https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy Made with a quick smile en-us 2016-10-20 01:42:45 UTC 2016-10-20 16:43:41 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-assets.s3.amazonaws.com/icons/Balance.png rbiscegl https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/131960783 2016-10-20 01:43:35 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/131960783 https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132139616 Friendships can be both conscious and unconscious depending upon the situation . Much of the time our friendships are conscious because we consciously choose who we talk to and who we decide to continuously speak to and keep in touch with. On the other hand when you are constantly surrounded by the same people/person and may have limited options (e.g. going to a small school) this is when your friendships can become unconscious because you are more likely to form these friendships because we are constantly around this small group of people 
 ]]> 2016-10-20 16:36:18 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132139616 https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132139644 - follow them on social media 
- conscious because your aware its happening, might make certain moves friendship 

]]> 2016-10-20 16:36:22 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132139644 https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132139914 tried to apparently kill my best friend in elementary school but then constant exposure and mutual friends brought us together to form similar interests and worldviews. On a conscious level, I started to make the effort to continue the friendship but on unconscious level, we formed the friendship through general exposure and mutual relationships 


]]> 2016-10-20 16:36:57 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132139914 https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132139924 - not easily manipulated to develop
- you cannot force chemistry
- being around someone often is not enough if you simply do not like them
- friendship can be formed both consciously and unconsciously - we make conscious decisions who we want to affiliate with, but the desire behind wanting to befriend that person is unconscious
- example: meeting a friend in school, you unconsciously meet due to proximity but make the conscious decision to continue being friends with that person after meeting or not 

]]> 2016-10-20 16:36:58 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132139924 https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132139958 CONSCIOUS: 
- Persistence to be around someone and communicate with them

UNCONCIOUS:
- Limited options for friends (circumstantial) so make choices based on who is available ]]> 2016-10-20 16:37:03 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132139958 https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132139964 -If you ask someone to hang out all the time; that is conscious
-if you have limited people in your class, or who you see everyday (depending on the situation); unconscious ]]> 2016-10-20 16:37:04 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132139964 https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132140111 unconscious 
- giving someone your number for 'homework' purposes & then start having regular convos which blossoms into a friendship 

conscious 
- in grade 2 I wanted to be friends with this girl so I basically stalked her all around the playground until she got mad and was forced to play with me. We were friends for a little bit ]]> 2016-10-20 16:37:25 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132140111 https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132140251 - doing things together (Ex. homework, studying, hanging out)
-wanting to be with them 
-having a good time when you're with them ]]> 2016-10-20 16:37:45 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132140251 https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132140287 -you can condition them to like you (give them things that they want while in your company)]]> 2016-10-20 16:37:49 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132140287 kayla_terc_97 https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132140299 Conscious because you want to make them like you e.g. trying their favourite food, listening to their favourite music, etc. 

Unconscious because you just crave the connection ]]> 2016-10-20 16:37:51 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132140299 https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132140406 can be both conscious and unconscious]]> 2016-10-20 16:38:08 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132140406 https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132140417 Can occur unconsciously due to interactions in a common proximity that can manipulate friendly interactions. Certainly if the proximity is in a unfamiliar environment can create powerful connections
Examples:
- Studying for a test together can manipulate people to interact and so create a bong

]]> 2016-10-20 16:38:09 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132140417 https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132140598 - it would be easy to manipulate someone to be in the same place via external causes (family functions, etc.)
- it would be easy to present yourself differently to someone who you may want to be friends with.
- ingratiation could be used to manipulate someone's impression of you, or to put them in a good mood while they're around you in order to support good associations of you (mood congruence).
- you could unconsciously manipulate someone to like you via conditioning (if you were to offer someone candy, chocolate, coffee, etc. when they agree to be with you)]]> 2016-10-20 16:38:38 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132140598 https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132140651 -complimenting
-hanging out
-offering advice
-sharing opinions
-buying material things for them
-buy them cookies

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]]> 2016-10-20 16:38:48 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132140651 https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132141114 - When ur teacher forces you to take care of the new student
- When ur in the same classes as some people but don't necessarily talk to them years later when your in a forced situation

CONSCIOUS AND UN
- some u can be aware of and others can happen randomly and unexpectedly

]]> 2016-10-20 16:39:49 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132141114 https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132141265 Friendships can be manipulated to a certain degree, but may be unlikely to last, or to be genuine

Can be both conscious and unconscious because people often are aware of what they look for in a friendship (conscious), but sometimes friendships happen unexpectedly (unconscious)]]> 2016-10-20 16:40:08 UTC https://padlet.com/rbiscegl/kwhc49m693uy/wish/132141265