https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp How do expectations affect you? How do expectations of perfection affect relationships and identity? What do you think perfection is? Is perfection achievable or realistic? en-us 2020-03-02 20:06:55 UTC 2020-03-03 15:06:55 UTC hello@padlet.com donohuem6 https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453665166 Expectations are cool as long as the expectation isn't perfection because THAT is impossible. I hear a lot of my friends talking about "releasing their expectations" of other people, but I don't know how they can hold people to a standard then. Maybe they can't? Maybe the only expectations that matter are the ones we have for ourselves?]]> 2020-03-03 14:52:54 UTC https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453665166 https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453665338 Expectations affect you as they manipulate you in a way. The expectations that others have for you forces you to live your life striving to who they want you to be not necessarily what you want yourself to be. Personal expectations are your personal goals and may result because of what you want to present yourself as, not disappointing those around you. Expectations can be for the better but it can also be for the worse.]]> 2020-03-03 14:53:07 UTC https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453665338 https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453665631 Expectations guide one's morals and values in certain situations. They develop one's reputation and distinguishes good from evil. It defines what is perfection in the eyes of influential figures such as mothers. The ultimate goal is to gain social acceptance and to feel worth.]]> 2020-03-03 14:53:26 UTC https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453665631 https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453666150 The expectations people have for me gives me a lot of pressure and stresses me out. I get anxious and ask myself if this is good enough etc]]> 2020-03-03 14:54:08 UTC https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453666150 johnson_sham https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453666158 Expectations can effect the opinion one has on others and therefore their actions]]> 2020-03-03 14:54:09 UTC https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453666158 https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453667192 my parents grew up in really poor areas and have moved up to middle class and they hope i can be in a comfortable position similar to them but that hope can end up being “i know you like doing this but you won’t be successful in it so chose something else” or “not good enough” ]]> 2020-03-03 14:55:29 UTC https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453667192 https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453667691 It effects what we do and how hard we work at it. Your actions going towards your expectations expect your personality in trying to for-fill these expectations. Perfection in my opinion is trying your hardest no matter what and yes that is achievable according to my definition. ]]> 2020-03-03 14:56:08 UTC https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453667691 https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453668005 expectations for me are serious and not so serious. i try my best to live up to my expectations and not on others because i know that i shouldn't pleased others on what they want me to be. though i do respect others opinions like my parents, i know they do expect certain things from me as their daughter but i try my best to do what works for me and leaves me happy in the end. i do know that if it is understood in a wrong way it can affect ones mind and relationship with anyone that person is with. overall i think its important to have healthy goals of expectations for yourself and others, because it makes you a better person. ]]> 2020-03-03 14:56:31 UTC https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453668005 https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453668106 I think expectations affect my morals, I have certain expectations for my grades and my sports in that I constantly want to get better, and it affects me at a person because I think expectations affect your future. I don't think people should have huge expectations of you if you don't want to achieve it, I think you have a big role to play in you own expectations and goals. I think people have different meanings of perfection. I think perfection is the best you can be, but people can look at perfection as nearly impossible to achieve. ]]> 2020-03-03 14:56:38 UTC https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453668106 https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453668437 Perfection is not achievable but what strengthens the relationship is seeing visibly the effort to reach and surpass the expectation and closer to perfection as possible.]]> 2020-03-03 14:57:04 UTC https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453668437 https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453677507 I think that expectations influence the way I act and why I make decisions. Expectations can be good and bad. Some expectations can help hold people accountable whereas other expectations can wear you down. I don’t think that anyone should expect perfection out of anyone. I do not think that perfection is achievable as perfection looks different by everyone’s standards.  ]]> 2020-03-03 15:06:55 UTC https://padlet.com/stuive_l/m6gcutpr2ccp/wish/453677507