Case Study #1 (Boys Playing Football) by Roberts, Kevin D. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9 Don't Suspend Me: An Alternative Discipline Toolkit en-us 2021-12-02 23:14:27 UTC 2026-02-27 08:08:01 UTC hello@padlet.com Psychoeducational group/individual sessions related to conflict resolution (skill building through direct practice, modeling, and role play). mrehak https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927500032 2021-12-03 14:51:43 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927500032 Hold a restorative conference with the students https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927500060 2021-12-03 14:51:44 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927500060 Restorative questions https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927500544 restorative questions, when a harm has been committed. Include the two students, the teacher who attempted to address the issue, staff who broke up the fight.]]> 2021-12-03 14:51:58 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927500544 Have students engage in restorative dialogue https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927500710 2021-12-03 14:52:02 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927500710 https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927501662 Small group work-focused on positive peer interactions/conflict resolution skills ]]> 2021-12-03 14:52:28 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927501662 restorative questions https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927501752 2021-12-03 14:52:30 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927501752 https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927501925 I would do a restorative meeting and at the end would have the boys sit down together and come up with a physical list of rules for them to use during football games moving forward. This way, they would have set rules that they agree on to use moving forward so that there hopefully wouldn't be further disagreements about the rules of their football game]]> 2021-12-03 14:52:35 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927501925 psychoeducation bystander vs. upstander https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927502224 2021-12-03 14:52:42 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927502224 Provide some sort of direct intervention. Maybe a group focused on social skills, problem solving skills, conflict resolution skills, etc where the students will have the opportunity to practice the skills learned https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927502527 2021-12-03 14:52:51 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927502527 https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927502759 Restorative conference and have students identify all areas of impact]]> 2021-12-03 14:52:58 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927502759 https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927502933 restorative circle ]]> 2021-12-03 14:53:02 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927502933 Utilize I-statements to share feelings and perspectives respectfully mrehak https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927502987 2021-12-03 14:53:03 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927502987 When they are ready , have restorative dialogue. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927503562 2021-12-03 14:53:19 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927503562 I messages https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927503582 2021-12-03 14:53:19 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927503582 https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927504237 Restorative conference! ]]> 2021-12-03 14:53:36 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927504237 I would meet with both of the primary students individually and assess willingness to engage in a restorative conference. I would prepare them for how the conference would run and what the ground-rules would be as well as the hoped-for outcomes. I would then hold a restorative conference with the two boys and a second meeting with all of the students involved. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927504281 2021-12-03 14:53:37 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927504281 Problem solving contracting https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927504327 2021-12-03 14:53:39 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927504327 https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927504488 challenge students to brainstorm alternative solutions to their conflict

]]> 2021-12-03 14:53:43 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927504488 Start with a restorative conversation using specific provided restorative sentence starters/questions. Following up with a collaborative discussion pre-establishing the rules of the game for the next recess. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927504872 2021-12-03 14:53:54 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927504872 restorative conversation with students and teacher https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927504908 2021-12-03 14:53:55 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927504908 Restorative practices https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927505030 Mediation with the boys. Restorative questions before the mediation. ]]> 2021-12-03 14:53:58 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927505030 https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927505377 Problem solving reflective handout ]]> 2021-12-03 14:54:08 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927505377 https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927505584 Have them review the actual guidelines/rules for football games and come to an agreement about procedures for conflict at game time moving forward !]]> 2021-12-03 14:54:14 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927505584 Hold a restorative circle with the students https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927505612 2021-12-03 14:54:15 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927505612 Relationship skill development https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927505740 Using affective statements in classes. Understanding emotions/thoughts that we may be vulnerable to and how to cope. Understanding impact of actions, both short and long-term]]> 2021-12-03 14:54:19 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927505740 Hold a restorative conference with an administrator , SSW or Counselor and the 2 students to process the situation and develop future way to resolve conflict over the rules of the game. Perhaps even include the PE teacher or coach at the school to build a relationship with the students and give them a positive role such as referee etc. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927505929 2021-12-03 14:54:24 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927505929 use restorative questions to encourage each student to understand other's point of view https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927505941 2021-12-03 14:54:24 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927505941 https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927506271 have meeting to discuss and use "I statements" to express their personal thoughts and feelings; discussion of other known problem solving strategies that each student already has/knows ]]> 2021-12-03 14:54:34 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927506271 I would use a restorative practices reflection tool during the meeting where students wrote or narrated answers to reflective questions about how they experienced this conflict, what they would like to see out of the situation moving forward, and how the harm can be repaired. Both would be asked to reflect on how they might handle the situation differently in the future. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927507377 2021-12-03 14:55:05 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927507377 brainstorm other ways that students could have resolved conflict, ask them for suggestions https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927507552 2021-12-03 14:55:09 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927507552 Use the Time Machine from Conscious Discipline to reflect on what caused the fight, how the victim felt, and how to move forward. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927507553 2021-12-03 14:55:09 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927507553 teach conflict management communication skills https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927508542 2021-12-03 14:55:35 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927508542 Provide skill building for the students to understand how to interact even when they disagree https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927509092 2021-12-03 14:55:51 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927509092 I would ensure both students, as well as the other boys involved, engaged in at least 1-2 meetings with counselor / SEL teacher / social worker about best ways to communicate disagreement and manage conflict in productive ways. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927509255 2021-12-03 14:55:56 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927509255 Skill building group to focus on anger management and conflict resolution https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927509445 2021-12-03 14:56:02 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927509445 Training on how to deal with peer pressure https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927509758 2021-12-03 14:56:11 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927509758 Hamond https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927510175 Have the two students research together the code of conduct and the rules for the NFL. The two students would present the report to everyone at recess. Teaching everyone the official rules. Spending time working together will reestablish the relationship.]]> 2021-12-03 14:56:23 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927510175 They need to have a restorative circle to talk about it as well...There needs to be a consequences and a solution. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927510245 2021-12-03 14:56:25 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927510245 Restorative https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927510254 A Required Parent Conference should be mandated with and the two young men, and Coaches.
