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see_seow_ping_debbie — 2026-04-08 02:14:57 UTC

My friend trusted me with a secret… but I’m worried about her well-being. Do I keep her trust, or tell a trusted adult who can help? When does caring mean speaking up?

~Enqi

see_seow_ping_debbie — 2026-04-08 02:22:18 UTC

We want a fair game, but someone keeps getting left out. Do we prioritise balanced teams or make sure everyone is included? Is there a way to do both?

~Ivan

see_seow_ping_debbie — 2026-04-08 02:32:46 UTC

I have my own way of doing things, but my group wants me to match theirs. Do I change to fit in, or stay true to myself? How can I belong without losing who I am?

~Ramesh

see_seow_ping_debbie — 2026-04-08 02:33:48 UTC

My friend damaged something important to me and apologised. Do I hold him accountable or forgive and move on? How can I be fair without hurting our friendship?

~Ulfa

see_seow_ping_debbie — 2026-04-08 02:43:52 UTC

My friend is excited about something they did, but I know it may hurt others and it is not the right thing to do. Do I protect his feelings, or be honest with him?

~Guoyi

hongming

2026-04-14 05:07:37 UTC

we can include everyone to the same activity and to balance the teams out we can split half of good players withe half of the not so good ones this will help

we can include everyone in the same activity.We can do this by taking turns

2026-04-14 05:08:47 UTC

hongming

2026-04-14 05:08:49 UTC

if it is very severe you should tell the teacher as safety first but if it is just a minor thing just warn them to not do it if it is bad

rayyan 6I

2026-04-14 05:09:00 UTC

We can take turns being the one that doesn't play so that the teams are balanced and everyone gets to play

hongming

2026-04-14 05:10:07 UTC

you can voice out your opinion and can your group can still make some minor changes but not the full idea so it stays balanced

Wilson

2026-04-14 05:10:12 UTC

You can include everyone and ensure that girls and boys are split equally. There can be a rule where everyone must take part.

Karthik

2026-04-14 05:10:12 UTC

We can include everyone and split the people into different groups

Aleesya 6I

2026-04-14 05:10:35 UTC

You can kindly tell them that it is the wrong thing to do and provide them solutions. You should also tell the teacher and warn them.

rayyan 6I

2026-04-14 05:10:52 UTC

I would be honest with him because its not right to hurt others even if its not intentional. By being honest with him, he can see his mistake, grow, and learn from it.

i would be honest with him as he may think that it is alright to continue.

2026-04-14 05:10:53 UTC

hongming

2026-04-14 05:11:04 UTC

if it is very hard to forgive them you can not talk to them for a while until you moved on and can finally forgive him

Claire 6I

2026-04-14 05:11:06 UTC

We can first include everyone in the game, then take turns to play so everyone gets a chance and put both good and bad players in the teams so the game is fair and the good players can teach the worse ones.

Tuen shun 6I

2026-04-14 05:11:42 UTC

Include everyone and take turns to play the game so that its fair

Swagatha P6Integrity

2026-04-14 05:11:43 UTC

We could help Ivan by letting him be a referee instead of playing the game so that he would still be able to participate by writing scores down.

2026-04-14 05:11:52 UTC

I should be honest with him. I should also tell the teacher if he does not stop. He may case harm to others.

Aleesya 6I

2026-04-14 05:12:28 UTC

We should take turns in order not to leave anybody out of the game. There can be one person who doesn't play and rotates in-between rounds.

Isabelle

2026-04-14 05:12:36 UTC

we can let everyone take turns while playing and let the people who are good at the game and the people who are bad at the game mix together

you can suggest your opinion and share it with your group.It could allow you to see a new perspective in the way you answer

2026-04-14 05:12:44 UTC

rayyan 6I

2026-04-14 05:12:53 UTC

We can tell our other group mates about our ways of doing things so that they will understand us and they can see a new perspective of doing things.

Firza 6I

Firza15 — 2026-04-14 05:13:04 UTC

I think you should prioritize balanced teams. If the person being left out will really tip the balance between teams, then maybe people could take turns playing to make sure that everyone gets the chance to play in the game without having an unfair one.

