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hh

2020-05-17 22:55:38 UTC

I wouldn't entirely enjoy it, but I know it would be sincere given that I am willing to love knowing I will not get be reciprocated. I would enjoy being able to love freely as I wish not fearing if it was as much as they would or enough for them.

’

2020-05-17 22:58:27 UTC

Yes, look for recipes. Cause we're a book/reference kind of people.

hh

2020-05-17 22:58:34 UTC

Yes, honestly. It is a simple expression of love and one I can physically respond to in same way when I use it often to show my appreciation for the person as well.

’

2020-05-17 22:59:21 UTC

Check every minute! Sit by the oven and look and look. Cause excited and nervous at the same time!

hh

2020-05-17 22:59:57 UTC

I'd look for recipes to understand how it is made and then after experiment it to fit my preference and my taste.

Blessed struggle

2020-05-17 23:00:03 UTC

No. I don’t think I would enjoy it if I’m expecting to be loved in return too or if I hope for some form of relationship or togetherness or be somebody in that person’s life. But I feel I’ll be okay with one-sided love if it’s simply caring for that person, wanting the best for that person but I’m not hopeful for any relationship. Then I’ll be okay to “love from afar”

’

2020-05-17 23:00:06 UTC

Yes. Call out to God. And trust that He will send His aid.

hh

2020-05-17 23:00:33 UTC

I would time it haha but always shorter duration as expect in fears of burning or overbaking it. My excitement comes in the last 60 seconds as I check and stand before the oven watching the bakes hahahahaha

Blessed struggle

2020-05-17 23:00:57 UTC

Yes! Especially if it’s a surprise 😊 it makes me feel loved and shows me that the person thought of me and cares for me.

’

2020-05-17 23:02:11 UTC

Fulfilment of some sort. That we've served our purpose.

hh

2020-05-17 23:02:18 UTC

I ask God for help and then I do the best I can with what I have as much as I can and then I would leave it to Allah and go where it feels 'right'. But never just staying put to let myself go and accept my helplessness. If I die, I die trying hahahaha!

Blessed struggle

2020-05-17 23:02:36 UTC

I’ll look for recipe. But along the way if something doesn’t make sense or doesn’t work out, I’ll google for answers or trust my instincts based on previous baking experiences. Then Bismillah tawakkal 😊

’

2020-05-17 23:03:28 UTC

Cause what good is there in being the same as yesterday? Or worse, worse than the days before.

hh

2020-05-17 23:04:37 UTC

Being a benefit to the world.

Blessed struggle

2020-05-17 23:04:41 UTC

I’ll usually do other things while waiting. But if it’s the first time baking it, I’ll likely peek in the oven at around halfway through baking and closer to the end.

I’ll feel a mixture of excitement and nervousness and hopefulness.

hh

2020-05-17 23:05:21 UTC

Because I wouldn't be a benefit to others if I am not a better person. If I help myself first, I will be able to help others later.

’

2020-05-17 23:05:37 UTC

No. Its a give and take thing we thinks!

Blessed struggle

2020-05-17 23:06:41 UTC

I tell myself to calm down and remind myself I’m not alone. God is with me and He put me through this. Then dua for assistance, sabr and His protection and try my best.

’

2020-05-17 23:06:50 UTC

Yes if its a useful gift. So we can use it for good! Otherwise we wouldnt know what to do with it.

:)

2020-05-17 23:08:57 UTC

Maybe no but there's always hope for the love to become two-sided. And doing something for the loved one will make me feel good.

Blessed struggle

2020-05-17 23:09:03 UTC

Trying my best in all areas of my life and all roles God has given me. To put to beneficial use all of the blessings God has showered me with.

Antunna Kekasih Rasulullah

2020-05-17 23:10:13 UTC

To be able to present not the best version of myself, but the better "purified" version of myself to Allah SWT and Rasulullah SAW when the Day comes. Hence, the very reason we ask Allah to grant us good ending (husnul khotimah) :')

Blessed struggle

2020-05-17 23:13:01 UTC

Being a better version of myself will help me achieve what I want in this life (question 6) insya-Allah. And I can never be perfect, there’s always room for better. So I hope Allah will have mercy on me and be pleased with me for the efforts and struggle, ameen! 😭

:)

2020-05-17 23:14:29 UTC

Haha yes. It tells that the person is thinking about you and is putting effort to make you happy.

:)

2020-05-17 23:17:43 UTC

Look for recipes then mix and match them. To bake in a way that you can, using have the utensils and ingredients available

Antunna Kekasih Rasulullah

2020-05-17 23:17:53 UTC

Love is unconditional. Allah loves us unconditionally even though He knows our love for Him comes with countless conditions and terms.

However, we are human beings, we seek for reciprocation.

Personally, I feel that sometimes the love you receive back does not necessarily comes back from the same person. It may come from others whom Allah send. Because ultimately Allah is the source of Love itself.

:)

2020-05-17 23:22:03 UTC

I will try not to panic, calm down, ask Allah to show the way out and then just look around to see what can be done.

:)

2020-05-17 23:23:53 UTC

Allah's redha, and become someone that will make Rasulullah proud

Umm Humairah

2020-05-17 23:26:06 UTC

I don't think so. Because as humans, we love to be reciprocated. Like someone to respond when u talk, to return ur call and to also give you some love if u have given them love and care? Haha.

:(

2020-05-17 23:26:54 UTC

I feel ashamed with Allah for my sins and shortcomings. I wanna to become a better person before meeting Him after his life.

Umm Humairah

2020-05-17 23:26:56 UTC

Yes! Because it shows that someone cares about me. And i will try to reciprocate as well! Hehe.

Antunna Kekasih Rasulullah

2020-05-17 23:27:45 UTC

Well of course! It makes me feel loved, included and appreciated.
You only give gifts to those whom you feel for, whom you love/like/attracted to.
And by exchanging gifts only increases the love for one another.

Umm Humairah

2020-05-17 23:28:04 UTC

Look for recipe cos imma not an expert at baking. Haha. But i think once i have done it several times and da master it(cheh), then no need recipe already ah.

Umm Humairah

2020-05-17 23:29:07 UTC

I will check maybe once or twice, closer to the ending time given by the recipe..

Umm Humairah

2020-05-17 23:30:50 UTC

I will tell myself to calm down and chill..because when i panic i cant think. I will then make a quick prayer to ask Allah for help. Then i will just usaha and think how to problem solve my situation.

Umm Humairah

2020-05-17 23:31:07 UTC

Husnul Khatimah

Umm Humairah

2020-05-17 23:32:36 UTC

Because i am know i am super flawed. But i want to meet Allah and Rasulullah ﷺ with Qalbun Salim. Then how like that? Hahah. So must improve the self lah.

Reflecting

2020-05-17 23:36:23 UTC

No, I would not enjoy a one-sided love. A one-sided love sounds like a relationship lacking of appreciation, acknowledgement and kindness to the one giving love. While initially I may be willing to put in the love, effort and time into such a relationship, after a while it might take a toll on my heart and I stop bothering to tend to this relationship. But it probably is a reflection of my own shortcomings to not be able to love completely and unconditionally. (This makes me think of how Allah Loves us, His creation, and how Rasulullah saaw loves us, his ummah, but I'm not doing enough to show my appreciation 😭 yet the love keeps coming. May I learn to show my appreciation and put in more effort in this relationship before these Doors of Love and Light are closed).

Antunna Kekasih Rasulullah

2020-05-17 23:36:42 UTC

Baking a cake is not like cooking you can campak-campak and tadaaaa dah siaaap.

Baking is like science experiment, it needs a manual to at least understand it's basic structure. It requires a tedious step by step and exact measurement for it to be a perfect cake. Lest, you'll get a sunken or burnt cake.

