https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1 Expression of joy for the man we call Dad, G-Dad, Tom, Tommy, Buddy, Fan, Neighbor, Churchgoer, Friend en-us 2021-03-03 15:27:09 UTC 2024-08-15 00:51:37 UTC hello@padlet.com ladyblazerbball https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1264300411 You are so very much cherished for your enthusiasm for everything you did. The way you insisted on a process and held to your principles is something I respect and I appreciate you for sharing a faith with me that continues to be a blessing. Love you always, Kacy]]> 2021-03-03 15:30:47 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1264300411 anita7456 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1265016270 You were my first brother-in-law! Thanks for letting me drive your Porsche to the University of Maryland campus! It was quite a thrill. Thanks for letting me use the VW station wagon so that I had transportation to the grocery store and other places while I was in college. Thanks for loving my sister and for fathering a fantastic niece and nephew and grandfathering a great-niece and great-nephew. You will be missed. Love, Anita]]> 2021-03-03 17:29:50 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1265016270 yirdas https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1265324106 I am honored and blessed to have
to known you and your family for the last 16 years. You were truly a blessing in my life. Your kindness and your enthusiasm for your family and to everyone you met. I remember we were talking  each other about  your grand children sport games  in the morning before the church program. It was priceless to see your excitement and inspiration about your grand children sport game . I remember one time we took the Sunday school  kids to roller skating after church may be about  5 or 6 years ago with Kacy and Tom and  my self.  I saw Tom was on the roller skating floor by himself. I asked him if he was skating before, he told me it was his first time with  a smile. I was surprised and inspired by his limitless action. Remembering your wonderful and gentle soul will forever remain in our hearts. May you rest in peace
Love , Yirda]]> 2021-03-03 18:23:36 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1265324106 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1265457186 Even before Craig and Kacy got married, I felt like we were family.  For the past 25 years, I have enjoyed our banter back and forth about your Spurs or your Steelers or your OSU Buckeyes.  Between family events and athletic events, we had the opportunity to interact often.  Your presence always made those activities more enjoyable.  You will be missed, but your spirit will live on in your children and grandchildren.  My family and I will miss you, but we are better off because we had the opportunity to know you.
Love, Rusty]]> 2021-03-03 18:46:25 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1265457186 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1265572895 I will always remember you happiness and joy, especially in your pride in your dear family. Thanks, also, for all you have done over the years for our church. You will be missed. Fondly, phyllis]]> 2021-03-03 19:08:00 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1265572895 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1266629338 When our Craig married your Kacy, Russell and I became one family with you and Delores.  We loved Kacy and you loved Craig.  The four of us greeted Baby Satori and later Baby Anthony (Ace) minutes after their births.  We loved sharing these grandchildren.
In recent years, after Delores passed, I picked you up many times so we could attend basketball games and school events.  Those rides together are my favorite memories.   You had wonderful stories about Delores, Kacy, and your son Craig.  I admit I heard some of them several times,  but that makes me smile even now.   
I will miss you, my good buddy.
Bunny Valentine. ]]> 2021-03-04 00:45:45 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1266629338 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1266743044 AAU basketball, major league baseball of the 1950s and 1960s, modern jazz of any age, NFL greats of the 60s, serving in the military, favorite places to eat, favorite autos as youths, Ohio State vs. Penn State, the substance and meaning of life, and of course enjoying the exploits of our grandkids are just some of the conversations I have been blessed to have with you over the past 22+ years. The fact is as contemporaries, there was so much we did not have to say...because of our histories. We just "knew and understood." Thanks for your friendship. I will miss you.
In Christ,
Russ Valentine]]> 2021-03-04 01:24:44 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1266743044 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1270674457 I loved playing 1 v 1 with you in the driveway, as you racked up points for your team, the Heated Spurs, and tried to teach me to master the skyhook. I remember when you'd help me with my math homework, ensuring that I knew the answers not because I was guessing but because I understood the principal. You were always handing me something valuable, whether it be copies of a game you filmed or a printout of the weekly Bible lesson. 
I’ll miss seeing you at the top of the bleachers, always ready to capture the moment. I’ll even miss tearing you away from talking the ear off of the lady at the front desk at church about how proud of us you were. I admire how you approached so many things with such passion, and I’m so thankful to have shared those experiences with you.
Love, Tori

