What would you have done? by NATHALIA GUERRERO NEGRETE

Nathalia Guerrero

nathaliaguerrero3 — 2022-10-19 12:51:59 UTC

TWO PARAGRAPHS:

1ST: REAL SITUATION.

2ND: HYPOTHETICAL SITUATION
COULD HAVE, SHOULD HAVE, COULDN'T HAVE, WOULD HAVE.

Angie González Orozco

2022-10-19 14:10:26 UTC

Real Situation

When I was a kid, my cousin and I were playing football inside my grandmother’s house. I was kicking the ball and passing to my cousin, so I kicked the ball very hard. The ball went out of control and knocked over a glass vase.

Hypothetical situation

My cousin and I should have played with the ball outside the house or in the yard.

I shouldn't have kicked the ball that hard. I should have kicked the ball softly.

I could not have knocked over the glass vase if I had not been inside the house.

I would have let my cousin know not to play inside the house.

PAULA AVILA

2022-10-19 15:11:51 UTC

MOMENTS OF STRESS AT HOME

REAL SITUATION
In times of great stress at home with my daughter, housework, college, and my business, I get a little angry and argue with my husband about things that are not very important until we get very angry.
A few days I was at home very busy all day taking care to my daughter of my two-year-old , doing housework, advancing the final project of the diploma and attending to my business, I was waiting for my husband to arrive but it was late and When he arrived I did not control myself and I got very angry with him because his delay was because he was with his friends from the office drinking beer while I needed his support at home.
HYPOTHETICAL SITUATION.

I SHOULD HAVE Thought TWICE BEFORE SPEAKING IN MOMENTS OF STRESS, ALSO
I COULD HAVE LEARNED TO MANAGE MY TIME.
I THINK THAT ALSO I SHOULD HAVE GONE TO A PSYCHOLOGIST TO MANAGE MY ANXIETY AND NOT BEING ABLE TO CONTROL AND DO EVERYTHING AT THE TIME.
I SHOULD HAVE ACCEPTED HIS APOLOGY AND STOPPED ARGUING

Alexandra Ruiz Ortega

2022-10-19 16:17:13 UTC

WEREN'T VERY POLITE

1. REAL SITUATION

On one occasion when my father introduced ME to his new wife, that is, the person who is now my stepmother, I was rude to her and had poor manners, I greeted her reluctantly and made rude remarks when she addressed me I remember that it was an uncomfortable and unpleasant moment for all those PEOPLE at that meeting, I also behaved the same way with her relatives and at all times I made undesirable comments to make them feel uncomfortable, since she threatened to make me feel uncomfortable. For his presence in my father’s life.

2. HYPOTHETICAL SITUATION

On one occasion when my father organized a meeting to meet my current stepmother I should have behaved better, I shouldn’t have had such bad manners and be so rude, they had good intentions and I was just a rude person, I should have been nice and at least make the attempt and hide my bad character. I would have told my father how I felt before agreeing to go to the meeting with my stepmother, but I didn’t because I let my anger win and I only thought of acting badly to make everyone feel uncomfortable. My father could also ask me if it would be a comfortable situation for me, but he was not interested in how I could have felt at that moment, which made me feel bad and acting like that in an impolite way, letting me be carried away by the anger of that moment.

MARIA FERNANDA GARCIA

2022-10-19 17:09:06 UTC

TITLE

I remember when my aunt and uncle took us with my cousin to Tolu Coveñas to see the sea. Once there, we went to Mucura Island and there were a lot of people, with my cousins we ran to the water and started to play, ~~being inside but~~ on the edge as far as the water reached us since neither of us knew how to swim, suddenly a wave came and got us further onto the sea, at that moment a The lady who saw us took us out and we began to cry, and the lady began to argue with my cousin's parents for having allowed us to enter knowing that we did not know how to swim and that they were irresponsible and they thanked her for having taken us out but that I wouldn't give an opinion if I didn't know what had really happened, then they scolded us for not paying attention and they took us to see the places but they didn't take us to any more islands, that was the punishment and we couldn't enjoy it because the beauty of go were the islands.

HYPOTHETICAL SITUATION
My cousin and I should have listened to my uncles so we would have had fun on the trip, but we learned that we should have always listened for our own good.

Sonny Andres Tuiran

2022-10-19 20:50:52 UTC

A Former Troublemaker

1ST REAL SITUATION

When I was a teenager, I remember that I used to fight a lot every time someone dare to look at me the wrong way and I know I should have had to handle my emotions better

2ND Hypothetical Situation

I should have listened to what my family and friends said about the consequences of being a troublemaker because nobody likes a "tool" and that's how I felt for a while for not being able to handle my emotions and they were the ones controlling me even though those were issues that if I would have addressed them at that time I could have saved lots of therapy.

Cielo Milena Ramírez

2022-10-19 22:20:06 UTC

Theme: I was not very polite.

