https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql Distance Between Us Padlet Joshua Viramontes, Mia Hernandez, Evangelina O'Leary, Nicole Bell en-us 2022-01-11 19:25:14 UTC 2022-01-24 19:39:48 UTC hello@padlet.com 565706 https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1986854222 Abuse in family has a multiple effects on the relationships within the family. The main long term effect on family relationships separation between the abuser and the abused. If an adult is abusive to their children, the children will have changes in mental health, habits, and willingness to preserve family relationships. Families on most occasions are separated as a result of abuse and the members continue to isolate themselves from the abuser. There is a lost in trust, love, and happiness because there is no room for a healthy relationship. However, the mentality of "they are still family" remains in the abused members even when they are purposely isolating themselves. This mentality leads to the family coming together only when one of them is terminally ill, but this isn't because of a new found love for the abuser. On rare occasions abuse in family leads to permanent separation, where the abused will forever leave their family even if the abuser is dying or dead.

]]> 2022-01-11 19:37:48 UTC https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1986854222 5662612 https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1986862689 Natalio raises his children the same way his father, Abuelo Augurio, raised him. He was misunderstood, physically abused, never received affection, and surrounded by poverty. Once he is in a position of power over his children, he takes out all this anger and silencing on them, and doesn't think it might be wrong, doesn't think of the way it ruins their relationship. We see this cycle perpetuate more in Mago than Carlos, yet. The puppies she killed in Iguala, the way she "mothers" her siblings while still hitting and scolding them, and the way she solves her problems with malice and violence.]]> 2022-01-11 19:41:33 UTC https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1986862689 https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1987413526 When there is a case of abuse in a family it will cause a long-lasting mistrust and trauma . Because of these problems people are never viewed the same or their relationship is never the same and they are a disconnected. So it will cause many families to separate or not speak to each other.]]> 2022-01-12 03:42:01 UTC https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1987413526 566495 https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1988952642 I think abuse can really misconstrue relationships. It makes you lose trust in your abuser but leaves you conflicted on how to feel because they are still your family. It definitely takes years to recover from familial abuse and I dont always think its easy to just forgive and forget even if they are family. I also think it can lead to problems with trust in relationships for those who have experienced abuse because it can be easy to question how much you can trust your partner since you had once been hurt by someone they loved before. ]]> 2022-01-12 19:09:26 UTC https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1988952642 5696161 https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1988965494 Abuse can have a negative effect on a family and in most cases makes it fall apart. When a family has mass or constant abuse from others or especially family members, it tends to cause lasting mistrust and trauma in the members of the family. ]]> 2022-01-12 19:15:47 UTC https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1988965494 566564 https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1988976959 I believe abuse causes the whole family to change because of how drastic the effect is, and how it can cause trauma with the whole family. Another thing is forgiveness but something like that is really hard to forgive someone for because of the amount of damage mentally and physically that was caused. The whole family can become a mess and can change everything in the long run of how the family reacts to it as a whole, and how they continue to live with that situation going on.]]> 2022-01-12 19:21:43 UTC https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1988976959 https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1988985351 Abuse can truly mess up a family with the lack of trust and love inside the family. A family with no trust is a family set up for disaster due to the fact you never know what they will do based off an action. Also a family with lack of love is not a family yet a group of people labeled as a family. ]]> 2022-01-12 19:26:08 UTC https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1988985351 https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1988986111 Abuse can effect family relationships very badly in the long run. Abuse can lead to emotional and physical trauma that will stay with those relationships forever.]]> 2022-01-12 19:26:34 UTC https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1988986111 5658231 https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1988994193 Abuse or trauma can change a family forever and can sometimes never be resolved. Even when the abuse isn't ongoing its common for families to split and "take sides" after abuse in a family. Often grudges can be held making functioning as a happy family nearly impossible. ]]> 2022-01-12 19:30:33 UTC https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1988994193 5655382 https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1989121434 Abuse can affect family relationships by stirring up emotions and creating tension. In the long run, abuse tears apart families and can ruin their future. Trauma is passed down by the next generation and their families can eventually be involved as well. Relationships will start to lose trust and people will starts to fall out of love. ]]> 2022-01-12 20:50:36 UTC https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1989121434 5664041 https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1993297033 Abuse can result in trauma induced habits for families. This makes it hard to connect with the people in the family without underlying fear or discomfort. Abuse in a family can overall destroy the relationships within it. ]]> 2022-01-15 05:16:22 UTC https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1993297033 566583 https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1993340254 Receiving any form of abuse in your younger years can have massive issues with trauma and your mental health. It will also lead to family issues. Causing trauma that can never be healed is the biggest way you can have any relationship with someone else ruined.]]> 2022-01-15 07:18:47 UTC https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1993340254 5700053 https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1994003945 Abuse from family can result in strained relationships as well as trauma and trauma related responses to it especially later in life. Receiving abuse from a young age can cause a rift in family relationships and adding to that trauma response that can be triggered easier when around that family member. ]]> 2022-01-16 07:01:58 UTC https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1994003945 570279 https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1994059724 Abuse affects families by instilling fear instead of love. Members of the family are always afraid of the wrong thing to be said or done that would set the abuse off. The anxiety of always doing everything right and pleasing everyone to keep the family happy can be overwhelming. The children in the family may feel responsible for fixing the family and resort to drugs and other substances to take a break from their reality. Abuse can affect the way an individual lives life from their mental health, self-blame, anxiety, guilt, and distrust. An individual that experienced abuse may have a harder time forming relationships because of trust issues and overwhelming emotions that can be confusing.]]> 2022-01-16 08:57:48 UTC https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1994059724 https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1994094592 Abuse can affect a family really bad it causes so many issues that make the person feel horrible inside not loved lonely makes people drift apart bottom line is if someone gets abused they will never forget about it it's always going to stick with them through their whole life they will never heal and makes them hard to trust because of all the trauma built up it makes that person feel horrible inside and will never forget about that person and it will bite the abuser in the long run.]]> 2022-01-16 09:57:54 UTC https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/1994094592 5655291 https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/2009665718 Abuse can not only affect you but your family as well. Your family should be able to trust each other through any situation. This can all change this. In the long run, the mental health will not be stable as you are surrounded by negative things. Growing up around all this may affect the way you think and feel. It will be hard to heal yourself through abuse and trusting your family will be a hard thing to do.]]> 2022-01-24 19:39:48 UTC https://padlet.com/5700061/kryjccodazp9b6ql/wish/2009665718