2026-04-14 05:13:07 UTC

We could include everyone.To do this we could take turns and make sure that everyone plays an equal number of times.Including everyone will also help us know about eachother's skills and know what they are good at.

Zac Tay

2026-04-14 05:13:12 UTC

we can make sure everyone plays by taking turns or forming groups it doesn't matter if there are balanced teams just as long as everyone is included and playing

2026-04-14 05:13:14 UTC

You can tell your opinion to your group and make tweaks to your ideas.

2026-04-14 05:13:15 UTC

I can tell him his action is wrong and tell him how they can noT do that action or I will tell the teacher.

hongming

2026-04-14 05:13:19 UTC

if the secret is really important to you you should only tell your parents or relatives or but if you really want to tell make sure he or she can be trusted instead of ones you are not 100 percent sure

Rui Chen

2026-04-14 05:13:24 UTC

We can make sure that everyone is included by splitting the teams into half good ones with some not so good ones so doing both is possible

Shanyun

2026-04-14 05:13:26 UTC

You could take turns and make sure that no one feels left out. The main priority sometimes is not always balanced teams.

If the number of people is odd, like for eg. 9people in a 8 player game, we can take turns or say the last person can be an umpire, or the rule appointer, to make sure the game is fair.

Megan 6I

2026-04-14 05:13:31 UTC

You should tell him gently that what he's doing is wrong, and if he doesn't listen, you should alert a teacher.

Tuen shun 6I

2026-04-14 05:13:32 UTC

He should be honest with him as integrity is more important. This is so that friends would not get hurt by him.

Kian 6I

2026-04-14 05:13:32 UTC

We can make sure everyone is included so that no one is left out.If there is too many people then we can take turns for a balance.

i would forgive the person as a friendship is more important then something you can't use after awhile

2026-04-14 05:13:43 UTC

2026-04-14 05:14:04 UTC

I should forgive them and give them another chance

rayyan 6I

2026-04-14 05:14:13 UTC

I would forgive them as a friendship is way more important than things that get accidentally damaged. The thing may be fixable but friendships may not.

Aleesya 6I

2026-04-14 05:14:29 UTC

We could all discuss and agree on one style of doing things. Or, we could also just have all of our different styles. Sharing your opinions about each other's style is also helpful.

Swagatha P6Integrity

2026-04-14 05:14:38 UTC

Guoyi should tell his friend to apologize to the person he harmed and if he does not, Guoyi should tell the teacher.

zakariya

2026-04-14 05:14:39 UTC

include everyone. to balance the game, the good players and split them in half then put them in one team. then put the not so good players and split them in half and put them in the team. this way its balanced.

2026-04-14 05:15:05 UTC

forget it, forgive him and move on. In life, accidents happen at times. If you keep remembering it and let it affect you, it would not do any good to you-- only make your life miserable. Hence you should heed my advice, and forgive him.

2026-04-14 05:15:07 UTC

I should tell a trusted adult. They may cause harm to themselves by accident.

Kian 6I

2026-04-14 05:15:09 UTC

I should be honest with him and use the CHEER technique to make sure he does not feel sad or mad at us.This way we can protect his feelings while being honest.

AMITH

2026-04-14 05:15:17 UTC

You should forgive them and move on, because...

If he did something that was obviously on purpose, you definitely should not forgive him but if it is not obvious, you will never know if it was on purpose, but it is still best to move on and keep the friendship strong! 💪

jerrlyn 6I

2026-04-14 05:15:17 UTC

Enqi should tell a trusted adult because potentially speaking up could help her friend but make sure to ask if they are comfortable or not before telling.If they are not, you can try to solve the problem together

Zac Tay

2026-04-14 05:15:18 UTC

I should be honest with him as it is not right to hurt others and I should encourage him to do the right thing and apologise.

Shanyun

2026-04-14 05:15:20 UTC

We need to be honest and tell the friend that what they did is wrong and harmful. If we do not, yes we do have the relationship, but what if they repeat it and get in trouble? We need to tell them not to repeat the same mistake of doing such actions, so we can avoid future cases that include injury.

