Me and my wife Daisy went on our honeymoon recently right after our marriage, and it was a great time. Only one issue, I may or may not have slept around while we were there. Me and one of my mistressses got into a car accident and she found out, now she’s pissed. To be fair, she threw a huge fit before we got married and to be honest I don’t think she even wants to be married to me, so I think it’s fine to sleep around.AITA? -Noah (Thug)

I(33) Male come from a very wealthy family.Growing up i  partied hard and payed no responsibilities for it.During my honeymoon I sort of partied too hard and this wasn't my first time meeting and falling in the valley of another woman.During my night out i was too sauced and drove my mistress and i to another party when we had a car accident, soon the papers captured pictures of my mistress  in the accident.I just knew Daisey my finance had seen the paper.So what is the least i could do?Least i could do  is buy her a set of pearls for ONLY $350,000.How could she not forgive me,The A-Hole

So. Me(mid 30s) and this guy, let’s call him T, were talking about who might be a suspect to a crash that ended up killin my wife. Well, I say crash, but she was actually ran over by this speedy yellow car. This car was just zoomin down the street, headed straight for my wife. It was hard to keep my composure, but I remained level headed through my talk with T. Well, we had brought up the fact that only one person had a yellow car. Let’s call that guy G. Well, obviously, I got a bit upset, cuz that was my wife! You don’t kill a guys wife without expecting him to get upset. So I got some stuff prepped, went over to G’s house, and shot him. You kill my wife, I kill you, right? I’m not in the wrong here, am I? -Isabella Cervantes

I (27 M) once had a good thing with the delightful Daisy before I went off to war and have been thinking about her ever since. She is my one great true love, I’ve thought about her everyday and the person she’s become. Since, I came back from the war and established myself in my beautiful mansion I’ve thrown the most popular parties to get her attention hoping she’ll come through. My money, cars, house, all of my fortune is for her. One day she finally comes to my one of my spectacular parties and she hates it, so I get rid of everything she doesn’t like to show her I listen and care. But, as our relationship builds back up there’s something holding us back, she has a husband and a kid now. I still want her though, and he’s no good for her anyway. I’ve waited for over 5 years just to work and prove my love for her, now I have her again but at the same time I don’t. I’ve waited long enough, AITA for being selfish? AITA for wanting to love and treat her right? But most importantly, AITA for making her tell her husband the truth about us? Asking her to tell her husband that she really doesn’t love him so she can leave that life behind, and we can pick up where we left off, AITA? pls don’t be too harsh I’m already heartbroken.

Kalyn

I, (26F), have been married for a long time now. I was a teenager at some point, as all of us are, and I feel in love with a man who we will call Gay Jatsby. Not long after we were together, we were forced to separate due to his deployment. I got married 2 years after he was deployed, and moved as I thought I would never see him again. I lived happily for many years with my husband, until I found out about his infidelity. This obviously caused a rift to form in our relationship, but as a devout catholic, divorce is simply just not an option. My cousin, Nick, set up a date of sorts for himself and I. I said yes and when I arrived, I was greeted by none other than Gay Jatsby. We start hanging out, and one night he lets me drive his nice yellow sports car after having a few drinks. As most drunk driving endeavors end, something went awry. I ended up killing a large red headed woman in the street. Gay insisted on taking the blame, and I heard he was killed for it. But regardless, I could not stay in the place in which I murdered a woman and before consulting Gay, I took off with my infidel husband. Have very mixed feelings and emotions about this whole sequence of events, AITA?

-eef

Am I the arse for running over some lady and then blaming it on the man I am cheating on my husband with?

I (26F) have been to my husband, Tom, for three years, and we have one daughter together. While he has been able to provide many things for our family, he is having an affair with some woman. Recently, an old flame of mine came back into my life, Jay, whom I met before Tom. Although Jay could not provide for me when we met, he now owns this colossal palace and beautiful shirts. He also kept all the newspaper clippings of me. A little creepy but he is a man in love. In essence, he can provide for me now and is in love with me. In all honesty, I thought I loved him too, that was until I found all the shady business he does to acquire the money he has now. Tom, Jay, Nick

(my cousin), Jordan (my best friend) and I all went to town after Jay came to the house along with our other guests to eat lunch. It was much too hot where we were, so we ended up going to the Plaza Hotel and having a conversation. Jay told my husband I was leaving him and how I didn't love Tom anymore, that I loved him instead. Then Tom mentions some shady things about Jay. Anyways, of course, this becomes a fiasco, and I get very flustered and tense, so Jay and I leave in his car.

