Free flow by https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb Post anything anywhere en-us 2024-08-18 11:14:38 UTC 2024-08-29 09:26:46 UTC hello@padlet.com Whiteboard! https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079781559 What a great idea!


I feel like having a whiteboard on calls would save me from Teams chat.

]]> 2024-08-19 08:29:56 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079781559 Words of wisdom from Moira Rose zcanfield1 https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079782641 2024-08-19 08:31:29 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079782641 https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079808459 2024-08-19 09:02:57 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079808459 What are the main behaviours and assumptions that you encounter at work that hinder you working at your best? butterfieldesme https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079812669 2024-08-19 09:08:49 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079812669 Free flow thoughts butterfieldesme https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079813029 2024-08-19 09:09:21 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079813029 Silence https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079819367 I find the silence of others in working groups oppressive. (Tell me if I'm doing something you do not like!)



]]> 2024-08-19 09:18:08 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079819367 https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079819428 That language needs to be all flowery to be acceptable. So many times people have rewritten what I've done and made it far more complicated than it needs to be.

]]> 2024-08-19 09:18:17 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079819428 Competing priorities https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079820139 2024-08-19 09:19:34 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079820139 https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079821073 Far too many meetings, it's difficult for me to come out of a meeting and transition to another area of work. If I have one meeting after another, after another my brain just explodes.

For example, I have 6 meetings tomorrow! How am I supposed to get any actual work done?

]]> 2024-08-19 09:20:33 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079821073 Microaggressions are really difficult to deal with in the work place https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079821451 2024-08-19 09:20:57 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079821451 Those who speak loudly or more confidently are getting their way https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079822082 2024-08-19 09:21:33 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079822082 Lack of clarity zcanfield1 https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079822143 I like freedom but need some structure to be productive. Also I know that I myself can waffle on in meetings and therefore need an agenda and clear actions otherwise I will chat around the topic alot.

]]> 2024-08-19 09:21:40 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079822143 Teams chat https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079822187 One reason this whiteboard is cool and being invited to post on it is that I tend to put all my thoughts in Teams chats. This might overwhelm others and I do not realise.

]]> 2024-08-19 09:21:45 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079822187 Not being given time to process https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079822358 2024-08-19 09:22:00 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079822358 not giving everyone around the table a voice https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079822458 2024-08-19 09:22:12 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079822458 Genuine belief that there is an Oxfam type and you need to fit the description https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079822762 2024-08-19 09:22:38 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079822762 https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079822769 My neighbours remodelling their house all day haha

]]> 2024-08-19 09:22:39 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079822769 fluffiness - just tell me exactly what you want from me https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079822970 2024-08-19 09:23:00 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079822970 That because an approach worked for someone else, it should work for me too. https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079823307 2024-08-19 09:23:19 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079823307 Talking too much https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079823436 Sometimes people may mistake talking for what is actually covering up discomfort. And I don't realise I am taking up too much space. Ironic given how much I obsess over/ worry about taking up too much space.

]]> 2024-08-19 09:23:31 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079823436 The pressure to contribute in workshops paralyses me even more!!! https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079823865 2024-08-19 09:24:05 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079823865 Imposter syndrome https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079823956 2024-08-19 09:24:11 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079823956 Having to move instantly from one meeting to another all day with no time in between. Often with meetings overlapping https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079823987 2024-08-19 09:24:11 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079823987 total disregard or understanding of what add value I can bring to the conversation and/or project https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079824013 2024-08-19 09:24:15 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079824013 Small talk in sessions https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079824137 2024-08-19 09:24:29 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079824137 Feeling guilty if I'm not in a meeting... zcanfield1 https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079824740 Too many meetings and burnout from back to back days of meetings. Large working groups are a struggle for me to engage with as there can be 15+ people in a call and sometimes it feels like a competition of who can share the most.

]]> 2024-08-19 09:25:26 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079824740 Pact behaviours and isolation of non-typical voices https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079825181 2024-08-19 09:26:09 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079825181 Remote culture makes it harder to develop friendships, making work life quite formal - I miss work lunch time chats! https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079825313 2024-08-19 09:26:23 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079825313 https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079826526 The culture of not complaining about anything, that everything is just rosy and we should all just be grateful.

]]> 2024-08-19 09:28:12 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079826526 Expectation to move at a fast pace like everyone else. But also sometimes being 10 steps ahead in thought and not knowing how to break it down for others https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079827549 2024-08-19 09:28:54 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079827549 Would love to be fully remote ;) https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079828157 2024-08-19 09:29:37 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079828157 Background conversation. I get off-put by it very easily when in the zone, especially when talking with customers. https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079828764 2024-08-19 09:30:24 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079828764 Feeling like I'm presenting to no one on teams - cameras all off or blank faces makes me feel very self conscious https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079829191 2024-08-19 09:31:10 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079829191 https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079833689 2024-08-19 09:37:56 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079833689 I am so much more confident presenting with my camera off. https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079835700 2024-08-19 09:40:43 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079835700 ND people are just the best xxx https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079865423 2024-08-19 10:30:37 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3079865423 Are there any other thoughts you would like to share? butterfieldesme https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3092778674 2024-08-28 20:32:40 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3092778674 Managers need to be looked after. They're often being managed the least... Happy to chat about this one - Garry butterfieldesme https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3092778799 2024-08-28 20:32:47 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3092778799 Processing butterfieldesme https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3092778839 Processing delays can affect time taken to understand a task as well as interpretation of conversations.

]]> 2024-08-28 20:32:51 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3092778839 Resources butterfieldesme https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3092778950 More tools and resources provided will make it easier for individuals to understand their strengths and work preferences, thus making it easier to communicate to their these to their managers. I have previously received the support of an Oxfam coach and it was amazing working on the challenges I faced. Do we have coaches who are skilled in supporting neurodivergent individuals?

]]> 2024-08-28 20:32:56 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3092778950 What are the main behaviours and assumptions that you encounter at work that hinder you working at your best? butterfieldesme https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3093726328 2024-08-29 09:26:46 UTC https://padlet.com/butterfieldesme/ni4lu42mpxicnkbb/wish/3093726328