My dazzling wall by Sierra Adams https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v Made with the help of a typing monkey en-us 2018-02-23 17:06:11 UTC 2024-10-16 14:57:49 UTC hello@padlet.com I've been a bystander to bullying on the playground. sadams33 https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234794841 I can be an upstander by speaking out against the person mistreating others. I can model in my own behavior ways to spread a positive attitude. Be the change you want to see in the world. ]]> 2018-02-23 17:06:54 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234794841 upstander https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234806733 I can be an upstander by standing up for what I believe in. If someone is discriminating against another, you should always stand up for them so others see that and then they have the courage the next time to do the right thing. ]]> 2018-02-23 17:28:39 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234806733 I've been a bystander to people addressing and mocking the negative aspects of someone's life. https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234806833 2018-02-23 17:28:52 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234806833 I have been a bystander when one of my friends was being bullied https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234806953 I should have stood up for them. I will be an up stander next time I see something like this happen.]]> 2018-02-23 17:29:05 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234806953 I think that I have been a bystander. https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234806963 I am not sure when I was a bystander but I think there are some moments where I wish i would have stood up to someone with power that was hurting somebody where I could have changed the outcome. I feel like being a bystander just sets you up to be next because bully's will look for the person that wont stand up for what they believe and will basically just give up but like how it ended in the book we have to band together to figure out what to do and how we can do it right.]]> 2018-02-23 17:29:06 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234806963 I have been a bystander when a kid was being made fun of because of the way he dressed. https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807060 I can be an up stander by telling the bully that its uncool and compliment the kids clothes.]]> 2018-02-23 17:29:19 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807060 I have been a bystander https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807100 I have been a bystander to watching someone call another person something that is offensive, and doing nothing just because it is something that I am used to. Just that i'm used to it by now is already bad. ]]> 2018-02-23 17:29:23 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807100 https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807107 BYSTANDING
I've been a bystander when I see people making fun of someone else's race or religion or how they look and I didn't do anything
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If I see something happening to another person and that person looks uncomfortable or scared or doesn't like what is happening, I'm going to stand up for them because they shouldn't have to feel that way]]> 2018-02-23 17:29:24 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807107 I have been a bystander https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807110 I have been a bystander to seeing people sitting all alone in classes or at lunch. No one wants to go over and sit or talk with them.
I can be an upstander by remaining inclusive to all people, and modeling kind and welcoming behavior.]]> 2018-02-23 17:29:24 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807110 Bystander https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807136 I have been a bystander when people negatively affect others by bullying or something else. I also have been a bystander when people are doing things that they shouldn't and I don't join in. 

I could not be a bystander by standing up for what's right even if people try to tear me down when I do so. ]]> 2018-02-23 17:29:27 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807136 I've been a bystander, but... https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807201 I can be an upstander in standing up for what I know to be right, and stepping in even when the situation may not directly affect me. It's a mentality that we are all human; all in this together, and that means we should help one another, because an injury to one should be an injury to all. (That was not a reference to High School Musical.)]]> 2018-02-23 17:29:35 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807201 I have been a bystander listening to current world events, but not directly doing anything about them https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807203 I can be an up stander by sharing my opinions, and trying to implement positivity, understanding and open mindedness in my everyday behavior. Because although I cannot change the ways others think, I can model good behavior in my own life to hopefully inspire and help others.]]> 2018-02-23 17:29:35 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807203 I've been a bystander when I saw a person being left out for their gender and I didn't say anything 623162 https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807271
I can be an upstander by telling people how wrong that is and making sure to include everyone]]> 2018-02-23 17:29:41 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807271 I have been a bystander to two people having a big argument over a friendship and I saw that friendship die... I can be an upstander by helping them work out their argument and them settling their feelings of hatred for each other. https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807385 2018-02-23 17:29:55 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807385 I have been a bystander of someone dying in an elevator. https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807401 When we have the power to do something, and even when we dont, we can at least try to stop something from happening, it may be worse to live with the guilt of not doing anything, then to die trying.]]> 2018-02-23 17:29:56 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807401 I have been a bystander during whenever people disrespect others behind their backs https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807406 2018-02-23 17:29:56 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807406 I have been a bystander to certain groups of people shunning someone. https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807515 2018-02-23 17:30:07 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807515 Bullying https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807559 I can be an upstander by trusting my gut and what I believe to be right. Trusting that instinct will lead to more change ensuing movement. I think that it only takes one person to be an upstander, because as soon as one person gains the bravery to stand up to something, others follow their footsteps and even carve their own trail : make their own mark. ]]> 2018-02-23 17:30:11 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807559 It's not bullying to not want to talk to someone https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807922 2018-02-23 17:30:52 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234807922 I have been a bystander too bullying about how someone looked and or how they acted. I also have been trying too help someone who had or watched someone get abused 592051 https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234808097 2018-02-23 17:31:10 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234808097 I have been a bystander at lunch when people were being rude to random people. https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234808470 I should have at least tried to stop the bully even though I didn't know the people that were being bullied. I should have trusted myself and confront the bully. ]]> 2018-02-23 17:31:48 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234808470 I was bullied and it made me a vastly better person https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234808482 2018-02-23 17:31:50 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234808482 Acknowledge a problem by stating it to the victim and the accuser. https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234841063 2018-02-23 18:35:14 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234841063 I have been a bystander, but... https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234841294 I can be an upstander by taking a stand. Standing up for what's right not just ignoring what's wrong.]]> 2018-02-23 18:35:44 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234841294 Upstander. 592051 https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234841329 I can help by standing up for whats right in a positive way and not standing up in a violent and or negative way to make the "bully"   feel less of a person also. Being the bigger person does not always been saying something it could be just getting a person out of the situation in the first place.]]> 2018-02-23 18:35:48 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234841329 https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234841395 I can help by standing up for others and their ideas]]> 2018-02-23 18:35:57 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234841395 We can all become upstanders by taking action from the get-go, rather than waiting to see the entire plot unfold first. Granted it can be easier to witness the severity of a problem before taking it on, but we should all have enough common sense to be able to foreshadow how an event might worsen in due time. Take action immediately so that you don't have to view a more destructive situation. Although you may be able to foreshadow how an event could get worse, you don't know exactly how it may affect victims, or people involved in the long run. It only takes one person to leave the first footprint, one that others can trace. Not only is this positively impacting those you're helping, but also yourself; in the long run, you can look around at the new world that your footprint has carved, and know that you took part in the change. https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234841466 2018-02-23 18:36:06 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234841466 I have been a by stander when somebody was getting made fun of. https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234841505 A kid who was really smart and nice but just was a little different socially than other people was getting made fun of because he did thing that weren't "cool" in the other kids perspective]]> 2018-02-23 18:36:10 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234841505 https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234841712 We can try to always consciously think about helping people and standing up for people so that we can't use the excuse "I forgot" or "I wasn't thinking about it then".
Also, by always consciously thinking about doing what's right, we can never do something wrong because we weren't thinking. ]]> 2018-02-23 18:36:26 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234841712 Silence only helps the oppressor. Speak up! https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234841930 2018-02-23 18:36:41 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234841930 If you stay silent, at first you will be helping yourself and leaving problems to another, but after a while your actions (or non-actions) will come back to you and change how other people view you, and how you view yourself. https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234842495 2018-02-23 18:37:38 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234842495 https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234845066 2018-02-23 18:42:09 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234845066 If you ever see anybody being slightly mean immediately freak out and call them a bully https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234845656 2018-02-23 18:43:13 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234845656 https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234847494 2018-02-23 18:46:23 UTC https://padlet.com/sadams33/o55ben49pd9v/wish/234847494