Write at least 3 elements and support your ideas with reasons and examples. Write in 250 words. 

I think these qualities such as be honest, listening, give compliments are most important things for building mutual relationships.

The first quality is be honest.  As we grow older, superficial relationships often become blurred. In order to build a strong friendship, you must be honest with each other. Being able to provide and receive feedback from people you trust is a thing that is easily overlooked. In the HK society, people will become selfish and unwilling to reveal the truth, they will only maintain surface relations and ignore the importance of friends.

The second quality is listening. It is important to listen carefully to what the other person is saying, to let people know that you have heard it. The first level of communication between the two sides is also to understand the main elements of the other side.

The final quality is giving compliments.  People need to be recognized, confirmed and accepted. Appropriate praise is a good way to encourage others. To show love express.

For example, my friend Peggy, she is my secondary classmate, who is always shown her patience to listen, and also analyzes the truth and falseness of things from an objective perspective.  And she often praises, making other willing close to her.

Thus, I understand that a good friend should have the above quality. 

In my real life, several of qualities could help me to build the mutual relationship with my friend. They are good listener, reliable and funny. I will share the experience and my point of view as follow.

 

The first qualities is good listener. 

For example, my friend Derek who always lend me an ear to listen my worries. I can told him anything even I’m happy or unhappy or something fun. He always welcome and listen concentrate what I am saying, I felt respect from him.  I can share my feeling to him, so that I can be release my stressful and share happiness through talking to him. I put it on the first qualities because it is the most important to me. 

 

The second qualities is reliable. If a friend not reliable enough, it may cause many problem, such as borrow money to your friend but you cannot get back the money, or you told a secret to him but he told it to everyone. I think if my friend or me were unreliable will makes us feel insecure, cannot last the friendship long. So I think the reliable for built the relationship is suitable for every friendship

 

The third qualities is funny. If your friend often happy and optimistic,

When you are upset or negative, his positive energy can lead you to positive too.

The guy who is funny can change a serious occasion to relaxation or can make someone not so nervous because of his optimistically.

           

In conclusion, to maintains a good friendship not only contain the above elements, some of elements can broke up the friendship too. We may pay our true heart and your friend can be feel it.

A good friend is a person who really gives to you, can double happiness, halve the sadness, when a friend meets a good thing, will be really happy, when a friend suffers, will wait for a friend, encourage her, support her.

I think good friends should have the following qualities, such as honest, sincere, considerate and cheerful.

The first quality is honesty, I think friends must be honest to establish a true friendship, with time, inevitably encounter unhappy or frustrated times, this time need scant to be willing to listen patiently to your unhappy and can promise to keep honest and confidential friends.

The second quality is sincere, friends get along with each other is to have sincerity, will not wear a mask waiter, in your back hurt you, in the friend happy, will be happy together, in the friend injured, will wait in the friend to comfort her.

The third quality is considerate, friends get along with their families, no matter where or at any time, should care for each other, each other in distress, gently greeting has been a kind of warm and considerate care.

The fourth quality is cheerful, because if we have negative energy, it will make us think worse about the more negative things, and having a friend who is always optimistic about giving positive energy can double our happiness and halve our sadness.

I happen to have a friend of more than one quality, My friend Ellen. in my unhappy time will talk with the heart, support me around, in my illness will continue to care for me, everyone will meet to shop together, have this friend is my life's honor.

First of all, the most important thing to build the relationship is a good listener. Everybody needs communication to each other whatever speaking, texting or email. It is about information transfer. You expect your friends will keep the secret and give you a good advice. 

Secondly, caring, it is displaying kindness and concern others. A good friends will care about your heart feeling. They can feel your concern and interest. You can feel safe when you being with your friends who is a caring person.

Thirdly, helpful, it is people who giving or willing to give help. You need a helpful friends when you face a problems or difficulties. Sometime you cannot face it alone. A helpful friends will give a hand to you to out of the situation. Work together is much better than work alone. It much easier.

Finally, kind, it is people who has a great deal in common. Usually, they are very polite and you can easy to get along with them. They are harmless and soft so that you can feel free to deal with them. 

