Think critically!!! by Akash Raut https://padlet.com/educator_akash/conclusion What conclusion can you make from considering both Gottman and Lavner's research? en-us 2020-06-12 11:01:23 UTC 2020-06-12 14:00:36 UTC hello@padlet.com Aarav https://padlet.com/educator_akash/conclusion/wish/624051406 According to Gottman couples who tend to have more problem, criticism etc. Tend to surely get divorced.  ]]> 2020-06-12 13:47:01 UTC https://padlet.com/educator_akash/conclusion/wish/624051406 Devanssh https://padlet.com/educator_akash/conclusion/wish/624051689  "The participants in this study were a self-selected sample of mainly educated, middle class Americans. " he is only taking americans which can give him bias results.


" It could be that couples who are already dissatisfied in their relationship tend to argue with more hostility, anger and contempt"
over here he is making it worse as by these research couples will divorce.






 
]]> 2020-06-12 13:47:12 UTC https://padlet.com/educator_akash/conclusion/wish/624051689 Janhavi janhavirpandit https://padlet.com/educator_akash/conclusion/wish/624052184 Gottman: Communication is seen as an essential part of a healthy relationship and that couples who tend to have arguments with high criticism were more likely to have a divorce.

-Culture can play a role in how couples communicate with each other 

-It was proven that there were higher levels of satisfaction in a relationship when the communication was better]]> 2020-06-12 13:47:30 UTC https://padlet.com/educator_akash/conclusion/wish/624052184 Gauresh https://padlet.com/educator_akash/conclusion/wish/624052699 Gottman's theory suggests that couples who are facing problems internally. Especially those who had a more heated argument, and the ones who were to criticize, stonewalling, and defend themselves had a greater chance of being divorced. While training programs, couples therapy sessions, and places where a 3rd person can help the couple could prevent a potential break up, that depends on the couple's collective open-mindedness, which may prevent the potential breakup. A training program or a couple's therapy session would be a constructive activity, that would help bridge the communication gap, and would help bring to light, which are the problems to be concerned about rather focusing on small problems and creating a big fuss. At times culture also plays  an important role as it will bring to light interracial notions which the couple could work upon, or mutually agree to just let it be.
All in all, to conclude, Gottman's theory has a strong reasoning, however, a very  secure way to counter this is by therapy sessions or training programs.

]]> 2020-06-12 13:47:48 UTC https://padlet.com/educator_akash/conclusion/wish/624052699 Aarav https://padlet.com/educator_akash/conclusion/wish/624060332 To sustain  a relationship there is a lot of communication which is need. The more  inner thoughts that are share with the the opposite person. The more the relation tends to work. Over the time, as relation starts working. There is a shift from shallow talk to sharing everything. 

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