HFC Men's Bonfire Circle by Moshatane Thabo jeffrey

2024-07-16 20:31:21 UTC

I love to serve in the church so much, but we have a financial problem with my wife right now and my income is not even enough. Now i feel like the more demands of money come from Church, the more i feel like I'm not man enough if i dont pop out money, especially because some men belittle us in conversation and that really destroys my interest to serve and confidence as a men in church. I am still here because I havent heard the pastor speak like that, only the people close to him and I don't know how to tell the pastor.

2024-07-17 04:31:10 UTC

How do you deal with a situation where you have a project (like a building project), but financial you are not ready. But there is pressure from the wife and she is even willing to contribute financially, which makes me a bit uncomfortable because of past experiences. Women have a tendency of reminding you that they have contributed to something or even claim it, especially when you have a disagreement on something. I would prefer to start the project when I'm ready financially and just allow her to contribute here and there.

2024-07-17 04:57:15 UTC

There is an issue of entertainment, like going out as a couple to a restaurant or go on holiday, which is a good thing. But to be honest my budget doesn't allow us to do that on a regular basis, but there is pressure from my wife and to her it looks like I'm not interested. She doesn't accept that the issue is money. So how do I strike a balance, trying to please her and also ensuring that our budget is not impacted negatively?

wangatjmoshatane — 2024-07-17 07:10:08 UTC

How do other men deal with wives that are too vocal and argumentative?

How to handle a wife who wants to control everything, including the last cent from my pocket

wangatjmoshatane — 2024-07-17 07:12:59 UTC

How do I prepare for marriage and when do I know I am ready?

wangatjmoshatane — 2024-07-17 07:13:42 UTC

How to prepare my teenage son on relationships and marriage - A taboo in my culture

wangatjmoshatane — 2024-07-17 07:36:04 UTC

I have 2 boys. One of my boys said that I favour the other one more than him, though he said it in passing, but I have been thinking about it ever since, and i am convinced that it is true. How do I find the balance and overcome favoritism?

andaniphaswana — 2024-07-17 08:00:29 UTC

There are times you are being shouted at innocently by your equal on things you have little or no control over (spilled milk as they say)- how do you guys handle these incidents (mostly on Sunday mornings)

2024-07-18 22:07:23 UTC

I am married but I can't stop myself from looking at other women, what do i do?

2024-07-18 22:08:38 UTC

My wife complains about me having a female friend at work, I don't see a problem there, how do i make her understand that?

2024-07-18 22:12:41 UTC

My wife thinks there is a woman in church who wants me, I don't want that woman but my wife she is always trying to keep that woman away from me. How do i make her stop. The other time i talk to that woman and i hold her hand but my wife lost it when we got home and even today she says she can't trust me around her, just because of holding her hand. Help!

2024-07-18 22:17:09 UTC

Good evening! Please can I ask Anonymously. My wife is naive, she has hired a maid in our house and the lady is very outthere. I don't trust her because of her personality around me. Is like she is no manners, but my wife has trust over her. Do i fire her or tell my wife , but how without making her think i am wanting that lady Eish? I don't trust her like she likes men and things.

2024-07-18 22:33:18 UTC

Ndaa! I am a last born at home and my mother has made me aware that the house at home is mine, I told my partner and asked her to help me renovate that house... She thinks its a bad idea to renovate that house because we don't stay in it and our lives are here in Johannesburg. She says if we renovate it then i pass away my family has a right to take that house back because its a family home and my sisters and brother's children stay there with my mom now, she says it will create problems when we have to fight with my family members for misstreating the further we will buy. She says other things but I want to convince her because she doesn't understand these traditional things, the hose is mine, im the youngest boy and all my siblings are expecting me to upgrade the house. But my partner says it will forever be a Family home.

2024-07-18 22:35:54 UTC

Hello everyone, Cheated, how do i gain my wife's trust back.

Also again, is flirting on the phone cheating?

2024-07-18 22:43:49 UTC

My wife thinks i am arrogant, she says I don't listen to her and i think i know everything. I hate that. I think she is tooo emotional. She cry easily and fir small things. I'm tired of that.

2024-07-18 22:46:51 UTC

My wife doesn't like doing house chores, is it normal for a woman not to like chores like washing dishes? She can Cook but she hates dishes and ironing. We fight because of this. Is this normal for a woman to be like this?

2024-07-18 22:53:21 UTC

I didn't say this to anyone before.

My wife was raped when she was young..... Now she doesn't enjoy sex, she just doesn't it for me. What can I do?

2024-07-19 05:46:53 UTC

I used to come to church more than i do now. Now i am affected by too many financial demands at church, we have a full plate of bills at home and these very frequent money requests move the attention from spiritual growth to wanting to be seen contributing, and if you don't contribute, its like you are not a true son or supporter but i cant walk around showing people my bank balance... Im even afraid of having a baby with my wife because the demands are too many. How to overcome please?

2024-07-19 09:47:33 UTC

How do i forgive my wife after she cheated?

2024-07-19 09:50:11 UTC

How do i deal with Madam earning more than me?

2024-07-19 10:00:43 UTC

I have a step son, he is naughty and doesn't want to listen to me, my partner thinks im too harsh , i think she is too soft, this is not my biological son, how do i solve this?

2024-07-19 10:07:48 UTC

I don't want children. How do i tell my lovely partner who wants to have 3 children? Eish, im scared i will hate that child or children, plus I don't want her to loose the body shape she has and have to breastfeed. I know im not fair but i didn't marry a Mother, i love her alone.

2024-07-19 10:12:05 UTC

My child mother is using the Baby to get my attention and to punish me, sometime even money or getting my wife jelaz.i want to solve her, but i don't know exacly how because she driving me Crazy naw. And child is a child

2024-07-19 10:15:14 UTC

Is it wrong to take second wife?

2024-07-19 10:19:10 UTC

Good day, sorry i will arrive late but i want to ask you. I have ancestors but i believe in Jesus, how come n is it fyn or not fyn?

2024-07-19 11:50:51 UTC

I play lotto and gamble on Betway, is it wrong to use the money to offer in church?