It should be noted that Jay and I drove into town in Tom’s car, and Tom, Nick, and Jordan drove into town in Jay’s car. Since I was so tense, I told Jay I wanted to go to calm my nerves, and to make a long story short; I ran over some lady who ran out into the street. It must have been some crazy lady cause she looked like she wanted to talk to me before I laid her out on the concrete with Jay’s Car. Obviously, Jay is freaking out, but he loves me and tells me he’ll protect me, so we go home and I get in the bath. Tom saw the commotion on the road and asked me what happened. I told a small white lie and said Jay was driving. Tom and I had a conversation and went to bed that night. The following day, this strange man came to our house and spoke to Tom. I'm not sure what he said to him, but he was the husband of the lady I killed. I think he told Tom, that Jay was the one who was driving. I’m not sure but I love Tom again and we’re going to head west, where we can leave everything and everyone behind. Anyways got to go we are leaving. Please be gentle, I am very sensitive.😥

I (30M) moved East so that I could learn to be a bondsman. While learning to be a bondsman I started a situationship with a young woman, after some drama between friends, I decided to break up with her. Our friends drama made me realize she was selfish. But its not like she waited for me, she got engaged to another man because she thought I was being dishonest. Honestly, She was haughty and saw no fault in herself, she could only point out what was wrong with me. - Davin Bacchus

I (30M) was at a party with my friend (29M) and the woman that I am seeing behind my wife's back (30F) when things got a little tense. My mistress, we'll call her MW, and I were in a room talking it up when all of a sudden she decides to bring up my wife. Now I've been married for a while now but I've never been the type to commit, you know what I'm saying? And I've told MW multiple times that the only reason I haven't left my wife for her is because my wife is Catholic. So really it's not even that bad right? Anyways, MW brings up my wife and I have told her multiple times to keep that name out of her mouth. But for some reason the broad just kept on saying it. So I leave the room to try and get some space and MW is chasing me down and shouting my wife's name, and I just get really fed up so I slapped her and broke her nose. Do you think I was in the wrong for this? Or was I justified in molly whopping this woman that I'm cheating on my wife with?

-Michael Flores

I, Daisy, am married to my husband, T, he and I married a few years ago and have spent our lives together lavishly. Living here not a thing was wrong, we had a daughter and made a family. When a relative of mine moved here things went bad quickly. At first I had no knowledge of an old flame living so close to me. I’ve had thought of him for so long until I was invited to have tea with Nick, my family member. He basically set us up on a date and from there I invited him to everything, on a trip to the valley of ashes and being at a hotel with everyone all heck broke loose and everyone started shouting and I was upset after T took a phone call by his ugly mistress and somehow I was caught in the middle by T and my old flame. At some point I left with my old flame and somehow found myself driving home at a high speed. I had hit something but I kept driving it wasn’t till after I found out it was her, I mean she had it coming but like I didn’t even know it was her. Who runs out onto the road in the dark, like are you dumb? Anyways AITA for doing that? -Karolina

So I (26F) am married to a wealthy idiotic man, let's call him T, he wasn't my first love.. FAR off from it actually. Frankly, he's one of the rudest people I've ever met but yet; I love him. Even though, he sneaks around with a poor, fat, rude mistress (like girl pick a struggle here). It's all very confusing. But, when my first love, we'll call him G, found me again. I ended up meeting with him for the first time in 5 years, and..my heart skipped a beat. I have never felt such glow and wonder in my heart (besides in the past when I was first with him). Eventually, even though I'm married to T, I decide to sneak around and be with G. G gave me a feeling I didn't know how else to explain and it was the first time I had been happy in awhile. Eventually, one afternoon myself, the two men, and some other friends go on a trip. On that trip, T finds out (I don't even know how) that me and G are sneaking around together. They ask me if I love either of them (G and T) and I'm completely honest, I really only love G but yet; I feel like I love them both. After arguing between the two and a series of complicated, and maybe even.. illegal instances go on, my dream and love becomes unrealistic and I decide to leave with T, far away from G. Long story short, am I the arse for cheating on T or for running away with him in the end? - Audrey

I (30M) met this guy, (32M), who I’ll call JG. He seemed to have been an up-and-coming fellow, living in West Egg, so he was new money. I am immediately suspicious of all new money people, as I believe wealth can only be generational, so naturally I looked into him. I did everything I could to find out every dirty detail and secret about him, so that I could have some dirt. I found out he was a bootlegger(immoral, right?!) and never went to Oxford, where he claimed to go. This all blew up when, in a group, we went to New York where it was revealed that my Wife and JG were having an affair and that she was planning on leaving me? I didn’t believe it, and exposed JG for everything, because how dare they? How dare my wife cheat on me, only men can do that!? I laid out all the dirt I had on him in front of everyone, I just knew I couldn’t trust new money blood. But afterwards they both ran off, leaving an awkward silence so I have to know, I’m NTA, right?

