https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj What are those fears? en-us 2020-10-22 17:47:32 UTC 2020-10-23 23:43:27 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f383.png damaj4155 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857514288 Fear of rejection, professionally . It's not allowing me to grow ]]> 2020-10-23 23:24:31 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857514288 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857514433 I'm afraid of failure, not getting into college or a good school in the future. It gets really stressful to the point where I become unmotivated to keep trying. ]]> 2020-10-23 23:24:42 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857514433 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857515001 getting too comfortable with someone, especially a male who might take advantage of me... I'm afraid to make new friendships and I tend to overthink everything]]> 2020-10-23 23:25:21 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857515001 10349111 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857516381 Being an adult, the fact that you have soo many more responsibilities and you need to interact with the big ugly world. That also, the world is scary and is full of scary people. Moreover, the things that I can't control such as how other people act and how that affects me. Also being in a form of "abbys" where you feel alone and almost drowing without knowing to swim.]]> 2020-10-23 23:26:44 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857516381 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857516797 My greatest fear is not living up to my full potential.  I feel like I often don't reach standards that my parents have or don't fulfill my own expectations.  Honestly, this happens in everything I do whether it's a test or school assignments/projects.  I think what I fear more than just living up to my full potential is letting people down when I don't reach standards.]]> 2020-10-23 23:27:12 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857516797 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857517679 One main fear that I have is the fear of the future. There are unlimited possibilities that can end up going the way you want or the other way around. I don't want to disappoint myself or my family. (This can also include the fear of the unknown or failure.)]]> 2020-10-23 23:28:09 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857517679 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857517892 I am afraid of being alone and this hinders me because I rely on those around me to literally stay with me because if I'm alone it's horrifying and I often put a burden on others because I can't be left alone ]]> 2020-10-23 23:28:22 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857517892 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857518238 I am afraid of getting Sexually abused again and it holds me back because I have a hard time trusting people. I have a fear of a family member dying and it holds me back because I think about it everyday. I am afraid of being burned alive because my skin is really sensitive and I don't like fire in general. I am afraid of people taking advantage of my siblings since they have autism and also I am afraid of letting people taking advantage of me. ]]> 2020-10-23 23:28:44 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857518238 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857518867 My fear is rejection, people who take advantage of me like I have to watch my back with friends. I’m horrified of horror and I get grossed out when I see blood or hear blood. ]]> 2020-10-23 23:29:26 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857518867 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857518887 I'm scared of being being rejected because of my sexuality and I honestly could lose my family and my friends ]]> 2020-10-23 23:29:28 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857518887 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857518972 I want to break the cycle of sexual abuse in my family.]]> 2020-10-23 23:29:34 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857518972 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857520992 My greatest fear is loosing my self-discipline. The moment I deviate from my schedule and plan, I feel like I loose control of my life. In this case, I would likely to be engaged in unhealthy and distracting activities. If I participate in these distracting activities long enough, I will loose all my hope and motivation of the future. It's not fun. ]]> 2020-10-23 23:31:55 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857520992 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857522555 I can't controll people's actions, but I can learn how to say no, and how to advocate FOR MYSELF... to anyone, whether that's my own parent, friends, or teachers.]]> 2020-10-23 23:33:48 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857522555 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857523143 Fixing the fear: living in the moment and not worrying about what is to come ]]> 2020-10-23 23:34:28 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857523143 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857523313 I can overcome my fear of failure my talking to my parents more, sometimes I don't realize that they are here to support me. I can also talk to friends that I trust to help keep me motivated. ]]> 2020-10-23 23:34:37 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857523313 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857523791 I think that I could just slowly get myself in the world of adults, like asking my parents how things work (economically and politically) as well as listening to more news to know what is around me and expose me slowly to the environment that one day I'll be in.]]> 2020-10-23 23:35:07 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857523791 damaj4155 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857523877 To overcome my fear of rejection something I can do it just challenge myself and apply to a  different jobs. I need to work on not taking things too personal. I also need to acknowledge my strengths. I Don't do that too often ]]> 2020-10-23 23:35:12 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857523877 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857524326 I think you can being to cope with fears by identifying where it began and starting work from there. Honestly sometimes you could do it by yourself or you could need help from a therapist. Either way its a super brave thing to do.]]> 2020-10-23 23:35:40 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857524326 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857525171 Identifying what is my best, and not overthinking everything. Another thing is to stop micromanaging things in my life, especially myself.  ]]> 2020-10-23 23:36:28 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857525171 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857525235 Fear of getting sexually abused again: I think that the first step that I need to take is continue to take on therapy, ask for help if I need it, use my coping skills in every situation, take care of my mental health, and learn new defense skills. ]]> 2020-10-23 23:36:32 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857525235 https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857526680 I am always in control of my life and situation. I am in control of how I can react to these situations rather than helplessness. The moment I deviate from my tasks, I will need a recharge moment (nap, eat, or drawing) to get back on track, These activities will help me reinforce my new identity, so the next time I encounter these moments, it becomes easier each and every time I get back on track.]]> 2020-10-23 23:38:09 UTC https://padlet.com/damaj4155/ionj3qn1n46nz3fj/wish/857526680