https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn Cole has a hard time letting go of his anger and his past. Is it ever okay to blame others for our problems in life? Provide at LEAST one reason or example from the book or real life in your response. When your respond to another post, sign with your name! en-us 2019-10-04 16:38:33 UTC 2026-02-24 17:30:37 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-assets.s3.amazonaws.com/icons/Xmastree.png amclaugh1 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393668884 Make sure your name is your title. After responding, find two other posts to rate and respond to!]]> 2019-10-04 16:38:43 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393668884 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393674905 It is not okay to blame for your problems, if they want to have a good life, a good job, and a good family let them be, if you blame all your problems on them they will not have that expectation of their life, sometimes its okay to blame someone, I sometimes blame somethings at someone else, but it's only because we have the same problem with our life. Cole blamed Peter for snitching on him after his break in on the hardware store, but after a few months from the hospital, Cole knows what its like for Peters side of his life after the mauling, and after returning to the online his emotions changed and wants to know if Peters okay from his head being smashed against the curb and being beat up at the parking lot, Peter can not blame Cole because he did not do anything illegal and all he did against Cole was tell the police of his break in.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:05 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393674905 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393674991 It is not okay to blame others for your past problems because they weren't the ones that made the problem in the first place. Say that you did something in the past that made problems with a friend and you blame them for doing this and doing that which is wrong because you were the one that caused all the problems in the first place. You cant blame others for your doings.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:12 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393674991 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675003 Yes, I think that sometimes it's ok to blame others. For example what Cole did to Peter, Peter could blame Cole for everything that is wrong with him. If it is the persons fault then you have a reason to blame them. If the problems in your life are caused by what you do then no you cant blame someone else.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:13 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675003 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675012 No it isn't okay to blame others in life for your own mistakes because it isn't their problem it's your's. If you blame others, you won't learn, and you'll get even more in trouble. One example is if someone beats up someone then says it's someone else, the person you blamed it on is getting a punishment and your just laughing, and if they figure it out that it was actually you, you would get in 100 times more in trouble than if you just took the blame for yourself.

]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:14 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675012 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675069 No, it is never okay to blame others for your consiquences and your actions. Blaming others for the things you do wont help you. It helps you build up anger and than you'll start to get in a habit of just hating everyone and you will never open up and trust anybody. Everyone has their own expectation in life but there's only simple reasons on why you blame someone. maybe they abused you are hurt you but we all have problems whether it's worse or its not. You may think your sad or u have so much anger and you hate your life or wanna run away from them but anger is something you cant run away from it is always there but u can hide it deep in you. Everyone has problems, people have no food or a home so be greatful for the things you have even in the worst times. ]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:18 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675069 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675083 I think that there is some times when you can blame others but usually not. For example if someone stole some ones back pack then they can blame others. But if someone stole someone deleted someones easy it is their fault for sending it to them.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:19 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675083 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675087 I think you should never blame someone else for your own problems, because some of your problems are due to your own actions. Such as when Cole beat Peter up after him just telling on him. He says that if Peter knew how to fight this wouldn't have happened. That is one example of why you shouldn't just blame your mistakes on others.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:19 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675087 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675100 It depends on the situation. It is not okay to blame others for our own problems because other people didn't do anything wrong. It is your own fault for the things you do to cause trouble. For example, Cole robbed the hardware store but then blamed Peter for telling on him. On the contrary, you can blame others if it was their fault. For example, if they start a fight and they punch you then you block in defence, it will be the person who started the fight's fault.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:20 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675100 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675167 I do not think that you should blame anyone for your actions or problems unless they actually physically or emotionally hurt you. But if you were just to have trouble in life like Cole was having and how he blamed his father for the way he was acting and blaming Garvey and Edwin for making him do things he didn't want too then I do not think you should blame someone for it. You should take responsibility for your own actions.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:26 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675167 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675171 I think sometimes it isn't your own fault that your struggling. Friends or family could've had some kind of impact on you because of how they treated you or if something happened in the past. I think you should take responsibility for your actions whenever it is your fault. But sometimes it is partially somebody elses fault for a problem. Like recently I had went to the doctors about a pain around my ribs. And I was found with a tumor. It isn't my fault that this has happened. It's my problem but it's not my fault. I would never blame anyone for it, but I wouldn't blame myself either.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:26 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675171 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675178 I think you should blame someone when they physically abuse you so much that you will never be the same again. And it's the same thing with mentally abusing someone since that change a person dramatically. ]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:27 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675178 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675215 Sometimes it is okay to blame other people for problems we have. For example, if somebody purposefully murdered a close family member of yours it would be correct to blame them because they are a murderer and that is not your fault. But, a lot of times in life we need to take responsibility for the things we have done and not blame others. It really depends on the situation and the mindset you are willing to have. ]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:29 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675215 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675238 There are some times that you can blame other people for problems in your life but most of the time you should not. Say your house gets robbed and you did nothing wrong your going to blame the people cause you did nothing wrong to deserve that.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:32 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675238 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675246 If you Blame others for your problems in life you wont understand what responsibility really is. Even if it is someones fault if it had to do with you, you have to own up to your part of the story. ]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:33 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675246 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675264 No, it is not okay to blame others for your problems, it should be your anger you should blame, unless the person meant what they did.