ReMoved: Discussion Questions by Leah Juelke https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z Choose one question to respond to en-us 2021-11-09 01:48:08 UTC 2021-12-07 00:42:04 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932388525 The dress that was a gift was one trigger]]> 2021-12-07 00:36:19 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932388525 The scene where the girl was cooking with her foster mom. knannery1 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932388566 2021-12-07 00:36:21 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932388566 Triggers aburgoyne3 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932388722 She is triggered by loud noises, and had a flashback the dress.

]]> 2021-12-07 00:36:28 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932388722 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932388774 The mother didn't care about her children.]]> 2021-12-07 00:36:31 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932388774 Something as simple as a dress triggered a traumatic memory which caused behavior that other people did not understand https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932388874 2021-12-07 00:36:36 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932388874 She had issues trusting people. https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932388890 2021-12-07 00:36:37 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932388890 How the effects of child abuse can really impact her life in the long run. https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932388987 2021-12-07 00:36:42 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932388987 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389048 Patience, kindness, trying to understand, bringing in her younger brother.]]> 2021-12-07 00:36:45 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389048 realistic action scenes and storyline https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389050 2021-12-07 00:36:46 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389050 hwalpole1 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389094 What strikes me the most is how many of my own students this actually resembles. I have so many kids dealing with trauma it breaks my heart.]]> 2021-12-07 00:36:48 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389094 rarcangel1 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389201 Not knowing what children could be going through in their homes.]]> 2021-12-07 00:36:52 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389201 Skepticism of adults, trust issues, feelings of worthlessness https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389220 2021-12-07 00:36:53 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389220 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389245 She pushed people away. ]]> 2021-12-07 00:36:54 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389245 She was unable to trust and see good in other people. https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389251 2021-12-07 00:36:54 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389251 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389282 The dress was a trigger for the young girl. ]]> 2021-12-07 00:36:56 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389282 joshuamendoza1 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389319 What strikes me is about how realistic this video is. We as teachers forget that some of these kids do not have the ideal living situations. ]]> 2021-12-07 00:36:58 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389319 Sarah Ramos https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389340 She felt that she couldn't trust anybody.]]> 2021-12-07 00:36:59 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389340 Physically grabbing her https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389447 2021-12-07 00:37:04 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389447 She was unable to trust and have a positive image of adults. She also felt invisible to them. cfreeman76 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389509 2021-12-07 00:37:06 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389509 changes her ability to respond to stress, make appropriate decisions and express emotions https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389562 2021-12-07 00:37:09 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389562 What strikes me most is how there aren't more people noticing children looking and acting like this. We may need more Dexters in the world! https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389587 2021-12-07 00:37:10 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389587 aburgoyne3 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389658 She was taking on the role of parent, while still trying to take care of herself.]]> 2021-12-07 00:37:14 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389658 Think about what might be a trigger and find other methods to reprimand or praise so the child wouldn't be trigger from their past. https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389778 2021-12-07 00:37:19 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389778 melissaknoche https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389811 The foster mom being caring and understanding of the child and her response. Instead of getting angry, she allowed her to feel her feelings 

]]> 2021-12-07 00:37:21 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389811 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389851 I think as educators, we sometimes forget that children go through so much. We need to try to get to know our students more. ]]> 2021-12-07 00:37:23 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389851 Yelling. The dress that reminded her of witnessing mom's abuse. https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389934 2021-12-07 00:37:27 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932389934 Not trusting adults and feeling worthless. https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390002 2021-12-07 00:37:31 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390002 She would be aggressive towards adults, in class she is quiet and by herself. If she became triggered, she would lash out mescobar61 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390036 2021-12-07 00:37:33 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390036 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390047 Even though she had been traumatized, she was still able to show love for her brother and want to take care of him.

