MY SPECTACULAR PERSONALITY PROJECT! :) by Olivia Furmanek https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t Made with whimsy en-us 2019-03-18 15:31:39 UTC 2025-11-15 23:46:53 UTC hello@padlet.com OPTIMISTIC 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/342919980 2019-03-19 15:30:29 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/342919980 OUTGOING 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/342920036 2019-03-19 15:30:34 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/342920036 ORGANIZED 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/342920119 2019-03-19 15:30:41 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/342920119 COMPETATIVE 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/342920230 2019-03-19 15:30:53 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/342920230 AMBITIOUS 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/342920438 2019-03-19 15:31:14 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/342920438 PSYCHODYNAMIC: ID 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/344455247 In the psychoanalytic theory, we talk about the part of the personality regarding the ID; which is our impulses and desires to do certain actions while completely disregarding the consequences.The ID relates to my personalty specifically competitively in reference with sports. I play water polo. I absolutely love the sport from shooting the ball to bonding with my team, I adore every second of it. But, knowing the intensity of the sport, you are bound to have some difficulties along the way. Where my ID is unleashed the most in during games is whenever a player form the other team provokes me somehow during the game or is simply being super annoying. I start to play dirty on them and grab, scratch, kick, and push. One time a splashed a girl so hard in the face, the crowd even gasped. Usually, this ends up being a kick-out called by the referee but I honestly do not care because the adrenaline rush it gives me keeps me going through the game and honestly, gives me a sense of happiness knowing I was able to get back at the other player.

]]> 2019-03-23 13:50:30 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/344455247 PSYCHODYNAMIC: EGO 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345081157 When talking about the psychodynamic theory in regards to the ego, we reference essentially a happy middle between the ID and SUPEREGO in attempts to achieve a reasonable way to satisfy the ID's needs while at the same time taking the SUPEREGO's needs into consideration as well. The EGO relates to my personality with relation to the current diet I am on. Earlier this year i went on a diet, in-fact it was a raw vegan diet so no dairy, no meat, only veggies and you cant even cook them! It was absolutely insane but it did make me feel good. Consequently, i started getting really sick of this diet and was seriously craving some candy. Going a full month without my TWIX was a hard task, considering they are my favorite candy. So instead of going all out on my diet being raw vegan, I decided to simply be vegetarian. Also along with that I decided that some junk food is okay in moderation as long as i don't snarf down a whole bag of cool ranch Doritos. This made me enjoy my diet more as I was able to eat some of the things I love and still feel healthy.]]> 2019-03-26 02:47:56 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345081157 PSYCHODYNAMIC: SUPEREGO 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345083960 The SUPEREGO in the psychodynamic theory states that it diminishes the desires of the ID and turns the simplistic values of the EGO, into a strive for perfection. The way that the SUPEREGO relates to my personality is through my positive attitude. Whenever others around me are feeling down or are upset, for example, my cousin not getting the job he really wanted, i always strive and go out my way to make sure that that person will soon be feeling content, even if it interferes with what I am doing in the moment. When I was driving to the grocery store to pick up some ordered pictures for my mom, i got a call from my cousin telling me he didn't get the job. The second he told me that, i took a U-turn and drive straight to his house to hang out with him. I couldn't bear myself knowing how devastated he was, so i of course I waned to be there for him. Thankfully, my presence for him definitely brightened up his day ad made me feel really good and proud about myself knowing that my act of kindness made somehow feel a bit better about themselves.]]> 2019-03-26 03:05:23 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345083960 PSYCHODYNAMIC: CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCE 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345189880 Within the psychodynamic theory, we are told how childhood experiences influence personality within adulthood. Specifically, un-pleasing events. A childhood event I believe has greatly impacted my personality is how I was viciously bullied for about 4 years. My childhood bully, Lizzie her name was, simply was not fond of me. I was hit, kicked, spat on, made fun of, and one time she even stapled my hands together for her self-amusement. It never stopped even after school, once we found out about social media, the bullying would continue on from there. I thought that it would eventually stop but it never did, and for some reason I never told my parents. I don't remember why I didn't tell them, possibly I didn't want to stir up more drama. This has shaped my personality in a negative way consequently after the situation because I became not only extremely self-conscious of myself, but I would never speak to anyone and practically have no voice. I felt very alone and I never voiced my feelings as they would always cloud up my head. Thankfully, I learned to break out of that shell once middle school hit. I met many new friend sand really got to see a new part of me as a person. In moments, I am often thankful for those moments I was bullied because I feel that without them, I would not be as strong as I present myself to be today.]]