Agony Column (4t A) by Catalina Alicia Pascual Santandreu

(Example) My best friend is ignoring me!

cpascuals — 2022-10-14 10:26:34 UTC

Dear Agony Aunt,
My name is Pauline, I am 16 years old and I live in Cala Millor.

My best friend Emma and I have been friends since we were kids in school, she is really nice and a very big-hearted and dependable friend. However, lately I‘ve had the impression that she doesn’t like hanging out with me like we used to. We used to spend the afternoons together, but I haven’t seen her for at least 5 days! Actually, since she has met his new ‘friend’ Erik, it looks like she only wants to make plans with him. For example, last week I asked her to invite a few friends over to have dinner together at my parents’ and she said she had to study for an exam. The other day I found out she failed the exam because the day before she was shopping and having dinner with Erik! Apparently they spent the whole weekend together.

I felt really bad when I found out, not only because my best friend was ignoring me, but also because she lied to me. Now I feel disappointed and I don’t know what to do. I hope you can help me!

I will wait for your reply,
Thank you!
Disappointed in Cala Millor.

Racism

miqbal4616 — 2022-10-14 11:05:18 UTC

Hello, my name is Babacar Diop, I'am 15 years old and I live in Sonservera.

I have a Problem, I am black and the soceity is racist, I triet to ingnore it but I can't they insult a lot and it hurt me a lot, my family have the same problem, I know, but nowone talk about it and we can't move to other city because we dont have enought money.

I feel bad about it, the only time when I feel a bit better is when Iam alone and I can clear my mind skating.

Thank for reading.

My group of friends

tverives4649 — 2022-10-14 11:08:37 UTC

Dear Agony Aunt
My name is Fapolonso Escobar Guerrero and i live in Son Servera.
Lately i don't meet with my friends.
I met all of my friends in primary school and we have been friends since then.
They used to be polite,frienly and hilarious.
But they start to meet other kind of peopole and smoke and now they always rude and agresive.
I worried abaut them and i don't konw if I should try to meet other group of friends.
I fel very disapointed and stressed with them because they were my bests friends.
I will wait the reply , thank you.

The lived

Anonymous_89 — 2022-10-14 13:27:06 UTC

Dear Agony Aunt,

My name is Ahura Mazdā, I am 15 years old and I live in Sa Coma.

It is difficult to be a god, thanks to that today I have no friends only enemies, but before all this I had a friend named Ahriman, when we were little we were always together we were inseparable but when we realized who each of us really was, I was very good and he was very bad, we were day and night.

After a couple of years we didn't fight, because I wanted to make the country the best and he wanted to control it with an iron hand. Today we are enemies, but deep down I want those days when we were friends to return.

I will wait for your reply,

Thank you!

Disappointed in distant lands.

My best friend is angry with me!

avinasn45721 — 2022-10-15 16:29:00 UTC

Dear Agoni Aunt,
My name is Albert, I am 15
years old and I live in Son
Servera.

My best friend Andreu and I have been friends for a long time, he is very respnsible, funny and he like spent time with friends, but he is angry with me because in the past week I couldn't go to Palma with him. We had planned to go to Palma to spend the day and buy clothes, but I couldn't go bacause I had a family lunch.

I felt raelly bad bacause I couldn't go to Palma with my bet friend and now he's mad at me and I don't know what to do.

I will wait for your reply,
Thank you!

Fight with Pöìa

HugoCalvoPeinado — 2022-10-17 11:31:35 UTC

Dear Agony Aunt
My name is Hugo Calvo Peinado,I am 14 years old an I live In Son Servera

A long time ago I had a great friend named Pöía. Pöía And I had been friends for several years. He was someone admirable, intelligent, strong, fast, he was similar to me, you were very close but one day because of a small fight over a silly thing I ended up in a fist fight where he and I exchanged blows and with each one of them our friendship was broken. I ended up winning but with the great price of losing a friend and several teeth.

Now I'm not entirely well because with the fight I've lost a very good friend but there's not so much tension between us anymore but I don't know how to talk to him or be able to forgive him either.

I will wait for your reply,
Thank you!

My best friend doesn't talk to me anymore

vpietrzak4751 — 2022-10-18 16:41:23 UTC

Dear agony aunt,
My name is Victoria, I am 15 years old and I live in Cala Millor.

I had a friend that I met in kindergarten, she was very funny and she was a person that you could spend time together with. When she repeated in fifth grade we began to distance ourselves more, we were still friends but not like before, she found new friends and stopped talking to me. I tried to fix our friendship, but she just changed me.

I feel very upset right now because it was a very long friendship and I know there is nothing more I can do. I hope you can help me.

I will wait for your reply,
thanks!

My friend angry with me

2022-10-18 19:51:06 UTC

Dear Agony Aunt,
My name is Aitor, I am 14 years old and I live in Sa Coma. to go the peninsula I stayed to play FIFA with my friend Eric on a boat, it was 5 years ago. I got dizzy, my stomach hurt and it was very windy i needed a lot of help trying not to get dizzy.I was sick for about 3 hours until I got well and the ship took 7 hours to arrived.

