The origin of the concept of affective
responsibility is synthesized around the
reflection on the concept of Polyamory. View
open relationships from an ethical perspective.
Faced with the idea that the polygamous
community had no values and behaved
irresponsibly and narcissistically in their
relationships, the term affective responsibility
emerged as a form of behavior within "ethical
non-monogamy".

Affective responsibility refers to the fact that our
actions have consequences for other people and, therefore, we must pay attention to how we relate, applying the respect, communication, empathy and care that each bond requires.

 

En el mayor de los casos las personas que hacen ghosting prefieren o suelen evitar tener conversaciones difíciles, esto puede ser por diversos motivos, como ansiedad, falta de confianza, malas experiencias, etc, por lo que prefieren simplemente evitar la situación y desaparecer. 

Viéndolo desde el punto de vista de la victima, probablemente esa persona se sintió triste, desilusionado/a o enojado/a, ya que de un día para el otro, alguien con quien hablabas cotidianamente desaparece sin explicación, dejándote sin respuestas y preguntándote ¿qué hice mal? ¿dije algo que le molestó? ¿seré yo el problema?, entre muchas otras preguntas que te hacen dudar de ti mismo, y que por consecuencia solo te crean inseguridades. Al final de cuentas, lo más saludable es aceptar que el otro decidió desaparecer que tratar de entender porque lo hizo. 

Inglés:

Ghosting is understood when two people who were maintaining a contact or relationship, usually through social media, suddenly stop responding without leaving any explanation to the other.

In most cases, people who do ghosting prefer or tend to avoid having difficult conversations, this can be for many reasons, such as anxiety, lack of confidence, bad experiences, etc. So they prefer to simply avoid the situation and disappear.

Looking at it from the victim's point of view, that person probably felt sad, disappointed or angry, since from one day to the next someone you talked to on a daily basis disappeared without explanation, leaving you without answers and asking what did I do wrong? Did I say something that upset you? Am I the problem?, among many other questions that make you doubt yourself, which consequently only create insecurities. In the end, the healthiest thing is to accept that the other decided to disappear, than to try to understand why they did it

Puesto que las parejas principalmente suben momentos de gozo, amor y felicidad, no cuando tienen diferencias o desigualdades, el resto de las personas que ven las historias se forman esta “película” de que todo es perfecto, de que todo funciona a la perfección, generando así ansiedades en los individuos  cuando se encuentran en un a”pelea” o diferencia con sus parejas, pensando que es el final de la relación o que ya no le gusta a la compañía del otro, como consecuencia se forma un “nube” de inseguridades y dudas sobre la conección formada. 

This generates certain expectations on the part of the receiver, thus forming a proper and erroneous concept of how relationships are supposedly seen and/or formed, since they are all unique and undergo different processes, at different times.
Since couples mainly upload moments of joy, love and happiness, not when they have differences or inequalities, the rest of the people who see the stories form this "movie" that everything is perfect, that everything works perfectly , thus generating anxieties in individuals when they find themselves in a "fight" or difference with their partners, thinking that it is the end of the relationship or that the company of the other no longer likes it, as a consequence a "cloud" is formed. of insecurities and doubts about the connection formed