The desire to be with many women conceals the inability to commit to one. The conquests exhibited by the womanizer cover the deficiencies of his manhood to relate to a woman.

Although there is a past like your male relatives are womanizing, that does not mean that you should become one, We are autonomous to make our own decisions, tomorrow is what we live and the future is what we build.
Your fear of becoming a being like your father, has prevented you from enjoying the beauty of finding a stable partner, being happy and spending pleasant moments with your opposite gender.
I recommend you not to stop, learn to value romantic relationships, risk leaving your comfort zone, conquer the woman of your dreams, one who knows your feelings, who knows your tastes, who really cares about you and not in money or in material things, that known as "half orange"

Live your life to the fullest and leave aside the black past of your family.
Lucky friend.

Doctor heart Oscar Quintero

Love has no age, but people do.

Age implies: growing, maturing and aging. This growth is emotional, affective and unfailingly chronological, that is, it occurs over time and brings about physical changes.

The idea is not to make value judgments about whether it is right or wrong.

If trying to show a vision since the couples themselves go through several difficulties and if in turn the age difference is added, these difficulties increase.

Although many accept that love has no age, seeing an older man with a young girl always produces looks of reproach

An older man with a young girl is more socially accepted than an older woman and a young man.

The need for an older man to join a young girl goes beyond desire. It has to do with reaffirmation. An older man attached to a young girl usually tries not to lose his youth and reaffirm manhood

The young woman who joins the older man usually looks for the father figure that protects her or in the worst case, her money. It is not impossible for an older man to fall in love with a young girl, and vice versa, but it is undoubtedly a relationship with a tendency not to last.

In short, each head is a world and in each relationship there are unique and differentiated variables. Generalize is an error.

Best regards

 

I guess you like studying so much at your home but you may go out for sharing and meet new people in stores, clubs, pubs, discos and other places. Probably you can start working on meeting encounters for making friend with girls.

 According to your job, you should publish in a journal your personal data that permits to locate you. You must check it out every single week to find a new and big opportunity of work.

About online dating sites be careful on that because many people use this kind of sites to meet people around the world. They always take different nicknames to appear as great people but at the end they result with a false identification. You have to be cautious all the time.

 You are brilliant. You are a best teacher. So, you mustn’t think in bad things because the life can give you a great opportunity of changing in any moment of your short lifecycle. Open your mind and ask to God because it could show you how does it love you and what will be our mission into this planet.  

Finally, you must stay in Germany because you do not believe in Islam culture and religious. You just wasted a lot time living in Europe studying so hard for yourself. So, you have to continue working for your personal needs. You already have other interests and likes. For that reason try to put in practice all the suggestions that I propose for you and at the end of it you will see the change of your life.

Warm hug