Eric got mad at me for fifa and de after a while we went to eat together and apologized.

I will wait for your reply,
Thank you!

My friendship of 10 years

lmazog5444 — 2022-10-18 20:10:05 UTC

Dear Agony Aunt,
My name is Laura Sofia, I am 15 years old and I live in Cala Millor.

When I was 5 years old I met a girl named Mariana, we went to the same class, one day they gave us a job in pairs and I got her. From there we became friends, we shared from homework, birthdays, outings, Christmas in conclusion almost everything we did together. The experiences of childhood and part of adolescence made us live joys, experiences and difficult moments and also beautiful.
I learned to love him, we were accomplices, we supported each other in everything. It was 10 years in which I saw her as my best friend. There came a time when we gradually separated, we kept talking but it was not the same as before, until one day she found another best friend, the environment became difficult since she took a very rude attitude, leaving After the 10 years of friendship we had, no matter how I felt.
Something unexpected arrived, I came to live in Spain with my family, it hurt me to leave my country and in a certain way her.
I miss her and I want us both to forgive each other and have beautiful memories, even if we don't resume our friendship.
What do I do Aunt Agonia, do I apologize or leave things like that?

I will wait for your reply,
Thank you!

My best friend

bmassanets4597 — 2022-10-19 06:17:19 UTC

dear aunt of agony

I'm Bernat Massanet I’m 15 years old, 4 years ago I had a best friend with whom we always did things together, from playing on the beach in summer to playing in the snow in winter, my and my friend were inseparable since we were 6 years old, but the day we started The high school ended everything, he met new people me too and the situation was increasingly difficult, time passed and we did not speak or say anything to try to return to being those friends who loved each other so much when they were little and now I ask you aunt of agony

I want to recover their friendship and that everything goes back to the way it was before, how can I achieve that?

My friend ignore my problems :(

rrojasr45731 — 2022-10-19 06:24:11 UTC

Hello Agony Aunt! Well, my name is Rocío, I am 15 years old, I live in Son Servera and I have a friend who is called Jane.

Jane is a very good girl, she is very kind, cheerful and extroverted. We have been friends for 7 years and she is very important to me. I like to spead time with Jane, but recently I feel that she is more distant. The other day, I tried to tell her a thing that was very important to me, but she ignore me totally! She just said "ok"! Nothing more. As if she didn't care. I wanted her to listen to me but she ignored me. Since this day we didn't talk like before.

I feel relly bad with this situation. I just need that the things are the way they were, because I don't want to loose my friend.

I don't know what I need to do to solve this. Can you help me please?

My friend

Alex_000004 — 2022-10-19 06:27:18 UTC

Dear Agony Aunt, My name is Álex, I am 15 years old and I live in Son Servera.

I had a friend in Sevilla, but i don't see my friend for 4 years ago. He are very funny and happy, I like walk with he by the city and explore news places.
I couldn't go to her house because the covid did not allow us, I excited to visit my friend again and spend time together with he.

I will wait for your reply, Thank you!

My sister and me, we don't have the best relationship

2022-10-19 06:30:51 UTC

Dear Agony Aunt,
My name is Rebeca, I am 16 years old an I live in Son Servera.

My sister Carla and I, we used to have a better relationship, we used to have good comunication and we use to have so much fun together. However, she's grown up and she is a teenager. Now she feels higher and when I tel something to her she ignores me or she tells me she doesn't care about it. Sometimes we still have fu together but pretty short times.

I feel that sometimes she put me out of her life, and I'm worried about i the future we probably won't talk to each other or we still won't have a good relationship.

What can I do to start to have a good relationship?

I will wait for your replay.
Thank you!

My best friend Maria talks badly about me behind my back

2022-10-19 06:42:40 UTC

Dear Agony Aunt, My name is Saray, I am 14 years old and I live in Son Servera.

My best friends Maria and I have been friends since we were kids in the school, she is very funny and very inteligent. Lately she has been very distant and strange. We don't go out that much anymore, before we used to always be together but now a few days ago she didn't want to be with me. She told me that she had been speaking badly about me! She said that I was unbearable and hateful, that I only seek attention!

I felt very bad when I found out, my socalled best friend had spoken badly about me and was moving away from me.

I will wait for your reply,
Thanks you!

Dear Agony Aunt,

pventeoa4617 — 2022-10-19 06:48:25 UTC

My name is Pablo, I am 14 years old and I live in Sa Coma.

My best friend Iker and I have been friends since were I have 1 year old. He is a good person and he likes the football.

He got into a fist fight with me because he started laughing at Barça and no one laughs at Barça. The truth is that I left him in the hospital but I would like to fix my friendship with him and I would like to give him a new face.

I feel bad because he is my friend since I was little. I think I did it wrong by hitting him

My father is proud

zdiazc4602 — 2022-10-19 06:49:29 UTC

Dear Agony Aunt,
My name is Zoe, I am 15 years old and I live in Son Servera.