Once you have master the basic steps by following the instructions, you can then add in your own flavours to it and tweak it's recipe to your own liking.

Reflecting

2020-05-17 23:39:54 UTC

Yes. Even more, I'll be touched by the fact that someone was thinking of me and cared enough to put in the effort to get me a gift.

Hi

hanissafe — 2020-05-17 23:41:49 UTC

The current me would say no. But I sure hope that I can muster enough love to be able to give love without wanting anything in return. The reason why current me would say no is that, isn't it kinda lonely? Maybe I'm feeling lonely now.

Reflecting

2020-05-17 23:42:41 UTC

Definitely. If it's my first time baking it I would follow a recommended recipe closely. After the first attempt, if there's anything that's not to my tastebuds/ didn't work out, I will modify accordingly inshaaAllah.

Hi

hanissafe — 2020-05-17 23:44:03 UTC

Instant answer, yes of course. But lately, if the gift is in a form of an item, I don't really appreciate it as much as I used to. Depends on the gift, I guess. I mean, I'm grateful of the thought and sentiment but some gifts can become a burden.

Antunna Kekasih Rasulullah

2020-05-17 23:45:20 UTC

If you follow closely to the baking instructions, most of the time it will tell you NOT to open the oven because of you do, the cake will sunken or will not rise properly.

So while waiting for the cake to bake, I'd proceed to prepare for it's icing or toppings. Or rather, busy myself with other beneficial things in anticipating the outcome of my cake.

I do not want to be wasting my every minute checking on something which is confirm will turn out to be a cake - it is just a matter of jadi ke tak jadi. I've done my best in following the recipe, so whatever results I get in the end, I know I've put my best effort, if it doesn't work out, I will try again, if not.. Prima Deli kan ada. Hahaha

Reflecting

2020-05-17 23:46:13 UTC

If it's my first time baking, I'll be in front of the oven pretty much throughout the whole process, excited, anxious for the cake to rise and bake well. Actually, even if it's not my first time baking, I'll still be watching my bakes closely. There's just something satisfying watching the transformation of baked goods + the smellllll. Yums.

Hi

hanissafe — 2020-05-17 23:46:39 UTC

Look for recipes. Although, based on my prior experience, even with a recipe, I have messed up a cake :(. I'd like to blame it on my cheap tempramental oven but it's probably just me.

Hi

hanissafe — 2020-05-17 23:48:16 UTC

If first time, definitely check very often. Probably more excited than nervous. Nervous because my oven is temperamental. Also, you should check by sticking like a toothpick or something right (clearly tak biasa bake cake)? I'd probably be doing this more often than I should.

Hi

hanissafe — 2020-05-17 23:50:37 UTC

Pray. Ask Allah for help. And then think of worse case scenarios and try to accept it that regardless, everything will be alright.

Hi

hanissafe — 2020-05-17 23:51:26 UTC

I want to achieve Allah's pleasure. I want to be free.

Reflecting

2020-05-17 23:51:52 UTC

I will cry. Haha. And I will seek Help through Patience and Prayer 😉

Hi

hanissafe — 2020-05-17 23:52:06 UTC

Maybe the current self feels incomplete. Like unsatisfactory. Like empty. I want to be full, with God's light.

Antunna Kekasih Rasulullah

2020-05-17 23:53:11 UTC

I was in a pit of helplessness (but not hopeless eh..) where every where I turn to, there isn't anyone who could help me with my situation, until He moved me to raise my hands in prayer, as sincerely as a broken servant is, I turned to Him and asked Him to grant me the best possible way out of that pit and to not leave me to my own affairs.
I felt an instant relief and soon after, my path became easy and everything was settled smoothly without even me realising.

Antunna Kekasih Rasulullah

2020-05-17 23:56:09 UTC

To be able to reach Allah even before meeting Him. To be a servant and at the service of His servants serving Him and Rasulullah SAW and the ahlul bayt.

Reflecting

2020-05-18 00:03:45 UTC

I want a sound heart. A heart free of worries, free of whispers, free of darkness.

mansouriyah

2020-05-18 00:09:16 UTC

No. Because it’s painful. Love is commitment and time invesment so anything that would divert my attention from Allah & Rasulullah, i would rather walk away.

mansouriyah

2020-05-18 00:14:55 UTC

Yes. Gift is a sign of remembrance. InsyaAllah it’s also a sign that they never forget me in thier doa’.

mansouriyah

2020-05-18 00:15:46 UTC

I would look up for the recipe and try as much as to use the same ingredients

mansouriyah

2020-05-18 00:18:39 UTC

I would do other things and maybe check on it every 30 minutes.

mansouriyah

2020-05-18 00:20:03 UTC

I will try and calm myself down first. I make doa’ and go for the best solution

mansouriyah

2020-05-18 00:23:42 UTC

To achieve Allah & Rasulullah’s redha. To be a thankful servant like Rasulullah. To serve the ummah (especially through al-Qur’an)

Reflecting

2020-05-18 00:25:10 UTC

To answer Allah's Call. There's just been wave after wave after wave of reminders, of Signs to do better, to be better. To forge a greater connection with the Deen, the Qur'an, Rasulullah saaw, the ppl Allah loves. I'm afraid that if I don't heed the Signs, they will stop. Allah will stop pulling me back to Him, naudzubillah.

hmm

2020-05-18 00:25:29 UTC

Now, no. But i hope one day i can love selflessly. happy cuz of the act of loving itself.

mansouriyah

2020-05-18 00:26:26 UTC

I want to be a better version of myself because i’m getting older and death is getting nearer. I want Allah & Rasulullah to be happy with me.

hmm

2020-05-18 00:26:41 UTC

Yes who doesnt! its a sign they think of me and want to make me happy =)

hmm

2020-05-18 00:28:20 UTC

knowing me i'll check recipe den i'll prepare what i can but if cannot den i just wing it and experiemnt

hmm

2020-05-18 00:31:32 UTC

i will leave it and check maybe closer to the designated end time to make sure it doesn't get overburn or if i need to leave it longer in the overn

hmm

2020-05-18 00:32:37 UTC

i will panic and den make so much du'a and selawat and jsut do my best since cannot do anyting else

hmm

2020-05-18 00:33:55 UTC

i dono =( but i just want Allah and Rasul to be happy with me

hmm

2020-05-18 00:34:30 UTC

becoz i know at how i;m going now, i will not have khusnul khotima. need to chang myself but dono where to start and feel drowning

SisW

2020-05-18 01:05:29 UTC

No, Cos I would not be happy with the relationship; where my love isn’t reciprocated. And if it continues, I may find other sources of happiness or to express my feelings which naudhubillah - may be from haram sources. So as to avoid all of the negative impacts which may reflect on both of us, I would avoid one sided love at all cost.

SisW

2020-05-18 01:14:15 UTC

Yes, receiving gift shows that the giver has place some efforts in remembering us. But a gift does not have to be a physical item; it can be a gift of advice or concern ie. Hence it’s as important to return the gift; it’s also spreading the love! 🎁

Bulan

2020-05-18 01:23:00 UTC

No, love is like communication. It goes both ways and theres an exchange. If its one sided, it be time wasting for both parties as its not beneficial.

SisW

2020-05-18 01:24:53 UTC

I would look out for recipes and follow as closely as possible. In order for the results to be similar / close to the one I’m expecting to look and taste like, there’s got to be a proper procedure to it - which shall not be missed. 🍰

NN

2020-05-18 01:25:13 UTC

No. Human love when not reciprocate is painful at first but eventually I will get over it. But I have yakin that with Allah and His Rasul (Sallallahu a’laihi wassalam) there is no such thing as one sided love coz His love know no bounds and we will never be disappointed. Only us humans make ourselves unhappy and blame.