]]> 2021-03-04 18:39:37 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1270674457 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1271102532 Tom and I spent many fun hours together playing sports when we were both much younger. We loved playing basketball, football and tennis. Although he generally won, it was fun for me because we both enjoyed sports for its own sake. For us it was (mostly) not about winning or losing but putting each other to the test. He also managed to do the 'color' analysis, showering either of us with praise for our good plays.
We played until we were both totally exhausted practically every time we got together.
Remarkable to see how much his passion for sports has been passed down the generations of his and Delores' offspring. He was rightfully proud not only of their skills at sports, but also their academic skills. He was a smart guy too. Tom had in fact many good qualities to pass on for which he will be missed.
Uncle David]]> 2021-03-04 20:04:33 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1271102532 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1271790700 Brenda Evers]]> 2021-03-05 00:20:16 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1271790700 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1272539763 From the moment you put up a sign “It’s a Boy!” on the garage it’s been nonstop blessings to have you as my Dad. You’ve taken me places, taught me things, helped me, cherished me in ways that are uncountable, immeasurable and infinite.  I can’t thank you enough for how much I appreciate you in any other way than to live a life that makes you proud. For that it’s my sign to shine, “It’s a man!” Thank you, Dad, for the forever past, the brightest future and the eternal now! 

Love, Craig J.]]> 2021-03-05 05:41:29 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1272539763 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1273265383 I’ve known you and your family for over 25 years. You always  had the fire of love in your eyes as you greeted me and everyone else. It was a privilege for me to serve on committees with  you. You will never be forgotten.
David Olson]]> 2021-03-05 12:03:11 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1273265383 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1275516948 You were a brother-in-law that  always welcomed us into your home during our many visits from New Jersey. The fun visits for Danny and I to get to know you even better, and more importantly, for our children (Jason, Kacy and Craig) to bound at an early age.]]> 2021-03-05 20:37:39 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1275516948 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1275942389 This is Rick, your Association classmate. We spent 2 weeks together in class and I got to know you as such an amiable guy and good hearted Christian. Even though you were a  Steelers fan and I an Eagles enthusiast, we got along fabulously. To me you seemed to enjoy everyone you met and I would guess that there aren't many people that didn't like you. The thing that stood out to me most was how much you loved your family and especially your grandkids. You talked about them all the time and I could tell how proud you were of them, particularly their sports accomplishments. Even though you're not with us in body, your spirit continues to live on in many ways.  I feel blessed my brother to have known you.
Rick Fitzer]]> 2021-03-06 00:26:35 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1275942389 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1276741585 It has been such a blessing to know you all these years. You have been a positive role model to me in so many ways as a parent, church member, teacher, family member, and leader. I have watched you shine in each of these roles through many events and interactions over the years. Your dedication to family, principled living, and joy will continue to inspire me. Also, I will never forget your hearty laugh! You are loved and blessed. Your life work lives on in your children, grand children, and all of us whom you have touched. Through faith, we understand that all has been, is, and will be well. Much love, Ebere]]> 2021-03-06 15:02:44 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1276741585 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1277181040 A fond memory:  The three of us, you, me and Delores were chatting outside of Amherst House, when a stranger joined us, and expressed much gratitude for something you and Delores had done.  You too graciously accepted the praise, but I remember this as a true testament of who you are - for all eternity.  The multitude of blessings, the fun, joy and mutual stories about football games, military, church, sports and family accomplishments shared with pride and a great sense of humor and fun, all add up to cherished memories.  You are dearly loved.

