Talking to the Perfectionist - Zach by Zubaidah https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x Mental Fitness en-us 2022-02-23 00:54:02 UTC 2023-05-05 14:33:17 UTC hello@padlet.com Please key in your thoughts under your group's column. zubaidah_leyman https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061625079 In your groups, discuss and write down how you can help Zach manage his expectations by answering the following questions:
•What questions can Zach ask himself to rationalise his unhealthy expectations? 
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•With reference to these questions, what self-compassionate statement(s) can Zach use to replace his critical voice(s)?
]]> 2022-02-23 00:54:02 UTC https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061625079 Jolibee https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061793776 Is it real?
Does it matter how many follower and likes there are?
What is my goal in life?


That life is beyond the online world ]]> 2022-02-23 03:06:50 UTC https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061793776 https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061797406 What can I gain from getting likes and good comments ?
Why do I care about what other peeps says ?

]]> 2022-02-23 03:09:42 UTC https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061797406 https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061798305 Questions
1) Did celebrities start off with such a high following?
2) How long do you think it takes for someone to gain popularity?
3) Are you being realistic?
4) Is this obsession unhealthy?
Self-Compassionate Statements
1) Nobody starts with a high following, everyone starts from scratch.
2) It takes time to garner up a large following, don't be impatient.
3) By setting up unrealistic expectations, you will stress yourself more, so avoid doing such.
4) Yes, it's unhealthy as it will affect how you interact and act around people offline and online. You still have friends and your family's support.]]> 2022-02-23 03:10:25 UTC https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061798305 https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061799060 Zach should ask himself if its rational to be worried about the amount of likes and followers he gets and whether they define who he is. He should also think about how unrealistic his expectations are when growing his account and that it takes time to gain popularity. Comparing himself to other peoples post is unhealthy and that negative comments that he gets online should not make him feel lousy.]]> 2022-02-23 03:11:01 UTC https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061799060 https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061799122 I can play online chess against random and do fornite dance so I can gain self confidence by making online kid friends and talk to them -the jet

I do not need people to like me or judge me I am who I am I do what I want no one can Stop me I’m a beast I’m a living legend  I am the best no one can beat me I’m just a genius I can have more Instagram followers than Cristiano Ronaldo ]]> 2022-02-23 03:11:05 UTC https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061799122 A Bizarre Discussion zaim_zuhaili_hakim_mohammad https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061802461 Is it healthy to seek validation online?
Is doing this detrimental to myself?


I am enough, I dont need to prove myself to anyone.]]> 2022-02-23 03:13:35 UTC https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061802461 https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061803465 He can tell himself that his friends are not interested in the app anymore and delete it or he can tell himself that his friends are busy with homework.
He can also tell himself to have a better and fun content so more people will like it]]> 2022-02-23 03:14:17 UTC https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061803465 https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061805318 • tell him to get off social media for a while, suggest that he could go to a rage room 🤩👍 (touch grass)
• give him a gentle reality check, his expectations are too high as well as giving him some comfort 🫂
• if he really wants to grow an IG oage, he can just try asking for advice or look up videos as well but, at the end of the day your well-being comes first bro idk]]> 2022-02-23 03:15:29 UTC https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061805318 Hello https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061806274 1)Get a therapist to help the poor guy. =
2)Is it worth his time to get more likes/followers on social media
3)he can tell himself that it does not matter
4)he sould face reality and understand that he cannot please everyone.
5)he should not be so focused on social media and focus more on school life. 
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Is my expectation too high?
Should i try a different technique to reach my expectation?


I just need to have a different approach to my expectations]]> 2022-02-23 03:16:49 UTC https://padlet.com/zubaidah_leyman/ntjobabujb016j6x/wish/2061807053