Rin

NurinS — 2020-05-18 01:25:36 UTC

No, I would not enjoy one sided love because I want to love but I also want to be loved. If the feeling is not mutual, only a one way street, there is no way I can connect emotionally with that person which will only hurt my heart eventually. There is no relationship in a one sided love but we as human beings are created to be social beings. We tend to seek that communication and relationship with others. I definitely do not enjoy nor do I want a one sided love.

Bulan

2020-05-18 01:26:17 UTC

Yes tapi mcm rasa bersalah sebab tak dapat balas balik. :)

Bulan

2020-05-18 01:28:25 UTC

I have to look out for the recipes. Halfway follow the recipe, baru experiment ^^" mungkin sebab tu lah selalu tak jadi. Hehe

SisW

2020-05-18 01:29:47 UTC

I would do other things such as preparing for other food or finish up my work while waiting. Most recipes would say to not check oven bef the suggested duration. So I would follow as it is and let the oven does its wonders!⏳

Bulan

2020-05-18 01:30:29 UTC

I would wait anxiously by the oven. Perasan anxious and mixed with excited, kalau jadi, then its good news for the ones who will be eating it but kalau tak, Alhamdulillah then i have to finish most of it. >. <

Bulan

2020-05-18 01:32:33 UTC

Parents redha.. Parents redha is Allah's redha.

NN

2020-05-18 01:33:51 UTC

Yes especially from loved ones. It is a show of appreciation, love and care. It also strengthens bond between giver and receiver.

Bulan

2020-05-18 01:36:33 UTC

Unfortunately.. First reaction is to panic baru ingat Allah. May Allah forgive me. With remembering Allah, i find myself calm and not alone. Then He sends help..subhanallah

2020-05-18 01:37:32 UTC

Definitely look out for recipes. I know that i am not confident in baking so at the very least I need to know the basic ingredients.

Rin

NurinS — 2020-05-18 01:38:30 UTC

I love receiving gifts! It soothes my heart in a way I cannot describe because I feel that the gifter actually thinks about me to even care to give me a gift. I would also feel immensely grateful for the gifts that I get because gifts are not something I asked for yet I received. Receiving gifts at times would also be a way for me to reflect back on all my blessings, Alhamdulillah.

NN

2020-05-18 01:39:33 UTC

I will usually do other things. Checking up on the oven is good but not every minute. Perhaps every 15mins. I foresee few Ling excited for the end result and looking forward to tasting the cake.

NN

2020-05-18 01:42:15 UTC

Yes. Mulut terus baca apa2 dua yg dalam minda. La hawla wala quuwata illah billah. My heart silently praying that He send help ASAP. Then try to calm myself down and think of a solution.

SisW

2020-05-18 01:45:09 UTC

Panic! Then I would take deep breath to calm myself. And learn to accept that the situation was written for me. Once I’m no longer in denial / more accepting of it, I will recite any du’a or selawat that I can recall at that time.

NN

2020-05-18 01:45:39 UTC

The best of dunya and the best in Akhirat. A sound heart. Husnul khotimah. Allah and Rasul’s love (walaupun rasa jauh sgt). Reunited with loved ones in akhirat. Insyaallah insyaallah :’)

Rin

NurinS — 2020-05-18 01:46:09 UTC

I am not a risk taker to be able to experiment baking a cake from the start especially if I have zero knowledge about baking in the first place, so I would definitely look up the recipes. Only when I gained more knowledge on baking a cake, I would try experimenting with certain aspects of the cake such as trying different flavours and different ingredients. However, to bake a cake, there would always be that certain same steps that must be followed or else it won't turn out to be a cake so looking at recipes will help set the foundation of those steps.

NN

2020-05-18 01:48:09 UTC

Because I am not a good person and i really need to be better. I need to prepare myself to face Allah with this diseased heart and a dismal amal book. Hopefully Allah see my mujahadah in seeking Ilm and show mercy on all of us. Only His mercy matters. :’’)

💕

2020-05-18 01:49:43 UTC

No, I will not enjoy it probably because I have not reached the point in my life where I am able to love the way Rasulullah ‎ﷺ was able to, selflessly and unconditionally. My heart is still filled with disease and when I love someone, it would hurt to know that the love is not reciprocated.

I pray that Allah will grant us hearts that are able to love others unconditionally for His sake.

Rin

NurinS — 2020-05-18 01:53:17 UTC

I would not check it every single minute haha but I would check from time to time while doing other things such as cleaning those utensils I used for the cake or preparing the things needed when the cake is ready. The reason I want to check is so that I would not feel too anxious. If I check, I will know that my cake is not burnt in the process. As long as my cake is not burnt, I will remain calm.

💕

2020-05-18 01:54:12 UTC

Truthfully, I enjoy receiving gifts even if I may not like the item that I’ve received because I know that the person has put thought and possibly some love into the gift.

If I receive something that I like, I’ll be over the moon. If it’s food, even better. If it’s a gift that is not to my taste/liking, I will feel a bit burdened by it because I don’t know what to do with it. #firstworldproblems

💕

2020-05-18 01:55:40 UTC

I would look for the recipe even if I’ve baked it many times (just to be safe). If I don’t have the right ingredients, I might google/ask Ummi for substitutes that I can use.

💕

2020-05-18 01:57:18 UTC

I would set a timer and do something else because waiting for your cake to bake is so nerve-wrecking! I will usually distract myself by cleaning up and making lots of du’a that it will turn out well. I will be nervous and excited at the same time.

Rin

NurinS — 2020-05-18 02:02:05 UTC

This question reminded me of occasions of going shopping with my mum when I was younger. Somehow, my mum would always end up missing when she was too fast to go to other aisles or other areas and I didn't noticed because I was still busy looking at that same item lol. Every single time, I would have a mini heart attack + panic attack because I don't have a good sense of navigation to find my mum. But realising that I was all alone and no one can help me, I forced myself to calm down first because I need to think clearly of what I need to do. I would end up roaming around nearby to get a sense of direction and then I would go to certain areas that I know that she is most likely to go. If all else fails, I would just wait at the same spot and hope that she will come back for me. Alhamdulillah I would always end up finding her somehow haha.

SisW

2020-05-18 02:02:38 UTC

Maintaining a happy and healthy family life as well as a career which provide assistances to others (removing danger on public areas where everyone uses). Which I pray will results to Allah gathering me with Rasulullah and my loved ones in Jannah.

💕

2020-05-18 02:02:46 UTC

Biiznillah, I will recite
حسبنا الله ونعم الوكيل أو يا لطيف

💕

2020-05-18 02:04:47 UTC

Allah’s redha.

SisW

2020-05-18 02:11:57 UTC

to hope that ‎Allah & Rasulullah are pleased w me. to achieve husnul khotimah. to gain ‎Allah’s mercy. And with the current version of myself, I am too ashamed to say that I am nowhere near where I’d like myself to be. 😔

💕

2020-05-18 02:15:35 UTC

After digging deep into my heart, I realise that the answer is quite simple. All that I want is Allah, His Love, His Redha and to be with Him and al-Habib ‎ﷺ and right now, in the current state that I’m in, I don’t even deserve to be the dust at Rasulullah’s feet. If Rasulullah ‎ﷺ were to appear in front of me right now, I would cry out of embarrassment for letting him down. So the reason that I’m striving to be better, is so that there is effort taken on my part to reach Allah and His Rasul ‎ﷺ. And if I’ve put in effort and made du’a, I have full yaqeen that Allah will not forsake me because He is Ar-Rahman Ar-Rahim.

