Agony Aunt by cristina Díaz Toro

I'm not sure...

cristinadiaztoronueva — 2024-04-21 16:44:54 UTC

First you must explain your insecurities to him and he must listen to you, but even so you cannot allow him not to go, and even more so if it is something about work, tell him if he would mind if you talked for as long as he could so that you would be safer, so that a relationship work you must trust each other. Give him that vote of confidence.

She doesn't feel the same...

cristinadiaztoronueva — 2024-04-21 16:52:09 UTC

We do not choose who we fall in love with, nor can you force her to feel something that is not her, she is surely very important to you, but if she does not feel the same you should not insist and the best thing would be to continue with the beautiful friendship that you surely have, Time will pass and you will both find someone.

$1000...

cristinadiaztoronueva — 2024-04-21 16:59:39 UTC

Remind him when you can but once said you have to ask if he really needs that money, if he is well off financially, and according to what he tells you you should help him in whatever way you can. In the end he is your friend and that is what true friends are for.

He does not speak to me...

cristinadiaztoronueva — 2024-04-21 17:11:01 UTC

I think it's somewhat hypocritical but if we start to think from his perspective, maybe he was embarrassed to ask you, he didn't feel safe, so you should try to talk to him about it, maybe it's a security problem that he feels, make him feel comfortable with that conversation.

Everything was going well but...

cristinadiaztoronueva — 2024-04-21 17:19:13 UTC

You shouldn't wait for anyone, take the step and talk to him, ask him if something has happened and based on what he tells you you should choose, think about whether you want a person who may not give you the attention that you are going to need. And If he still doesn't respond to you, move on with your life, there are people who don't deserve your time.