1-ST: When I was in school, I remember one time we walked in the rain with my friends, some time later I was admitted to a hospital due to illness, the symptoms were not long in coming and I began to feel cough and fever, my mother took care of me to avoid complications but finally the situation got out of control and I ended up in that condition.

2-ND Hypothetical situation.

I should have listened to my parents and my friends parents when they gave me recommendations to get home, it was fun but I would have liked to avoid so many health problems, and I could have avoided the worries of my parents, I should have obeyed so that they would not feel disappointed with the education they offered me.

Yolanda Orjuela Rodríguez

2022-10-19 22:39:37 UTC

Argument over a bad exchange of money

The last time I had an argument was last week when I went to buy almond oil. That day that store was very crowded, there were many people buying and when I paid the lady who was serving me, I gave her a 50,000 bill and she gave me the wrong change, she told me that I had given her a 20,000 bill and that was the change that the cashier had given her. Then I got very angry because a moment ago I had paid her and she had forgotten how much the bill was, I told her to look at the cameras quickly because I was anxious, she talked to the cashier and they both affirmed that it was a 20.000 bill and they laughed because they said that "anyone could make a mistake", and something that bothers me a lot is the cynicism. Then they looked at the cameras, I was waiting for 30 minutes, then they gave me an answer and I was right, that day I was very upset and I didn't buy the almond oil.

They could have talked to the manager to tell her what had happened and speed up the process because I was in a hurry. On the other hand, they should have had respect for the customer, in this case it was me, because that behavior wasn't appropriate and more when I was right, also, the lady who served me should have had more attention when a customer pays her, because the issue of money is something very delicate.

Diana Marcela Gutierrez

2022-10-19 23:07:07 UTC

1ST REAL SITUATION

When I ignore my dad

When I was ten years old, I liked to stay at my neighbor's house because they had a baby and I liked to play with her. Also, they had a bakery and I wanted to learn how to sweeten churros.

My dad scolded me because he didn't like me being at the neighbors' house.

One day they were making churros and I went to help sweeten them and the baker collided with the pan where they were fried and all the hot oil spilled on the floor, I got very scared and when I ran out I got desperate because I felt my feet hot, I fell and burned my leg, I cried a lot because of the excruciating pain and apart from the fear of telling my dad. We told him about four hours later.

2ND Hypothetical Situation

I should have listened to my dad and not contradict him.
I should have stayed to play with the baby.
I shouldn't have gone to help, it's an adult thing, because of the danger involved.
We shouldn't have hidden from my dad what had happened.

Laura Pinto Vega

2022-10-20 00:07:54 UTC

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1ST: Once I had an argument with a cousin, I remember it was because she got me into a gossip that I wasn't part of IT, ~~but for her to wash her hands~~ BUT she messed with me SO SHE COULD COME CLEAN and I got the worst of it. When I complained to HER ~~him~~ about why SHE he had messed with me, he grabbed my hair and pulled it, that's when I lost my temper and I also responded in the same way to the blows, everything got out of control and ~~they~~ had to separate us so great was the fight that we both had to pour water, luckily that was in the BACKYARD ~~patio~~ of my house.

2ND:
I would have wanted to avoid the fight, that is, if we had gone to blows and I would have had a better dialogue with her, better ask her why I had gotten into that, which had nothing to do with it, and after she caught me by the hair I would have run away from there because it definitely takes two to fight

Abigail Beltran Andrade

2022-10-20 00:09:08 UTC

TITLE 

1st actual situation
One morning at school, I was in 6th grade (DETAILS) they made me very angry and I had a big drawing ruler, I threw it at my classmates who were bothering me and I almost cut their necks.

2nd Hypothetical Situation

In this situation I should have calmed down and I WOULD HAVE ignored my CLASSMATES,  teammates, I SHOULD... managed my emotions and controlled my impulsiveness, so as not to physically hurt my teammates.

DIANA CAROLINA VIVIESCAS ALVAREZ

2022-10-20 01:56:11 UTC

HAD AN ARGUMENT.

Last week I was going to the D1 supermarket to buy groceries so I was standing in line because it was very long, I had an argument with the man; He told me that he was first after his friend, when it was a lie and IT MADE ME MAD.

He wouldn't let me pass and I got angry, I complained to the man, the friend very kindly was very gentlemanly and gave me the position to pay at the till.

HYPOTHETICAL SITUATION
I could have acted in a different way, asking very formally for the favor of letting me pass, perhaps that way I would not have had any problems with the man and everything could have been resolved quickly.

Aura Bracamonte

2022-10-20 02:23:21 UTC

Had an argument.

On certain occasions I argue with my brother, it is usually about things that are not very important, but the last time it was a bit strong, it all started because he took my headphones and left them where his girlfriend's, and I needed them for my class, I was very upset with him that day and the truth is that i was very rude, i responded in a bad way.

