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      <title>(a)  What do you value most in a friendship  , (b) In what ways do you feel trust within a friendship? by cari</title>
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      <pubDate>2023-07-13 15:05:53 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>cari</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>(a) Personally, i value trust and honesty in a friendship as i personally feel to grow together and sink deeper in a friendship, it may or may not be a smooth journey, and it is completely normal to argue as friends and i find it healthy depending on perspective but i find honesty so important cause people can come tgt and grow as a whole and its a beautiful process. In addition, trust has to be there to be more vulnerable, its the firm soil of a friendship.<br><br>(b) Personally, i think trust begins with honesty and also starting small ah like sharing about your life or just your day for starters, but i feel the most trust when someone can be completely transparent with me , and really not filter anything and tell me how they really feel</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-13 15:12:54 UTC</pubDate>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>(a) for me, i value honesty and mutual respect with one another in a friendship. this is important to me as i feel that there should be honesty and respect to keep the friendship going strong and ensuring that it creates a safe space in the friendship</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:30:46 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>🍓 - b</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>personally i believe what i feel trust within a friendship is respect. In terms of when I am sharing something personal, I would believe that a friend would not share it to someone else as I personally trusted you 🐟 haha funny.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:31:27 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>B</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I value trust that you will be there for me.&nbsp;For me, I am not too sure how to see trust worthy people. I have trust issues :))<br><br><br><br><br></div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:32:01 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Keith Koh</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>(a) I feel friendship is more important when meeting new friends and sharing details about themselves and stay in touch with them for a period of time.<br><br>(b)&nbsp;I feel trust in friendship when I comes to having good relationships with and trust each other opinions on someone.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:32:19 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>joann</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>i value honesty loyalty and trust in friendship.&nbsp;<br><br>i feel like in a friendship,, they shld accept who the person i am and in a sense they wouldnt judge or like talk shit about u? </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:33:33 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Thaddeus</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>a) I would value trust and understanding in a friendship. This is because whenever I need to share something that is distressing to me to others, I would need that trusted friend to keep such info anonymous from others without worrying further of spreading to others not related to the situation. He/she can understand why I am facing such problem and hence, would ensure the secrecy of the issue I am sharing.<br><br>b) Assurance, connection and feeling that I can do it.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:33:39 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>anon (B)</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>qn a) i value safety, loyalty, understanding and respect the most in a friendship <br><br>qn b) i feel trust within a friendship when i know my friend won’t judge me.&nbsp;</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:33:45 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>B</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>Authentic, meaningful relationships with someone who would find time for your needs and wants (I.e. treat you with kindness/compassion) and at the same time you also are able to treat them with the same respect. Usually I would feel trust in friendships when both me and them have a lot of things in common you would like to share with each other, and we can easily reach out to each other without feeling the pressure.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:34:08 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Nevan</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>A) I value in friendship is concern for each others well being by being able to speak up their mind with no fear!<br><br>B) We can be as loud and say whatever we want </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:34:25 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>B</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>a) i value honesty and maturity in friendship alot , it would be especially important that my friend can be open with me and tell me about anything. even when they have to tell me something wrong about myself, i will appreciate if they tell me about it , so i can improve myself. Maturity is important to because i don’t want them to get into trouble doing stupid things. support is important , having each others back when we can.&nbsp; important&nbsp;<br><br>b) i feel trust in a friendship when they are able to openly talk to me about anything and not seem suspicious like they are keeping something from me. i feel a sense of trust when i am able to do something good for them, and they appreciate my actions. i feel a sense of trust when i’m comfortable with them and they’re comfortable with me. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:34:36 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>anon </title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I value trust, honesty and mutual effort in friendships. I personally think that trust and honesty builds the foundation of any relationship, one must be able to open up and feel safe with the other in order for a bond to start forming. In a friendship, there can be times when there is a lack of effort from one party, causing the other to feel upset and think that they may not matter as much to the other. Thus I think there should be an equal level of effort and interest from both parties for a healthy friendship to be maintained.<br><br>I feel trust in a friendship when they are able to be themselves around me and share with me about their emotional issues/ problems.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:35:36 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>c</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>a. safe space for me to share my thoughts, similar values<br><br>b. respect shown to one another in a friendship</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:36:56 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Kaedon </title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>a) I value the trust and assurance we give to one another in friendships<br>b) I feel trust in others when they keep promises and when they're considerate</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:37:25 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>hamizan</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>(a) i value the special identity of what distincts a deep friendship with others - one that is platonic and intimate and someone that you know is trustworthy and is able to share and reciprocate personal information that is safely kept with one another. i value trust and maturity that also keeps the friendship going and the reciprocity of valuing each other’s friendship openly.<br><br>(b) i build trust with a friend by usually being my true self and being personal and real of what and who I am. When i trust someone really well, i show physical affection and become really real and clear of what i feel towards them. this usually applies close and deep friends - the kind of persons/people i want to keep in my life. i dont lie about my emotions and also make sure that both sides are always okay and comfortable with one another.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:38:33 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Salma</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>(a) I value trust and honesty the most in a friendship. To me these 2 values are very important as it is necessary to me for my friend to be open with me and me to be open with my friend. I believe with trust and honesty, we can be very comfortable and open with each other.<br><br>(b) for me, it's just very general, like when I can tell you are being open with me and I can be open with you, I feel trust within that friendship. And open as in, not only share stuff with me if they are comfortable, but also comfortably tell me on things I can work on, and I can do the same for the friend too and tell him/her on things he/she can work on. And being open also means my friend just being him/herself Infront of him and someone who does not have to put on a filter to be with me, and someone Infront of whom I don't have to put a filter on. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:38:46 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Callum :) </title>
         <author>cal0506</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>a) Personally I value loyalty as the most important in a friendship. I find it a must that friends stay true among themselves and show their true colours. A lot of the time people act differently around people, eg some of us have multiple friend groups, I think it is important to acknowledge our friends when we see them. to elaborate more, we shouldn't be ashamed to hang out with them etc. now when coming into poly we have our poly friends and also secondary school friends which can be clashing, but I think it's important that the bonds are still there and we don't forget the people who were there for us in the beginning, which is why I find loyalty the most important.&nbsp;<br><br>B)&nbsp;I feel trust in a friendship when I know my friends have my back. For example we may all be in different courses now but we still take the time in our busy schedule to meet up to chit chat. Although we have different groups of friends I think that continuing the bond shows trust within the friend group. Trust is knowing your friend will be there when he/she needs help and you will do the same for them too, eg when they are clearly going through an emotional time or when they are stressed we can assist them and have a talk with them to let them know we care. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:38:50 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Yi sheng</title>
         <author>clothfloth</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I value honesty and acceptance the most in friendship. It is important to me that everything that is necessary and kind for me to know, is truthful. It is important that my friends give their genuine opinion, and may freely disagree with my opinions or actions but accepting my personal being nonetheless.&nbsp;<br><br>Honesty is the thing that builds trust in a relationship. Open communication builds trust.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2023-07-14 10:41:24 UTC</pubDate>
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