<3

2020-05-18 02:29:15 UTC

No, I will not enjoy it. It makes me think then why I would need to love, if it is not reciprocated. But even though I would not enjoy it, I think I still would go with it if it happens for special people, like my family. But not for others.

Rin

NurinS — 2020-05-18 02:32:42 UTC

I want to achieve as many sincere good deeds as I can in all areas of my life in this world so that I can seek Allah's pleasure and rewards.

<3

2020-05-18 02:33:46 UTC

Yes masha Allah I like to receive gifts. No matter how small, inexpensive, or little it is, I always believe that it reflects the person's intentions towards me, which I really truly appreciate.

<3

2020-05-18 02:34:49 UTC

I would look out for the recipes, as I wouldn't know a thing about baking if that's the case. Better to be make sure you know what you're doing, than just do something without knowing what the outcome will be like.

<3

2020-05-18 02:36:32 UTC

I would do other things actually, and I would be feeling nervous. Because since this is my first time baking it, I would have no idea how it's suppose to turn out. What if it fails, then I'll have to throw and waste ingredients and restart all over. I would occupy myself with other things to put my mind at ease and feel less stressed.

Rin

NurinS — 2020-05-18 02:37:31 UTC

I want to be a better version of myself because firstly I feel that my heart and soul are compelled to seek and do things that pleases Allah. Secondly, I want to be able to inspire others and be a good role model because actions speak louder than words. Lastly, I strive to be a better version of myself because I know that I am flawed in so many ways, so I want to work hard to polish my strengths and overcome my weaknesses in hopes that I would be worthy enough to enter Jannah.

<3

2020-05-18 02:39:41 UTC

Yes.. I have. In the past, I would have panicked a lot, I would break down, and I wouldn't be able to think straight. But now as I'm older, I realise that I'm much more calm in these situations, because I know that Allah subhanahuwata'ala sees a way out, it's just that I don't. I would make du'a for Allah to grant me ease and to resolve my situation, by reciting Nabi Yunus's du'a that he made while he was stuck in the belly of the whale.

nana

arina_adom — 2020-05-18 02:42:56 UTC

Maybe? It's hard to love someone who doesn't love you back. But at the same time to love is to not expect anything in return kan? The best and most enjoyable would be two-way love lah but I've seen one-sided love before (child to parent, teacher to student etc.) It's not ideal but love fulfills you and the reward is with Allah anyway.

<3

2020-05-18 02:43:20 UTC

I hope to be someone who is always giving, who gives more than she takes.

nana

arina_adom — 2020-05-18 02:45:18 UTC

Yes, because it's nice to know someone has thought of me and cares. This is especially so when I know there was no occasion for it, no obligation to gift it and also that the person is not expecting any gift back.

<3

2020-05-18 02:46:32 UTC

I want to be better because I feel it is our responsibility as servants of Allah to seek knowledge and to constantly improve ourselves. We are not meant to be perfect, but we can be better than what we were yesterday. And that's where we need to put in the effort to strive to earn Allah's pleasure.

nana

arina_adom — 2020-05-18 02:46:45 UTC

I would definitely follow a recipe. No point wasting ingredients trying to figure it out on my own. Baking needs precise measurements, kalau masak lain2 can guess-timate

nana

arina_adom — 2020-05-18 02:47:46 UTC

nana

2020-05-18 02:48:45 UTC

I would do other things but check back every 10 mins or so. Takutlah oven too hot or what. Also even if we follow recipe, ingredients and equipment lain2 so sometimes need to tweak a bit.

nana

2020-05-18 02:50:42 UTC

I panic for a while. Then I catch myself panicking and realise it's not going to help. I take a few breaths and remind myself that nothing is impossible for Allah and hasbunallah wa ni'mal wakeel ni'mal maula wa ni'man naseer. So I'll make istighfar or selawat or zikir and think of a way out. Do whatever you can lah, but if really no solution then I'll just make du'a and berserah and trust Allah to help me out. I know I'm limited as a human being and I am where Allah wants me to be.

nana

2020-05-18 02:52:53 UTC

I want to be completely used up as a servant of Allah, such that there is no more that I can give to others. I don't know what plans Allah has for me and I don't know how He wants me to contribute to people in service to Him. But I make du'a that He uses me for good. I want to be a good daughter, sister, wife, mother, student and teacher.

nana

2020-05-18 02:55:32 UTC

Why not kan? Our ultimate aim is to reach Ihsan and I know I'm nowhere near that. I am flawed and weak and have so much to learn. The least I can do is to try to be a bit better in whatever aspects I can afford. We only have so much time on Earth and we don't know when our time will be up. I hope that when Allah SWT takes my life away that I would be better than I was the day before - that I will be in the best state I can be.

💛

2020-05-18 03:28:45 UTC

If you’re talking about a human relationship, no I don’t think I will enjoy a one sided love cos I want to be loved too. But if it’s a “spiritual kind of love” like love for Allah or love for Rasullullah where you cannot “see” the love, I think I can as it’s been proven but i only started to feel the love only after I started learning more about Allah and His attributes and Rasullullah’s sirah. This kind of love, I don’t mind it being one sided albeit by right it isn’t as I know there’s light at the end of the tunnel... at the hereafter.

💛

2020-05-18 03:37:08 UTC

I’ll be happy and grateful with a handwritten heartfelt card but a gift is also sometimes nice. It means a lot when a person has put in a lot of thinking about what gift would make me happy altho it doesn’t have to be anything pricey. Just something that reminds them of me etc. But actually I prefer to be the one giving than receiving. Makes me happier. :)

💛

2020-05-18 03:40:02 UTC

I would look for the recipe and read tons of reviews before embarking on the cake making. Feels reckless to experiment without a proper manual.

💛

2020-05-18 03:43:36 UTC

I think more excited than nervous. Naturally an optimistic person so in Sha Allah the cake will turn out ok. I wouldn’t check every other minute but I will check from time to time while doing other stuff like cleaning the kitchen or teaching my kids.

💛

2020-05-18 03:50:45 UTC

Yes. I will usually call out to His names first. Then, I will try to look at these situations and try to see what is He trying to show and then I will make the best of the situation with whatever I have.

💛

2020-05-18 04:00:47 UTC

To be the best version of myself as a servant of Allah in order to attain His pleasure which leads to His Jannahtul Firdaus.

💛

2020-05-18 04:11:00 UTC

I feel that if I don’t strive to be better, I am shortchanging myself and my loved ones especially my kids. A mother is the children’s first school. Also, I like learning about the Deen through books and classes because it makes me humble-that theres very little I know and I get to use time wisely.

Not trying to be a better version of myself makes me an ungrateful servant because I’m not using what He has gifted me (good health, sound mind etc) to my full potential. Everything from Him is a loan and a gift.

*

2020-05-18 04:11:12 UTC

I don't think it would be very enjoyable. As humans we are very needy, love and acceptance are some of our needs as social beings. After a while of loving without feeling any positive effect, it would feel tiring and not worth the effort. Though I would try to love everyone, I know my heart is limited in its love and has its conditions.

*

2020-05-18 04:16:37 UTC

Yes of course! Makes me feel appreciated, valued and cared about. It is a gesture of love and receiving love from people you love always makes the heart happier and lighter

*

2020-05-18 04:18:49 UTC

mmhmm. if I don't know what goes into a cake, how would I be able to bake one? recipes are the key to knowing what goes into it, how to prepare it, etc. basically a manual about how to bake a cake so it's a must hahaha. i think i would only experiment after knowing the basics of cake-baking and understanding what leads to what in the baking process.

*

2020-05-18 04:20:41 UTC

hahahah I would check, but not every min. also knowing me, having almost always a lot of other things to do, i wouldn't be able to afford checking every minute hahaha. Alhamdulillah. i'd be excited :)

*

2020-05-18 04:25:56 UTC

yupp. Call out to Allah, the only One who sees me, who hears me. the only One who knows what I need in the situation, the only One who can help me.

