Put in Context a Coach Approach by

get more feedback from staff on their performance

stacey_wyse — 2023-11-03 03:25:46 UTC

Meet with team to talk about their goals individually. ask question what they

stacey_wyse — 2023-11-03 03:26:48 UTC

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Mindset- shift to listening to what adult children are thinking

explore things together, mindset - i don't have to know it all

stacey_wyse — 2023-11-03 03:27:46 UTC

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Asking children to stop and think instead of giving concrete steps

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Learning to listen really well with older children

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Learning to ask non-judgemental questions to explore what is hindering progress towards goals

the different cultures - look at how coaching fits in with the culture.

stacey_wyse — 2023-11-03 03:29:34 UTC

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Use more pure questions to invite thinking with older children

be intentional in talking with staff, connect check in how staff are doing.

stacey_wyse — 2023-11-03 03:30:08 UTC

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Older parents - do not need to be an expert, can let them make good decisions

2023-11-03 03:31:05 UTC

Make sure your teammate feels like you care about them, not just the work they produce. (Consider cultural context).

2023-11-03 03:31:25 UTC

Hear more from adult kids - allow them to express freely

Use for running meetings. a great way to end with actions steps

stacey_wyse — 2023-11-03 03:32:04 UTC

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Give spouse another way to get advice from themselves

Performance review, set goals then review are more intentional

stacey_wyse — 2023-11-03 03:32:51 UTC

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Helps us to hear our kids instead of just talking at them

when people come to me for questions i can help them thinking too to come up with solutions.

stacey_wyse — 2023-11-03 03:33:20 UTC

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Greater connection and freedom, better family dynamics

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Responding less judgmentally

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Asking better questions and giving better choices

2023-11-03 03:35:23 UTC

More thoughtful, responsive conversations

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Keeping an organic relationship with grandkids

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Be careful not to be judgemental and but ask questions in a neutral open way

help an older people finish well by asking - what would help you finish well?

stacey_wyse — 2023-11-03 03:38:23 UTC

asking questions to help people get buy in

stacey_wyse — 2023-11-03 03:39:35 UTC

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Coaching is not our only role in life, there will still be rule-based conversations

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Coaching is one of many tools

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Have a mindset of trying to figure out what support is needed/lacking in the current situation (training, assistance, follow-up)

2023-11-03 03:41:22 UTC

Coaching is one tool to give more autonomy/empowerment to TCKs

2023-11-03 03:42:29 UTC

Consciously set aside my proposed solutions and help my teammate to self-reflect on what might be helpful to them.

Can practice the skills with a friend to get more comfortable using them in work

stacey_wyse — 2023-11-03 03:42:36 UTC