https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59 23-24 Ottobre DOMANDE CorsoFN Coppie in difficoltà en-us 2021-09-28 16:49:16 UTC 2021-11-21 18:11:38 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1838100042 How do we help a person with this stage - to transcend the pain if they do not believe in God. Or if they are not open to Meditation. Or if they do not feel God's Love]]> 2021-10-23 15:13:26 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1838100042 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1838124469 The messages given to young people today is that they need to be independent and that vulnerability in a relationship is a weakness. How can we help young people - couples or singles to understand the value of an INTIMATE relationship which requires vulnerability and inter-dependence?]]> 2021-10-23 15:34:06 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1838124469 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1838181211 Our city has a small community of the Focolare and while it was very interesting hearing the strong experience of Fiorella & Giovanni who have regular meetings for couples in crisis, what would you suggest for us to take this ahead? ]]> 2021-10-23 16:25:04 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1838181211 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1838845968 2021-10-24 07:04:51 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1838845968 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1838897978 Una coppia propone di continuare a restare in contatto con le coppie che stanno partecipando al Corso, formando una rete tra di noi così da poterci confrontare, condividere, aiutare...]]> 2021-10-24 08:04:17 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1838897978 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1839002873 How should we approach a nephew who is separated. He did not receive any encouragement from the parents. It seemed that the parents are indifferent with the separation and favorable with the situation. We wanted to make a move for a reconciliation but it would seem that we would be encroaching on the privacy of the couple if we make a step. At this stage we only pray for them.]]> 2021-10-24 09:58:17 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1839002873 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1839070379 Sarebbe interessante e di grande aiuto creare un elenco di specialisti 'sensibili' (psicoterapeuti, avvocati, ......) eventualmente da poter consigliare o con i quali confrontarsi. GRAZIE]]> 2021-10-24 11:09:44 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1839070379 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1839595828 For example if there is abuse (emotional , psychological, physical etc) or fraud or excessive control...
1) What do we say to acknowledge this problem?
2) When do we refer them to professional help (counseling or legal) 
3) In what way can we continue to accompany?]]> 2021-10-24 17:05:01 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1839595828 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1839604900 We understand that these are 2 reactions when a couple feels the emotional connection is lost..
1) Can these roles change over time? Example: A pursuer on receiving no response from the withdrawer begins to withdraw too
2) Is it always a forward-backward dance? Can both of a couple be pursuers and react with attack/protest or Withdrawers who each retreat into their own worlds?

]]> 2021-10-24 17:11:11 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1839604900 SusanaJoaoPedroFoutodaSilva https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1861586403 1. Às vezes percorrer este processo de sofrimento trazido pela separação assusta e por isso muitas pessoas optam por não fazer este caminho e "passar para outra". 

Como ajudar a pessoa que já está separada a atravessar o sofrimento da separação? Como ajudá-la quando ela recusa ser ajudada?


2. Como levar todas estas metodologias e técnicas para fora da obra de Maria e da igreja católica para podermos chegar a todos?

]]> 2021-11-02 13:17:02 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1861586403 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1865781285 En general, son las mujeres las que comparten más.]]> 2021-11-03 20:24:16 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1865781285 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1865789283 He conocido casos reales, en los que un gen (o una gen), se junta con una pareja del mismo sexo, y quiere seguir participando en las actividades de la Obra. Me encuentro sin saber qué decir en estas situaciones, si además de pensar en ellos, tengo en cuenta a la Comunidad, la Iglesia...
¿Podéis darnos alguna orientación?]]> 2021-11-03 20:29:10 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1865789283 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903413595 Come fare quando la risposta personale non coincide con le regole della Chiesa?]]> 2021-11-20 10:14:47 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903413595 edmundooi2006 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903415351 How do i put myself in the position of those who are separated in order to make myself one with them.  In order to be able to empatise well with them in order to understand them much better? 

What can we say to couples going through difficulties? Or should we say anything?
 ]]> 2021-11-20 10:17:57 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903415351 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903424254 We realize that even on the pastoral discernment different situations in the parishes and among the priests and the bishops that think differently and sometimes do not agree with the Pope. How do we proceed in the situation?]]> 2021-11-20 10:33:49 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903424254 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903427687 Can you give us more inputs on how we can discern each situation that are difficult? ]]> 2021-11-20 10:40:07 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903427687 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903439302 Persone che non credono e convivono o/e che sono separati e in una  convivenza, nuova, quali sono gli elementi anzitutto  antropologici e poi teologici per seguirgli?  
   

]]> 2021-11-20 10:58:35 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903439302 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903442413 si può parlare di discernimento personale, di coppia e pastorale]]> 2021-11-20 11:04:10 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903442413 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903442975 2021-11-20 11:05:15 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903442975 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903443815 Quando un figlio fallisce il matrimonio dopo poco tempo quali responsabilità hanno i genitori nel non essersi accorti prima del matrimonio che avrebbero potuto esserci difficoltà?]]> 2021-11-20 11:06:53 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903443815 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903444574 come si può fare prevenzione prima che la crisi diventi separazione?
come riconoscere che una coppia potrebbe avere un accenno di crisi ancora prima che la coppia se ne renda conto?]]> 2021-11-20 11:08:19 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903444574 edmundooi2006 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903445564 If you know that a person is living a new union but without annulment, goes to Mass and receives communion, should we be the ones to inform them not to receive communion or have the priest advise the person?]]> 2021-11-20 11:09:46 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903445564 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903452359 Molto spesso si ha la percezione che una coppia che frequenta i nostri gruppi sia in seria difficoltà ma non dica nulla: cosa fare? Prendere l'iniziativa e chiedere un colloquio a entrambi, oppure aspettare? Oppure ancora avere un colloquio personale con ciascuno dei due?]]> 2021-11-20 11:21:21 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1903452359 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1904181396 2021-11-21 08:44:57 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1904181396 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1904215629 In caso di maltrattamento fisico da parte di una delle coppie, che ruolo gioca la giustizia (senza desiderio di vendetta) rispetto al perdono.]]> 2021-11-21 09:31:37 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1904215629 https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1904670743 Si può pensare a percorsi di “rinforzo del legame di coppia” rivolto a tutti coloro che lo desiderano? L’impressione è che i “Percorsi di luce” siano più conosciuti e adatti alle coppie che vivono una situazione di crisi più seria. Ci sembrerebbe necessario di percorsi aperti proprio a tutti quelli che desiderano coltivare il legame e crescere nella relazione di coppia, magari meno impegnativi rispetto ai PdL. 
GRAZIE !]]> 2021-11-21 18:11:38 UTC https://padlet.com/segreteriafnint/ixoafo1wf0h3hz59/wish/1904670743