*

2020-05-18 04:28:28 UTC

the Redha of Allah s.w.t and His Prophet ‎s.a.w, to be a humble servant of Allah as He has intended for mankind to be, to love Allah and Rasulullah s.a.w more than anything and anyone, including my own soul

*

2020-05-18 04:30:01 UTC

so that I can better fulfil the purpose that Allah has set for me, so that I may become more beloved to Him and His Beloved s.a.w and be deserving of closeness to Allah and Rasulullah s.a.w in the highest of Jannah

Mz

2020-05-18 04:52:00 UTC

Even though love taught us to give and always give, at times one-sided love can cause so much of pain as you feel less appreciated that your love is not being reciprocated. So it's definitely not something that is enjoying, as you start to worry if this is true love after all.

Mz

2020-05-18 04:52:36 UTC

Well, yesss. But of course, it depends on what kind of gifts we are referring to. It is common for a human to always imagine a gift as a physical object or something that can be seen. But as we try to walk along in the path of Allah, I have started to understand that there are times when gifts may not be seen. And we only realized such gifts when we try to reflect upon it and realized how blessed we are.

Mz

2020-05-18 04:53:02 UTC

I will look for recipes. The more detailed the recipe, the better for me hehe.

Mz

2020-05-18 04:53:44 UTC

Haha I do have tendency to keep checking sometimes. It's all about checking whether things are in place. I'll still be in the kitchen, doing other things but will constantly look out quite often. And the feelings are mixed- excited and nervous at the same time. Of course if it's the first attempt, then the nervousness portion is higher.

NR

Syiidah — 2020-05-18 04:54:11 UTC

Not at all. Because a healthy relationship requires both parties to make it work.

Mz

2020-05-18 04:54:20 UTC

I've been through episodes where I feel so drowned emotionally. It is all about holding on to the constant source of Protection and Sustenance - Allah. It is a reflection that there'll be times when we will be left alone, even our loved ones may not be there for us or perhaps turn against us. So it may be a way of Allah showing to us to rely on Him alone. And if Allah is more merciful than a mother is to her child, surely He knows what's in the best interest for us. It's all about to trust and to be patient.

NR

Syiidah — 2020-05-18 04:54:40 UTC

Yes! It's one of my love language hehe.

NR

Syiidah — 2020-05-18 04:55:08 UTC

Follow recipe

Mz

2020-05-18 04:55:19 UTC

Haha I'm no poet. But I did write something like this and just thought of sharing:
"Peace to him who always smile,
To he who always protects his noble gaze,
I may not be able to compensate all your beautiful and precious tears,
But I do strive to work myself hard each day,
As my greatest accomplishment in life is for you to be proud of me one day,
By calling my name in your magnificent voice,
Identifying me as part of your own, how nice!
When the Hereafter unites us together,
Definitely looking forward to the day we all gather."

I believe that if we can use the analogy of exam and results. The end of this life is an exam and the Hereafter being the result. So the question lies as to how prepared are we to face this exam to obtain the best results

Mz

2020-05-18 04:55:43 UTC

This is because Allah has generously opened the doors of knowledge (like what Ustazah mentioned last week). So it goes back to us to reflect and put the knowledge into action so that we may be the best version of ourselves as a daughter, wife, mother, sister and friend to others.

NR

Syiidah — 2020-05-18 04:55:43 UTC

I will check once in a while

NR

Syiidah — 2020-05-18 04:56:58 UTC

To have lived my purpose, true to my values and be of benefit to people.

seeking

2020-05-18 04:57:51 UTC

no haha, as we all would like to receive the love back so as to know that the other side appreciate and there would be a stronger bond between them as they help each other in the path to Allah

seeking

2020-05-18 05:02:14 UTC

naturally we all love receiving gifts as it increases the love between one another and the joy of receiving the gift from a beloved

NR

Syiidah — 2020-05-18 05:07:31 UTC

Because we are created in the best of forms- with a purpose- and the best example(Rasulullah saw) and thus the calling over and over again is to work towards betterment so we can achieve our purpose and attain His Love.

seeking

2020-05-18 05:08:08 UTC

yes but tend to sometimes overlook the recipe, add here and there and also have good opinion InshaAllah the cake will taste nice with putting intentions foremost eventhough first time buat haha

seeking

2020-05-18 05:13:37 UTC

both, as in while like clearing the table or after washing the dishes would check the cake to see if its okay and excited and nervous at the same time haha

seeking

2020-05-18 05:17:01 UTC

yes, tend to go into a sad/dep mood heh, by calling out to Him and crying, asking for help

seeking

2020-05-18 05:20:38 UTC

tbh to be a servant of Allah and His Beloved salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam, its gonna be a stuggle (may Allah give us all strength) and also to please our parents through Him and to always be in a state of purifying our souls

seeking

2020-05-18 05:40:15 UTC

there's always something inside of us that we dislike eg our bad character towards people around hence we want to be better in our character, why? as we don't want to hurt people anymore, and to follow our role model that is Rasulullah salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam and Sayyidatuna Fatimah Azzahra alaihasallam so that on the Day of Resurrection we'll be with them eventhough we're far away from them in worship, obedience to Allah and in any form act of goodness, sacrifice they did, at least but only by His Mercy we try to follow them InshaAllah

NA

2020-05-18 05:42:47 UTC

Honestly, no. I would like to love and be loved.
There are times when being the only person who love is the best. It's weird, but it is okay. You will feel happier because you know that you have give your best and not hoping too much.
But when it comes to love Allah taala. It's different. I always wants Allah taala love... but have i shown Allah that i am worth the love Allah taala gives? :(

NA

2020-05-18 05:46:22 UTC

Not really, because I know gift in terms of items is a form of love but if i recieved something that is not my preference i wouldn't be able to appreciate it much. I would rather recieve lots of dua, the other form of gift.

NA

2020-05-18 05:48:16 UTC

Yes, i would look for recipes and asked around if there is anyone who ever make it. It will be more 'save' before starting the whole process of baking.

NA

2020-05-18 05:53:30 UTC

If it's a new recipe and i have not tried it before i will check every minute. To see the whole process in the oven. And excited to see the outcome.
If i am familiar with it, i would carry on with my other things and wait for it to be done.
But there are times, even when i am familiar with the recipes, it might not always turn out to be the same as always because of a lot of factors. Overconfident, or just the ingredients that i usually used were not available :/

NA

2020-05-18 05:54:22 UTC

Yes, i will run to Allah back. Crying to him.

NA

2020-05-18 05:55:14 UTC

To get Allah taala redha. Just put Allah first before anything else.

HaHa

2020-05-18 05:55:26 UTC

No. How can you enjoy loving someone who does not love you back? Unless if you have responsibilities on that someone then mayyybe yes.

HaHa

2020-05-18 05:56:20 UTC

Yes. Because it would made me feel appreciated and remembered.

NA

2020-05-18 05:56:47 UTC

Improving myself will helps me to behave around people. Because one wrong word, action from me can hurt others. And the blessing that i get from classes, i would like to share them to others. :)

HaHa

2020-05-18 05:57:29 UTC

I would find out the recipe of the cake to know its basic ingredients. But along the way (while baking) I might change the recipe a bit (experimenting).

HaHa

2020-05-18 05:59:01 UTC

Excited. Meanwhile, I would do other things nearby the oven like wash the cooking utensils/ clean the kitchen. That way I can check the oven regularly if the cake is doing ok. Hehe

HaHa

2020-05-18 06:00:17 UTC

I usually experienced the kind of situation whenever I was traveling alone. What made my faith deepened was how Allah ease my worries and helped me throughout every obstacles. Provided I seek to Him and do lots of dzikr and selawat while trying to find a way out. Alhamdulillah, I never get disappointed when I trust in Him.