2ND HYPOTHETICAL SITUATION:
In another circumstance I could have acted calmer or taken a different attitude towards him, I shouldn´t have been so rude and angry, I also responded very badly to him, in front my parents, I should have listened to his explanation before treating him badly, I know that at another time if it happens again, I would have been more patience, in any case it was not enough reason for such a discussion.

MIGUEL ZABALA CONTRERAS

2022-10-20 03:43:14 UTC

1ST REAL SITUATION.
About two years ago, it happened that I had a strong argument with a friend, where we said things that offended us, today we don´t talk to each other because of that altercation and we were good friends.(DETAILS)

2ND HYPOTHETICAL.
At that time he should have reacted differently, he should have not responded to his offenses and taken a relaxed attitude. I should have acted differently, I could ask him to calm down that it was all a game, and I should not have acted the same way he did, since meek words turn off anger.

FELIPE OLIVREOS PUPO

2022-10-20 11:43:25 UTC

TITLE

undisciplined nephew

REAL SITUATION: Once I fought with my nephew because he arrived drunk at my sister's house, I yelled at him that he was irresponsible, I told him very rudely that he should handle his life better and I asked him to leave the place

HYPOTHETICAL SITUATIONS

If I had an argument with my nephew again because he is too drunk, I think that I would have helped him, I would have give him water and help him lower his drunkenness, I could have put him in his bed taking care that he didn't throw up and then I would have tell him not to do that again.

An argument with my mother

2022-10-20 12:01:18 UTC

Gloria Loaiza 1ST: REAL SITUATION

When I was 15 years old, we had an argument with my mon, because I wanted to go to town with my grandmother all the vacations, but my mother told me that I couldn't all the vacations because she also wanted to spend time with me, we discussed in a way that It had never happened until we yelled at each other and she told me and I answered, this argument was so strong that I yelled with great anger at my mom that I didn't love her and that I wanted to live with my grandmother, not with her, I wanted her to let me go and be happy, my strong words and she started to cry she didn't say anything to me, seeing her I also felt bad and we both started crying for a few minutes between silence and crying, she didn't say anything to me, I also felt bad when I saw her and we bolth began to cry, I spent a few minutes between silence and crying, until we could speak and apologize for my words and she apologized.

2ND HIPOTHETICAL SITUATION

I shouldn't have quarreled with my mom, only I wanted was to be with my grandmother, since then I learned that we should be king and loving to our parents, and today I understand that the words I said to my mother were very strong, that's why she cried because of me, I could have listened to my mother that time. After this and after apologizing with her, I understood that I could have spent time with her too, because she is my mother, and that later she could have asked for a vacation from her job to be with my grandmother because just as I wanted time to be with her, my mother also wanted it. I would say as human beings to learn that the words we say can hurt people a lot, so, as a good daughter, I should have listened carefully to what my mom said.

Activity

2022-10-20 12:20:30 UTC

Daniel Estupinan

First situation
I remember when I went out to the park with my grandfather to walk the dog that we always had problems with other people because we realized that they did not pick up the poop of their dogs and that caused me a lot of bad temper so I confronted them and we ended up fighting because they did not they wanted to do, it was always the same problem with them until I decided to file a complaint with the community action board.

Second situation

Over time the situation improved but talking to my grandfather I realized that problems are solved by talking, I would have liked my grandfather to still be here to continue advising me, at that time he would have solved it in the most peaceful way without generating conflicts or fights. I would really like to improve many things from the past.

Nazly zuloaga

2022-10-20 12:28:15 UTC

1 part

Once I went to the supermarket with my mom to buy some things and when we were standing in line we began to see that some people were arguing and I told my mom that we better move away so we decided to go shopping and come back later, then I remembered that it is better to avoid the problems when we returned the cashier told us that it was a new form of theft that was being used, people make a ruckus and take the opportunity to rob clueless people.

2 part
On a trip that I was going to take outside the country, getting on the plane standing in line, I began to see that there was a lot of commotion and I did not understand why, when I was getting closer I realized that the problem was with some passengers who did not have the papers at day to travel and I asked the person and he told me not to get involved in what did not matter to me and that I should continue on my way there and I remembered the situation of the supermarket and I remembered that we should not get into trouble.

CAMILO ARGUMEDO Demonstration on the sincelejo corozal

2022-10-20 16:21:42 UTC

Demonstration on the sincelejo corozal road Last week I was on my way to work on my motorcycle when I saw a big protest in the middle of the highway peli with one of the protesters why did I need to get to work I waited a few minutes but since they didn't move I took a road alters and due to a demonstration on the corozal road I had to stop for that demonstration I arrived very late after arriving at my workplace at the time of training with my athletes I did not allow entry to the track because the guard security I had taken the keys to the padlock this weekend it was the chaos of my life. 2nd-Well, first of all, with what happened on the road, for my work, I did not have to act in that way with the person who is on the march, since he is claiming his rights and, well, I had to apologize to them and, well, what I did last It was the most necessary thing before acting how I acted with the protestants