419847</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>The messages and expectation that we raise as a boy is if you have the gentaila then that who you are </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:55:52 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Adaeze</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833421239</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>men are always told to be strong and not to cry and they must support others or they can't wear makeup because it's too feminine </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:56:13 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>X.L</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833421934</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>men are told to be stronger and usually  are taught to hide their emotions. must always act as if they are better.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:56:23 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Ashley Morrison</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833423050</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>For men I notice how much they are told to not show emotion. They have to be strong both physically and emotionally. They have an excuse to not know how to cook or clean. They have to be into sports or something manly. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:56:38 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Shernia</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833425116</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Men are told to be strong and not show emotion because that is a sign of weakness.  Taught to be powerful and tough.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:57:07 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Henoc M</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833425680</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>I myself specifically have not received expectation, and women are essentially supposed to do things that men don´t and it´s basically ¨Do this because men don´t do it¨ or ¨You are not supposed to do that men are¨ Basically unnecessary  differentiating men and women.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:57:14 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>fatoumata</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833426310</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Men are taught to be strong, provide for their family financially,and not show their emotions and how they feel or else they are deemed as weak. . they are taught that women wear stuff and do stuff to please them. they aren't taught to control themselves they taught to push down their pain and shoudntcry, they are learning to have toxic masculinity .these ideas all come from the patriarchy (Men who have power) they are the ones who established these stereotypes</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:57:20 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Shekinah Omieh</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833426371</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Boys are taught at a young age that showing emotions or talking about your feelings is weak and not manly. It comes from toxic masculinity, because many boys think that anything you do will affect your masculinity. Like wearing pink, or wearing any outfits. They think that it's "gay" but it's really not. I think men who think like this do not know who they are.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:57:21 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Shawn B</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833426667</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>To act a man is be physically or emotionally strong not being broken down and crying like most women are. And to like girls only.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:57:25 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>qyana</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833427123</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>people say men aren't suppose to cry or have emotion. not to be too feminine </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:57:31 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title></title>
         <author>kellyvictorin0001</author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833427286</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>men are told not to cry or else they are considered as weak.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:57:34 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Kashawn D</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833428059</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Dont cry<br>learn how to take a hit<br>cut ya hair</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:57:43 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833428059</guid>
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         <title>Ashlee Frederick</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833429061</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Young Boys are expected to be strong and not have any emotion to things they may care about or want to cry about.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:57:58 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title></title>
         <author>michaelward2024</author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833429334</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Men are to suck up their emotions and be leaders.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:58:02 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Tania Valle</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833429704</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>the idea that men don't cry and only girls do and that guys only play playstation and only workout also the idea that gets me mad is that men when they come back from work do nothing and women have to cook and clean when knowing men can do things for themselves</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:58:07 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833429704</guid>
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      <item>
         <title>wisdom</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833432515</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>need to be strong and be the head of the family.Men don't cry</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:58:45 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833432515</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Teresa</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833436678</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>I feel like men have expectations where they arent allowed  to cry or show emotions, because then they arent ¨real men¨. I feel men arent allowed to wear certain clothes or do certain things. They arent allowed to be picky with their food because that is not a real man, they are seen to eat everything and never have a choice. I feel mine are supposed to want to play sports instead of dance. I feel like men arent supposed to cook and clean but just work and make money constantly. I feel like to be man is to not express emotion as often exspecially towards girls. I feel like to be a man is to protect your sisters and your mother.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 17:59:51 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833436678</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Nandi</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833464202</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Things like:<br>To be a man means to do manly things like not crying <br>Boys are not taught as often how to express themselves or how to be more connected with their emotions. Instead they are often taught about "being a player" or how to fight.<br>Men are for some reason always under the assumption that women are hard to understand <br> they are also taught to cut their hair and keep it short.<br>men are also taught that they are the head of the family. <br>taught instantly that boys are 'sus' for doing things that are more feminin like wearing makeup or more "feminin clothing" </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2020-10-15 18:06:34 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833464202</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Jayde</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833469427</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>I've heard they were told not to cry and to play sports and be strong. Take care of the family and play video games. Go to work and protect the ones you love. Can't like "girly colors" like pink, purple, yellow ect. and has to act a certain way around certain peopl</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 18:07:48 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833469427</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Trinity De Freitas</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833470310</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>- show lack of emotion<br>- act tough<br>- acting brave about everything<br>- being strong and muscular</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 18:08:01 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833470310</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>RJ</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833515286</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Man up<br>Make a good impressions <br>Learn how to fight<br>Can play with the girls <br>Can't Play Girl Sports</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 18:19:19 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833515286</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>izehia</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833541277</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div> act tough<br>dress manley<br>lack of emotion <br><br></div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 18:26:02 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833541277</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title></title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833543629</link>
         <description><![CDATA[Man up
Make a good impressions ]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 18:26:41 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833543629</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Ryan Torres</title>
         <author>ryantorres0011</author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833544509</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Play video games and sports.<br>Told to never cry and act tough.<br>Be brave.<br>Told to take care and protect the family.</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 18:26:55 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833544509</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Tiffany </title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833563556</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Men are associated with masculine things like sports, videos games and such and this can cause men or boys growing up that they have to be tough and act tough and be this dominant person. </div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 18:31:47 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833563556</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>chris albayero</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833573064</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Man should speak up and man up when they are in a problem. Men should play any sport. men are strunger. men are less smater then women </div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 18:34:02 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833573064</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Levon </title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833577439</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Men cant cry men have to be strong men need to be the breadwinners and must be 100 percent tough all the time.</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 18:35:13 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833577439</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>anilayh</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833580153</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>men are expected to be strong beings and have constant authority and not to be emotional and to dress manly( always in pants shorts not to short no tight clothes) and how it ok to make fun of another man( men apart of LGBTQ+)  that challenges the toxic Masculinity</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 18:35:54 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833580153</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Dennis Vayas</title>