Noor

2020-05-18 06:00:29 UTC

If it is my responsibility, I will persevere with the one sided love. However, I won't enjoy it as much if it is a reciprocated love. The 1st thing that comes to mind when I read this Q, is perhaps how I have been behaving with my Creator. How HE continuously loves me regardless my response towards the love given to me. Thanks for this deep Q, it really makes me reflect this morning.

HaHa

2020-05-18 06:03:39 UTC

Because I was tired with this world. I didn't understand the purpose of living with all this responsibilities. When I try to find and understand the purpose was to prepare for the akhirah, I decided I need to change. I have to be better.

HaHa

2020-05-18 06:06:39 UTC

I want to learn and get to know more of my creator and His deen. I desire of His knowledge. And I would want to practice the knowledge learned ans share it with everyone around me.

Noor

2020-05-18 06:06:54 UTC

I admit it makes me excited, curious and happy. Reason being the giver cares about and thinks of me and would like to share something with me. However, I prefer to be the giver than the receiver.

Noor

2020-05-18 06:10:22 UTC

I will search for a recipe. As I have done some baking over the years, knowing more or less of certain ingredients will result in some form, I may tend to tweak the recipe as I deem fit.

Noor

2020-05-18 06:13:48 UTC

I will do other things after observing for awhile at the beginning and maybe the last quarter of the stipulated duration for baking, to assess if I need to remove it from the oven earlier or let it stay in for bit more than the recommended timing. This is because, over experience, I realised my oven's heat cooks faster than the recommended duration.

I feel excited, curious, hopeful, hopeful, hopeful, happy, almost accomplished (haha). I pray in my heart throughout the baking period for Allah to intercede and make miracles happen so the result is successful for those waiting for the bake will not be disappointed. Sounds funny, I know, but yeah I do this all the time. No mater how many times I bake, there is always a tendency for the result to not be successful, even after using the same recipe many times. And seriously, Allah helps always when I think of HIM throughout the baking.

2020-05-18 06:28:03 UTC

Ummu princess

Assalamualaikum ustazah,
I dont think I would enjoh a one sided love as I dont enjoy the feeling of being ignored. I used to say to myself that im a strong woman and i can be on my own but as i mature, i want the love of my husband, my kids , my parents etc and now im seeking the love of the devine. InshaAllah.

🌾

2020-05-18 06:30:21 UTC

enjoying it won’t be a pleasant experience haha. but if i found myself in it and i can’t leave it because of some reasons, i’d have to live with the one sided love... perhaps finding the Divine Love of Allah, in experiencing the one sided love, maybe in the end I love for the sake of Allah, it would be less painful, maybe even when it comes to the point that its enjoyable

2020-05-18 06:30:39 UTC

Umm princess.
Of coz ustazah, I love receiving gifts especially if its something I really wanted😊. Gifts makes my heart jumpstart to happiness and excitement and I know Allah listened to my doa.hehehhehe

2020-05-18 06:35:48 UTC

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No, I would not enjoy it as it will be like S.S (Shiok sendiri) and I know my worth so I would just walk away from this kind of love relationship...

2020-05-18 06:36:36 UTC

Ummu princess.
I will look up on the recepi and try it. Then subsequent tries tweak to it to suit my tastebud. I tend to get dissappointed if i fail to bake the cake i want after 3 tries and then proceed to another recepi.
I will secure the recepi if i had tasted someone baked it before and if im happy with my bakes i will do it again and again.
So far in my life, i have never baked something without searching knowledge first but for cooking .. yes i follow my mind and 'campak campak' hehehhe

🌾

2020-05-18 06:37:10 UTC

honestly yes, even when its the smallest gift or non-material because it shows that you are cared for, people think about you even in some parts of their mind. but i would love to give the sender of the gift even more, so that i remember them the sender, and be grateful to them, and that remind myself that i am not entitled to receiving gifts

2020-05-18 06:37:58 UTC

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Yes, coz it shows that the giver is thinking of me and care for me..it also takes effort to get a gift for someone :)

2020-05-18 06:40:09 UTC

Ummu princess

If I bake cake in the oven, i will time and let it bake and check once the time is near while i do my other chores.
But now i have little minions to check on it every min .
I think i feel anxious more if what i bake turns out good for people to eat.

🌾

2020-05-18 06:40:13 UTC

i would do both, because whats in the recipes may not be what i have, or can find conveniently or may not cater to my own diet...

2020-05-18 06:41:34 UTC

♡
I will look up the recipe and maybe ask my mum the guidance/ step by step as my mum is a baker and I am a hopeless baker haha...

🌾

2020-05-18 06:43:24 UTC

kalau first time, i guess i would check it every time so that i wont screw it up hahaha bc of my negligence or carelessness. even though, i may not express outwardly if im excited or nervous, i would be both nervous and excited. nervous, if it would turn out edible and excited if it turns out super yummy 😋astaughfirullah tengah2 puasa

2020-05-18 06:44:42 UTC

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I would do other things while waiting.. and will check nearing the end of the baking timing.. will feel excited and anxious at the same time while waiting haha coz like i said im a hopeless baker

2020-05-18 06:48:56 UTC

Ummu princess

Yes, i have been stuck in the situation that my heart raced and I felt that the end was near.
I was alone without my love ones and my daughter was in school.
All I could think of was them and all i could think was who was going to look after them.
Flashbacks came till I recollected myself when i felt my own warm tears and then I called upon Allah and made selawat while holding my chest.
Somehow my heartbeat managed to sync with Allah's name and I calmed myself down.
With Allahs help I managed to gather every inch of energy and calmed down.
That day made me realized how close death is and that i need to rely only on Allah and also let Allah look after my family.
Please make doa for me ustazah.

2020-05-18 06:50:13 UTC

♡
Been in this kind of situation before.. forgotten to bring my purse and my hp and my ezlink when i was outside...before that i was out wid mr hubby and he have to go elsewhere and left me at the mrt station as i was supposed to go to my parents.. and i only realised that i didnt bring my hp, wallet and ezlink after hubby left & I only have some coins in my pocket.. i can only tawakkal and doa to Allah and selawat that i reach my parents place safely which I did.. Alhamdullillah.. can never forget this incident hehe

🌾

2020-05-18 06:52:16 UTC

hahaha o levels, skip the question but get back to it (if theres still time) making dua that Allah swt gives me ilham to answer it... alhamdulillah ala kulli hal, if its the wrong answer or right answer, bc we won’t know for sure what the answer would be, and live goes on beyond o levels....next situation honestly, take a rest and relax first if i’m in a panicky state, zikr and byk berdoa and istighfar, then tawakkal, continue driving until u find help.
the last situation, tawassul for help, maybe taubat nasuha and yakin that whoever you tawassul with, bi izniLLAH, you will be helped

2020-05-18 06:52:40 UTC

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To get Allah's redha and follow the sunnah of Rasullullah as much as I can... InshaAllah

2020-05-18 06:55:44 UTC

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Coz at the end of the day, I am going back to Allah and Rasullullah... and i will feel malu if I did not try my best to be a better version of Muslimah thru out my life in Duniya... hence the need to attend classes so that I know how to get Allah's redha and to follow sunnah Rasullullah sallahualaihiwassalam..

SF

2020-05-18 07:08:33 UTC

Hhahha. Yes and No.

Why? Yes: Because its just an personal thing, i would definitely loves to makes my loves' one happy and seeing them happy makes me happy, and if they were to be sad then i would do whatever i can to make them happy.

