Paragraph 1: Introduction: Quote: “The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.” How would you define trust? This quote by Ernest Hemingway shows us that placing our trust in anything can be tough at times. Trust is crucial in almost every part of our life, and such an example is turning to someone for help in times of need. Trust in my opinion, is the firm belief in the truth or someone. However, finding someone trustworthy is indeed not easy. It might potentially take years of friendship and experiences with each other to decide on whether someone could be trusted. In times of need, we often realise that our ‘heroes’ are those whom we can trust in. So who do you trust and why?

Paragraph 2: One of the experiences in which I vividly remember needing someone to turn to for help was during the preparation of the Primary School Leaving Examinations. It was the first national exam we were taking unlike any other regular test, and for the few months leading to the first paper, various emotions filled within me. I often got disappointed and annoyed when I wasn't making any progress with the amount of time taken. It was three months of madness, frustration, panic, stress and tiredness. I knew that relying on myself to get through this tough period wasn't enough, and that was the moment when I needed someone to turn to. 

Paragraph 3: My mother was the one whom I trusted and turned to at that point. Being an educator, she understands the perspective of a student like me as well. She motivated me when I was at my worst and encouraged me when I made an achievement. The practice was of the essence. The number of failures I had experienced during this period discouraged me from further attempts but my mother was there to push me even further. I realised that this was only possible not because of a miracle, but because I trust in my mother. I overcame the struggles I experienced and got through the obstacles faced. 

Paragraph 4: Another person who I turned to is my form teacher in Primary 6. She was a warm teacher and often told her students to consult her if they faced any difficulties. At that time, I could not cope with my studies and my grades dropped tremendously, causing me to lose confidence in myself as everyone else is improving, yet I’m doing the opposite. She noticed this and came to talk to me. After realising that I was too stressed, she told me to calm down and motivated me. I could not forget how she looked when she said “If you need help, you can always come and talk to me.” It felt really warm and fuzzy. She would always find time to talk to me and make sure that everything is fine, just like what she does to all her students. After those talks, I became more confident in myself and my grades improved significantly. I need to thank her for all those hours she spent talking to me, understanding my feelings and making me better. 

Paragraph 5: Conclusion: 

After so many years of being alive, I realised that many people helped me a lot, shaping me to become who I am today. If not for them, I would never be able to get so far in life. 

although the people i could trust to turn to when i am facing problems are not a mature adult like my parents or teachers, they are still my best friend whom knows how i feel as a person. they are basically an extension of myself i never knew i need.