8 Step Mediation Model by Training Team - DRC of Thurston County https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix Share with us all we need to BE and DO during this step of the process. en-us 2022-03-01 03:10:05 UTC 2022-03-01 05:11:25 UTC hello@padlet.com check for conflicts of interest https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070785761 2022-03-01 04:35:50 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070785761 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070785897 Check in co-mediator 

]]> 2022-03-01 04:35:57 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070785897 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786059 Make sure we are using active listening skills and take notes during each of the client's statements.

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]]> 2022-03-01 04:36:09 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786080 assign task with co-mediator marisagayden https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786140 2022-03-01 04:36:12 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786140 About ten minutes total https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786220 2022-03-01 04:36:17 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786220 Check all wi-fi and internet connections. https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786313 2022-03-01 04:36:22 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786313 If there is any court orders or protection orders. https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786339 2022-03-01 04:36:24 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786339 each mediator does one page https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786388 2022-03-01 04:36:28 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786388 Share expectations and process https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786416 2022-03-01 04:36:29 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786416 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786453 Check for tech issues

]]> 2022-03-01 04:36:31 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786453 make sure clients agree https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786554 2022-03-01 04:36:38 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786554 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786728 Make sure that the client's understand the confidentiality parts of mediation.]]> 2022-03-01 04:36:47 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786728 Provide feedback at the end with summarizing and/or reframing https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786773 2022-03-01 04:36:50 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786773 let the clients do the talking https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786881 2022-03-01 04:36:56 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786881 ask what they want to have on the list https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786999 2022-03-01 04:37:04 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070786999 Topics the parties are interested in talking about. https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787031 2022-03-01 04:37:06 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787031 keep it around 7-10 minutes per person https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787091 2022-03-01 04:37:09 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787091 Ensure all agenda topics are agreed on by all parties https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787166 2022-03-01 04:37:14 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787166 use their words https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787239 2022-03-01 04:37:17 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787239 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787467 Decide in advance who will write]]> 2022-03-01 04:37:24 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787467 stay neutral https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787555 2022-03-01 04:37:30 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787555 Ask thought provoking questions when appropriate https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787624 2022-03-01 04:37:34 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787624 Make sure the both agree to the agenda topic to be discussed. https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787666 2022-03-01 04:37:36 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787666 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787675 Be on time before the parties arrive]]> 2022-03-01 04:37:36 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787675 maintain dual confidentiality https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787861 2022-03-01 04:37:44 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787861 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787985 Make sure you can "share screen" if remote]]> 2022-03-01 04:37:50 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070787985 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788046 Know when the time to call a caucus is. Make sure that anything said in caucus stays confidential and that the clients know that everything they say or do is confidential. ]]> 2022-03-01 04:37:53 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788046 give each party "homework" to do while you meet with the other party https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788159 2022-03-01 04:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788159 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788260 Make sure all required parties are present]]> 2022-03-01 04:38:06 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788260 slience https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788275 2022-03-01 04:38:07 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788275 Make sure the agreement is in their words and both parties agree https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788319 2022-03-01 04:38:09 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788319 Be sympathetic and offer encouraging words. https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788376 2022-03-01 04:38:12 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788376 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788607 Remember your Golden Questions]]> 2022-03-01 04:38:24 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788607 golden questions https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788665 2022-03-01 04:38:27 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788665 Make sure safe places for all https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788798 2022-03-01 04:38:36 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788798 Provide feedback on how the mediation went and what your co did well https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788816 2022-03-01 04:38:37 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788816 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788957 Thank each of the parties for choosing mediation and praise them for working together to resolve their issues.]]> 2022-03-01 04:38:45 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070788957 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789055 Listen for all information but also to see if there is any harm being done to anyone]]> 2022-03-01 04:38:50 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789055 ensure all agenda items were covered https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789244 2022-03-01 04:39:02 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789244 Make sure what is said during cacus is never repeated or brought up during the mediation. https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789422 2022-03-01 04:39:12 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789422 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789489 What can be improved?]]> 2022-03-01 04:39:17 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789489 Make sure everyone agrees to be there https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789524 2022-03-01 04:39:19 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789524 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789586 Do not add your own ideas into the agenda, let the parties do all the work]]> 2022-03-01 04:39:22 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789586 ask specific questions, direct parties to talk to each other https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789752 2022-03-01 04:39:30 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789752 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789840 Talk it out with your co! Make sure that each of you know what went well and what didn't.]]> 2022-03-01 04:39:35 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789840 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789944 Use Handy Dandy questions if needed]]> 2022-03-01 04:39:40 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789944 Actively listen to clients https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789971 2022-03-01 04:39:42 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070789971 "3 up and 3 down" https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070790139 2022-03-01 04:39:50 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070790139 Golden Questions https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070790374 2022-03-01 04:40:01 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070790374 Do not offer solutions. https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070790473 2022-03-01 04:40:03 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070790473 what if? https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070790533 2022-03-01 04:40:05 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070790533 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070790648 Each party gets equal amounts of time to try to cool off and focus on the mediation]]> 2022-03-01 04:40:12 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070790648 Makes sure people can breathe and focus https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070790926 2022-03-01 04:40:29 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070790926 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070791841 How exactly things will work out and what will be done if it doesn't go according to plan]]> 2022-03-01 04:41:19 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070791841 https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070792341 Did the parties feel this process was helpful? why or why not?]]> 2022-03-01 04:41:42 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070792341 What would you do differently? https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070792890 2022-03-01 04:42:12 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070792890 Make sure all parties are in complete agreement with each item and is in their words. Thank them for their hard work. https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070794127 2022-03-01 04:43:24 UTC https://padlet.com/TCDRC/khdrrllvscfg35ix/wish/2070794127