Kate 6I

2026-04-14 05:15:29 UTC

I will be honest with him. I will be kind and tell him that it is the wrong thing to do. Also, give them solutions.

jianyi

2026-04-14 05:15:41 UTC

we can take turn so we can include everybody

Claire 6I

2026-04-14 05:15:47 UTC

You should be honest with your friend and tell him it is not right to hurt others as his action could cause hurt to others in the way he never knows, and by doing that, you can make sure he don't make the same mistake again.

Aleesya 6I

2026-04-14 05:15:49 UTC

We can move on from the incident and start from a new slate. Always holding back your friend for one thing done wrong isn't a good idea.

Tuen shun 6I

2026-04-14 05:15:55 UTC

You can tell them to change the plan and discuss instead of making everyone do the same and follow one person's idea

zakariya

2026-04-14 05:16:02 UTC

tell them that it is not good to do and if its very severe I can tell a trusted adult.

Yu Xing

2026-04-14 05:16:06 UTC

We can include everyone to play the game. The students can take turns and make sure that each group have good and not so good players so they can learn from the better ones.

rui chen

2026-04-14 05:16:07 UTC

you can tell them that it is the wrong thing to do but if he continues to do it then alert a teacher of the situation.

Megan 6I

2026-04-14 05:16:30 UTC

You should tell the group about your way and maybe try their way as well, but most importantly you should choose what feels comfortable.

Mikaela 6I

2026-04-14 05:16:43 UTC

We can include everybody and take turns to play so everybody will not feel left out.

2026-04-14 05:16:50 UTC

It depends as if it is a very bad thing we should tell the teacher to ensure that in the future no one would get hurt.However,if it is minor we should still warn our friends and make them apologize to the victim.Either ways we should still be honest with our friends and point out their mistake to make sure that they work on it.

2026-04-14 05:17:01 UTC

fruit them since they r bad friends and leave da group

jianyi

2026-04-14 05:17:05 UTC

first tell him to stop and if he continue tell the teacher

Isabelle

2026-04-14 05:17:10 UTC

be honest with him by telling him that it is wrong and he should do something else and if he does not listen, I will tell the teacher.

If the secret is important you can tell it to your parents to relieve the burden.

2026-04-14 05:17:11 UTC

2026-04-14 05:17:12 UTC

You can politely tell them about your way of doing. If they do not agree you may ask them why my way of doing it is not good.

jerrlyn 6I

2026-04-14 05:17:18 UTC

it may be hard to forgive but if they really did not mean it and they were really sincere about their apology then you should give them a second try.

Kate

2026-04-14 05:17:27 UTC

You can share an idea with the group and see if they agree with it. Or the group can just agree on one idea together.

Firza 6I

Firza15 — 2026-04-14 05:17:45 UTC

You should be honest with him because we must always put others before ourselves. It may hurt his feelings, but it is better than a whole bunch of other people getting hurt. Maybe you could put it gently instead of just being like "STOP WHAT YOU'RE DOING IS WRONG"

Tuen shun 6I

2026-04-14 05:17:47 UTC

She should forgive the person as hating the person is not good and will always make herself angry when she think about the person.

Shanyun

2026-04-14 05:17:48 UTC

You must always express yourself, do not always follow the flow. If we all do not express ourself and follow one person, we would be mindless zombies! You can suggest your own opinion and ideas, then combine them with your group mates ideas to make an even better one.

Kian 6I

2026-04-14 05:17:55 UTC

you can tell your group about your ideas and request minor changes but don't tell them to change everything or they may get angry.

jian yi

2026-04-14 05:18:00 UTC

you can do it half-half

Aleesya 6I

2026-04-14 05:18:06 UTC

if the secret is concerning, it would be the best to tell a trusted adult, although meant to be kept a secret. Telling a concerning secret is also being a caring friend, like you care for their well-being.

Zac Tay

2026-04-14 05:18:07 UTC

I think that he should tell his idea to his group and should convince them to do minor changes to their things

2026-04-14 05:18:28 UTC

throw it away

2026-04-14 05:18:30 UTC

We can include everyone in the game and take turns playing. We can also play games that everyone that likes.