> 2019-03-26 11:34:44 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345189880 PSYCHODYNAMIC: DEFENSE MECHANISMS-DISPLACEMENT 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345196617 Displacement refers to taking out your frustrations to taking out your feelings or frustrations on people or things that are less threatening to lessen the feeling of guilt. I use this defense mechanism the most on my family, specifically my mom. Whenever I am very angry and my family is near me, they usually get to know why I am angry and often consequently be blamed for it when in reality they have no correlation to it. For example, after a hard loss against North in a water polo tournament a coupe weeks back, I was obviously not in a good mood, no one on the team was. When my mom picked me up from the game, she asked how the game was, and immediately I just blew up. I yelled at my mom blaming her for my anger, saying she never should have asked me about my day and that I never should have gone. I blamed her for ever convincing me to do polo and somehow found more to yell at my mom about. Although this consequently made me feel much relieved, this defense mechanism is not good as they can put your guilt on to somehow else making them feel like the problem.]]> 2019-03-26 11:53:48 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345196617 PSYCHODYNAMIC: DEFENSE MECHANISMS- REACTION FORMATION 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345201289 Reaction Formation refers to a person hiding away their feelings and emotions while at the same time displaying the complete opposite emotions in attempts to tricking others you feel a certain way. I use this defense mechanism often when I am feeling underneath weather. I do not like feeling sad or upset, i realize that these emotions are completely okay, but I simply do not lie when these feelings cross my path. So whenever the feeling of sadness, i usually convert to the quote, fake it till you make it, and cover those emotions up with a smile. For example, I remember that after a swim meet earlier this year, I got second in a event that I really wanted t get first in. Immediately when I got second, i was in a state of shock. I had no idea I would lose, and considering all the work I put in, I was honestly devastated. But i didn't not want to come home that way and complain to my parents, so i sucked it up and pretended that I was still proud of my race and content with the outcome, when in realty I was feeling the complete opposite. ]]> 2019-03-26 12:05:46 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345201289 PSYCHODYNAMIC: DEFENSE MECHANISMS- PROJECTION 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345208865 Projection refers to seeing your own flaws and faults in someone else and seeing them as very poor, when you reality you posses of these qualities as well. I use this defense mechanism often when my friends and I gossip. Because I am a 16 year old girl in high school, gossiping about other girls is no surprise, especially with your close friend group. My friends and I often talk about the super popular girls and they usually are not the nicest things. We often call them out on bad things they have done, their looks, and the way they act and, happened to notice a while back that sometimes, the things we say about others we often posses ourselves. For example, I was talking about a girl in the swim team that i dislike, She is always so loud and annoying. She constantly screams on deck and sometimes I wish I cloud put a mute button on her. After talking bad about her to my friend for a while it finally hit me...I CAN BE SUPER LOUD AND ANNOYING TOO! I often scream and dance around and have fun. I was making fun of someone and bringing someone down on their personality, when in reality we are very alike!]]> 2019-03-26 12:23:32 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345208865 PSYCHODYNAMIC: DEFENSE MECHANISMS- SUBLIMATION 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345215099 Sublimation refers taking out your anger and stresses in a much more acceptable form. I use this defense mechanism into my water polo. Whenever I am frustrated about school and sometimes even my close relationships whether it is family or friends, I always feel better after my water polo practice. For example, I got a bad grade on a Spanish test that I studied very hard for. I was infuriated with my grade in fact. But since I have water polo practice after school, i knew that I would be able to release my anger out. With the hard swimming and shooting the ball, all the anger would consequently be released from within me, leaving me feeling much more relived and often happier then when I came into practice.]]> 2019-03-26 12:36:00 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345215099 HIERARCHY OF NEEDS: LOVE AND BELONGING 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345450393 Love and belonging is Maslow's 3rd stage in his hierarchy of needs. This stage relates to the needs for being social and the feeling of belonging. Although I feel as if i ave surpassed this level in Maslow's hierarchy of needs, this level very well motivates me. In fact it may motivate me the most!  This level motivates me the most because of my great desire to always be around people. I am most certainly an extrovert and get most of my energy by being surrounded by many people. I thrive off of social interaction. I despise being alone with a passion. When I am alone I feel as if i have no friends and a complete loner. Also, I always make sure that I am getting the most out of my relationships with people around me whether it is family or friends. I always do my best to commit to fulfilling friendships and makes sure that each one has purpose to improve on my life and hopefully theirs. I definitely crave social interaction and without it, my personalty probably wouldn't flourish the same as with love and belonging.]]