For punching my mistress right in the nose for saying my wife’s name.

I Tom Buchanan(32) took my wife’s cousin into the city so he could meet my mistress and we spent the day together ending it with a party later that night. Well I got to drinking and i was definitely having more than a couple of beers.I was gonna get plastered with my people. Once I start drinking I get violent and like to show my dominance if anyone dares to test it. My mistress ends up getting to tipsy and starts running her mouth about my wife.I warn her to stop, but this lady will not stop and just keeps repeating my wife’s name until I end up cocking my hand back and just absolutely destroy her nose breaking it into pieces .

Was it wrong for me to break her nose for talking about my wife even after I told her to stop?

So I (30M) was mourning the death of a very close friend of mine, whom we shall JG. I had been contacting people he knew to request their presence at the funeral, though it seemed all my efforts were in vain. Even those who had held him in high regard, been held in high regard by him, or some combination of the two, rejected invitations to attend. On top of all this, the police investigation was closed quickly, leaving no real justice for anyone, though most particularly for JG himself, leaving only sickeningly distorted reports, earlier describe as “grotesque, circumstantial, eager and untrue”, to commemorate his memory. Additionally, the woman he loved disappeared with her husband, leaving no mailing address- even my inquiries on how to contact them were met only with dead ends and the phrase “I don’t know. Can’t say.”

                All in all, I was tired and grief stricken at the time I received a phone call. My initial belief was that the caller was a man who had been a particularly influential figure in the life of the deceased- this man shall be referred to as MW. Contrary to my first prediction, I heard another familiar voice, one belonging to a man I shall call K. I told him the information for the funeral, but my relief quickly turned sour after he explained that not only did he have any interest in attending the funeral, but he only called at all to ask for me to send him a pair of tennis shoes he had forgotten! Disgusted by this audacious request, I interrupted him midway through telling me where to send them by immediately hanging up. In hindsight, I do recognize that I was keeping a man separated from some possessions of his, yet the feeling that I was not in the wrong persists.

               So AITA for not striking down someone’s attempt at retrieving a forgotten pair of shoes?

Thea Sommer

So I (23 F) have a friend, let's call her D (26 F), and tbh, her life is a hot mess. Her husband, T (30 M), is cheating on her and everybody knows it! He's not even hiding it at this point and she's really been torn up about it.

Recently, her former lover, G (35 M), moved in close by and I helped to set them up together. G is not a bad guy, just a little shady here and there, but he's the life of the party and he really wanted to see her again. Plus he's pretty rich too. I had D's cousin have her over and meet G again so they could kick off having their affair. I just want her to be happy in her little fling, and I've been covering for her so that her husband doesn't get suspicious. The person that helped set her up with G had some doubts when I suggested it, but I didn't feel bad, since her husband is already cheating on her.

I just have her best interests in mind, but AITA for helping set up my friend in her affair?

I (30m) stalked my lover (26f) who ill call D. We havent spoken for 5 years since we first were in love before i had went off to fight in the great war. I had tracked her and her husband down to the east egg in new york where i ended up buying a house directly across the bay in west egg. Although she is married i believe she still loves me and doesnt love him, she only married him because i was poor at the time. 5 years later im finally rich enough to take care of her and give her everyting she can imagine, but im starting to think if its been to long since we've spoken and im starting to feel like im an obsessive creep for tracking her and her family all the way to new york. AITA?

I (28 M) fell in love with D (27 F) at the age of 17, we both were deeply in love but I had to leave to go to war. She really wanted to wait for me but could not as the world was pressuring her into marriage, she got with T (30 M) while I was at war but I know she never truly loved him. He is a total douchebag, constantly cheating on her and trying to wave his problems away with money. Now that I have returned from war I have built up a fake life and a huge fortune in order to be deserving of D and have begun to convince her to run away with me and leave the husband I am certain she does not care for. When we talked last night she was uncertain saying that she did love T at a point, but I know that she was lying and just said that because of the stressful situation. I am currently waiting by the pool for her to reach out to me as she has been ignoring my calls, most likely still stressed out. I know she only wants me and will leave her man for me soon. AITA for taking her away?

Aita for marrying another man even though I still loved a man who left me for the war.

