What Would You Do? by Susan Wojciechowski https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6 en-us 2018-09-18 01:07:10 UTC 2018-09-27 17:27:53 UTC hello@padlet.com I would confront that student and replay the conversation and ask how they would feel if the same words were said to them - "listen to what your words sound like" https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652369 2018-09-27 17:23:54 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652369 Scenario https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652410 I would take that student off to the side and describe to them "how you would feel?" Depending on age, make lesson on body image or body types.]]> 2018-09-27 17:23:59 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652410 https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652427 At Shiloh Hills we do not treat our peers that way. How would you feel if someone said that to you?]]> 2018-09-27 17:24:02 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652427 I would ask to speak with the student for a minute and discuss why it wasn't a good choice and how they think they would feel if something like that would happen to them. https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652474

]]> 2018-09-27 17:24:05 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652474 I would ask the student, "Do you think this statement is kind?" "Do you think that it is true?" And get a dialog started. barkor https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652476 2018-09-27 17:24:05 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652476 Excuse me, may I please speak to you in the hall for a minute? https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652506 2018-09-27 17:24:08 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652506 https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652527 That is not kind or respectful. That is not how we speak to others at Shiloh Hills.]]> 2018-09-27 17:24:10 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652527 Ask the student how they would feel if someone said that to them. https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652556 2018-09-27 17:24:13 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652556 I would ask student's name and tell Mrs. Kulp to follow up kerste https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652570 2018-09-27 17:24:14 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652570 https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652573 I would quickly move to the group and change the conversation.  Assess body language of students to see how they are responding...pull students aside dealing with offended child's needs first, but following up with offender and having a conversation with them and taking the next appropriate step... tell teacher, call parent, etc.  Be sure the offended child is ok and talk with them... but try not to make it worse by making a big stink in front of the group to further the upset them.  Follow up on both.
\]]> 2018-09-27 17:24:14 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652573 https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652594 That was not a kind thing to say. Your words can be hurtful. ]]> 2018-09-27 17:24:17 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652594 https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652619 I would pull the child aside who made the rude comment and ask them how that comment would make them feel. I would ask that student to apologize. Then, I would find a quiet moment to talk w/the other student to let them know he/she should be proud of who they are.]]> 2018-09-27 17:24:19 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652619 Take S into the hallway/stern conversation in the hallway/Monitor that S giving the other S an apology/Report the incident to the classroom teacher for potential consequence implementation https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652625 2018-09-27 17:24:19 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652625 I would speak to the guidance counselor regarding the situation and talk to the student. https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652657 2018-09-27 17:24:23 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652657 come with me let's chat https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652666 2018-09-27 17:24:24 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652666 I would talk to the student after taking them aside to ask them how they would feel if someone said that to them. https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652679 2018-09-27 17:24:25 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652679 https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652688 I would pull the student out into the hallway and talk to them about the appropriateness of the comment and then ask them to apologize. ]]> 2018-09-27 17:24:26 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652688 I would have a conversation with the student about using kind words and review how to interact with classmates. https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652704 2018-09-27 17:24:28 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652704 https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652709 Pull the student into the hall to talk about not following the school rules]]> 2018-09-27 17:24:28 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652709 I would talk to the student privately about what they said and then have them apologize to the student. https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652711 2018-09-27 17:24:28 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652711 I would talk to the rude student individually asking how they would feel & if they think that is appropriate. Also, I would notify their homeroom teacher. I would also ask the other student if they are okay, talk if needed, and notify their teacher. https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652719 2018-09-27 17:24:30 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652719 I would pull the 2 students aside and talk with them, asking: What happened? How do you feel? Who is affected? How can you restore the relationship? What will you do differently next time? https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652756 2018-09-27 17:24:33 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652756 Pull them both aside and talk about the comment/situation https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652786 2018-09-27 17:24:36 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652786 https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652859 I would speak with the students privately and be sure to make Mrs. Kulp and the classroom teachers aware of the situation.]]> 2018-09-27 17:24:43 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286652859 I would pull the student aside and ask how they would feel if that was said to them https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286653017 2018-09-27 17:24:57 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286653017 https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286653019 That is not appropriate, nor is it kind. You must apologize to that student immediately. I would also have them think about how they would feel if someone told them this]]> 2018-09-27 17:24:57 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286653019 I would have a private conversation with the student about why they said that to the student and how it might make others feel. What is another choice you could make? https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286653277 2018-09-27 17:25:26 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286653277 I would https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286653309 2018-09-27 17:25:28 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286653309 I would say, "That is not polite. We don't say things like that at Shiloh Hills." https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286653341 2018-09-27 17:25:31 UTC https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286653341 https://padlet.com/wojsus/m5yczqgu6zg6/wish/286653785 I would first look at the child who was receiving the insult to see the child's reaction

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