> 2019-03-26 20:08:08 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345450393 HIERARCHY OF NEEDS: SELF-ESTEEM 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345456029 Self-esteem is the fourth stage in Maslow's hierarchy of needs. This stage relates to a need for respect and to induce esteem for oneself or receiving esteem from others. I definitely am motivated quiet a bit by this stage because I have a strong desire to be have a good reputation and  to have people, believe that I am a good person. I often go out of my way to do things so people believe I am much greater of a person than I actually am. Sometimes I will completely start a conversation with someone just so I can get some sort of validation from then to feel better about myself. I definitely am stuck in the self-esteem level of the hierarchy of needs, but once I completely embrace who i am and ignore what others opinions are f me, then i believe that I can possibly work my way of of this stage.]]> 2019-03-26 20:28:10 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345456029 IDEAL SELF V.S. REAL SELF 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345464109 My ideal self and real self do not differ form each other too much. The only place they differ extremely is relating to the topic of time management. Although I consider myself very well organized with my work and my work is very well thought out, I definitely struggle in being able to set times for myself as well as stick to something for a certain time duration. For example, this project, I feel that I am easily able to lay out certain things in a certain format that presents itself to be very well thought out and overall, organized, when in reality it took me a lot of work to get there. This project could easily be well thought out and finished in maybe 2 days when for me it took me from the first all the very to the last day to thoughtfully finish it. It doesn't have anything to do with whether i enjoy something or not, because I in fact really liked doing this project, simply, I cant stick to doing something for longer than 30 minutes.]]> 2019-03-26 20:57:03 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345464109 BIG 5: OPENNESS 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345469707 Openness in the BIG 5 has synonyms of curiosity, imagination, and creativity; while the antonyms are stubbornness and unoriginal. I definitely fall very high on the openness because i have a very broad amount of interests and are very eager to learn new things. Whenever I am able to do some new experience around me, it is very rare I will ever say no. My family was actually offered a free ticket for all of us to do scuba diving, but I was the only one who ended up doing it because they were all scared. Also, I am very passionate about art. I love being able to unleash my creativity in a  way where their are no rules to give you limits. There is no right or wrong and everything is left to your interpretation and whatever you make is sincerely your and no one elses.]]> 2019-03-26 21:19:19 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345469707 BIG 5: CONSCIENTIOUSNESS 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345510912 Conscientiousness has the synonyms of organized, persistent,and responsible; while the antonyms are negligent and careless. I definitely fall very high on his scale due to high standards regarding detail and my goal directed behaviors. Although i struggle on time management quite a bit, there is no doubt in my mind that i love organization. In fact, my own parents call me a clean freak. My room is practically spotless and I clean endlessly. I make sure all my school supplies are clean and I am pretty sure that consequently leads to better success within my school life. Overall cleanliness gives me a lot of joy, seeing everything things gives me a sense of relief and definitely brings calmness to my mind.]]> 2019-03-27 01:02:39 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345510912 BIG 5: EXTRAVERSION 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345517943 Extroversion has synonyms of talkative, energetic, and active; while the antonyms are antisocial and withdrawn. I most certainly rate high on this scale because of my of how being around people and being social gives me energy. I am certainly an extrovert and love being around people. Being alone and in a quiet environment leaves me irking to just meet people and talk to others. I was actually asked to leave a library due to the fact that I was talking so loud. Being in a social environment makes me very happy and being around people forming relationships gives em a sens of purpose that makes my life feel very fulfilling and complete.]]> 2019-03-27 01:32:20 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345517943 BIG 5: AGREEABLENESS 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345519972 Agreeableness has synonyms of cooperative, trustworthy,and forgiving; while it has antonyms of aggressive and argumentative. I definitely rate high in this level due to my great interest and empathy that have towards people along with my interest to help others.I absolutely adore helping others and making sure hat somehow their day get better by my actions. I actually really enjoy doing many different types of community service. My favorite place to do community service is actually feed my starving children. I don't enjoy community service for the sake of myself, it is mostly knowing that somehow this will benefit somehow in the world that gives me a better sense of empathy and makes me much more passionate about making change in the world.]]