I(26 female) and this guy, let’s call him G, met and fell in love when I was 18. However, my parents disapproved of him since he was not wealthy. Even though I was still considering him, he just up and left me, heading off to war. I still loved him and was going to wait for him, but then this other strapping, hunk of a man, let’s call him T, came along and after a while asked me to marry him. So who am I to say no? He’s very wealthy, my parents love him, and at the time I think I even loved him! So of course I said yes. Well now I’m in a bit of a predicament because almost 5 years later I find out G is back from war and doing quite well for himself. I wonder if he’s going to be mad at me for moving on, but what choice did I have? I needed someone to take care of me, and I couldn’t exactly wait forever for him to come back from the war and get rich. I was looking out for my well-being, which, if he really loved me, is what he would have wanted me to do anyways. AITA?

I, (26 F) come from a very wealthy family, I always knew I was going to marry rich, it was what I was used to. I'm a young, some would say beautiful young lady so naturally I'm going to date around and explore my options. When I was young, I met this great guy, we kissed in the street on a cold autumn night, it was beautiful. But he was poor... and he had to go off to war. I said goodbye and never saw him again. Until five years later when I met him and my cousin for tea. Now I'm married to a very rich man and I have a little girl, but I fall in love all over again. Hes just as amazing as he once was five years ago. AND HES RICH! My husband is already having an affair, why can't I? Eventually my husband finds out and confronts me about it while we are in New York with my cousin and his lover, my husband, and my little old fling. It was a mess. My husband is freaking out, my fling is saying I love him more, I stay silent during the argument. They're both looking to me for an answer on who I truly love, but I can't decide. After all, I'M JUST A GIRL! Why can't I just love both of them???

 I (26F) am currently married to T (30M), and have been for three years. We have a daughter, and are doing quite good for ourselves, living in the prestigious East Egg of New York. Five years ago I was in love with a man, who we will call G (30M), and I was going to follow him, and maybe even one day marry him. However, he didn’t come from money, and he had just been drafted into the war. This led my parents to say no to the request of marrying him, and thus led to me marrying T. Now, T is the type of man to think he is good at hiding his affairs and lovers, but I always know. He has been doing this since the beginning of our marriage, even getting caught while we were on our honeymoon. I just pretend to be oblivious, act foolish, because that is the best thing that a girl can be, beautiful and a fool, at least that is my belief. Anyways, I have recently been back in contact with G, we even met up at my cousin, N’s, house for some tea. He was quite the man, but he seemed very nervous. Well, last night we went out on the town, to the big city, it was me, T, G, N, and my friend, J. Me and G rode together in my white car, T, N, and J rode separately, taking G’s car. Once we were all at the hotel we met up at, everything was great, we were talking and drinking, until T had to ruin everything. He asked G what he was doing to our family, and G told him that I didn’t love him, T. That was the beginning of an argument, where some of G’s past was revealed and his façade was shattered. Long story short, G asked for me to tell T that I never loved him, T. I couldn’t. It being revealed that G’s money isn’t stable made it harder for me to tell T that I never loved him. I chose T, the money and lavish lifestyle that I love would continue, but I had to say no to G. My heart is with G, but my mind is with T. I know that T has and will continue to have his lovers, but as he said, he always comes back. I may still love G for the person he is, and his stuff is quite nice, but his money isn’t stable. So, AITA?

After all, my wife is cheating on me too! I found out not too long ago that she’s been seeing a man I will refer to as G. At supper when I saw G and my wife glance at each other I just knew something was going on right under my nose. I had no clue who this man was but apparently G and my wife have known each other for a longgg time.

When I was driving around one day I witnessed something tragic. My love was arguing with her husband and then she ran out to the road in front of G’s car.

The car didn’t stop. And just like that she was gone. I blame that man for her life , he took everything from me.

So AITA for cheating on my wife?

