Family Conflict by Emily Bertrand https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families Made with joy en-us 2017-09-16 06:44:52 UTC 2017-09-19 16:32:21 UTC hello@padlet.com What are things you disagreed about with your parents as an adolescent? ekbertrand5 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188126624 2017-09-16 06:49:14 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188126624 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980315 My parents sheltered me too much and limited when I can go out and when I did, they expected me to be doing bad things and although initially I wasn't, I ended up becoming more and more rebellious when I entered junior and senior year and even now. Sneaking in boys, lying about where I was, etc.

]]> 2017-09-19 16:26:25 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980315 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980361 My parents (especially my mother) found themselves having to spend a lot more money to fund my extracurricular activities (esp. marching band). My mother was also frustrated that I took a while to get my driver's license and she had to drive me everywhere.]]> 2017-09-19 16:26:29 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980361 Friends https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980467 My dad worked all the time, so it was really my mom that I ran into conflict with. The biggest tension came from her trying to control which friends I could hang out with or should hang out with. She was judging them without ever getting to know them.]]> 2017-09-19 16:26:40 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980467 kanderson671 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980511 the different parenting styles being shown to me and my sister; where I felt that I was being treated differently than she was.]]> 2017-09-19 16:26:44 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980511 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980609 My mom would get mad about how she had to keep repeating herself to tell me to do things around the house. My dad stayed out of conflict for the most part but I think that's why I'm not close to him.]]> 2017-09-19 16:26:53 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980609 My mom was very overprotective so she would only allow people to come over to our house, never the other way around. She tried controlling this even in college so I eventually moved out because of it. outlet3398 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980742 2017-09-19 16:27:07 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980742 Curfew, communication, and step-parent drama https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980766 I had a tough time communicating how and when I should be home. My parents wanted me to call them but did not provide any means of contacting them (cellphone). My step parents often fought due to tensions of interacting with the other parents.]]> 2017-09-19 16:27:10 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980766 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980782 I disagreed with having a curfew that was always sooner than my peers. Even in high school, I had a curfew though my peers said they had none. ]]> 2017-09-19 16:27:12 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980782 My mom versus dad https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980870 mom was super strict about hanging out with friends and going to parties to the point where I never got to go and what movies and tv shows I could watch and when . My dad was strict about grades.]]> 2017-09-19 16:27:21 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980870 Pets https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980900 I want more pets, they don't]]> 2017-09-19 16:27:24 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980900 My father gave me so much independence, that at times I felt like I had to do things by myself. I was seen as capable and responsible, but when I needed help it seemed like I should know what to do. Other students seemed to have more assistance. https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980937 2017-09-19 16:27:27 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980937 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980968 A conflit that I had with my parents was that my dad would never be home for about 2 years because of his job. My dad is the one that is more over protective than my mom]]> 2017-09-19 16:27:30 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188980968 Siblings https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981071 In my family, it was always said that "Oh, he's just being your brother" whenever he was being rude or annoying and it made me upset with my parents. I was also closer to my dad because he would side with me more in conflicts with my brother]]> 2017-09-19 16:27:42 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981071 Apparently I slept over at friends houses too much. jakewybaczynsky https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981113 2017-09-19 16:27:47 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981113 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981179 My parents kept me from being happy with other people outside of my family because they were insecure about me being close to them.]]> 2017-09-19 16:27:52 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981179 Independence https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981212 I wanted to do my own thing and my dad didn't want me to]]> 2017-09-19 16:27:55 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981212 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981271 curfew and sometimes who i could hang out with

]]> 2017-09-19 16:28:00 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981271 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981272 I don't specifically remember having major conflicts. My mom pushed me to have more friends to go out with in high school, but I was a bit anti-social around that time. I do remember getting in conflicts about money.]]> 2017-09-19 16:28:00 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981272 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981284 No one in my family gets along with my grandma. We all dread having to meet up with her or even to talk to her on the phone.]]> 2017-09-19 16:28:01 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981284 I have six sisters so when they would argue I'd just go away in another room and our parents would have us have family meetings with everyone there, even if you weren't involved, which just mad everyone more mad. https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981441 2017-09-19 16:28:15 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981441 Step family/step mom drama https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981476 2017-09-19 16:28:18 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981476 I didn't have as much that was expected or required of me by either of my parents so I had a lot of freedom and trust but a lack of training in discipline and training in how I should be able to handle myself with life's responsibilities. jdavis84 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981638 2017-09-19 16:28:34 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981638 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981977 When I was younger, my parents had an issue of lack of validation. Everything I did, regardless of how right or wrong it was, or even what it was, was criticized to the extreme. It was way too much, to the point where I literally lost it in front of both of them]]> 2017-09-19 16:29:08 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188981977 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188982019 my parents always told me that the families viewed me as the good one and it was my responsibility to uphold that image so my mom would always dictate what I wore, what I could and couldn't talk about, etc.

]]> 2017-09-19 16:29:13 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188982019 kanderson671 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188982057 I felt that they weren't giving me the chance to learn from my own experiences]]> 2017-09-19 16:29:18 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188982057 https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188982111 my younger brother always had more freedom than me]]> 2017-09-19 16:29:24 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188982111 When my mom would say... https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188982853 Take your brother with you.

 ]]> 2017-09-19 16:30:38 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188982853 my parents would involve me in their arguments even about money, jealousy, etc https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188982860 2017-09-19 16:30:39 UTC https://padlet.com/ekbertrand5/Families/wish/188982860