KAIMH Beyond Behaviors Book Study by Courtney Hultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq Spring 2022 en-us 2021-12-16 19:52:42 UTC 2025-10-18 10:29:33 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-uploads.storage.googleapis.com/1490206378/69e09d3c68c9c32f304ffff2f89d74a7/Square_logo_KAIMH.jpg Mona's Website CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/1952542248 2021-12-16 19:52:42 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/1952542248 See Mona Delahooke Live! CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/1952542249 Mona Delahooke, Author of Beyond Behaviors is our Keynote speaker for the 2022 KAIMH Conference!

We hope to see you at the KAIMH Annual Conference on April 29-30th in Newton, KS! 

Registration link coming soon!]]> 2021-12-16 19:52:42 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/1952542249 Beyond Behaviors Book Study Schedule CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/1952542251 Guided Reading Checkpoints & Padlet Discussion Dates:
-Part 1 (Chapters 1-3): February 9th Discussion Questions Posted
-Part 2 (Chapters 4-6): March 2nd Discussion Questions Posted
-Wednesday, March 9th, 6-7pm LIVE Zoom Discussion**
-Part 3 (Chapters 7-9): April 11th Discussion Questions Posted
-Wednesday, April 13th, 6-7pm LIVE ZOOM Discussion**

**Zoom Links for BOTH Meetings:
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]]> 2021-12-16 19:52:42 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/1952542251 Mona's Blog CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/1952546042 2021-12-16 19:55:40 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/1952546042 Who's Ready!?! CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/1952550812 We're so excited for you to join our book study. My name is Courtney Hultgren and I'm excited to be the facilitator during our time together. Leave a comment with something your looking forward about the book study or where you're from! ]]> 2021-12-16 19:59:04 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/1952550812 Post Conference Book Study CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/1952557213 We're keeping this momentum going with Mona's newest book launching Spring 2022: Brain-Body Parenting. Join us for a second book study in May! 

The first 100 registrants to our spring KAIMH Conference will receive Brain-Body Parenting included in their registration! 

More details to come in late spring!]]> 2021-12-16 20:03:17 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/1952557213 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038520926 Discussion Questions, Part 1 (Chapters 1-3)

**Ground rules: Please do not include specifics details of a child, like name, features, etc. While we are discussing behaviors or actual experiences, we do want to honor and maintain confidentiality of the children and families we work with. Posts with a child’s name WILL be deleted as I cannot verify or validate if it is a fake name, etc. ** 

I will post each question individually so you can respond to each/as many questions as you want but still keep the thread and conversation with that discussion question.

Please feel free to add your own questions to this chat box.

]]> 2022-02-09 17:52:45 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038520926 Question 1 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038522019 1. What are your initial thoughts and what chapter, or idea resonated with you the most?

]]> 2022-02-09 17:53:15 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038522019 Question 2 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038523098 2. In chapter 1, Mona discusses “What’s wrong with the Status Quo?” Do you agree/disagree or have anything additional to include in this?

]]> 2022-02-09 17:53:43 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038523098 Question 3 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038524063 3. Have you been on the receiving end of one-type-fits-all feedback or plans that totally missed the mark? How would you have tailored the feedback or plan in a realistic and practical way, for you and the child?

]]> 2022-02-09 17:54:09 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038524063 Question 4 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038526073 4. Have you experienced the “expectation gap” or had to coach and work with parents experiencing the “expectation gap”? What did you do and how did you overcome it?

]]> 2022-02-09 17:55:01 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038526073 Question 5 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038527316 5. Have you had an “iceberg moment” with a child/family and how did you notice the “underwater” ice? What did you do after acknowledging the “underwater” ice?

]]> 2022-02-09 17:55:35 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038527316 Question 6 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038529642 6. What are some examples of neuroception you have seen in your day-to-day setting with children?

]]> 2022-02-09 17:56:36 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038529642 Question 7 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038531194 7. Have you heard of the Polyvagal Theory before and what are your thoughts? Do you agree/disagree with this theory and why?

]]> 2022-02-09 17:57:17 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038531194 Question 8 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038533557 8. On page 21, Mona writes: “Instead of focusing on what we do to children, we prioritize how we are with them. Instead of focusing on eliminating behaviors, we need to provide children with signals of safety (personalized to their nervous systems) that allow social-engagement behaviors to emerge spontaneously.” 

How do you think this would look in your day-to-day setting?

]]> 2022-02-09 17:58:20 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038533557 Question 9 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038535333 9. Can you think of a time where you thought a child’s behavior was top-down, intentional and planned, when it was really a bottom-up behavior, stress response? How would you react now, knowing that difference?

]]> 2022-02-09 17:59:10 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038535333 Question 10 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038537730 10. Is the house analogy helpful? Did you learn anything new? Will these process’ help you identify bottom-up or top-down behaviors and how?

]]> 2022-02-09 18:00:15 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038537730 Question 11 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038539286 11. Have you heard or used the color coded, green, red, and blue pathways before to identify a child’s behaviors? I’ve also seen these described using a car analogy, where the child is either in the driver’s seat (green), backseat (red), or in the trunk (blue). How did/does it change your approach to engaging with a child?

