I heard about you and Marc’s “situation-ship”, and I want to help you out. I know you are Marc have been together for 6 months and you feel like something is off ever since he wanted to go to that Bonfire. I’ve thought about it, and I think it’s best to just focus on yourself and break up with him. Coming from your best interest at heart, I think you should consider breaking up with Marc because you show so much affection and interest into him, and he doesn’t reciprocate the same energy. 

Marc doesn’t appreciate you; he doesn’t show that he is interested in your relationship. BY looking at your schedule I noticed that despite being so busy, you still take the time to plan dates while juggling all your activities like having a surprise date night for him on Saturday, showing that your care and are making a conscious effort. However, Marc continues to not support you at basketball games, categorize your dates as “hang outs”, and leave for a party 1 hour early instead of waiting for the end your basketball game (Source A). Speaking of the party. I also saw the messages; I was appalled at his dismissive and emotionless reaction. In my opinion, Marc would rather hang out with his friends then spend time with you, his girlfriend, he even suggested that you do something else instead of going to the party you were supposed to attend together. Marc is classless and a bad guy, which you don’t deserve (Source E). Not only to mention, for Saturday, you were planning to have a surprise date with Marc. The restaurant, “Melting Pot” is a high class, 4 course meal. Not to mention the expensive cost of it is not only for yourself but as a couple. The cost “Per Couple $95.95” and even individual was nearly $50! As a teen, you want to show acts of love and affection but you’re putting in a lot of money for just some boy you’ve been with for 6 months. This is a lot of money that can be used for yourself or even used for something important. As a girl still learning and exploring life and don’t want to put in effort like spending tons of money for a boy who doesn’t care (Source H).

Thank you, I hope you take this message into a consideration. 

I mean Carly let’s be real when saying that between you and Marc, you have more going on. While you have things like “youth group on Wednesday” and planning a veryyyyyy expensive “surprise date for Marc on Sunday” Marc is doing nothing. He works one day a week at McDonald’s and on your surprise date, his schedule says “hang w/Carly” along with a question mark. Like come on he’s clearly not on your level and you need to find a person who can not only keep up with you but love you just as much as you would(A). 

Along with everything else let’s look at these DMs. Marc is completely unenthusiastic when he’s texting you and this kind of energy isn’t good in a relationship. Not only is he unenthusiastic but he’s brushing you off TO HANG OUT WITH ANNA, not even saying she’s the one he’s going to the bonfire with. He also doesn’t seem like he prioritizes your relationship when he says, “We have date night tomorrow so we can spend time together then.” His schedule is completely empty from Tuesday to Thursday as shown in source A, but he still only spends 1 day with you. Personally, I would not accept that from a partner, especially one who’s been in 6 relationships in 1 year. But let’s look towards the DMs with Sara who is fully supportive of you and is willing to be there for you when your boyfriend isn’t (E).

Hey Carly, you should break up with Marc because he doesn't support you has little interest in you all's relationship and proves he is not loyal. Even though he may have proven to you to be a loyal and loving boyfriend he is not. You have a busy life, with basketball, school and programs while Marc does not. According to source A Marc’s calendar is clear on Tuesday-Thursday while, Carly your schedule is full all 7 days of the week (Source A). This is essential to show how marc puts no effort to supporting you or your relationship. As a boyfriend Marc should try to attend your games and make an effort to spend time with you which he doesn’t. This shows he doesn’t care about your or the relationship. On Source A it also shows how you have planned a surprise date for Marc. You are willing to do nice things for Marc. According to source H, the melting pot is a very expensive restaurant, and you would probably spend at least 130 dollars (Source H). This evidence is essential to show how much dedication you have to your relationship. Is Marc planning any surprise dates? No, he puts no effort into your relationship and has little interest. Planning out all these extravagant dates, wanting to hang out with your boyfriend is all dumped in the trash. Clearly Marc, is interested in hanging out with his “friends” more than spending time with his girlfriend. According to source G, from Anna’s Instagram on the night you were supposed to go see Marc at his friend’s house he had Anna on his back being friendly. Anna wrote on the post “No matter what, he’s always got my back! (Or… I have his. LOL).” (Source G). Does Marc prove to you that he always has your back? How can he have his Anna’s back more than yours. This post is essential to developing Marc’s character as unloyalty, untrustworthy and uninterested. Ultimately you have done so much to try and make your relationship work but, it is not working. It’s not you its him. Find you some one better and break up with marc 

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