> 2019-03-27 01:41:33 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345519972 BIG 5: NEUROTICISM 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345522801 Neuroticism has synonyms of emotional, anxious, and moody; while it has antonyms of confident, secure, and hopeful. For me, my levels can change drastically depending on the day so I would put myself in the middle. Some days I am completely confident in myself and loving myself. Cherishing whatever comes my way and living carelessly ignoring others opinions and only caring about what I think about myself. While other days, especially on a very stressful filled school day, I feel completely unsure of myself and reserve myself from many activities and keep most of my thoughts to myself. All in all, I place myself in the middle due to how often this level can change. I all depends on the day but I am constantly working to keep it relatively low to ensure a much more actualized lifestyle.]]> 2019-03-27 01:58:01 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345522801 SOMEONE TO YOU BY BANNERS 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345529947 I just wanna be somebody to someone, oh
I wanna be somebody to someone, oh
I never had nobody and no road home
I wanna be somebody to someone
(Love and Belonging)]]> 2019-03-27 02:48:30 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345529947 HOLD ON BY EXTREME MUSIC 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345531100 Lift your eyes see the things unseen
Remember who you wanna be
Let the light hit your eyes
Let out the beauty that's been trapped inside
Let them know that your not gonna hide
Hey up there your arms open wide spread your wings and fly But the sun is always there to shine
(Being content with yourself)]]> 2019-03-27 02:56:50 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345531100 SOBER ll BY LORDE 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345531800 But who am I?
Oh, how fast the evening passes
Cleaning up the champagne glasses
(How i like to clean)]]> 2019-03-27 03:01:44 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345531800 HARDER, BETTER FASTER, STRONGER BY DAFT PUNK 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345532014 Work it
Make it
Do it
Make us
Harder
Better
Faster
Stronger
Work it harder
Make it better
Do it faster
Makes us stronger
More than ever
Hour after
Our work is
Never over
(Hard worker and likes to win)
]]> 2019-03-27 03:03:27 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345532014 SO WHAT BY P!NK 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345532665 So, so what?
I'm still a rock star
I got my rock moves
And I don't need you
And guess what
I'm having more fun
And now that we're done
I'm gonna show you tonight
I'm alright, I'm just fine
And you're a tool
So, so what?
I am a rock star
I got my rock moves
And I don't want you tonight
(Being confident in yourself and ignoring what others have to say about you)]]> 2019-03-27 03:07:32 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345532665 MY FRIEND HOLLY AND I AT A SWIM MEET! 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345534446 2019-03-27 03:21:41 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345534446 THE EAST SWIM POOL AND MY FAVORITE POOL! 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345534564 2019-03-27 03:22:39 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345534564 MY COUSIN (who didn't get the job) MY SISTER AND I! 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345535477 2019-03-27 03:28:52 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345535477 A PLAYER AND I (#11) FIGHTING FOR THE BALL! 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345536198 2019-03-27 03:34:04 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345536198 MY FRIENDS AND I AFTER A POLO GAME WIN! 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345536686 2019-03-27 03:37:26 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345536686 ME EXPLORING THE SMOKEY MOUNTAINS IN TENNESSEE! 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345536894 2019-03-27 03:38:36 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345536894 ME EXPLORING A WATERFALL IN TENNESSEE! 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345537107 2019-03-27 03:39:55 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345537107 MY BEST FRIENDS! 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345537620 2019-03-27 03:42:00 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345537620 MY BEST FRIEND! 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345537776 2019-03-27 03:42:56 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345537776 MY FRIENDS AND I AT A FOOTBALL GAME! 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345537944 2019-03-27 03:44:00 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345537944 MY FRIENDS TAKING CARE OF MY ROBOT BABY FOR CHILD DEVELOPMENT! 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345538148 2019-03-27 03:45:13 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345538148 THE SWIM TEAM AND I! 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345538400 2019-03-27 03:46:42 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345538400 MY FAVORITE ORGANIZATIONAL TOOL, MY BULLET JOURNAL! 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345539127 2019-03-27 03:50:55 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345539127 WHAT IS A BULLET JOURNAL 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345539383 2019-03-27 03:52:36 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345539383 HOW BULLYING CAN MAKE YOU STRONGER 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345541913 2019-03-27 04:06:26 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345541913 WHY SWIMMING IS AWESOME! 8031020 https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345543870 2019-03-27 04:18:51 UTC https://padlet.com/8031020/o1vtnp9gxg3t/wish/345543870