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:34 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675264 99743257 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675271 I feel like yes others might cause problems for us, but most people don't mean to cause said problems. From my personal experience I know that when a friend causes a problem for me they usually aren't trying to hurt me in any way. It's often just a cause of miscommunication or an argument but they usually mean no ill intent by it. I don't think we should blame others for our problems because we're all human and we all make mistakes that might affect others negatively and that's just part of life. ]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:35 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675271 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675280 I think you should blame someone if the hurt you physically and mentally.But don't blame people if they just did one tiny thing like saying like saying you are stupid and you just start a fight.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:36 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675280 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675286 It's not okay to blame others for your problem if they didn't do anything. You can sometime blame on people who hurt you.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:36 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675286 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675295 No it is not okay to blame others for your problems because they have nothing to do with them. For example, lets say that your older sister is moving out to college and your are angry, and sad about it. You shouldn't be mad at your friends because they have nothing to do with your at home life. If anything you should let them help you.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:37 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675295 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675302 its not okay to blame people for the problems you have gained over the years for doing this your hurting your mental mind and provoking the inevitable anger that will come forth after you blame someone which means that you can never be truly be happy until you let go of the things that push you down so you can move forward in life and not be held back. We can see this change in Cole when he starts to hope Peter will be okay which is a huge change in his initial response to him.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:38 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675302 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675304 It truly depends on the situation in a case where lets say your parents fear for your life and don't let you outside you may become ant-social which can lead to bullying or depression and so I believe if you are truly out of control in the situation than yes you can blame someone else.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:38 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675304 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675309 No, it is never okay to blame others for your problems in life. This is because you choose to make every single decision in you life, unless you are completely forced to do something. For example, if you get a text while you are driving it is your decision whether or not you pick up the phone while driving and you cant blame others for the consequences that can follow after you pick up your phone, while driving.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:38 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675309 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675339 It is okay to blame others for our problems at times because sometimes our problems are genetic or contagious, for example in my family we naturally have low blood pressure.


]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:41 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675339 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675353 I feel it depends what happens, like if you get framed or blamed for something you never did, then you had no control over what they did and you can blame them for that. But any other situation would be my problem, and my fault for the problem.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:42 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675353 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675390 No, it is never okay to blame others for your problems in life. This is because you will make the other person feel bad for something they never did. You will have to handle your problem by yourself because you will never actually have someone beside you through your whole life. It doesn't just hurt the people but it also hurts you. It will become a habit and soon enough you wont have very many friends because you blame them for everything that has happened to you.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:45 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675390 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675399 No, it is not ever okay to blame others for your actions because they didn't do anything to you. A example is when you get in trouble by your parents but instead of taking the blame you blame it on your sibling.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:46 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675399 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675407 No, it is never okay to blame someone else for your mistakes or wrong doings because you were the one that made the bad choice and nobody else can control your thinking and how you feel towards others, and what choices you make you have to learn that you have to take action for your own choices.]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:46 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675407 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675421 I think there are some circumstances where you can blame others such as if someones mom and dad both left them when they were 13 you can blame others. I don't think it is ok to blame others if you make a mistake and blame it on someone for something the the person you blaming it on didn't do anything and wasn't involved]]> 2019-10-04 16:48:48 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675421 amclaugh1 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675660 I think there are some circumstances when it is okay to blame other people because it truly isn't your fault! Say I got mugged while walking home. I didn't do anything wrong so I would absolutely blame that person for my injuries. Sometimes we may play a role in our problems, but sometimes, bad things do happen to good people.]]> 2019-10-04 16:49:08 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675660 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675708 I  don't agree with letting others put there problems or blaming other people for them. The reason is that it's not there responsibility for your actions, people have there own problems and they have to take care of there own.]]> 2019-10-04 16:49:12 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675708 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675873 It depends on the situation, if there is a person that is doing in regards to you and you blame them for doing something that they had no action in then it is not okay. For example you spilled your water so you blame the person that gave you the cup, saying that it is a bad cup. In other situation there may be someone that stole something and they pointed a weapon at you, and you tell your boss you couldn't do anything to help. Then it is okay to blame others.]]> 2019-10-04 16:49:26 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675873 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675959 No it's not okay to blame others, everyone blames others for their own personal stuff, but it doesn't make it okay to do. If your angry about something then that's your personal feeling and its not anyone else's fault, if you screwed something up then that was all you and no one else.]]> 2019-10-04 16:49:35 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393675959 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393676250 It depends for the situation. Like it's alright to blame people (If they are ok with it) for now so you don't feel guilty and all of that negative emotions causing into a worse situatation like depression. But later you have to understand that it is not their fault and that you cause it because of your actions.]]> 2019-10-04 16:50:02 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393676250 https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393676341 It depends on the situation. If you were in a really bad situation or problem, the person could have been the one to cause it or had some part in it. But if I had to give an answer, it would be no. You should never blame somebody for the actions you did. You have to own up to what you do because it is your problems. For example, Cole would blame Peter for him having to go to Jail or Circle Justice. It was not Peters fault because Cole wanted to beat him up for something that he thought was a big deal, so now he has to face the consequences. ]]> 2019-10-04 16:50:12 UTC https://padlet.com/amclaugh1/oxla2kdnoxcn/wish/393676341