Surrender: my siblings

Understand: everything

Surrender - Surrender future plans (God's will more than mine)

Understand - Understand that it's their first time to be parents

Yeh

Surrender: Is my pride.....im a logical yet lack the ation kind of being....

Understand: Why is our system onhome not always valid or effective.....sometimes those on higher position seem to have the prejudiced opinion on half said word....like sometiems normal kind of dropped word is misunderstood to be a further corrupred....or in lighter terms....a bad word.....how ever not all unclear words broke protocol or in other lighter terms.... rule.

Surrender: Struggles and secrets

Understand: How all my family members feel about me and life in general

to change: my attitude

to understand: communication

My sleeping habits (aayusin Ung higaan, gigising ng mas maaga, hnd na mangha hampas ng unan kapag manggigising)

Surrender:

I'm surrendering mostly my laziness

Understand:

I'll try to understand me weird habits and knowing if that would offend people around me

One thing I want to surrender: Nothing???? (I dunno, as in ,wala, dahil transparent kami sa bahay fr).

One thing I want to understand: the reason behind being financially irresponsible

surrender - my worries

understand - me and my situation and struggles

Change — the way I help with household chores.

Surrender — the hurts and traumas I had that is caused by any of my family member.

Understand — my parents' struggles and why the members of my family act the way they do.

Surrender:my bad habits

Understand:my role at our home

I want to surrender: How I help at home.

I want to understand: My parents' point of view when it comes to decisions.

• pagiging mahirap or something sa pagiging financially unstable

SURRENDER:

• i want to surrender the most sa bahay ay yung kung paano ko sila at kailan ma-forgive sa lahat ng ginawa at ginagawa sa akin ng parents ko

UNDERSTAND:

• their reasons for everything, especially why sila nagsiseek ng validation sa iba, at bakit hindi mawala yung galit ko sa kanila

• why deep inside myself nag-eexpect pa rin ako ng something from my parents

Surrender:
Maybe it's the habit I have of being shy and sometimes not reading the bible because of my laziness

Understand
One thing I want to understand more about is the value of family, the story topics in the bible

I want to change the things I do when it comes to fights or the laziness I have

Surrender :

I want to surrender yun katigasan ko ng ulo(warning! : baka matigas parin ulo ko soo.. 😘) ,and the secrets that I have been keeping to myself

Understand :

I want to understand the struggles of my family and kung bakit nila ako pinapagalitan kahit di ko nmn kasalanan, chares! 😔

Surrender: Problems

Understand: Emotions

• My attitude

One thing I want to surender

• my faults

One thing I want to understand

• Their side of the conflict

CHANGE- 1 day i will be the bread winner of the family and as panganay balang araw ako naman ang magaalaga sa aking parents and kapatid ko

SURRENDER-

UNDERSTAND- i want them to understand na kahit may mga times na di ako nasunod sakanila or di ko napaparamdam sakanila na mahalaga sila. I want them to understand na kahit ganon ako i still love them superr

before ko baguhin to unti unti, gusto ko lang mag rant about sa mga katanungan ko. Kasalanan ko ba na ganto ako kalambot ang puso ko? kasalanan ko ba na lumaki ako na mabilis masaktan? ineedure ko sa totoo lang, every time na nasasabihan ako ng mga salita na nagpapababa ng confidence sa'kin, kada nag sasabi sila ng salitang TAPOS, tinitiis ko, kasi everytime na mag sasalita ako, sasabihan akong sensitive na hindi ako marunong kumilatis ng salita na hindi naman nila ibig sabihin talaga. Sana lang maisip nila ang nararamdaman ko bilang anak din.

Ito ang babaguhin ko, para na lang din sa pagbabago sa family, bilang panganay din na anak at bilang lalaki.

2. Ang gusto ko naman isurrender ay ang hindi pag sabi sa kanila ng nararamdaman ko. Sa totoo lang, sanay ako na mag open sa kanila, sadyang habang tumatagal napapansin ko na naiinvalidate lang ako, na imbis na makareceive ako ng emotional support, sesermonan pa ako, sa totoo lang masakit yon.

Dapat ko maintindihan, kasi magulang sila at anak lang ako. Dapat ko maintindihan, kasi DAPAT. Hindi ba parang unfair?

Sa kabila ng lahat, mahal na mahal ko pa rin sila, I still forgive them kasi hindi ko kaya na magkimkim ng damdamin sa kanila. So yan ang gusto ko isurrender

3. Ang gusto ko naman intindihin ay magulang sila, tumatanda, at andyan na ang pride na kinalakihan nila. kailangan ko maintindihan kasi alam ko na best ang gusto nila para sa akin, sa amin ng kapatid ko.