Isabelle

2026-04-14 05:18:31 UTC

share all of the groups ideas and do a group vote on which idea is the best

Rayyan 6I

2026-04-14 05:18:38 UTC

If she keeps her secret and doesn't tell any trusted adult that could help, it will only continue to worry her more each day until its impossible to hide it. If I tell a trusted adult, it could help solve her problem and she will be more comfortable to share more problems or secrets that she has been hiding, thus, she will not be afraid to tell her feelings/problems anymore.

Kate

2026-04-14 05:18:49 UTC

Forgive and move on. We can just forgive them as holding back a wrong thing is not a good thing.

Swagatha P6Integrity

2026-04-14 05:19:06 UTC

Ramesh could suggest to your group to combine both of the ideas which will make the idea even better. If they do not want to accept it, he can just tell the teacher that he is not being included in the group's work.

2026-04-14 05:19:24 UTC

I would forgive my friend and give him another chance

phua_kaile — 2026-04-14 05:19:33 UTC

prioritise balaced teams, they wont be too full or difficult to battle with, should mean it would be fun

zakariya

2026-04-14 05:19:37 UTC

tell people about how you do your things and they might understand us and see the thing in a different perspective

2026-04-14 05:19:39 UTC

Stay true to yourself if the idea is good,but if your group has other ideas fell free to let them share and compromise.Maybe have a few ideas from yourself and a few from Your group mates.Just do not change yourself for others unless it is a positive change.

Megan 6I

2026-04-14 05:19:44 UTC

You should ask whether she is comfortable with sharing her secret with a trusted adult and try to help her if she's a bit too weird...?

If the secret does not seem to bother anyone, then let it go.

Tuen shun 6I

2026-04-14 05:19:52 UTC

She should tell a trusted adult so that the problem can be resloved.

Claire 6I

2026-04-14 05:19:54 UTC

You should share your opinion politely to your group and together, the whole group can take turns to share their ideas and improve on one another's idea to come up with an even better one.

Shanyun

2026-04-14 05:19:58 UTC

You should find some help, ask a teacher or a trusted adult for any assistance. The item must be really important, and you should know, a 'sorry' does not help much. They may be angry at you for telling a teacher, but you must know they were the one who did the wrong thing.

jianyi

2026-04-14 05:20:02 UTC

forgive him when you get over the demaged thing

Yu Xing

2026-04-14 05:20:12 UTC

I think that Guoyi should be honest with his friend and tell him what is right and what is wrong so his friend don't repeat the wrong thing to do. His friend might also make it become a bad habit.

Kian 6I

2026-04-14 05:20:24 UTC

if you feel really uncomfortable you could tell others about it for advice.I recommend not confronting him or informing teachers so that you can still remain friends.If the thing they broke was really important,you could ask them to reimburse you.

2026-04-14 05:20:30 UTC

You should really be true to yourself. People have their own ways of doing things, just like people are special in different ways. It is normal to do things your way--maybe you should try to combine your ideas with theirs, then the result would be a true, perfect, team work one.

Zac Tay

2026-04-14 05:20:53 UTC

you could forgive your friend but tell her to try and not do it again as she might have done it accidentally.

rui chen

2026-04-14 05:21:04 UTC

you should voice out your opinions so that your group can make changes but it does not changes your opinions

Firza 6I

Firza15 — 2026-04-14 05:21:12 UTC

Stay true to yourself! Even if you don't fit in for your entire life! I would rather be a nice person and not fit in than fit in and not be myself. If you lose yourself, than what are you for? What good are you? Everyone has something they're good at, even if it's the tiniest thing. So don't let others change the way you are!

jerrlyn 6I

2026-04-14 05:21:23 UTC

Ramesh can stick to his style and tell his groupmates that he works better with it and will stick with using that style.He does not need to change himself for others.

phua_kaile — 2026-04-14 05:21:27 UTC

be honest with him, dont let him get scolded or hurt others

Kate

2026-04-14 05:21:34 UTC

If the secret concerns you, you should tell a trusted adult to relieve the burden.

shafiqueeeeeee6i

2026-04-14 05:21:39 UTC

you can tell them your way of doing things and do it the way you always do it

Swagatha P6Integrity

2026-04-14 05:22:33 UTC

Ulfa should just forgive her friend one time but if her friend does it again, it is definitely not an accident and cannot be forgiven so Ulfa should tell the teacher if that happens.

jianyi

2026-04-14 05:22:54 UTC

ask her if you can tell teacher and say that she can get help from the teacher

Megan 6I

2026-04-14 05:22:58 UTC

Maybe everybody can rotate players for the referee so nobody gets left out.

