https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o <3 en-us 2022-04-28 01:25:25 UTC 2022-04-30 03:48:10 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165000908 Having them see the worst of you]]> 2022-04-30 00:58:54 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165000908 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165000959 Intentionality when life is rocky ]]> 2022-04-30 00:59:02 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165000959 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001004 2022-04-30 00:59:08 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001004 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001012 Trust, knowing everyone is broken]]> 2022-04-30 00:59:09 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001012 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001085 Keeping in touch over time]]> 2022-04-30 00:59:20 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001085 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001120 Communication ]]> 2022-04-30 00:59:27 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001120 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001146 building trust at the start when u have trust issues ]]> 2022-04-30 00:59:31 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001146 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001152 maintaining them and being unsure if they actually like u]]> 2022-04-30 00:59:32 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001152 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001189 2022-04-30 00:59:35 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001189 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001211 Healthily maintaining them as you both grow/change]]> 2022-04-30 00:59:39 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001211 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001231 Being intentional]]> 2022-04-30 00:59:43 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001231 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001269 maintaining them!!!]]> 2022-04-30 00:59:48 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001269 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001290 Understanding each other ]]> 2022-04-30 00:59:51 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001290 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001338 2022-04-30 00:59:56 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001338 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001339 learning to overcome differences, growing apart, wanting different things in life ]]> 2022-04-30 00:59:56 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001339 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001361 Understanding and accepting their flaws]]> 2022-04-30 00:59:59 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001361 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001413 Figuring out how much or how little to share with them]]> 2022-04-30 01:00:03 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001413 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001472 Maintenance and riding through lulls/angry moments. ]]> 2022-04-30 01:00:13 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001472 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001478 when we have to choose between friend groups]]> 2022-04-30 01:00:13 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001478 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001536 2022-04-30 01:00:21 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001536 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001547 Trying to figure out if it’s just you or they only “tolerate” you]]> 2022-04-30 01:00:23 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001547 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001657 2022-04-30 01:00:41 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001657 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001795 jesus]]> 2022-04-30 01:01:02 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001795 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001811 2022-04-30 01:01:04 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001811 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001868 2022-04-30 01:01:14 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001868 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001925 Marc]]> 2022-04-30 01:01:22 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001925 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001953 the lord]]> 2022-04-30 01:01:26 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001953 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001957 He’s trash at Super Smash Bros and Mario Kart, so it feels good to beat him ehehe]]> 2022-04-30 01:01:26 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165001957 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002051 Lillie bc she’s reliable and kind and I love her so much ]]> 2022-04-30 01:01:39 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002051 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002136 My friend from home. He has seen the worst in me and still checks in with me better than ppl I see everyday ]]> 2022-04-30 01:01:50 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002136 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002237 They’re aight]]> 2022-04-30 01:02:05 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002237 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002300 My bed]]> 2022-04-30 01:02:12 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002300 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002322 2 bbs from home - they know too much ]]> 2022-04-30 01:02:16 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002322 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002371 my friend of 10+ years but it’s hard to still feel close when we’re far apart]]> 2022-04-30 01:02:23 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002371 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002486 some of my home town friend. i detach people from fast]]> 2022-04-30 01:02:40 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002486 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002519 Friend from elementary school, just grew apart]]> 2022-04-30 01:02:45 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002519 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002535 2022-04-30 01:02:47 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002535 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002550 One of my friends from home walked away from Christianity. I wish I was more mature spiritually for him.]]