PIVOT by Maria Nunez

My Father's Death

marianunez10_1 — 2025-10-11 21:56:07 UTC

Experience: When my father died, I learned that life is short and time with family is important.
Belief: We should not waste time fighting with our family.
Action: I try to be patient and stay calm with them.
Results: I have a better relationship with my family, but sometimes I stay quiet to avoid problems.
Pivot or Keep?: Pivot - I want to change the belief that I must keep peace even if I don’t say what I feel.
New Belief: I can speak with honesty and still have peace.
Benefit: I will have more real and loving relationships.

Buying My House

marianunez10_1 — 2025-10-11 21:59:26 UTC

Experience: I bought my house with hard work and discipline.
Belief: With effort, I can reach big goals.
Action: I work hard and plan everything.
Results: I feel proud, but sometimes I push myself too much.
Pivot or Keep?: Pivot - I want to change the idea “I only have value when I achieve something big.”
New Belief: My value is not from success, it’s from who I am.
Benefit: I will feel peace and enjoy my success without stress.

Traveling to the U.S. for the 1st Time

marianunez10_1 — 2025-10-11 22:02:57 UTC

Experience: My first trip to the U.S. helped me go out of my comfort zone.
Belief: The world is big and full of things to learn.
Action: I like to travel and meet new people.
Results: I feel brave and curious, but sometimes I miss my home.
Pivot or Keep?: Pivot - I want to change the belief “Traveling means leaving everything I love.”
New Belief: I can take my love and memories with me anywhere.
Benefit: I will enjoy my trips without guilt or sadness.

Learning English

marianunez10_1 — 2025-10-11 22:04:07 UTC

Experience: Learning English showed me I can do difficult things.
Belief: Learning new things gives me new chances.
Action: I study often and try to improve.
Results: I feel more confident, but sometimes I’m afraid to make mistakes.
Pivot or Keep?: Pivot - I want to change the idea “If I can’t do it perfect, I shouldn’t try.”
New Belief: Making mistakes helps me learn and move forward.
Benefit: I will speak more freely and enjoy learning.

Seeing Snow for the 1st TimeExperience:

marianunez10_1 — 2025-10-11 22:05:24 UTC

Experience: When I saw snow, I felt happy and thankful. It was a dream come true.
Belief: Happiness comes from special moments.
Action: I plan trips and look for new experiences.
Results: I enjoy life and feel grateful.
Pivot or Keep?: Pivot - I want to change the belief “Happiness only happens in special moments.”
New Belief: I can find happiness every day in small things.
Benefit: I will feel joy and gratitude every day.

My Pivot Plan

marianunez10_1 — 2025-10-11 22:07:33 UTC

Old Belief: I must stay quiet to keep peace.
New Belief: I can speak my feelings with respect and keep peace too.
Plan: I will practice speaking calmly and saying what I really think.
Benefit: I will feel free, honest, and close to the people I love.