]]> 2022-02-09 18:01:02 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038539286 Question 12 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038541152 12. When evaluating or observing a child’s behavior and considering the child’s “underwater” iceberg, do you regularly consider the child’s sensory processing systems? If yes, what is your process, do you use a checklist like Mona’s example or another system. If no, is this something you are going to start incorporating and how.

]]> 2022-02-09 18:01:56 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038541152 Question 13 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038542563 13. Have you used the team approach when working with a child/family? Who all was included? What worked well, what could have been handled better?

]]> 2022-02-09 18:02:39 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2038542563 Question 11 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074897720 11. Share one example of when play with a child was successful in fostering a safe relationship or provided insight to the child that you previously did not know. How did that impact your play and experiences with the child moving forward?

]]> 2022-03-03 02:51:10 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074897720 Question 10 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074899233 10. Mona lists different de-escalation strategies on page 156. Do you have additional strategies that have worked well for you or have you used one listed and how was it successful for you, how did the child respond?

]]> 2022-03-03 02:52:04 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074899233 Question 9 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074899860 9. Pages 137-139 have the Pregnancy and Early Months and Early History Worksheets, have you utilized something like this before? What did you learn and how did it impact how you worked with the child/family?

]]> 2022-03-03 02:52:30 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074899860 Question 8 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074900535 8. Have you heard of the IDEA method before and how did it work when you used it?

]]> 2022-03-03 02:52:56 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074900535 Question 7 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074901242 7. Taking time to really invest and help a colleague that is on the red or blue pathway can be very intimidating and a challenging conversation. Shout out and highlight a colleague that has helped you get you back on the green path and how did they help you. 

]]> 2022-03-03 02:53:16 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074901242 Question 6 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074902299 6. For those of you who work in a team setting; have you notice a colleague experiencing red and blue pathway behaviors and how do you help get them back on the green pathway? 

]]> 2022-03-03 02:53:50 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074902299 Question 5 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074902941 5. What are some ways that you reconnect, center, and focus back on the green pathway when you feel yourself going down the red or blue pathway? 

]]> 2022-03-03 02:54:11 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074902941 Question 4 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074903598 4. Mona discuss’ our own emotions effecting how we engage with children and includes a worksheet for adults on page 109. Do/did you find this useful and how do you plan to address your emotions in the moment moving forward? 

]]> 2022-03-03 02:54:34 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074903598 Question 3 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074904213 3. How have you seen negative stress impact a child and were you able to change it into good stress?

]]> 2022-03-03 02:54:56 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074904213 Question 2 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074904849 2. What are some ways you have taken a space or interaction YOU thought was safe and made it safe in the eyes of the child?

]]> 2022-03-03 02:55:19 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074904849 Question 1 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074905377 1. What are your initial thoughts and what chapter, or idea resonated with you the most?

]]> 2022-03-03 02:55:40 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074905377 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074906019 Discussion Questions, Part 2 (Chapters 4-6)

**Ground rules: Please do not include specifics details of a child, like name, features, etc. While we are discussing behaviors or actual experiences, we do want to honor and maintain confidentiality of the children and families we work with. Posts with a child’s name WILL be deleted as I cannot verify or validate if it is a fake name, etc. ** 

I will post each question individually so you can respond to each/as many questions as you want but still keep the thread and conversation with that discussion question.

Please feel free to add your own questions to this chat box.

]]> 2022-03-03 02:56:05 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2074906019 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2142827615 **Ground rules: Please do not include specifics details of a child, like name, features, etc. While we are discussing behaviors or actual experiences, we do want to honor and maintain confidentiality of the children and families we work with. Posts with a child’s name WILL be deleted as I cannot verify or validate if it is a fake name, etc. 

]]> 2022-04-13 18:25:53 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2142827615 Question 7 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2142828186 7. How do you plan to make a difference?

]]> 2022-04-13 18:26:22 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2142828186 Question 6 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2142828897 6. Hope for the Future: What do you plan to implement moving forward after reading this book?

]]> 2022-04-13 18:26:57 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2142828897 Question 5 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2142830359 5. Have you heard of ACES or Trauma Informed care before? What do you think is most profound about either ACES or Trauma Informed Care?

]]> 2022-04-13 18:28:08 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2142830359 Question 4 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2142831001 4. Which case/child example and iceberg resonated with you most and why?

]]> 2022-04-13 18:28:38 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2142831001 Question 3 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2142831654 3. Have you had an intervention “backfire” for the child before? Obviously, there is the extinction burst experienced for some behaviors, but what about the interventions that caused more harm rather than achieving their targeted outcomes? What would you do differently if you could have a redo?

]]> 2022-04-13 18:29:11 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2142831654 Question 2 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2142832206 2. Have you experienced a time where an intervention was fueled by extinguishing a behavior rather than assessing the function and child’s perspective? What did that look like and what would you change after reading this chapter?

]]> 2022-04-13 18:29:28 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2142832206 Question 1 CourtneyHultgren https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2142832580 What are your initial thoughts and what chapter, or idea resonated with you the most?

]]> 2022-04-13 18:29:46 UTC https://padlet.com/CourtneyHultgren/lwfrp9avjx0l7mnq/wish/2142832580