https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l en-us 2022-05-19 20:26:51 UTC 2022-05-20 14:48:34 UTC hello@padlet.com koconnell38 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191969340 What is allyship? Allyship is: a lifelong process of building relationships based on trust, consistency, and accountability with marginalized individuals and/or groups of people. not self-defined—work and efforts must be recognized by those you are seeking to ally with.]]> 2022-05-19 20:43:55 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191969340 koconnell38 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191969586 Justice vs. benevolence (This orientation helps to prevent savior complex, connect with YOUR origins and transgenerational traumas, What is your why, knowing yourself, etc.) ]]> 2022-05-19 20:44:11 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191969586 koconnell38 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191969790 -Preventing the "when the going gets tough… the “allies” get going" kind of selective participation (avoiding conflicts, no real skin in the game, etc)]]> 2022-05-19 20:44:24 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191969790 koconnell38 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191970123 -Multiple truths (supporting allies in seeing things in a completely different way, multiple ways of "being")]]> 2022-05-19 20:44:46 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191970123 koconnell38 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191970393 -elevating local voices (To be quiet, to listen, listen twice as much as you speak, give credit where credit is due, remind others to give credit where credit is due)]]> 2022-05-19 20:45:03 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191970393 koconnell38 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191970681 -connecting with the community, developing real relationships with the community.  This requires you to be seen.  Don’t self-isolate within familiar groups.  Planting Roots in the Community, Sharing your truth, and your experiences (Not one-sided, transparency so local communities don't have to guess your true intentions), whilst being careful not to hijack.]]> 2022-05-19 20:45:22 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191970681 koconnell38 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191970921 -Allyship is an ONGOING process, not just something you do once, or a badge of good personhood.]]> 2022-05-19 20:45:37 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191970921 koconnell38 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191971136 -Learn about White Supremacy and all of the sneaky ways it shows up in interpersonal and systematic ways. ]]> 2022-05-19 20:45:53 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191971136 koconnell38 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191971381 -Not just supporting Indigenous Peoples to assimilate and thrive within these frameworks and structures that have been proven to be deeply problematic, but as Allies, to elevate the questioning and challenging of the structures themselves.]]> 2022-05-19 20:46:09 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191971381 koconnell38 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191971572 Allyship starts with Empathy]]> 2022-05-19 20:46:22 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2191971572 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192100696 Allies need to understand who they are and be proud of their own heritage & roots to truly appreciate others without “adopting” the culture they’re serving/preserving.]]> 2022-05-19 23:49:15 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192100696 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192101983 2022-05-19 23:50:38 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192101983 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192102096 Investor]]> 2022-05-19 23:50:46 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192102096 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192102397 2022-05-19 23:51:06 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192102397 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192104341 Understanding/processing white guilt]]> 2022-05-19 23:53:23 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192104341 heather524 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192104965 2022-05-19 23:54:11 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192104965 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192107242 Injustice in BIPOC communities & white fragility around that truth]]> 2022-05-19 23:56:30 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192107242 heather524 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192108177 2022-05-19 23:57:41 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192108177 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192108902 It's a message that has to be reoccurring because it unfolds in different ways through the process.]]> 2022-05-19 23:58:36 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192108902 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192109646 2022-05-19 23:59:38 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192109646 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192109736 2022-05-19 23:59:44 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192109736 heather524 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192110425 2022-05-20 00:00:40 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192110425 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192110841 We need to put an end to "when the going gets tough, the allies get going".]]> 2022-05-20 00:01:10 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192110841 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192111445 Allies stand with us, through the discomfort.]]> 2022-05-20 00:01:58 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192111445 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192112039 When allies face discomfort, that's the opportunity to use their power, privilege, and/or influence to push for change]]> 2022-05-20 00:02:46 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192112039 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192113174 "I'm tired of being gentle with people's fragility"]]> 2022-05-20 00:04:15 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192113174 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192113613 If you're an ally, you will encounter our pain points & that's when you should double down.]]> 2022-05-20 00:04:53 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192113613 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192115468 Take responsibility for your own education.]]> 2022-05-20 00:07:17 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192115468 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192115570 2022-05-20 00:07:26 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192115570 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192115794 I am not "The Native Teacher". We are all here to do this work.]]> 2022-05-20 00:07:43 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192115794 heather524 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192115923 2022-05-20 00:07:49 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192115923 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192117339 It's not just Indigenous relatives who should advocate, non-Indigenous allies have to as well, just as much if not more so.]]> 2022-05-20 00:09:22 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192117339 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192118709 2022-05-20 00:10:54 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192118709 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192120414 Our allies need to be prepared to stand up & speak out]]> 2022-05-20 00:12:43 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192120414 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192121769 When Natives are not in the room, with the non-Indigenous allies continue to speak positivity, challenge the system, & fight for equality]]> 2022-05-20 00:14:08 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192121769 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192122313 2022-05-20 00:14:43 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192122313 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192125077 2022-05-20 00:17:26 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192125077 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192127634 Validating indigenous epistemologies as having equal value to western structures of knowledge.]]> 2022-05-20 00:19:58 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192127634 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192128529 Resisting hierarchical thinking]]> 2022-05-20 00:20:49 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192128529 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192129264 2022-05-20 00:21:28 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192129264 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192131243 Supporting Indigenous Educators & Leaders in Self-Care]]> 2022-05-20 00:23:29 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192131243 https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192133178 Hard conversations have to happen and should happen]]> 2022-05-20 00:25:19 UTC https://padlet.com/koconnell38/je2pz41qzdcc1z2l/wish/2192133178