1.An emphasis on what the goals are:
a.Development of Teamwork and positive exchanges of divergent ideas. among peers.
b.Emphasis that all students are winners ( whether games lost or not)
c. Understanding that the ultimate decisions as to rules, strategies lies with the Coach or if applicable a designated Team (Peer Leader)

]]> 2021-12-03 14:56:25 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927510254 It seems that the staff who originally intervened could have been the catalyst for helping the students truly resolve the matter. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927510297 2021-12-03 14:56:26 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927510297 Classroom group https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927510335 Allow the students opportunities to make things right in the school. have them take leadership roles in discussions or lessons, allow them to choose a virtue to demonstrate and how they can help others.]]> 2021-12-03 14:56:28 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927510335 Role-play situations during a group lesson. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927512303 2021-12-03 14:57:19 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927512303 Addressing peer pressure https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927512746 Restorative circle- Discuss peer pressure]]> 2021-12-03 14:57:31 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927512746 Restorative practice/conflict resolution strategies tvolpesillars https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927513373 2021-12-03 14:57:47 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927513373 pre-conference with both kids and others involved. Ensure that the kids are comfortable and understand how a restorative conference works. If there is a need for practicing communication skills such as use of "I statement" etc, engage in some skill development (instructional). Depending on needs of student, offer specific supports as they engage in restorative conversation prior to it occuring and outline clearly what that support may look like. ANy supports offered need to be explained prior to starting the conversation. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927515786 2021-12-03 14:58:50 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927515786 Ask each student to write their statement and/or help them write it then process it with them while perhaps making some edits. tvolpesillars https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927517585 2021-12-03 14:59:34 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927517585 https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927519154 Have the student complete a team building activity to foster a deeper understanding how to work together.]]> 2021-12-03 15:00:18 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927519154 Restorative https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927519778 2021-12-03 15:00:35 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927519778 Restorative meeting: Hold a restorative conference with both boys after contacting both parents to inform them of this alternative. sdacosta5 https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927520260 2021-12-03 15:00:50 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927520260 Provide students with some conflict resolution skills. Have them express their perspective of the situation. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927520396 2021-12-03 15:00:54 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927520396 use restorative practice between two boys, expand to include yard duty teacher and then peers as well. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927520524 2021-12-03 15:00:57 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927520524 Struggling with an answer here. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927520741 2021-12-03 15:01:03 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927520741 Use a social skills session to review rules of playing football. Use social thinking concepts/mapping to process incident. tvolpesillars https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927520780 2021-12-03 15:01:04 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927520780 https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927520864 Complete a reflective session with both students to allow time for critical thinking on conflict and feedback,]]> 2021-12-03 15:01:07 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927520864 restorative justice conference https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927520982 2021-12-03 15:01:10 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927520982 Engage in psychoeducational activities that aim at focusing on skill development and knowledge acquisition. Shift to experiential learning which can include use of visuals/scenes to discuss in third party for an opportunity for safe perspective taking and then shift into role play or didactic conversation about specific situations. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927521614 2021-12-03 15:01:29 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927521614 Use conflict resolution strategies, while using feeling statements with both https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927521962 2021-12-03 15:01:37 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927521962 get the students together to help come up with solutions https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927522128 2021-12-03 15:01:42 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927522128 teach conflict resolution skills https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927523063 2021-12-03 15:02:07 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927523063 https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927523663 In a morning meeting, have students talk about ways they've resolved conflicts successfully.]]> 2021-12-03 15:02:24 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927523663 Hold a restorative conference. https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927523934 2021-12-03 15:02:33 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927523934 Instructional: sdacosta5 https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927524511 Use an evidence based social skill lesson for the boys along with the entire team.]]> 2021-12-03 15:02:48 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927524511 Restorative questions and holding a circle. Including agreed upon rules for football at recess https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927525080 2021-12-03 15:03:05 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927525080 Reflective https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927525465 Conduct regular scheduled group sessions:
1.Analyzing audio visuals of positive and negative team interactions.
2, Allow students to process and analyze results]]> 2021-12-03 15:03:14 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927525465 Have students participate in group where conflict resolution skills are taught (via direct practice, modeling etc.) https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927525960 2021-12-03 15:03:27 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927525960 boys can do research around rules of the game and sportsmanship; maybe create a short presentation for younger students https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927526096 2021-12-03 15:03:31 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927526096 https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927526383 teaching anger management, conflict resolution skills. effective communication skills. ]]> 2021-12-03 15:03:37 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927526383 sessions to teach problem solving skills as well as conflict resolution skills https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927527315 2021-12-03 15:04:01 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927527315 Reflective: sdacosta5 https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927527641 Allow the boys to state what they have learned and create their own social skills lesson they will use for themselves and their teammates.]]> 2021-12-03 15:04:10 UTC https://padlet.com/kroberts214/okotrjviwy7o3jb9/wish/1927527641