I, (26 F), used to be involved with this guy when I was 18; we’ll call him G. He was 27, moderately wealthy, and about to go to war, but we deluded ourselves into thinking we would weather the storm and marry when he returned. I eventually got tired of waiting for him and married my current husband (currently 30 M). I didn't want to keep him in the dark, so I did the honorable thing and sent him a letter announcing my engagement – and never got a response. Bummer. I lived my life from that point; my husband is very rich and keeps me comfortable in our estate with our daughter (2F), surrounded by our wealthy friends. However, within this past couple of weeks, my serene life has been upturned. My cousin twice removed(30M), N, recently moved to the same state as my husband and I, albeit several miles away. Despite this, he visits frequently and we get along pretty well. However, he moved next door to this rich guy, whom I had never known because we were in different class social circles. When N came to visit, one of my houseguests told my cousin that his neighbor was actually the same guy I fell in love with when I was 18, except he was now hilariously rich. After that, my cousin invited me over and we (G and I) reunited. I felt the old feelings of love rekindled and I discovered that he was still as deeply in love with me as he was five years ago. The only problem was my husband. I love my husband and he provides for me, but G was my first love. My husband of course got jealous and dug up some dirt on him – he allegedly was a bootlegger! – and I won't lie, I kind of started to falter in my love for G. I mean, I love him, but, even though he cheats, my husband has hard, concrete, legal money and will be able to provide me the life of comfort that I deserve. So I told G that while I loved my husband, I loved him too. My husband, now satiated, allowed me to ride off with G and we took to town. G could sense that I was high-strung and even though I’ve barely ever driven a car before, he let me drive his to calm me down. We were riding through town, when this crazy poor lady ran into the street and, not knowing what to do, I plowed right over her, killing her on impact. I felt bad, obviously, but it wasn't my fault. She ran right in front of us! I got really worried that G was going to rat me out, but he told me not to worry and that he would protect me, despite what I said about him earlier that day (Fellas, take notes!). When I got home, I found my husband had also seen the tragedy and I got really worried. But, as luck would have it, he thought that G was driving the car and blamed him! The police couldn't really find anything and I was safe at home. A few days later, I saw my husband telling this random poor man that the car that the lady was killed by belonged to G, and not too long after that day, I got the news that G had been murdered by him! I felt kind of bad because G really didn't kill that woman, yet he ended up taking up for me. I didn't tell him to take the blame, and I also scolded my husband for telling that man where G was when he knew he looked crazy enough to kill. All he said was that G deserved it. AITA for letting G take the blame when I knew I committed the crime? 

So again am I the arse for killing the man who murdered my wife?

I (soon to be 30 M) recently just experienced a event that features multiple people but the main players in this little situation shall be mentioned by J and T. The problem first started when we decided to go to the plaza hotel to cool down from the extreme heat that day. I'll be honest everyone that day was feeling a little tense which could be cut with a butterknife, but in the end our little group decided to split up and head back to east egg after having some "choice" words. So T decides to drive me and J back to east egg, and on the way we meet a crowd in the valley of ashes in front of a garage owned by W. As T pushes his way through the crowd we all see the bloodied and mangled corpse of W's wife, and it wasn't the most pleasing sights to see. After we return to T's house he heads inside and me and J are left outside and for some god awful reason she decides that now is the time to take her chances and try to make a move on me. Now don't get me wrong if she tried some other time I probably wouldn't be making this but after everything we just went through with the arguing, the dead body of M's wife, and now the blatant disrespect for my mental state I decided it was enough and rudely shot her advances down as returned my remarks with enough rancor to know that anything we had was gone. I know i could've let her down easily but at the time I just couldn't take anymore BS from any of them, especially since my worries for my true love that shall be named as G was one of the first things on my mind.

So just to clarify, AITA for rejecting the advances of J even after we witness the dead body of M's wife?

So I, (30) M recently moved to this new and rising place called West Egg. I wanted to start a new chapter in my life being a bondsman and making some bank. I visit my cousin who lives across from me in East Egg and basically get wrapped into their lives un-willingly. I find out my cousins husband is seeing some other woman, and has even cheated before while she was preggy with their daughter. However, even though I love my cousin I didn't tell her that her husband lowkey made me party hardy with his mistress and their friends but it's because I was like overwhelmed. I also meet this pretty chill guy who we'll call Jimmy, and find out he and my cousin had romantic history and that he really wants to re-kindle that flame. Now a bunch happened, and basically I didn't defend anyone, or say anything to anyone, and just kinda just watched it all go down and now Jimmys dead and got framed for murder.

Am I in the wrong for staying quiet and neutral about all of this?

Honestly I didn’t see what was the big deal. So I’m at this party with drinks , laughter , and very handsome RICH ! men there. I believe most of them are married but they seemed to enjoy me and my friends😉. Anyway my love ,let’s call him T, is acting like a complete douchebag .I believe he’s upset he can’t leave his ugly wife for me because she’s catholic. So I felt like it was right to taught him because he was being so rude . I may be a little dumb but I’m not stupid. I shouted is wife’s name as loud as I could so he could hear it through that thick arrogant skull of his ,then T hits me . I still don’t get it . He chose this life style deal with it !

I’m definitely not in the wrong here am I ?

I (50M) have this business partner (28M), let’s call him bird, who is known across all of New York for his lavish parties. Bird’s lavish parties did not come easily though. Together, my friend and I purchased quite a few side street drug stores in NY and Chicago and sold alcohol over the counter. While some may call this bootlegging, I call this hustling, but I digress. Over the years these activities caused our bond to strengthen as us so called “bootleggers” have to stick together, and we became close friends.

Recently I was informed of Bird’s passing by his neighbor and politely declined attending his funeral because of Bird’s extracurricular activities. In order to keep my reputation alive I could not be seen attending the funeral of someone who has quite a few rumors attached to his name. I supported him through all of his endeavors and now I have declined this one because of what it will do to me, plus he won’t even know if I am there.

