https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb As you watch each clip, comment on the impact of the talk- both verbal and nonverbal... en-us 2020-10-15 12:45:19 UTC 2026-02-23 06:54:22 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-uploads.storage.googleapis.com/95592257/bd254118bf906b13a20aedd4d7a61143/middle_berkshire_ms.png drew_rock https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/832074118 Note what was said and how language was used in each clip. 

How might language create and/or damage a sense of belonging?

What is communicated, both verbally and nonverbally, that might damage a sense of belonging?

Pay attention to:

• the power dynamics (Who has the "say so"? Who doesn't? How do you know?);
• how participants interact with ideas (Are they collaborating or competing? Are they trying to win? How do you know?);
• tone and nonverbal cues (what else is being communicated?).

]]> 2020-10-15 12:51:48 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/832074118 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971252757 "So glad you're not..." (phrase is insulting); closed off body language (crossing arms, facial expression); bragging; pointing all that is wrong; highly animated hand motions (pointing); "Shut up!"; "No, you can't"; "Prove it"; issuing challenge to make someone look bad; comparison being the thief of joy; "How come you don't?" (giving praise by putting another down); "ooohhhh! ahhhh!"

]]> 2020-11-30 14:05:20 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971252757 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971257106 Men were dismissive- told her to ask her mom if she needed help

]]> 2020-11-30 14:06:13 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971257106 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971262788 Eye rolls]]> 2020-11-30 14:07:22 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971262788 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971264625 Father wasn't looking at her- reading paper]]> 2020-11-30 14:07:46 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971264625 katelyn_baker1 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971266439 -grandma is sarcastic
-talking down to Edith while reading
-hierarchy 
-butler knew not to say anything
-brother-in-law nodded in approval, said 'well done'
-father told her to go help grandma
-grandma contradicts herself when she tells Edith to do something with her brain, but questions why she writes for the paper]]> 2020-11-30 14:08:06 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971266439 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971267266 rude tone]]> 2020-11-30 14:08:14 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971267266 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971268477 After her article is published - the young man says he supports her]]> 2020-11-30 14:08:28 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971268477 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971271950 "You are a woman with a brain- find something to do"]]> 2020-11-30 14:09:10 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971271950 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971273358 At the dinner table, the women don't support her writing the article and her father says it won't be published]]> 2020-11-30 14:09:27 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971273358 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971279025 "In theory" "So you say" "When exactly is that going to happen?" (raises doubt); hands are at an angle; silence in the room said a lot; lack of facial reaction; context (no other woman or diverse person in the room); music underscores the tension]]> 2020-11-30 14:10:34 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971279025 rebecca_dittman https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971281633 know your audience]]> 2020-11-30 14:11:06 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971281633 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971287519 Men were dismissive 
Some encouragement after she wrote her article
'You'll never get published'
Woman was not seen as an equal
Dad was reading his paper and didn't make eye contact.
Grandmother told her to stop complaining & quit your whining.
Stay in your lane vibe.
Knowing glances between young man and the woman at the end.


]]> 2020-11-30 14:12:18 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971287519 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971289265 inspirational music, "you want to have a go at it"- shows trust in her, Kevin C. stands up in the middle, men are all paying attention, "I like her numbers" , in the beginning the men have questioning faces/gestures= questioning]]> 2020-11-30 14:12:39 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971289265 rebecca_dittman https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971310437 Handed her the chalk - it was vote of confidence]]> 2020-11-30 14:16:38 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971310437 katelyn_baker1 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971311287 -interrupting
-yelling
-over powering each other
-eye rolls
-laughing at each other to emphasize how ridiculous a point is
-throw their body back
-getting close to the screen and over pronouncing the words
-strutting in]]> 2020-11-30 14:16:47 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971311287 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971327573 Hesitation of the chalk hand off from the woman.
Suspiciously  quiet from the men
Jim Parson's negative facial expressions
Woman appeared timid
Spoke to the chalkboard  ]]> 2020-11-30 14:19:51 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971327573 katelyn_baker1 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971340008 2020-11-30 14:22:07 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971340008 katelyn_baker1 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971344515 -shut up
-eyes rolling
-pushing
-arms crossed
-name calling
-T-O-Y
-belittling
-condescending
-uses to 'other' him


]]> 2020-11-30 14:22:57 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971344515 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971346917 Damaging:
Quit Whining
belittling
stay in your lane

Creating:
"I support her and you will too"
"you have a Brain"]]> 2020-11-30 14:23:23 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971346917 angela_barone1 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971358092 COMPARISONS: Woody to Buzz
"wow, that sounds so much better than Woody's sound"
"he has so many more buttons than you"
--> What to do when you're always the "shiny object" ? And what do you do when all of the sudden you are not?]]> 2020-11-30 14:25:23 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971358092 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971359152 Screaming 
Yelling
Talking over 
YOU!!!
Argumentative
Attack

Pointing
Real aggressive with hands
Standing]]> 2020-11-30 14:25:32 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971359152 katelyn_baker1 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971367640 -her body language - she was nervous
-Sheldon does a double take
-Kevin stands up in awe
-Kevin gives her a the chance - to thrive or to fail?
-one guy opened a folder instead of paying attention
-she is the only black female in the room]]> 2020-11-30 14:27:00 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971367640 angela_barone1 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971377242 -dismissive
-rude
-unimportant]]> 2020-11-30 14:28:52 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971377242 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971381585 Shut Up
Challenging Buzz
You're a toy
Intimidation

Other toys were trying to get to know him.
Being Friendly

]]> 2020-11-30 14:29:42 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971381585 angela_barone1 https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971391349 Boss makes her feel included
Boss stands up when she gets up to talk
"I like your numbers"]]> 2020-11-30 14:31:32 UTC https://padlet.com/drew_rock/nziv0f3jz31m2jmb/wish/971391349