Cathy Lindenau

]]> 2021-03-06 20:13:41 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1277181040 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1279593401 Dear Uncle

Riding bikes on the bike path in Thunder Hill, washing the cars for fun and than going to get something afterward usually ice cream at Oakland Mills village center. The loud voice directed at the tv cheering your team on and also rides to my Columbia Association basketball games. The many family cookouts at your house and can’t forget the slideshows too. Words of wisdom and always fostering family, that’s from GOD and you uncle. Growing up l’m pretty sure you were the wind beneath many wings. One of my last times was a trip to MVA with uncle Tommy and so what a better place to sit, wait and listen...I listened and gave ear to all the stories he had to share. My fondest memories

GOD BLESS AND LOVE,
NIKKI

]]> 2021-03-07 23:24:01 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1279593401 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1279764889 When was a new engineering student you were encouraging and supportive to me as i contemplated my way forward. 
Likewise, you advised me when, as i approached college graduation, on my decision to enter military officer candidate school. 
i was blessed to have a life and a career that very few people, throughout history, have enjoyed. And you certainly played a positive role in my life and my achieving that career. I never forgot your help during your life and i will never forget your help; now that you have gone Home.
Rest in Peace Tommy and thank you for being a great mentor, advisor and first cousin.

Winston]]> 2021-03-08 00:55:25 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1279764889 ladyblazerbball https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1280049518
May the Peace of Love and comfort, protect your spirit ,mind and Heart.  Tom Loved his Music, his photos and sharing the lives of his family. He had a passion for life and loved being a part of his children and families lives, their sports and their education. 
Cling to your memories. He will always be there in your hearts and in the wind that blows softly against your faces.

]]> 2021-03-08 02:49:18 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1280049518 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1280541875 From Marc and Tia
I’m thankful for the privilege of having known Tom and for having been able to spend some quality moments with him over the years.
I initially met Tom as my brother’s Father In Law, but he and I also quickly bonded over our shared love of Music. Jazz music in particular. I always enjoyed our conversations about music. He had a real love and passion for music.
Whatever the subject was actually..., music, sports, family.., I was always left with a good feeling after engaging with Tom.
I’ll always remember fondly the time my wife, Tia and I spent an afternoon and evening at The Capital Jazz Fest with Tom and his nephew, Sammy. That was a beautiful day. Great music, good conversations and family. 
Last year, after a family function at my parents home, Tom began to tell me all about his history coaching Kacy’s basketball teams when she was younger and all about his recruitment activities with young people back then and over the years that I had never known about. 
Tom and Delores were both very special people and I feel fortunate to have known both of them. Anyone who knows Kacy or her brother Craig, know instantly that they are cut from a special cloth.
Both were beacons of goodness in this community, like so many of the Columbia parents from that generation who many of us have had the great fortune of being reared by and, or inspired by.
My thoughts and prayers go out to all his family and loved ones. He will be missed dearly.
♥️





Sent from my iPhone]]> 2021-03-08 06:14:56 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1280541875 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1281762767 I'm thankful that I got to know you in my life. I appreciate how you would always ask how I'm doing at church or when you were over the house, and how you would give me valuable lessons. It was always fun going to basketball games with you; you were always so supportive. I miss laughing at the table when you would hum and talk about how good the food is. I remember washing the cars for you and doing yard work, and still have those contacts you made us sign. One time when we went inside from doing work and me and Tori played Beyonce and you started dancing ;those were fun times. G-Dad you will always be in my memories and I will cherish those memories forever.

Love, Kaylee ]]> 2021-03-08 12:58:47 UTC https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1281762767 cscolumbia2020 https://padlet.com/ladyblazerbball/lvgg3ij048dt50c1/wish/1281967353 I don't know what our church will be like without you. Your joy, your enthusiasm for all things, have been so "there." I remember years ago when you used to walk around with a folder of clippings about Kacy's sports accomplishments. Later, you had a pad to show actual videos of Tori and Ace. There was never a dad more proud! And Craig was clearly your rock in so many ways over the years.
When I think of you, I cherish how you and Delores built such a loving family. Craig, Kacy, Tori, and Ace are a testimony to so much good in your heart and in your home. It has been an honor to call you all friends. You all have shown me what love looks like, and made me a better person.
Groove on, dear man! You are still bringing joy to those around you. Your influence for good continues and you will not be forgotten.

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