Victim Blaming by Yuli Yuliana Teresa Orellana https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3 en-us 2024-02-23 07:32:48 UTC 2024-02-29 04:37:10 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f63f.png Goals yuli3832 https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2893338124 In this I will research what is victim blaming, how does it affect us, and how to solve it. With this research i hope to create a ted talk that will educate, raise awareness, and help solve victim blaming. While also seeing how stereotypes and the legal system play a part in victim blaming.]]> 2024-02-23 07:39:04 UTC https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2893338124 Questions yuli3832 https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2893341859
  1. How does societal culture and upbringing influence attitudes towards victim blaming?
  2. What role do gender norms and stereotypes play in perpetuating victim blaming behaviors?
  3. How do media representations contribute to the normalization of victim blaming?
  4. What are the consequences of victim blaming on the mental health and well-being of survivors?
  5. What strategies or interventions are effective in reducing victim blaming attitudes and behaviors?
  6. How does the legal system handle cases of victim blaming, and what reforms are needed to address systemic issues?
  7. What are the intersections between victim blaming and other forms of oppression, such as racism, sexism, and homophobia?

]]> 2024-02-23 07:42:44 UTC https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2893341859 Popular stereotypes yuli3832 https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2893347844
  • Women must be submissive to men
  • Men should excersise coercive control
  • Men have the right to discipline women
  • Women cannot deny their male partners sex
  • Sexual harassment is normal 
  • Women get hurt because of how they dress
  • All women should be mothers
  • Girls are “valued” as wives not individuals 
  • stright is the only sexual orientation that is okay
  • Divorced women have less “value”
    • things like this are harmful becuase instead of supporting people they make women feel worthless
    ]]>     2024-02-23 07:49:45 UTC https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2893347844     Stereotypes yuli3832 https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2893352093 Men are tough, have no emotions, aggressive, and can’t be vulnerable 

    Mens “value/reputation” is determined be the loyalty and obedience of “his women” (like wife, sister, daughter)

    Men are weak/gay if they agree with feminists 

    Men can’t have pure intentions 

    Women who protect their rights “hate men” or are “unladylike”

    Womens purpose is to satisfy/pleasure men

    Nudity is more acceptable for men than women 

    Men are the breadwinners and women are stay at home moms


    ]]>     2024-02-23 07:55:06 UTC https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2893352093     Rape yuli3832 https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2893354055 1 in 5 women get raped in their life

    1 in 14 men get raped in their life

    Women are almost 3 times more likely to get raped 

    Its unfair that men get raped but their is  little to no representation for them.]]>     2024-02-23 07:57:47 UTC https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2893354055     Rape kits yuli3832 https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2893357964 Its hard to get your abuser in jail/punished for their rapes/asult if you have no concrete proof. The best way to “catch” them is by using a rape kit. This will collect dna and will help identify them if you dont know who it is or if you do know this will be proof. But in general when people go to report not much happens unless you have proof like recordings, messages, dna rape kit test, or a confession from the abuser.]]> 2024-02-23 08:02:16 UTC https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2893357964 Men yuli3832 https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2893431400 A lot of time men are always asu,ed to be the only ones who rape but women also do.

    A lot of the time men say that when they report rape that they get told that they must be joking or that they probably enjoyed it. It is unfortunate and unreasonable that any person no matter gender is told that they liked/enjoyed getting assaulted.]]>     2024-02-23 09:29:48 UTC https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2893431400     Rape statistics yuli3832 https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2896990137 Just 2 in 100 rapes recorded by police between Oct' 2022 and Sep' 2023 resulted in someone being charged that same year

    Sometimes the court seeings take 2 years of waiting p

    According to rape crisis . Org
    “But most survivors don't report it to the police
    5 in 6 women who are raped don’t report – and the same is true for 4 in 5 men.
    Lots of these survivors tell someone else what happened. So, why don't they tell the police?
    40% said ‘embarrassment’
    38% said they didn’t think the police could help
    34% said they thought it would be humiliating”

    ]]>     2024-02-27 04:20:47 UTC https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2896990137     Boys will be Boys yuli3832 https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2896996780 This is hurtful for many reasons 
    1. It assumes that the offenders are boys
    2. It lets boys get away with things instead of being held accountable 
    ]]>     2024-02-27 04:29:06 UTC https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2896996780     Believe Victims yuli3832 https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2897000819 One big way to support and change the victim blaming mentality is to believe the victim.

    Alot of people get told that they are lying for attention of revenge and that is rape was “real” it would be reported in the news. But the reason we don’t see it on tv often is becuase most people don’t report it since they think people won’t believe them or judge them.]]>     2024-02-27 04:33:52 UTC https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2897000819     Ask better questions yuli3832 https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2897003176 Instead of immediately asking what was she wearing or why was she drinking. We should instead ask why the abuse happend like the motives behind it. Becuase most of the time its not about the sex its about wanting power]]> 2024-02-27 04:36:39 UTC https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2897003176 Intro yuli3832 https://padlet.com/yuli3832/noamwmv2dlr84ml3/wish/2897014355
  • Hook: why does society confused the words scold and support. Instead of supporting victims of rape we instead blame them and scold them.Infact as a result of us blaming them only 1 in 5 victims reported it to the police claiming that it would be too embarrassing or that no one would believe them. Now i know some of you might not know what victim blaming is. The definition of victim blaming is the action of telling someone who has been sexually assaulted that it happened as a result of their actions/choices. This needs to be solved. We need to support victims not place guilt and burden on them. They need support to recover mentally and physically 

  • I have one really important thing, a question. Why or how does society confuse the words support and scold? Instead of supporting victims of rape we blame them, scold them, tell them that it's all their fault.

  • Only 1 in 5 people report sexual assault because of a not-so-little thing called victim blaming. They hide and shame themselves because we as a society make them feel like we won’t believe them or that we will blame it on them.
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