So, AITA for not attending my close friend’s funeral in an attempt to keep the business we shared alive ?

Do you think that ITA for framing Gabriel?

I (late 20’s- early 30’s f) live in the Valley of ashes with my husband. We are poor and run a sad garage shop and barely make ends meet. One day while going to visit my sister in New York, I saw this man who took my breath away. After a while we started going out. He is a rich man who buys me whatever I want and is the sweetest man I’ve ever met. Also, the only reason I married my husband is because he looked successful and well-mannered and I believed the would be able to take care of me (he obviously did NOT!!!!). So am I the arse for wanting to have a lavish life and not having to worry?

You see, TB has been cheating on me left and right, and that foolish brute think i don't know. I've been feeling so unhappy and trapped in this marriage, and all I can think about is that one wonderful man who just poppedright back into my life. He's this charming, mysterious man lets call him JG. I had a fling with before I got married to TB. JG and I had such a deep connection, and I've always wondered what my life would be like if I had chosen to be with him instead.

Recently, JG has reappeared in my life, and all those old feelings have come rushing back. He's been showering me with attention and affection, something TB has ceased to do for a very long time, and I can't help but feel drawn to him. I know that leaving TB for JG would be a scandalous move, especially considering the social circles we move in, but I can't ignore my heart any longer.

So, am I the ARSE for wanting to leave my cheating husband for JG? I know it's a messy situation, but I can't shake the feeling that JG might be my true love. Please help me figure out what to do.

Okay so I (30m) am married to my beloved wife (26f) she's a real beauty, I even proved to her how much I loved her by buying her a $5 million pearl necklace so she wear it to our wedding and well, but let's be real there’s one small tiny thing, she's not exactly the most thrilling person in the world. It sometimes almost feels like I have to babysit her. But she also is in love with this other man who is a bootlegger, how disgusting, like hello I have money that’ll never run out. Sooooo there's this woman I've been having an affair with. Hold on, let me defend myself. She (35f) is a feisty little thing. She flipped my world upside down, like wow. But here's the thing. I've been stringing both of them along, playing with their emotions like it's some kind of game. I make promises I know I can't keep, l manipulate situations to my advantage, and worst of all, I don't even feel guilty about it Because I know I can get away with it. For example, my wife is clueless about my affair with my mistress, which is a great thing for me. I can have double the fun. And my mistress, well, she's under the idea that I'll leave Daisy for her someday. But the truth is, I'm just using both of them for my own satisfaction. I know what you're thinking. Yes, about me being an arse. I'm betraying my wife's trust (but she could be cheating on me, how rude), I'm leading my mistress on and getting her anything she wants, and I'm not showing respect for either of them. But hey, a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do, right? So, am I really the arse for manipulating two women and treating their emotions like they're disposable?

I(29m) recently moved to New York to join the bond business and I have recently found out that my next door neighbor(30m) who I'll call G is obsessed with my cousin(26f) who I'll call D. So me being the good friend I am invited D over for Tea one afternoon so that G could come over and work his magic. D's Husband is kind of a jerk so I was only thinking its for the better is she gets with G. AITA?

So I, (35M) have this neighbor of mine (29M) we can call him "N" he moved in not long ago to West Egg and he is fairly poor. I am a wealthy white male and am extremely well off because of.. I don't want to say exactly what I do for work but just know I make a lot. I have been obsessed with this girl (26F) who we'll call "D" which we've known each other since before the war we dated. I have recently found out that she is the cousin of my neighbor N, and I plan on furthering my relationship with D through N. I have met N already I think he's a very decent person. We discussed him inviting D over to his house so that me and her can reunite and finally be together. In preparation for her arrival I took the liberty of sending over a "small" landscaping company and several hundred dollars in floral decor in white too(her favorite). I know so much about her this jus proves that she really does belong to me.

AITA for doing this?? me and N are coolio rn but doing this was necessary for my to get closer the LOML(D).??

I have to take peoples lives to limit the population in my area, because resources are thin as it is and getting tinner every decade. However, many think my work specifically is immoral. Over the years I have tried to be as ethical as possible by only taking people who look as though they are done living, as people cannot die naturally anymore. This seemed to quell the protests, but recently some have voiced their concern that I prey on the unwell ,the downtrodden, and the weak. People say this when some Scythes go around masquerading as mass murderers and get no punishment from leadership, or by the people we are putting down. I am at a loss here, and I cant seem to find a way for people to stop complaining. The other Scythes seem just fine and get way less criticism. Is it because I have been doing this for so long? Should I quit? I don't know could anyone help me understand?