2026-04-14 05:23:01 UTC

If we don't know what to do, we should get help and support probably from a trusted adult.

2026-04-14 05:23:18 UTC

Tell your friend how you feel.If your friend does not seem to care tell a trusted adult,but remember we should not immediately get angry at our friends who made the mistake once.However if mistakes are repetitive we must talk to them politely and make sure that they understand.

jerrlyn 6I

2026-04-14 05:23:23 UTC

Guoyi should tell his friend that it is not right even though it may feel good for his friend

zakariya

2026-04-14 05:23:36 UTC

if its accidentally and they feel bad then forgive them but if its on purpose and they have no remorse then no need to forgive

Kian 6I

2026-04-14 05:23:45 UTC

First,ask them if they are comfortable if you told a teacher.If they disagree,do not tell the teacher. If the problem escalates to a very bad point,you may consider telling the teacher

rui chen

2026-04-14 05:23:46 UTC

i would forgive them as friends are more important than being angry with each other.we would not want to have one less friend,instead we should maintain our friendship well.

Shanyun

2026-04-14 05:24:03 UTC

If the secret is something like ' Ive been feeling sick lately but my parents refuse a trip to the doctor...I am to scared to ask for help, just keep this a secret okay?' You must reach out to a teacher. If this goes on, there may be permanent damage to them. The situation might become worse, so the best you can do is ask a teacher for assistance. Never make the mistake of keeping such dangerous and serious secrets.

2026-04-14 05:24:08 UTC

I can tell a teacher about what happened to my friend and ask the teacher if he/she may kindly tell my friend about why he needs to speak up

Kate

2026-04-14 05:24:10 UTC

We should try to include everyone in the game so that no one will feel left out. We can also take turns or rotate around.

2026-04-14 05:24:13 UTC

get a mic and shout your ideas at the team until they listen

2026-04-14 05:24:15 UTC

Guoyi should be honest with his friend so his friend won't do the wrong thing and he may repeat the same thing again. He should tell him what is the right thing to do.

Swagatha P6Integrity

2026-04-14 05:24:55 UTC

Enqi should tell a trusted adult if she cares for her friend as she cannot help her friend if she does not try at least but she should make sure not to tell anyone else at all.

Jerrlyn 6I

2026-04-14 05:24:58 UTC

We should make sure to include everyone so that everyone has a chance to play.

Claire 6I

2026-04-14 05:25:02 UTC

You should forgive your friend and move on as he may not do it purposely and by forgiving him, you are giving him a chance to learn from his mistakes, and not damage your friendship. By forgiving him, you also will not likely hold a grudge inside you, making you feel better.

Isabelle

2026-04-14 05:25:02 UTC

forgive each other as friendship is very important.

Yu Xing

2026-04-14 05:25:03 UTC

You can stay true to yourself by telling them that they should discuss about their ideas and choose the best one to use for the group.

2026-04-14 05:25:14 UTC

Tell a trusted adult.This way we could help the friend to be safe and have a better well-being.It may look like a tough decision but we must make sure that our friend is safe and healthy.

Eryna 6I

2026-04-14 05:26:10 UTC

They can take turns. For example, person A can play for 2 rounds, and then swap roles with person B for another 2 rounds. This method can continue on until everyone has had their turn.

Amy

2026-04-14 05:26:11 UTC

You can continue doing things your own way and tell your group that you want to continue to do things your own way as you are used to that and want to stay true to yourself. You can tell them that everyone has their own way of doing things and you don't want to match their way of doing things just to fit in. You can tell them that they should not force you to do things their way and should also think about others' feelings and have empathy for others. You can also teach them your way of doing things and you can still feel belonged without losing who you are.

