4M: What would you say if you were Graham Norton? by Ka Yiu Chan

I love my partner so much but he never likes my couple posts on Instagram!!! He also refuses to post photos of us. What should I do?

keanna20021028_ — 2025-03-16 14:51:47 UTC

Jan 4M 8

2025-04-04 10:12:57 UTC

I guess your boyfriend is just too shy to post it , so you should try to hire a hacker to hack his Instagram account, after that, you can use his account to post as many photos as you want, that sounds great right?

Edith

2025-04-06 12:43:19 UTC

I think you should tell your boyfriend what you are thing.I think he just doesn't know how to do some action to maintain a relationship. I believe that he would do the things you used to do after telling your thoughts .

4M 13 Bernard

2025-04-06 14:46:59 UTC

Your partner is not a good partner seems he did not FOLLOW YOUR INSTRUCTIONS.If I were you,I would find a new one to let him be scared or order him to post ours photo on social media.Or maybe if you felt scared or sad of hurting your boyfriend🥺,I think you could find some ways to post the photos secretly or tell your besties that how can you deal with this situation

I am sure that girls know this so well.

Elaine

2025-04-06 14:47:05 UTC

I think he love you so much,so he doesn’t want more people to follow your instagram especially the boys. Anyways,I hope you can talk to him,and show your thoughts, it may change his mind

2025-04-06 14:47:38 UTC

I think what u need is just call him and ask him to explain the reasons for not liking and posting the stuffs related to u bc sometime man are less sensitive in doing such things. You should tell him clearly or else u can only result in having bad emotions and crying alone in ur bedroom.

Wing

21119_92 — 2025-04-06 14:47:59 UTC

Perhaps you should tell your partner what you think and what you want from him first.

But bare in mind that a relationship works when both of you guys are willing to contribute, so if he really can't fullfill what you expect, consider to dump him

No reason to give up a forest for one single tree, right?

4M 14 Hailey

2025-04-06 14:48:33 UTC

Well, I think he just doesn’t know what you want him to do, now let me give you an advice, you just tell him directly that you want him to do it. If he doesn’t, then you can find a better one, you don’t need to keep waiting for a person that treat you like this, I think you deserve better than this.

4M07 Joyance chung

2025-04-06 14:48:43 UTC

There is a very big possibility that your boyfriend is losing interest in you or is just not into his relationship being public.

You should definitely tell him how you feel, and if this behaviour goes on, maybe you two are just not compatible.

In the worst case scenario, you should just ditch him for someone new :)

Ella wong 4M20

2025-04-06 14:50:34 UTC

Let’s take a look from two perspectives

One: Your perspective , either you are a very emotional person and need a lot of attention or you are very insecure about your relationship and that’s why you want everyone to know you are not single. But either way the best way to tackle this problem is to tell your partner about how you feel and make a decision which both of you would be satisfied with. If your partner refuses to communicate then I suggest you to run as fast as you can because I am seeing “Red Flags ” here. Unless you’re blinded by what you call “love”

Two: Your partner’s perspective, either he is not being serious with this relationship or he just doesn’t use social media that much. After all your relationship is about you but not everyone else. You can see if your partner is loyal to you and treating this relationship seriously by the actions he does daily.

Hayden

2025-04-06 14:51:13 UTC

I think you can tell your boy friend that your feeling as to protect relationship.I also think that he loves you very much, give him more patience and you two can have a better understanding for each other.

4m07

2025-04-06 14:59:45 UTC

There are two possible explanations for this , either you’re very emotional or he’s losing interest .

In this case there are two solutions, if you’re the problem, you might want to question if you two are compatible, you’re too emotional and he’s too emotionally unavailable for you. Then I would suggest you to break up

For the other explanation, that he’s losing interest, observe his behaviour, if he is less enthusiastic about spending time with you or ghosting you , then definitely, it’s time for someone new

Finally, my ultimate advice, is to break up

Kristy

21069_102 — 2025-04-06 15:11:07 UTC

Maybe he doesn't know what your thoughts are, just tell him what you are thinking. A long-lasting relationship requires mutual understanding and more communication. If he rejects, it will be better to find a better one as the relationship will not last long.

Cynthia

2025-04-06 15:48:52 UTC

Have you ever tell your partner that you are care about these things ? If you did then I would say maybe you could find another one because you deserve better.

If never then I would suggest you to express your feeling and your thoughts to him because he won’t know before you tell him everything ! So your problem solved.

Heidi

2025-04-06 16:27:30 UTC

I think you should talk to each other what you are thinking. Maybe you just want to share your life to your friends but your partner thinks that it’s hovey-dovey, maybe some people don’t like it.

4M15 Eva

2025-04-06 23:59:12 UTC

I think you should just ask your boyfriend what is the relationship between him and the social media.Why he is unwilling to post your photos on it？Btw,I think you should ask him the reasons why he don't want to post your photos directly as conversations are very important in a relationship.

4M03 Chloe Chan

2025-04-07 13:15:07 UTC

Oh girl, maybe you should move on from this little social media conundrum. Love is important, but social media, a whole different story! It sounds like your boyfriend is a bit camera-shy. All you need to do is post selfies of yourself instead of couple posts or simply find a new boyfriend.

Queenie

2025-04-09 09:48:50 UTC

If your boyfriend refused to post anything about you in the Instagram,there must be something strange happening~You know , I know , We all knows!I think you will be an excellent detective soon...