Malaysia Marriage Tradition by https://padlet.com/tyuszyni00_/pin4yw8sx7eqgnmt Bathroom Moratorium: Tidong community, Indonesia/Malaysia After the wedding, the bride and groom are not allowed to use the bathroom for three whole days. They cannot leave the house, clear their bowels or urinate. The couple is watched over and are allowed minimal amounts of food and drink. If the custom is not practiced, they believe it will bring bad luck to the couple, with consequences such as a broken marriage, infidelity or death of their children. After three days, the couple is allowed to return to normal life and begin their marriage. en-us 2023-11-13 15:41:09 UTC 2023-11-13 16:21:00 UTC hello@padlet.com tyuszyni00_ https://padlet.com/tyuszyni00_/pin4yw8sx7eqgnmt/wish/2787583089 Members of Malaysia and Indonesia's Tidong people in Borneo

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]]> 2023-11-13 15:51:30 UTC https://padlet.com/tyuszyni00_/pin4yw8sx7eqgnmt/wish/2787589221 tyuszyni00_ https://padlet.com/tyuszyni00_/pin4yw8sx7eqgnmt/wish/2787590702 If the custom is not practiced, they believe it will bring bad luck to the couple, with consequences such as a broken marriage, infidelity or death of their children. After three days, the couple is allowed to return to normal life and begin their marriage.

]]> 2023-11-13 15:52:20 UTC https://padlet.com/tyuszyni00_/pin4yw8sx7eqgnmt/wish/2787590702 tyuszyni00_ https://padlet.com/tyuszyni00_/pin4yw8sx7eqgnmt/wish/2787616880 2023-11-13 16:09:17 UTC https://padlet.com/tyuszyni00_/pin4yw8sx7eqgnmt/wish/2787616880 tyuszyni00_ https://padlet.com/tyuszyni00_/pin4yw8sx7eqgnmt/wish/2787617904 2023-11-13 16:09:56 UTC https://padlet.com/tyuszyni00_/pin4yw8sx7eqgnmt/wish/2787617904 tyuszyni00_ https://padlet.com/tyuszyni00_/pin4yw8sx7eqgnmt/wish/2787633275 The bathroom moratorium holds cultural significance in the Tidong community. It is believed that by adhering to this custom, the couple will be blessed with a harmonious and long-lasting marriage. It is seen as a way to purify and prepare the couple for their new life together. The practice also reinforces traditional values of discipline, self-control, and endurance. While it may seem unusual to some, cultural practices like the bathroom moratorium play an important role in preserving cultural identity and maintaining community traditions.


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  • Helps you connect with your significant other

  • Solidifies your marriage

  • Cleanses the body


Dislikes

  • You're watched by a guard

  • It's 3 days long ( you can only go a certain period of time without eating and relieving yourself )

  • Allowed minimal amounts of food and drink

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