Real life situations @ discussion tables by https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m Discuss the situations described below. What values do you think a counsellor would need to hold onto when dealing with this situation? en-us 2021-06-07 10:50:14 UTC 2021-06-09 09:01:47 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595253283 Finding common ground and setting expectations up front]]> 2021-06-09 08:44:29 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595253283 Policy/rules of the organisation? https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595258812 And of the individual counsellor or teacher > first lecture = "communication contract"]]> 2021-06-09 08:48:06 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595258812 Creat expectations and find out whats not going well and what is going well in the First year https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595260672 2021-06-09 08:49:15 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595260672 Judgement call https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595261404 Depends on the question of problem]]> 2021-06-09 08:49:45 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595261404 Getting the student to reflect on their motivation and purpose for being there https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595263058 2021-06-09 08:50:49 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595263058 Always stay curious https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595263918 2021-06-09 08:51:27 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595263918 Provide science data / information https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595264892 2021-06-09 08:52:02 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595264892 explaining the role of the counsellor - not decision maker https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595265838 2021-06-09 08:52:45 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595265838 lay out: what will be the consequences of of doing this, that or nothing https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595266426 2021-06-09 08:53:09 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595266426 Weigh the outcomes, help explore options and possible outcomes https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595267062 2021-06-09 08:53:37 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595267062 https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595267466 get new input]]> 2021-06-09 08:53:50 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595267466 Talk, ask https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595268122 Important to get to the bottom of the problem (expecting an openness of the student), to make sure that the right support is given]]> 2021-06-09 08:54:19 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595268122 Ask if that its anything else that worries them. https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595269208 Open questions

]]> 2021-06-09 08:55:05 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595269208 ask them to choose their two top options then they can decide between those? https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595269675 2021-06-09 08:55:26 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595269675 Focus on the process not the end result - they are capable decision makers https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595270034 2021-06-09 08:55:41 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595270034 Setting reasonable boundaries and expectations https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595272964 2021-06-09 08:57:41 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595272964 Empathy and patience, active listening, meta communication https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595274944 2021-06-09 08:58:56 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595274944 getting the student into meta perspective https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595275993 use structure in conversations]]> 2021-06-09 08:59:35 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595275993 https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595276846 Try to let the student come to a own decision (not by telling what to do, led by the example)]]> 2021-06-09 09:00:10 UTC https://padlet.com/liessa_engels/kpksj0tnhex8gy3m/wish/1595276846