Firza 6I

Firza15 — 2026-04-14 05:26:22 UTC

I think you should forgive him and move on. It's not worth it to hold grudges. It takes 43 muscles in your face to frown, but only 17 to smile! A grudge would stay with you your entire life and you won't forget it. But if you forgive him, you can remember a nice and long-lasting friendship!

“Hate, it has caused a lot of problems in the world, but has not solved one yet.” ~Maya Angelou

zakariya

2026-04-14 05:26:38 UTC

at first I will try to help them myself but if I really cant help them I will ask my parents about the secret

Iniya Veer 6I

2026-04-14 05:26:40 UTC

The best option is to make sure everyone is included. So that everyone gets a chance to participate in the game and so that it would be a fair game.However if you want to do both you should weigh each players strengths and weaknesses and decide the team they should be in.

Isabelle

2026-04-14 05:26:44 UTC

if it is really important, you should tell a teacher or a trusted adult, they will know what to do. if it is not important, you should keep it a secret.

shafiqueeeeeeee6i

2026-04-14 05:26:46 UTC

you should just move on because there is no use to be mad at the person doing it and it will only ruin the friendship and there is nothing useful out of it

Zac Tay

Talk it out with the person, see if they did it intentionally or accidentally. If by intention, that person is not a good friend, move on.

Mikaela

2026-04-14 05:32:55 UTC

You can stay true to yourself and share with your group your idea and opinion to see what they think about it.

Eryna 6I

2026-04-14 05:33:12 UTC

If it is something dangerous, it is best to tell a trusted adult.

2026-04-14 05:33:26 UTC

Enqi can tell her parents about it and her parents can help her overcome it or give her some advice.

Mikaela

2026-04-14 05:38:28 UTC

You can tell your friends how you feel so they can understand better . If it happens again , you can forgive them and tell them to be more careful next time.

phua_kaile — 2026-04-14 05:38:47 UTC

Her friend trusted her, keep it a secret. Its just a secret.

Amith

2026-04-14 05:39:52 UTC

You should be honest with him because even if he is hurt if you told him that 1 person getting hurt will be less prioritised than more people getting hurt. To make sure he/she does not get hurt, we must tell him politely and slowly, making sure that he fully understands why.

We should include everyone as if we were the person who was not included, we would not be happy. So we should make it equal split half.

2026-04-14 05:41:19 UTC

hrrrrmm

2026-04-14 05:41:39 UTC

Iniya veer 6I

2026-04-14 05:42:27 UTC

stay true to yourself and do not change yourself just because other people want you to.Trust yourself so that you do not doubt yourself so easily.

Mikaela

If her secret is not related to her well being we can keep it a secret but is it does we should tell a trusted adult so she can be helped and is not mentally or emotionally affected.

2026-04-21 12:40:38 UTC

Mix the different people together into two teams

Germaine 5 Empathy

2026-04-22 07:00:45 UTC

EnQi can keep her trust. However, if things are not going right for her, you must tell a trusted adult for help and maybe start to tell a little about the secret and then slowly revealing it step by step and not jump to the conclusion to avoid relationships being destroyed. This is because revealing all the secrets, the friend might feel insecure and loses trust in people, keeping things to themselves and worsening the problem.

Germaine 5 Empathy

2026-04-22 07:08:15 UTC

I would consider that Ulta move on even when it is hard to accept. However, this is reality and in life, we will encounter difficulty moving on. Now that your friend had sincerely apologised, take a deep breath and moved on. It might look easy to move on, but it takes some time and it is not as easy as most people think it is. You could just simply go to that person and explain your feelings and forgive .

We can include everyone but we have to take turns each time

2026-05-09 12:15:05 UTC

Dhakshan 5E

2026-05-09 12:16:04 UTC

Be honest tell him not to do it

Dhakshan 5E

2026-05-09 12:17:32 UTC

Share your opinion to your group

Dhakshan 5E

2026-05-09 12:20:29 UTC

You move on until they forgive you

Dhakshan 5E

2026-05-09 12:21:00 UTC

Tell it to a trusted adult.