https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs Western vs. Chinese parenting styles en-us 2021-12-02 15:23:04 UTC 2021-12-03 19:17:33 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928011754 1.My parents are Indian 
2. Ye]]> 2021-12-03 19:12:15 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928011754 https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928012669 My parents don’t encourage creative activities or believe anyone can get somewhere with it. They push way more on academics. This style has not made me more successful because I only started becoming successful when I encouraged myself to do better. That teaching style is very discouraging coming from a parent and didn’t work for me]]> 2021-12-03 19:12:52 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928012669 https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928013235 My parents, while they have put a lot of stress on success and such, they have always allowed me to speak and taken my points, especially recently, as reasonable opinions. While they influence success into me, it's hard to say that they seem so hard and seem like they almost don't care. They have always uplifted me for success and always been supportive even when I lack behind. Allowing to support and help me to a successful point.]]> 2021-12-03 19:13:15 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928013235 https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928013511 My parents have that style of parenting because one of them grew up with it, the other wants to force success in education because they don’t know any other way to succeed in life. They also both grew up in terrible living conditions under people who didn’t value education, so they don’t want the same to happen to me.]]> 2021-12-03 19:13:28 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928013511 https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928013710 Their style of parenting pushed me and made me a more driven person. Mama, I'm earning my doctorate! ]]> 2021-12-03 19:13:35 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928013710 https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928014002 My parents have repeatedly encouraged me to be myself. They’ve also engrained the idea that I am able to be successful in most any path that I like most and ultimately choose. They still pressure me to get high grades in school but they lean more towards the western style because they allow me to choose my own path.]]> 2021-12-03 19:13:48 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928014002 https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928014581 My parents grew up in households where they were expected to get all A’s and had parents that had very high expectations so I think that they put those same pressures on me because it worked for them. I think that this Asian style of parenting did work because if forced me to have a good work ethic but I also think that there have been many times where it is too much and I wish they weren’t as strict all the time. ]]> 2021-12-03 19:14:11 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928014581 https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928014849 My parents are more like chinese parents because they always encourage me to do better and push me past my limits in order to achieve more. No matter how good or even bad my grades are, they always tell me i can do better ]]> 2021-12-03 19:14:22 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928014849 https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928015520 My parents have the attitude that as long as you try and put all your effort into things, then the outcome doesn’t have to be perfect. I find that this way helps me because there is minimal pressure to get straight A’s, yet I still try to achieve that to make them proud. ]]> 2021-12-03 19:14:44 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928015520 https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928015598 My parents expect perfection and it is really hard to know when you have done a good job because usually it’s not good enough ]]> 2021-12-03 19:14:47 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928015598 https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928015836 My parents practice more Western styles of parenting. I don’t attach my self worth to my academic performance. It doesn’t free me to be lazy, instead it motivates me to work because I get to explore what I’m actually interested in. I also feel free to try new things because failure isn’t the end of the world.]]> 2021-12-03 19:14:57 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928015836 https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928015949 My parents are immigrants and were raised that way, so they didn’t know how to adapt to this different style of parenting. My parents look where the money is at and in their eyes, academics is what will get you to be successful. Also, since I have an older sister and she is a very good ER nurse, they thought they hit the nail on the head with the way they raised her, so they wanted to see if it would work for me. In reality, my sister has a lot thicker skin than I do, so she handles the parenting style much better.]]> 2021-12-03 19:15:02 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928015949 https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928016990 I believe that my parents’ form of parenting is interesting. As an African, they are raising me similar to they was Chinese parents do. I think this is because of the way they were raised but I believe that it has made me into the person that I am today. The way kids are brought up depends on the parenting.]]> 2021-12-03 19:15:42 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928016990 https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928017168 1. My parents are Asian immigrants, so they wanted me to have a future that they couldn’t have. They emphasized getting good grades in order to get into a good college. They wanted me to become the stereotypical doctor. 
2. Yea, I would say that their ideals definitely influenced me to try a bit more. It made me feel as if I had to get good grades otherwise I’d be a disappointment]]> 2021-12-03 19:15:49 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928017168 https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928018546 I disappointed my parents from a young age so they started to give up about my grades lmao
But in other aspects they are quite awful :) I love them so much and I appreciate the fact that they wanted me to get stronger mentally, but at what expense?]]> 2021-12-03 19:16:42 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928018546 https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928018923 I think my parents have a stricter type of parenting because they want me to do better than they did. They realize the mistakes they made around my age and expect more of me because they’ve given me a better life than they had growing up. I’m glad they push me as much as they do because I wouldn’t have been able to accomplish as much as I have without them. ]]> 2021-12-03 19:16:57 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928018923 https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928019891 my parents grew up extremely poor and strongly believed that good grades are the way to that social mobility and they constantly stress that to me. There has been many times where I felt like they were overworking me but overall, I definitely think it has worked for me because they really taught me the value of hard work.]]> 2021-12-03 19:17:33 UTC https://padlet.com/aad2444/ob6aegab4he4m8xs/wish/1928019891