> 2022-04-30 01:02:50 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002550 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002561 long-term friendship that got weaker in college ]]> 2022-04-30 01:02:52 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002561 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002579 2022-04-30 01:02:54 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002579 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002615 A lot fizzled out right after wildcat welcome cause there wasn’t enough intentionality when classes were different ]]> 2022-04-30 01:02:58 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002615 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002664 2022-04-30 01:03:05 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002664 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002671 My best friend for 10 years bc of political differences and ~racism~]]> 2022-04-30 01:03:07 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002671 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002701 some of my hometown friends. i detach from people easily]]> 2022-04-30 01:03:09 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002701 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002748 most of my friends from home, just stopped keeping in touch and we care about different things]]> 2022-04-30 01:03:16 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002748 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002804 someone i still care for as a friend but has prejudiced beliefs against identities i hold]]> 2022-04-30 01:03:26 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002804 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002837 An old friend unfriended me on social media and ghosted me. I still have no idea why. ]]> 2022-04-30 01:03:30 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002837 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002880 had a falling out :(]]> 2022-04-30 01:03:36 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002880 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002916 2022-04-30 01:03:40 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002916 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002926 highkey mourn all my lost friendships. often blame myself]]> 2022-04-30 01:03:43 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165002926 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003022 Themselves]]> 2022-04-30 01:03:57 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003022 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003136 Ngl I think my mom has one friend and idk tbh. ]]> 2022-04-30 01:04:12 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003136 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003176 2022-04-30 01:04:16 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003176 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003234 Jk, they meet a few times a yr]]> 2022-04-30 01:04:24 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003234 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003247 i pester them to get friends ]]> 2022-04-30 01:04:26 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003247 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003278 My dad’s friend: my uncle Leyi. I asked him how they maintain and he’s like “I know I can call him for anything even if we don’t talk”]]> 2022-04-30 01:04:30 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003278 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003286 friends from church and they call a lot]]> 2022-04-30 01:04:32 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003286 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003306 My parents party so hard but they cycle through friends every few years. Lowkey I think they might be the common denominator ]]> 2022-04-30 01:04:34 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003306 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003308 my mom says “pastor wives don’t make friends with congregation”]]> 2022-04-30 01:04:35 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003308 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003330 dad started fishing with someone ]]> 2022-04-30 01:04:37 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003330 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003391 Mom has a power walking group or smthn dad has a fishing group
….so old]]> 2022-04-30 01:04:45 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003391 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003393 my mom’s bestie is her mom and i sometimes think that’s all you need ]]> 2022-04-30 01:04:45 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003393 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003426 By understanding how to hang out just enough to maintain friendship but not get on each other’s nerves]]> 2022-04-30 01:04:48 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003426 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003461 I feel like they don’t have many of their own friends after immigrating :( most ppl they talk to r other ppl from church/Chinese community who r parents of my friends]]> 2022-04-30 01:04:54 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003461 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003776 2022-04-30 01:05:39 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003776 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003806 redefining boundaries, can be hard for everyone to adjust ]]> 2022-04-30 01:05:43 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003806 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003810 Being able to talk to someone and share burdens with]]> 2022-04-30 01:05:44 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003810 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003861 good: trust, bad: lack of communication & quiet resentment]]> 2022-04-30 01:05:52 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003861 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003875 healthy: mutual care and love
unhealthy: any sort of discrepancy in respect given+recieved]]> 2022-04-30 01:05:53 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003875 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003879 bad: feeling neglected]]> 2022-04-30 01:05:54 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003879 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003883 Good: stability trust and comfort
Bad: crossing boundaries, intrusiveness ]]> 2022-04-30 01:05:54 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003883 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003890 Unhealthy: toxicity]]> 2022-04-30 01:05:55 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003890 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003899 Good thing: eating food and staying up late together
Bad thing: they annoy me sometime]]> 2022-04-30 01:05:56 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003899 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003902 good things r mutual respect and trust and genuinely wanting the best for the other person. bad things r not allowing them to grow or change]]> 2022-04-30 01:05:56 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003902 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003929 Good thing-always there for each other
Bad thing- too much commitment sometimes]]> 2022-04-30 01:06:00 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003929 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003964 Understanding but also codependency ]]> 2022-04-30 01:06:05 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165003964 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165004016 good: they push you to grow
bad: when you have to try]]> 2022-04-30 01:06:13 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165004016 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165004037 Good is being there for each other, companionship, and sacrificing (but healthy amounts of sacrifice) unhealthy when it gets one sided]]> 2022-04-30 01:06:16 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165004037 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165004069 Trust, honesty, empathy are good. 

Fear, resentment, pride, condescension are all unhealthy ]]> 2022-04-30 01:06:20 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165004069 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165004123 Blurry boundaries. Sometimes it’s hard to express when you want to spend less/more time and ppl get hurt]]> 2022-04-30 01:06:27 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165004123 https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165004139 Good thing: knowing someone has your back
Bad: sometimes taking that for granted]]> 2022-04-30 01:06:29 UTC https://padlet.com/chloecho2023/k82u67k2ompb0x5o/wish/2165004139