Well, I was at supper with D, her cousin N, and this other guy, G (35M), was shooting her glances. Now despite my personal affairs with other women, I knew something was up and that I wouldn't allow it to continue. So, I dug up the information I could on G and found out he's part of a large organized crime scheme on multiple fronts. The thought of this new money fraud trying to steal my wife away from me was sickening but I could tell she liked his company and that her cousin was friends with G so I tried to keep my cool.

And that I kept until one sweltering afternoon at the Plaza Hotel when I tried to crack this wise guy and asked him about his education. When G responded with a vague story that conveniently got him out of trouble I just couldn't take it anymore and blew up on him. I didn't even care about the affair anymore. I knew that this man was nothing but a phony and a nobody from nowhere and that D deserved to know that. After I had given my two cents, G told me that D never loved me and I protested that she DOES love me considering she's married to me and I love her too. This is when D speaks up and calls me "revolting" and says that "she can't love me now" and that she never loved me.

This broke me, and I asked her that even with all the things we'd been through, after all the time we'd spent together, she truly never loved me to which she admitted that she loved me once, but not anymore. This is where G loses his cool and insists that D is leaving me and this is where I may be in the wrong but I lost whatever cool I had left and condemned G for being a bootlegger and to drive him and my cheating wife out of the hotel.

TLDR: I confronted my cheating wife's affair partner about his shady business practices and even though I'm also a cheater, I can't help but feel wronged here. Did I go too far? AITA?

    I a (30 M) recently realized the people I am surrounded by are very careless in everything they live and breathe. They’re rich enough that they can return home and ignore the mess they’ve made. And yeah, I’ll admit I’ve known I kind of played a sort of middleman for these people with all the drama and secrecy. Though not without some loss: I lost a friend to this whole debacle. It could’ve been avoided if some information I knew was revealed, but knowing the aftermath of everything I don't really know if anything big would’ve changed. My friend, let's call him G, was in love with DB, my cousin: who’s already married but to a cheating husband. Let's just say he gets into a scuffle with her husband the information released about G disrupts whatever interest DB had in him, with her faith shaken in G, her husband with confidence allows her to drive with G. Later we see that his mistress dies due to being run over. A witness says it is by a car that describes the car G owns. But I found out through G that it was actually DB who was driving it. I later found that G had died by the mistress’s husband who was led to believe he killed her by DB’s husband. From the short conversation I had with DB’s husband it didn’t seem like he knew who actually killed her. After that I just found it to be disturbing that DB and her husband didn’t bother having any grievances; they didn’t attend G’s funeral and quickly went about their lives as if nothing happened. I left shortly after everything. I don't talk to them anymore to say the least. Was it good for me to say nothing even with the information I knew? Would it help anyone to know? Did I have a right to leave?

So I(30M) have a cousin(26F) named D who started an affair with my rich neighbor who we'll call G. G has been madly in love with her for years and when they finally met their love was rekindled. However my cousin is already married with a guy named T. After T meets G he notices as strange relationship between G and D. After T calls out G for who he really is, D takes T side and he tells her to go home with G. On the way home she runs over a woman and flees the scene, which later G tells me. It turns out the woman D killed was actually T's mistress who was also having an affair. This causes G to later be killed by her husband, and for D to get away scot free. So am AITA for not telling the cops and potentially getting someone else killed because of it?

I(33M) for quite some time I have been married to the love of my life ,D (26F), well thats what I tell myself but if im being completely honest I have been seeing another women this whole time, lets call her M(30F), I just like talking and being around M she brings around good energy and is lovely, but at the same time I also love my wife D. I don't want to pick and choose one and have one or the other sad and lonely so I have best decided to keep them both around in my life with the two ever meeting each other. There is benefits about having both D and M around, D is a housewife makes foods, cleans, and takes care of our child but she can sometimes be a hassle to deal depending on her attitude so in those times I got visit my mistress M and have a good time drinking and laughing with no worries. You know what they say two is better than one so I think I will keep it that way am I the arse ???

