https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3 dealing with griefs en-us 2023-06-02 16:20:08 UTC 2023-06-16 15:54:22 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f497.png gwen6230 https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2613116138 My question is how might loss and grief effect a persons life and idenitiy ]]> 2023-06-02 16:45:54 UTC https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2613116138 gwen6230 https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2613116696
This question is connected to my book You've Reached Sam by Dustin Thao.  In the book Juile's boyfriend Sam dies. Juile has to deal with the grief of losing one of the most important people in her life. Juile thinks she has to go through the loss of Sam alone, until she calls and he picks up and they can speak if only for a little bit. This connects to my question because throughout the entire story Juile's whole life is turned upside down, She has to deal with people blaming her for Sam's death and is faced with the reality of being unable to make it out of the small town Sam died in . On top of Juile has to figure out life without a very important person in it. Which many people who have lost someone can relate too. When someone close to you dies, You may change in terms of who want to be around or what you want in your life. Losing someone like Juile did in my book can have big effects on your life and you as a person.]]> 2023-06-02 16:46:47 UTC https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2613116696 gwen6230 https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2613116936
Some emotional effects of grief are
irritablity 
numbness
detachment from others
Some physical effects are 
Headaches 
Fatigue 
Muscle and chest pain

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Some short term effects of a death can be: 

Lack of focus on activities
Moving away from peopel you were once close to 
Preoccupation with death
Self doubt or hateread 
Lack of happiness 
Mood swings

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Long term effects may be: 

Lack of desire to do anything
Depression 
Increased risk of illness
Difficulty with day to day life 
Suicidal thoughts 

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A lot of the time people are upset for a very long time. They may change. Some people have very negative side effects from the death of a person they love. Many people experience depresstion or ptsd (depending on situation). People may develop bad habits like drug addiction, excessive drinking or self harm. These are habit that are harmful and can really ruin a person.]]> 2023-06-02 16:47:30 UTC https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2613117122 gwen6230 https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2613117190
Grief is a respnse to loss. Grief from the death of a loved one has no timeline. Some may get over loss quickly while for others it lasts a life time. This does not make one person stronger than another. While greif may last a while but it will not always be so hard to carry. Articles have said that while greif can last for a long time people will find ways to move on while still honouring the loved one.]]> 2023-06-02 16:47:36 UTC https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2613117190 gwen6230 https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2613117333
Everyone deals with some sort of grief and Everyone deals with grief differently. There are aways ways to help someone who is having a hard time. some ways to help someone are, talking to them or suggesting somone they should talk to. Helping them with tasks. Spending time with them or giving them space depending on how they feel. Just knwoing and understanding that loss effects everyone diffirently is the best thing you can do.]]> 2023-06-02 16:47:50 UTC https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2613117333 gwen6230 https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2613117393
https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2021/12/20/1056741090/grief-loss-holiday-brain-healing
https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/grief-loss#:~:text=People%20might%20feel%20or%20act,they%20can%27t%20go%20on
https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/grieving-dont-overlook-potential-side-effects-2019010415722
https://mygriefandloss.org/how-grief-changes-us#:~:text=Changes%20in%20sleep%2C%20eating%2C%20and,either%20by%20choice%20or%20circumstances
https://www.mhanational.org/bereavement-and-grief]]> 2023-06-02 16:47:55 UTC https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2613117393 gwen6230 https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2615005307 2023-06-05 16:40:07 UTC https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2615005307 gwen6230 https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2615008588 2023-06-05 16:43:37 UTC https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2615008588 gwen6230 https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2615008832 2023-06-05 16:43:54 UTC https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2615008832 gwen6230 https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2615010355 2023-06-05 16:45:43 UTC https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2615010355 gwen6230 https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2617303532
My question was how might loss and grief effect aa persons whole life and identity. I think the answer is yes losing someone can greatly impact a person. When someone dies we find ways to coup. We may feel or act diffirently after the dealth of a loved one. Some talk to therapists or friends while others become more isolated or depressed and some may fall into bad habits like drug addiction and self harm. People will go through changes good and bad when someone dies. Some of these changes are temporary but others change a person forever. So in conculstion, While grief cannot not change your appearence it i think it can change you as a person. Stuff like your personality or emotions. ]]> 2023-06-07 16:17:00 UTC https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2617303532 gwen6230 https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2621287088 2023-06-12 16:05:20 UTC https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2621287088 gwen6230 https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2621287263 2023-06-12 16:05:37 UTC https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2621287263 gwen6230 https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2621313803 2023-06-12 16:39:18 UTC https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2621313803 gwen6230 https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2621314324 2023-06-12 16:39:54 UTC https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2621314324 gwen6230 https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2621314755 2023-06-12 16:40:18 UTC https://padlet.com/gwen6230/j7jpfe60r8hxl3r3/wish/2621314755