My father and me always been inseparable, we loved each other very much, we did activites... since always. But when I have 6 years old my parents decided to break away. Since this day my father began behave strange with me, he doesn't want to see me, he doesn't call me anymoreand and more things. I don't know why he did this because I am his daughter and I haven't fault of anything. And one day I discovered that he had jealousy of my mother and he paid it with me. When I found out, I went to talk with he. I got angry with him because I didn't feel good about what he did to me. He still doesn't take it well and he doesn't apologize. To this day we continue arguing.

At first whe I was little I felt really bad because I doesn't understand anything. But when I had growing up I have realized that's not worth feeling bad when I'm not have fault, but I would like at least not to be fighting.

I would like to recive answers. Thanks for reading.

I moved to Spain

2022-10-19 06:50:31 UTC

Hello Agony Aunt!
My name is Malena, I am 15 years old and i live in Cala Millor.
My family and me moved for the second time to Spain, we lived in Argentina, we been since April, 6 months passed and I can't get used to it. I spend my birthay alone, far from my family and friends and that makes me feel sad and angry. I miss them a lot, they are funny,lovely and very good people, I hope to come back soon and live in Argentina, although maybe I come back in the winter for Christmas but on vacation.
I would like to make friends in Spain but I don't know how to do it. Could you help me? I will wait for you reply, thank you!

Parent relationship

2022-10-19 06:53:39 UTC

Dear Agony Aunt
My name is Alessandro, I am 15 years old and i live in Son Servera.

My mather and my father have been together for more than 20 years, but lately i see them more distant and they don't talk as much.

This all happened because I'm a  problematic and I make them angry

I'm sad because it seems that they are going to separate and they don't give me the same attention as before.

I will wait for your reply, Thank you!

My friend is distant to me

jenriquem4562 — 2022-10-19 06:57:39 UTC

-Hi Agony Aunt!
My name is Chema, I am 15 years old and I like in Son Servera.

-My friend Bernat is a good person and a good friend. He's one of my best friends and I don't want to lose his friendship.

We has been friends for 10 years. I like been with him but a few days ago we had a problem. He's more distant to me. He doesn't speak to me and is unpleasant with me.

I don't feel good with this.

Can you help me please?
Thanks!!!

My friend in Mozambique

2022-10-19 07:05:41 UTC

Dear agony aunt,
My name is Iván, I'm 15 years old and I live in Son Servera. I have a friend who's called Meimi, he lives in Mozambique, he has a lot of moneybut his parents won't let him spend it. He doesn't do anithing, he lives in a basement and he is enslaved for his parents, doesn't get out of home.
What can I do to help him?
I will wait your reply,
Thank you.

I have had troubles with my boyfriend

imolinas4691 — 2022-10-19 07:05:53 UTC

Dear Agony Aunt, my name is Irlynd, I'm 15 yeras old and I live in Son Servera.

My problem is that I have troubles with my boyfriend becouse he didn't go to my birthday party becouse he overslept, he knew it was a special day for me and I like it so much. He is a friendly boy, helper, optimistic, cheerful, but is a little bit lazy and unpunctual too. He is so special for me and I felt bad, sad and dissapoited, when I didn't see him in my brithday party.

He said that he was tired but it's not a good enough excuse to have made me that.

Thanks for reading my letter, I hope you help me :).

Distance family

ocabrerizog46591 — 2022-10-19 07:38:44 UTC

Dear Agony Aunt, my name is Olivia, I'm 15 years old, and I live in Sa coma.

All my family lives in Argentina, and that means that I alway spend Christmas and New year only with my mom and my dad, but now they are divorced so it's more sad than before because we are more alone, last year I spend Christmas with my mom and New year with my dad, but this year I will spend them alone. The problem is that I will spend those important days alone and I don't want that. My dad will go to Denmark to work, and my mom has to work too. I'm mad with my parents because they always work and they have missed great moments of my life because they were working. I know that they do it to have money and give to me things and a good life.

They are so funny, lovely, comprehesive and helpful, but I'm mad, angry, dessapionted and sad because I will spend Christmas and new year alone. Above that, they told to me thet they would buy me a ticket to go to Argentina and spend these important days with my family. But in the end they told me that I wouldn't go.

They excited me, and now I'm so dissapointed, and so angry with them, I understand that is so expensive, but I don't want to spend Christmas alone.

Thank you for reading my problem, I hope to recive an awnser.

My friend lives in a bondage.

2022-10-23 13:00:35 UTC

Dear agony aunt. My name is Dario, I am 15 years old and I live in Cala Millor.

I have a friend called Chapulin in the UK and I haven't seen him in a long time.

We have contact because he writes to me by carrier pigeon since he lives in slavery because of his father. He tells me that he hasn't seen sunlight for years and I don't know what to do. I hope you can help me.

I will wait for your answers
Goodbye!

Problems whith my best friend.

2022-10-23 20:44:08 UTC

Dear agony Aunt, my name is Andreu Sureda, I’m 15 years old and I live in Son Servera.

I have a friend who gets angry very easily. His name is Thomas and he is 16 years old, I can hardly talk to him and sometimes he loses control and insults me.

Deep down, he is a good boy and has always been good to me, so I want to solve this problem, I don’t know what to do, I hope you can help me.

I will wait for your answers. Goodbye!