In conclusion, I think a good friend needs to be a listener, caring, helpful and kind, are the most important things for building mutual relationship. These element are hard to master but practice make perfect. I hope you can find your good friends soon.

The first quality is helpful. A helpful person always help other people in anytime. For example, when people have difficulties, my friend Eric always tries his best to help them. I remember last time, when I got sick, Eric help to write down the notes during the lesson for my revision. Then I won’t failed in the exam. 

Thus, a helpful friend which is always helpful to people when you have difficulties. I should learn this element from Eric to become a helpful person to help others.

Second, I think considerate is one of most important thing for building mutual relationships. For example, I always arrange the activities and meeting with my classmates,  I know that some people have more than one group activities, I will try to schedule the meeting in another date that avoid to conflict with their group activities. Make sure they can attend the meeting without any conflicts.

So that I think considerate people can help the things go smoothly.

The third quality is honest. A honest person will gain the people trust and establish a true friendship. For example, in my job duties, I have to manage the warehouse stock taking once a month. I need to prepare the report for the manager that my manager doesn’t need to double check on the report due to my past record done well. That’s shown the honest is the essential element to build up the human relationship.

In concluding, I am glad that some of my friends have the above elements and I can learn from them that I became a good friend to have more friend in my social life. So that  I think the above elements, considerate, honest and helpful are the most important things to build up the relationship.

      The First quality is understanding.A understanding person is understand friend’s feeling and thinking.A understanding person  makes people think easy going .For example,My best friend is David.He is a person of understanding.He always comfort me and help me when i have difficult and problem.Thus,the understanding friends are comfort and help us when we have problem or difficult.

      The Second quality is helpful.A helpful person will helps people anything no matter have happen.For example,My friend is Ken.He is a helpful person.He likes help his friends.In secondary school,I forgot bring my books,but i couldn’t go home because i were in school.So,i asked ken borrow his books.Ken borrwed his books to me even if he needed books.Thus,A helpful person will help to us no matter have happen.

       The Third quality is funny,A funny person will makes people happier and laughter,We are feel happy.For example,My friend is Leo.He is a funny person.He is humor and hopefulness guy.He always bring funny to friends.When i unhappy and feel distressed,He will comfort me and joke to me.I will happy and forget my distressed.Thus,A funny person will makes us happy and laughter.That person will comfort us and joke to us when unhappy.We are feel good when chat with that person.

        Finally,I think understanding, helpful and funny is make a good friend element and important in the friendship.With the above three elements.I believe it helps build mutual relationship among my friends.So we are to be good friends.

Friends are the treasure of our lives. Having a good friend who love and support you in your life is important for your happiness and fulfilment. People should cherish and maintain friendship .

I think a good friend should be the followings qualities, such as supportive, honest and loyalty which are the most important things for building mutual relationships.

 

1.     Supportive

Supoortive means giving help and providing encouragement to a person. By being supportive , a good friend gives advice , direction and the truth on the good and bad decisions .Good friends will give support in the whole process of difficulties and support you through tough times.

2.     Honest

Health and nature growth on friendship are based on honesty as self-respect and trustworthy are the most element in the friendship. A good friend should tactfully tell you the truth, rather than lying to keep you happy in the short term. They will tell you all true.

 With honest , a true relationship is established which can be long lasting in our life.

3.     Loyalty

 True friends should always be loyal. A good friend should never betray you in any way, talk about you behind your back nor do anything else that questions your friendship.

 

 

Hence a good friend with the elements of supportive , honest and loyalty help us to deal with stress ,make better lifestyle that keep us strong.

 

Second element should be trust. You should give your trust to yourself and your friends. Trust they answers, trust they directive, trust they will help you to be better. Trust can get a better relationship, Convenience to work. Help to keep a teammate relationship. Then you all the work can be smoothly.

 

And the last one, friends should be faithful to each other. It is due to the trust. between the friendship leading to them to share their secrets where those secrets shall be kept in their minds and hearts. They should not spread other’s privacy to other who might be not getting along well with.

 

This my think about three element relationship building, and then this think element just a basically element, If you want a longer and stronger relationship, Then must need other stronger element.