Why? No: Because its painful to be in a one sided love, cos its like stanning idols gitu la ustazah. kita as fans have to be by their side and support them in whatever way they wanna do. But at the same time, the sad part tbh is when uknow that u will never be ur idol 'wife' hahahha. And its truly painful to be in that situation hahha.

Me ☆

2020-05-18 07:10:19 UTC

Definitely not. But it will come to a point where you will walk away one day and pray for that person's happiness and well-being; loving for the sake of Allah. That will be more less painful for such one-sided or unrequited love.

Me ☆

2020-05-18 07:11:12 UTC

Honestly, it makes me feel appreciated, remembered and blessed. And, that makes me feel as if I am in their prayers during the time when they had thought of getting something for me regardless how big or small the gift is.

Me ☆

2020-05-18 07:11:46 UTC

Will look for recipes online and read the reviews. After trying it out a few times, I will then tweak it to suit the family (and my) taste buds/preferences. :)

Me ☆

2020-05-18 07:12:15 UTC

Is checking every 3-4minutes counted? Hehe.. Else, I will be doing something else. The dishes, cleaning the working space, etc.

Me ☆

2020-05-18 07:14:22 UTC

I will feel very helpless at first. While trying to keep my composure and staying calm, I will seek out to Allah for His guidance and zikir. Once I am able to think rationaly, will try to accept it by moving forward and think of how I can make the best out of it.

SF

2020-05-18 07:14:54 UTC

Yes, why? Because its shows that the other party is thinking of you and is giving u something to appreciate u being in their life.

No, why? Because nanti kita akan susah nak jagi hati pulak ustazah hehhe macam la kita ni important sangat hehehe. Orang tak kasi alhamdulillah, kasi also alhamdulillah heheh.

Me ☆

2020-05-18 07:14:59 UTC

To be a benefit to others either through serving or providing aid to the community. Definitely, to achieve and have the redha of my parents and Allah as well.

2020-05-18 07:16:56 UTC

Ummu princess
Theres this spark in my life that suddenly changed. I just felt a strange connection with Rasulluah SAW . Then from then I want to know more about Rasulluah SAW, his family and his companions, and then I want to try seek Allah. When seeking Allah, suddenly Allah opened doors to classes with masyaAllah teachers and gatherings.
My past sins always haunts me but going to classes give me new hopes with new intentions.
There are times I still feel lost but i will try to grab hold of Allah.
There are times, im scared and tired, there are times that im enjoying my journey and I seek doa for istiqomah in my journey back HOME and that i go back to HIM with him be pleased with me. Ameen

Me ☆

2020-05-18 07:16:57 UTC

To reflect, think and ponder instead of shortchanging myself as I am flawed in many ways. Also, to better myself for the future generations of my family.

I may not be married but I have nephews and nieces who are growing way too fast amidst the era of social media and whats not. Hence, to be a good role model for them and be a stepping stone in helping them grow their love for Allah and Rasulullah, In Shaa Allah.

SF

2020-05-18 07:17:11 UTC

Hahahaha cute nya soalan niii, hahha yes definitely ustazah. i would search for the recipes. Tapi i akan ubah sikit here and there to make it suitable accordingly to taste bud hehehe.

SF

2020-05-18 07:18:11 UTC

Hhahah i honestly would do both.. like the moment the cake is in, that comes the excited me and keep checking it for a while,

den gradually i will do other things will waiting for it. nervously hoping that it turns out delicious and pretty like how i hope it would turn out hehhe.

SF

2020-05-18 07:24:07 UTC

Yes i do Ustazah... and the first thing i would do is just cry heheh, dulu bila tak faham i would run and cry to people but still ada the void in mean and it would get bigger and bigger, and nothing would fill it..

den i go to UHJ halaqah and i learned that we need to fill the void with selawat and love about Baginda (s.a.w), sebab dulu i pernah terasa 'ehh kenapa gi Maulid/Majlis Ilmu/Majlis Zikir and balik i felt better ni? eh!!'. sebelum tu tahu tapi tak really get it and alhamdulliah everytime again and again i pergi ke class UHJ, she will just explain everything it for us, and im like subhanallah, this is Allah talking to me via Ustazah hehe.

So that where my journey starts, in trying to fill the emptyness with nothing but Baginda (s.a.w). and ustazah selalu akan mendidik kami semua untuk buat apa2 yang perlu, alhamdulillah for having a close friendship with UHJ hehhe.

Noor

2020-05-18 07:24:38 UTC

Should I feel "stuck", I will whisper to my Creator for guidance at 1st instance.
Then ask my parents to doa for me
Then ask my husband to doa for me.
Alhamdulillah, I usually feel like I can conquer the world as soon after I tell my parents to doa for (regardless if they already do the doa or not ...hehe).

SF

2020-05-18 07:32:15 UTC

"[To the righteous it will be said], "O reassured soul, Return to your Lord, well-pleased and pleasing [to Him], And enter among My [righteous] servants, And enter My Paradise." Surah AL Fajr:27-30

this is my achievement in life Ustazah.. walaupon cepat atau lambat, saya nak letak Allah in everything that i do inshaAllah (':

SF

2020-05-18 07:35:59 UTC

Hhaha tipu ah Ustazah kalau nak cakap nak buat semua bende untuk buat Baginda (s.a.w) happy, tapi kita sendiri tahu and tetap buat apa yang will not makes Baginda (s.a.w) happy at us.. so contradicting i know.. but if tak buat Baginda (s.a.w) happy, then siapa lagi we nak make happy kan... Sebab semua about Baginda (s.a.w) is just beautiful and its really impossible to not fall in love with Him (s.a.w) hehehe.. at least mcm buat sikit ini, boleh tunjuk kepada Baginda (s.a.w) and tell Him (s.a.w): "I tried, for Your sake, i try" hehehe tak kira la in whatever we do and even naik baik2 dgn someone who hurt us, we tetap buat sebab Rasulullah (s.a.w) suruh buat hehehe.

NN

2020-05-18 07:36:24 UTC

Yes why not. Love is a personal choice. I chose to love tht person/thing, if it doesn't love me back then that is its choice. Would I enjoy it? As long as whatever I love dont treat me badly, I'm OK with it.

2020-05-18 07:37:21 UTC

onlyhooman
sadly it does take two to tango. dun think so will enjoy a one sided cos "im only hooomaann~" hehe. if love is defined as the bond / emotions for fellow hoomans (and i imagine this may apply to pet animals as well!), nonreciprocal will create a barrier / limits as to how much they "allow" us to interact / engage with them and deepen the bond. most times we derive happiness / enjoyment from co-giving/co-receiving gestures of love. but not being able to enjoy this kind of love does not stop one from continuing to love, i agree with some of the responses. Bak pepatah, kadang cinta (living or nonliving things) tak harus memiliki eceh. (Maaf ustazah for my lack of formality :) )

Pleh

2020-05-18 07:40:43 UTC

No. Can’t deal unrequited love. Hurts much.

2020-05-18 07:41:23 UTC

Meow

Maybe yes, if it's not about getting balasan. Mungkin itu cara Allah ajar ikhlas. Normally loving someone equates to 'owning' someone, tu yg expect to be loved back. Loving without syarat is liberating

Pleh

2020-05-18 07:41:25 UTC

Na’am makes me happy.

Pleh

2020-05-18 07:42:36 UTC

Def look out for recipes. Know nuts about baking.