         <author>dennisvayas0012</author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833637634</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Not being able to cry</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 18:51:36 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833637634</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Alicia </title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833681788</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Men are told to not have emotion and to be the one in the family to do all the work and to be strong and to dress a certain ways </div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 19:04:54 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833681788</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Amanda</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833725051</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Men are expected to be the breadwinner , they are expected to be the one that provides for the family finacially.Men ae expected to be nonchalant have have a no feelings/cold heart mentality </div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 19:18:39 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833725051</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>to not show emotions </title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833800942</link>
         <description><![CDATA[]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 19:42:48 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833800942</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>raheim </title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833810455</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>dont show emotions <br><br></div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 19:46:17 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833810455</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>leilani</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833909383</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>breadwinner, cant cry, be a althete</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 20:24:07 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833909383</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Aaron leon </title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833974538</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Men are expected to be the dominant gender in relationship, where they are ones that really shows their faces up against the world in order to bring food to the house and let the food be prepared and served by their wives, they are the ones that is expected from them to show no feelings at all whenever they hurt by something that doesn't make them bleed, they are expected to carry the heaviest things no matter how, they are expected to raised their children with an iron fist  rather than a hug, they are expected to be the ones that have the total control of their money, it is expected that a man dress up formally as a gentlemen (males shirts, males pants, males shoes)</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 20:51:56 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833974538</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Crystal A</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833977852</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>The messages and expectations for the boys now would be that they can’t cross their legs and look like a woman or they would be looked at as being gay and men can’t cry and they always have to stay strong and if they cry they would be called weak and just a disappointment overall and they just have to keep their emotions held in which might end up breaking them in the long run.</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 20:53:26 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833977852</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Jason TLapa</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833978788</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Men is more more no fun because thier do others things like not knowing what they are going to affect to them and others around him</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 20:53:54 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/833978788</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Jason Tlapa</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834009581</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Men is fun to play and to work everyday to get pay and have happy moment.</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 21:09:16 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834009581</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Alejandro Cuzco </title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834053126</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>So boys don't play with Dolls and don't wear makeup. </div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 21:31:50 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834053126</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>shaydin</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834109661</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>men can be told to not wear makeup or play with dolls or express themselves feminely</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 22:06:28 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834109661</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Nasir</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834110341</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>In most cases in society men are expected to do everything and make the money to pay ends meet</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 22:06:58 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834110341</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>anbe</title>
         <author>angelvalerio2024</author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834123208</link>
         <description><![CDATA[]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 22:15:51 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834123208</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Deanall</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834159416</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>The norms that was made when was raised was that I should not be able to have show any feelings when we are sad.</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-15 22:42:18 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834159416</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>(Nat)Natangeliris</title>
         <author>natangelirismaldonado0028</author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834277073</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>boys shouldn´t cry <br>boys are told to ¨man up¨ and boys are expected to do the work and are supposed to basically have the jobs and hardworking things <br><br></div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-16 00:05:27 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834277073</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>durjaya</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834282793</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Men have to be strong and show no emotion.</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-16 00:08:56 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834282793</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Samuel</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834288223</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Men have to be strong and uphold themeselves when theyre around other people.</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-16 00:11:59 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834288223</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Kalani</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834328382</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>To be strong and protective<br><br></div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-16 00:33:11 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834328382</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>azaria</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834338216</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>some messages and expectations are to be cheaters heartless and dont play with dolls or makeup or any girly stuff</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-16 00:37:56 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834338216</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>haja</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834353977</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>the expect men to hide their emotions they want to act careless and always work or else they would be considered weak or not a man</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-16 00:45:41 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834353977</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title></title>
         <author>jamiyahlewismejia0002</author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834396183</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Men are supposed to respect the women that they have and not put their hands on them.They are supposed to express themselves without using aggressive resorts.</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-16 01:05:41 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834396183</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Men have to be brave and strong</title>
         <author>damianthomas0013</author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834414856</link>
         <description><![CDATA[]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-16 01:14:46 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834414856</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Malik </title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834437061</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>raising boys to be men and marry quick and be this construction worker </div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-16 01:25:22 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834437061</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Duane</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834516351</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Men are supposed tough and aggressive </div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-16 02:06:27 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834516351</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>hawa</title>
         <author></author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834523267</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>boys aren´t supposed to have emotions and have to always be strong and protective</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-16 02:10:24 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834523267</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>Austin B</title>
         <author>austinbarikdar0030</author>
         <link>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834779930</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>I was told that men were not to cry and go through there emotions but be strong.</div>]]></description>
         <enclosure url="" />
         <pubDate>2020-10-16 04:59:28 UTC</pubDate>
         <guid>https://padlet.com/janaumipig/pyqlx98qcz5qkxir/wish/834779930</guid>
      </item>
      <item>
         <title>christian</title>
         <author></author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>i was told that men was dum as hell</div>]]></description>
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