]]> 2021-12-07 00:37:33 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390047 Yelling her frustrations and emotions is what was modeled to her in her home environment. eborne1 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390081 2021-12-07 00:37:35 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390081 mhairell https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390157 She did not trust other adults in her life. She acted out in school and she went into fight mode because she was scared not for her but her brother. ]]> 2021-12-07 00:37:39 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390157 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390249 They took her away-her "dad" was taken away...They told her where to go, basically controlled all the variables for her...There needs to be remediation/building that trust on the back end-NOT just when she gets dropped off to another house]]> 2021-12-07 00:37:45 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390249 This was very powerful. Reminds of how important it is to be empathetic to all students. Which is not always easy to do. https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390326 2021-12-07 00:37:49 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390326 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390381 She feel unworthy of anyone caring for her.

]]> 2021-12-07 00:37:51 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390381 She lashes out when something reminds her of her past. It may cause others to turn away because they don't understand. https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390537 2021-12-07 00:37:57 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390537 adults were trying to help without any understanding of the young girls history. We need to ask more questions and/or spend time learning someones history https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390617 2021-12-07 00:38:01 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390617 kweakly https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390712 The adults showed the child compassion, kindness, patience, and were understanding. 

]]> 2021-12-07 00:38:07 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390712 The foster mom sitting on the couch in despair from the outburst, rather than reacting negatively https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390721 2021-12-07 00:38:07 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390721 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390823 The first foster family did not consider why she was doing what she was doing. Instead they just reacted to what they saw as negative behavior.]]> 2021-12-07 00:38:12 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390823 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390935 The abuse trauma made it hard to trust. Actions by the adult brought back the trauma as if it was just happening. ]]> 2021-12-07 00:38:17 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390935 phone calls https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390977 2021-12-07 00:38:20 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932390977 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932391508 What strikes me most about the video is the depth of the child’s trauma and abuse. I feel that as a teacher, I do think about some of the things my students may have experienced, but am not fully aware of the extent because I have not lived those experiences.]]> 2021-12-07 00:38:47 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932391508 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932391614 The dress was a trigger for the child. It reminded her of the mother's abuse. ]]> 2021-12-07 00:38:52 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932391614 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932391904 This makes me think back to my days in school and how many students were like this in the classroom. There were so many when I was in elementary, and especially in middle school.]]> 2021-12-07 00:39:04 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932391904 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932392038 Giving her time to adjust. Also the patience and not giving up. The foster mom might have taken time to read her file and realized she had a brother. She took care of him and needed to know he was ok. Seeing him come out of the car changed her whole demeanor. Bles  this foster mom!!!]]> 2021-12-07 00:39:10 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932392038 adults and trusting others https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932392087 2021-12-07 00:39:12 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932392087 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932392162 Even at young ages the children that we work with can experience deep depression. ]]> 2021-12-07 00:39:16 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932392162 New clothes, things given to her rcampbell126 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932392601 2021-12-07 00:39:34 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932392601 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932392824 The dress, physical contact]]> 2021-12-07 00:39:44 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932392824 rcampbell126 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932393652 Time, she needs time to see that she no longer needs to be in a fight or flight mode. ]]> 2021-12-07 00:40:19 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932393652 I've seen this video before. Domestic violence is a tricky situation to leave and so I see no fault of the mother in this video. It reminds me that we all have triggers from past trauma and we need to remember to give grace before making assumptions. https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932393721 2021-12-07 00:40:22 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932393721 Healing isn’t linear https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932393805 What struck me most about this video is that healing from and/or coping with childhood trauma does not happen overnight and is not linear. It may look like one step forward and five steps back. It requires patience and empathy and consistency. Also, sometimes “triggers” may not be obvious. ]]> 2021-12-07 00:40:26 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932393805 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932394845 ask questions]]> 2021-12-07 00:41:06 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932394845 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932395159 Its a good reminder to me that behavior at school can be directly related to what's happening at home, and this video just a good job of showing what is happening n our world today. Its sad, but prevalent. ]]> 2021-12-07 00:41:20 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932395159 rcampbell126 https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932395267 She communicated in anger, she had not yet learned how to communicate without the anger yet. ]]> 2021-12-07 00:41:23 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932395267 I think that as humans in general, we need to be more aware and compassionate towards other people's experiences and feelings. We need to learn and teach others specially our students to be more sensitive with all our actions and reactions towards one another. https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932396213 2021-12-07 00:42:03 UTC https://padlet.com/juelkel/le5c3re08vyd1l9z/wish/1932396213