NN

2020-05-18 07:42:42 UTC

Not all the time. I'm trying to keep my lifestyle minimum and gifts add to the clutter. And most of the time it doesn't rlly serve a purpose in my life and its not a need because I already have the item. Yes I'm grateful for the thought, but I always think of gifts as unnecessary. Eg key chain and magnets, and abundance of shawls

2020-05-18 07:43:29 UTC

Meow
Yes definitely. Ada juga yg ingat Kat Kita

onlyhooman

2020-05-18 07:43:49 UTC

"Among the greatest blessings are to feel loved and be able to love" (quote paraphrased, cant rmbr the source so sorry)

NN

2020-05-18 07:43:57 UTC

Baking is science.so definitely follow recipe

Pleh

2020-05-18 07:44:01 UTC

Maybe check every minute. Then gets tired. Then does something else. But would feel nervous cause don’t know if it’ll turn ok. Then goes back to checking every minute. Then maybe just tell myself baking is not my thing.

onlyhooman

2020-05-18 07:44:47 UTC

i'd look for recipes, a few - and blend it into an attempt.

Pleh

2020-05-18 07:44:59 UTC

Na’am would read ayat kursi thousand times and call Allah for help.

NN

2020-05-18 07:45:01 UTC

Check evry minute. Excited because you sort of know the outcome. I will only be nervous of I never follow the recipe

Pleh

2020-05-18 07:45:25 UTC

Salvation.

Pleh

2020-05-18 07:45:50 UTC

Because I’m still no good.

onlyhooman

2020-05-18 07:46:14 UTC

check in once a while - excited, either burnt or saved :D

2020-05-18 07:46:14 UTC

Meow
Look out for recipe means it's a proven product, minus all mistakes. Trying to figure out or experimenting is too cumbersome

NN

2020-05-18 07:46:58 UTC

I want to explore the ilmu of Allah swt and live my life with purpose and understanding of my creation. And ultimately I want to be ready for death

2020-05-18 07:47:17 UTC

Meow
Check
Kejap² check sebab excited nak makan cake yg Kita bake sendiri

onlyhooman

2020-05-18 07:48:08 UTC

Ya Allah, help meeee pliss help me pliss pliss T_T confide in parents and ask for their doa T_T

2020-05-18 07:49:03 UTC

Meow

Allah. That's auto when it comes to the ultimate last moment

onlyhooman

2020-05-18 07:54:07 UTC

Ultimately...allahumma innii as aluka hub-baka, wa hub-ba may-yuhib-buka, wal’amalal-ladzii yuballighuniii hub-baka. Despite the worldly distractions and desires, the meagre self recognises that with Allah's love, we have dunia & seisinya & safety in akhirat insya Allah - however this recognition does not negate the struggles and weak striving :(

2020-05-18 07:54:20 UTC

Meow
That I have fulfilled my role on earth scripted by Allah & Rasul. Dulu tercari². Skarang paham sikit, be the best person with whom I have relationship with. Best sister, mother, daughter etc
Maybe ustazah can enlighten more

2020-05-18 07:58:39 UTC

Meow
Being a better person is a personal fulfilment.
bila buat Salah, walaupon memang niat nak balas, feeling Tak syiok akan lingers.
Bila buat baik, yg sikit pon akan buat Kita senyum tanpa sebab.

We are wired such, that's my feeling lah. Betul Kan ustazah?

onlyhooman

2020-05-18 08:01:48 UTC

sometimes am blindsighted to the implicit and deepseated underlying intentions we have for the things we do and sometimes find myself lost in the actions. really hoping to be able to have greater clarity and higher consciousness to purify and make complete intentions, that will anchor and accelerate any little things we do or have in our hearts - so that we grow as better versions of ourselves, in hopes that our return Home is welcomed and favorable by Allah. (aameen doakan kami)

Noor

2020-05-18 08:05:22 UTC

1) Gain Allah's redha, mercy, light and guidance.
2) Be a filial daughter to my parents and be part of the reason for them to enter jannah
3) Be a dutiful wife, leading quality life seeking jannah together with my husband
4) Be a mother who is able to raise a dutiful servant to Allah, filial son to his parents and be bale to humbly render his services to the ummah in whatever way he can.
5) Be a sister who is a role model to my 5 siblings and their families so that we can all support and remind each other to be productive ummah.
6) Be one who can benefit others including my neighbour, friends, the needy and any other human beings.
All above are my wish list, insyaAllah will continue to strive for them to live a fulfilling life in this world and the hereafter.

🌾

2020-05-18 08:10:34 UTC

always be in the remembrance of Allah swt and Our Beloved saw with my whole body and heart and soul

🌾

2020-05-18 08:14:08 UTC

ya rob... because i want to purify myself from all evil and other things that are not beneficial, in order to earn His redha, qurba, gaze and love and the pleasure and happiness of being the ummah of Rasulullah saw

Noor

2020-05-18 08:14:48 UTC

When the most precious person in my life returned to Allah last March, I started to reflected on the journey of my life and started making little changes towards my Creator. Ultimately I want to be reunited with my beloved father in the highest level of jannatul firdaus without account, together with the rest of my family members, our beloved prophet s.a.w and his family. Before that, I need to try my best to do what it takes to seek Allah's mercy to redeem myself from my past sins and be the reason for my father to enter jannah and not otherwise.

Nn

2020-05-18 08:17:11 UTC

Breathe in breath out pray to God and Selawat as many times

rapunzelofcovid

2020-05-18 08:29:34 UTC

Depends really.. am I aware of this one-sided love that’s being directed to me? Or am I the one having this one-sided love? Could it be that we fell in love and then one gradually loses the loving?
If it’s the first, I wouldn’t say enjoy. But it can be a means of learning to love as genuinely as the person does. Then again... in the context of a Muslim... we’ve always been on the receiving end of the purest of love from no one else but him ﷺ and while it’s blatantly selfish how our own love mostly can’t be compared, knowing that this pure soul truly loves us becomes a constant “niggling” thought at the back of the heart/mind; waiting, striving, yearning to reciprocate as best possible 🤷🏻‍♀️ (InsyaAllah)

rapunzelofcovid

2020-05-18 08:31:00 UTC

Let’s just say it always feels nice to be receiving gifts. But to have the means to gift others is a whole different kind of nice feeling altogether :)

rapunzelofcovid

2020-05-18 08:36:23 UTC

For someone with shallow knowledge of baking, yes, I’d be looking out for recipes. Don’t want the end product to become something inedible.. that’s quite beside the point then. Also practical person thinking right here 🤭 buttt if it’s a seemingly simple recipe, I’d end up experimenting along the way -baking via feelings katakan- especially if first-timer trials don’t go along quite right. Then just hope you didn’t waste ingredients and that at least one person loves it haha

rapunzelofcovid

2020-05-18 08:38:02 UTC

Won’t check ever so often. But will probably be feeling anxious about the outcome especially when knowing that the timer’s gonna be up

rapunzelofcovid

2020-05-18 08:41:18 UTC

I would almost always find myself hoping/waiting for some divine intervention. Not a glorious halo-filled moment type of course but being a rather feelings-based person (insyaAllah), my next course of action depends on what appears or pops up in clarity. Does this make sense? Maybe, maybe not haha

rapunzelofcovid

2020-05-18 08:43:00 UTC

For *my* self without taking into account of others: A total sense of zen paired with a lifetime of will to reach it. WAllahua’lam bissowab

rapunzelofcovid

2020-05-18 08:51:50 UTC

Knowing there will always be the past and yesterdays and memories of back then, seeing those sides or moments of yourself sometimes make you critical of your self. Especially when knowing that there can be much more to achieve, accomplish and become as a person of faith. And not just any faith. A muslim. So at least this yearning or this want to become better is the groundwork to actually achieving it. Things won’t be easy, I mean constructing a building itself is hard so this invisible construction of a believer that pleases their Creator is like a work-in-progress that will construct almost the best of what can be. Biidznillah