Winter Coaches DEI Session #1 by Peter Boskey https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4 Thoughts, notes, brainstorms from session #1 en-us 2021-02-11 20:35:53 UTC 2021-02-11 23:54:08 UTC hello@padlet.com How do we want athletes to feel after a practice or season? ncalabria https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194702486 Appropriate challenge
Noticed – Every person on the team should hear their name
Noticed – for being unique individuals
Accomplished
Surprised at the ability to succeed and improve
Developing growth mindsets
Grit
Confidence
They had fun

]]> 2021-02-11 21:30:05 UTC https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194702486 How do you build trust? ncalabria https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194715619 Be honest.
Ask probing questions, identify interests, listen, show that you care,  mutual respect. 
Show compassion, empathy. 
Check-in with athletes who seem down. 
Celebrate milestones. 
Place leadership in the hands of athletes.
State explicit expectations.

]]> 2021-02-11 21:34:27 UTC https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194715619 How do we build trust https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194717664 consistent
one-one-one
honesty

]]> 2021-02-11 21:35:13 UTC https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194717664 How do we want student-athletes to feel after practice or after a season https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194718278 that they've worked hard, improved, grown, and been inspired to keep working hard, improving, and growing
that they've been seen, valued, and uplifted by teammates and coaches]]> 2021-02-11 21:35:26 UTC https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194718278 How do we want athletes to feel after practice or season? https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194718623 -see gains/improvements in their sport. 
-feel like they've gained something and enjoyed what they are doing
-See sports as a way to unwind from the day and make it the best part of the day
-Find a love for the sport and make it a life long sport

]]> 2021-02-11 21:35:33 UTC https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194718623 No one really cares how much you know until they know how much you care. https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194723499 2021-02-11 21:37:17 UTC https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194723499 consistency https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194727521 predictability


]]> 2021-02-11 21:38:41 UTC https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194727521 How do we build trust https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194727526 -Be honest with them and show support
-provide consistent structure]]> 2021-02-11 21:38:41 UTC https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194727526 Make every practice the best part of their day https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194736005 Fully vet and discuss their opinions of iportant matters; listen and let them know their view counts

]]> 2021-02-11 21:41:40 UTC https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194736005 "Race is the child of racism, not the father." ncalabria https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194810520 Race was used to justify white supremacy. ]]> 2021-02-11 22:10:42 UTC https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194810520 Non-racist & Anti-racist https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194813210 Non-racist = someone is trying not to "be" racist--not speaking or acting in overtly racist ways
Anti-racist = someone who is actively working against racism and dismantle the racist system]]> 2021-02-11 22:11:55 UTC https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194813210 Non-Racist vs. Anti-Racist https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194813274 Non-racist = passive, silent non-participation regardless of intent

Anti-racist = active -- silence turns into advocacy, acknowledging your role and working for change]]> 2021-02-11 22:11:56 UTC https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194813274 Where might racism appear in coaching role? ncalabria https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194847049 Music overheard using the n-word. 
What should be done in the moment, and what sort of discussion should follow? Is the race of the student playing the music significant? 

Racial bias about a long distance runner's success. ]]> 2021-02-11 22:26:12 UTC https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194847049 Where racism might occur https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194847086 calling out difference and making presumptions 
groupings for court assignments
music /lyrics that demean or stereotype

]]> 2021-02-11 22:26:13 UTC https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194847086 Non-Racism & Anti-Racism ncalabria https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194853125 Non-Racist: Passive
Anti-Racist: Active]]> 2021-02-11 22:28:43 UTC https://padlet.com/peter_boskey2/khso2mb7hejx77s4/wish/1194853125