-James

Be me(30M)Tall,Handsome,and extremely wealthy young man living in New York married to some stupid girl named who we will call Big D(27F) who is ok looking I guess. I don’t completely hate my wife as we’ve had some good times together but I find engaging with one partner boring so I decided to start an affair with the wife of a mechanic who I’ll call M(32F). M isn’t too attractive but the idea of having a secret relationship while married makes my knickers twist. My current wife is aware of the affair but wont do anything about it because she still loves me I guess. Now that you have context for the story I want to bring up yesterday's events. I go to pick up my secret lover at her husband’s workshop, pick her up and take her out for a good time. We eventually arrived at her sister's house to party and this dumb girl had the nerve to mention my wifes name. Idk why but when i try to get her to stop she keeps screaming “Big D” “Big D” “Big D” ill say her name as much as I damn well please. Idk why but her saying her name just makes something snap in my mind the way she keeps saying the name of the woman i might love just ruffles my feathers. I then punched her in the face. At that point everybody in the party was already staring so I tried my best to console her after breaking her nose. I don't like to hit women usually but what that lady did in that moment ticked me off to no end. Her reminding me of Big D while I was actively being unfaithful made me reflect on my decisions as a husband and if I'm doing what's best for myself and my wife and if punching her in the face was the way to get her to shut up and not make me think about my actions then so be it. Her screaming “Big D” was also a huge party killer so I think I did everyone a favor. Reddit AITA?

So I (64M) once had something special, with someone special named Myrtle. She was my true love, who was ran over by that yellow buggy. After days of no sleep, I tracked the buggy back to the buchanans residence. once i arrived to question Tom he told me that it was gatsby's doing, and that's the guy i'm looking for. I then made my way to gatsby's residence, where i snuck around until i seen him relaxing on an inflatable float in the pool. In that moment i let my emotions get the best of me, and i pulled the trigger. Seconds later realizing what i had done, all thats on my mind now is reuniting with Myrtle....BOOOOM!

I, (26F), have been married to this man, we'll call him Bom, since I was 18. I loved him at one point, sure, but then he started messin with other females all willy-nilly and I lost feelings for him. Now, up until about a week ago, I didn't really have any other option but to stay with his lyin, cheatin arse. But then this fine arse soilder I met when I was like 17 was at this lil tea party my cousin invited me to. We'll call him Soulja Boy. When I first met Soulja Boy, he was broke as a joke and, you know me, I'm just a girl, so of course I reject him bc I don't mess with broke boys and he was going to war anyways so the hell I look like stayin with him for? So fastfoward a lil bit after the tea party, me n Soulja Boy linkin like fr now and you know I'm feelin him or wtv, but i can't be with him bc his money real weak and also I know Bom would probably be HOT so I was like lemme chill. So we rode out to New York to have a time in a hotel room (if ykwim), and yk it was hot as hell outside so we already was irritated. So boom we get to this hotel and we get to talkin and yk Bom and Soulja Boy already beefin so then Bom put two n two together and he calls me n Soulja Boy out for messin with each other and when Soulja Boy look to me for backup, I backed up ykwim. I was like "nah shordy we don't g together" and he was like "but you don't even love him fr" like...ok? That don't matter at all bc his money lookin right. Like I get that this man been waitin on me for half a decade but like...Tom can hold it down unlike Soulja Boy whose money isn't as secure. So I think I did the right thing.

so I (30f) am having an affair with a very wealthy man in his thirties. We will never be anything more because he's worried about how he looks and what people think about him......... While we are hanging out in an apartment in New York City with some friends having a party I unfortunately let my feelings get the best of me and I started bring up his wife... we'll call her Lily. Lily has the life I want ANDDDDDD has the man I want. I just want to be her!!!!!!! After all my yapping about her..... my lover, her husband, has enough and slaps me in the face. AITA?????????

I (30M) reunited with my cousin, we'll call her D, last Summer and met up with her childhood sweet heart, call him G. This guy just so happened to be my neighbor. Back when the two were teenagers they had a little meet up and got a bit excited. Afterwards G was sent off in the military and D decided she didn't want to wait on him to be returned, so she married some rich guy who so happened to be a college friend of mine, call him T. Apparently they were "still in love" for the 5 years prior to reuniting. While D was in a "loveless" relationship G decided that he still wanted D. He changed everything about himself to get this girl. So I figured I'm not in any position to intervene considering I'm not part of the wealthy class or in a relationship. I sat back and acted as a messenger between the two. So AITA for just letting the affair happen and partially helping.

so I (26) F is married to a rich man, we will call him T for five years. we have had a very thoughtful and happy marriage for the time being. but it all changed when my long time crush came back to my life. so just for context, this man we will call him J, was aman I saw back when I was a young adult. he was a soldier I saw at a party and once we locked eyes, it was love at first sight. we have both together, but he left and got stationed when world war one happened. we both sent letters back and forth talking to each other saying no matter how far we are away, we will still love each other. but suddenly he cut ties with me out of nowhere. like what? I thought he didn't want me anymore so over time I met T and eventually became his wife. but when J came back to my life, I found out he was a war hero. he was the man I truly loved and don't get me wrong, I loved Tom too. so I went to his house and have fallen back in love with him. so AITA for cheating on the husband I no longer love?