https://padlet.com/louissartain34/p0go3itu5lpn Made with an aura of mystery en-us 2016-10-13 03:59:56 UTC 2016-10-13 05:09:04 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-assets.s3.amazonaws.com/icons/Hearts.png louissartain34 https://padlet.com/louissartain34/p0go3itu5lpn/wish/130324668 There is a step by step on how to negotiate that I never knew about "In order to achieve a desirable outcome, it may be useful to follow a structured approach to negotiation. For example, in a work situation a meeting may need to be arranged in which all parties involved can come together. The process of negotiation includes the following stages: preparation, discussion, clarification of goals, negotiate towards a Win-Win outcome, agreement, and implementation of a course of action."(8). Although I did know that you should always try to reach a win-win outcome "This stage focuses on what is termed a 'win-win' outcome where both sides feel they have gained something positive through the process of negotiation and both sides feel their point of view has been taken into consideration.  A win-win outcome is usually the best result. Although this may not always be possible, through negotiation, it should be the ultimate goal. Suggestions of alternative strategies and compromises need to be considered at this point.  Compromises are often positive alternatives which can often achieve greater benefit for all concerned compared to holding to the original positions."(9), with previous negotiations I have striven to reach a win-win outcome. It is a little weird having this written out like negotiations are worth planning a specific time to work out, but all of the steps make sense to me, including preparation "Before any negotiation takes place, a decision needs to be taken as to when and where a meeting will take place to discuss the problem and who will attend.  Setting a limited time scale can also be helpful to prevent the disagreement continuing. This stage involves ensuring all the pertinent facts of the situation are known in order to clarify your own position.  Undertaking preparation before discussing the disagreement will help to avoid further conflict and unnecessarily wasting time during the meeting."(8).]]> 2016-10-13 04:00:43 UTC https://padlet.com/louissartain34/p0go3itu5lpn/wish/130324668 louissartain34 https://padlet.com/louissartain34/p0go3itu5lpn/wish/130324735 I have probably had way more negotiations than I think I do because I don't deal with them like this. But my parents had me practice on how to negotiate by having us negotiate a punishment that we thought was fair, and the parents thought was harsh enough.]]> 2016-10-13 04:01:25 UTC https://padlet.com/louissartain34/p0go3itu5lpn/wish/130324735 louissartain34 https://padlet.com/louissartain34/p0go3itu5lpn/wish/130324766 It wasn't too challenging, all I had to do was start with something that only appeases me, then move on to something that pleases the parents more and more slowly until they said yes to whatever I came up with. It usually benefited us(the kids) a lot more.]]> 2016-10-13 04:01:43 UTC https://padlet.com/louissartain34/p0go3itu5lpn/wish/130324766