𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘚𝘢𝘧𝘦 𝘊𝘰𝘳𝘯𝘦𝘳⛓🖇 by hi

Hi guys :) just wanted to start this small project in case anyone is feeling down.. Just type our ur problems here and I’ll answer then as soon as possible

Thiri_07 — 2021-03-02 09:31:33 UTC

-you can be anonymous if u want
-but pls insert a non-taken nick name for yourself so you can find out which advice is given to you
-feel free to talk about anything, all this will be confidential
-what said here, stays here and only here
-only post it in black thank you

hi-

2021-03-02 09:37:47 UTC

idk if it was a dream or not but I mightve gotten molested.....

(To hi-)

Thiri_07 — 2021-03-02 09:39:37 UTC

More elaboration pls..

lyx

2021-03-02 09:51:09 UTC

i feel like my friend is trying to avoid me like she dont talk to me

(to lyx)

Thiri_07 — 2021-03-02 09:55:32 UTC

Maybe think bk on what u might hv done to offend them or smth.. If u really dont know what u might hv done wrong.. Ask them straight up and let them tell u whats wrong but if they just ignore u for no reason then.. Drop them

CHAN KEN YEW

2021-03-02 10:08:40 UTC

I don't know why these days I am a boy but I attracted to girls stuff like (cute stickers, cute notepads) What is wrong with me actually?

Johnny

2021-03-02 10:10:06 UTC

I feel like spending all of my Money on my favourite stuff these days. Should I do so!

(To Chan ken yew)

Thiri_07 — 2021-03-02 10:12:11 UTC

Its ok to be a boy and attracted to those things, its totally fine.. like fr.. im a girl but- im attracted to what guys like.. like i game sometimes, i think skateboarding is cool etc. so its totally fine to like those kind of things.. if anyone makes fun of u, do me a favour and ignore them :) u do u 🥰

(To johnny)

Thiri_07 — 2021-03-02 10:13:29 UTC

I mean its great that you're spending your money on things u actually enjoy.. but dont over do it, u can spend it on the things u like AND save up for things u actually need, just keep in mind there r Wants and Needs and you'll be fine :)

Mousie

2021-03-02 10:30:53 UTC

I'm a clingy person, I love my bestfriend so much because I only have her. At first I was jealous because apparently she have a new bestfriend. Okay tbh I did cry a lot about it . But back then it was just jealousy. Suddenly she start dating her new bestfriend. I support them. At least it made her happy but... She actually is replacing me. Maybe she didn't think it as replacing me but from talking to everyday, we talk once in 3 days. She can even go a week without talking to me. It hurts a lot. I tried to find someone else to make her feel like I'm replacing her but she doesn't feel a thing. There's no jealousy. Sigh. Then she rant to me about being jealous when her partner do shits bla bla bla. Life is so hard wtaf. I'm a really bad friend..

To doyoung's little precious slut-

2021-03-02 10:38:58 UTC

Am I gay? HAHHAA

(To mousie)

Thiri_07 — 2021-03-02 10:50:49 UTC

Well..i know for a fact she gets jealous sometimes.. sometimes she probably wants to say smth but probably thinks you've found someone who makes u as happy as she did. Maybe she's busy sometimes..? Im sure if she really cares about you.. she would try to make time for u.. maybe she has a valid reason? And no never that doesn't make you a bad friend..she might hv found someone who she wanna spend her life with but different people play a different part in a person's life and if you really love her and she returns the same feelings as a best friend.. she wouldn't wanna let u go either :)🐬💕

rin

2021-03-02 10:51:34 UTC

hi uhm these past few months i've been getting extremely ill and im always scared to tell my parents though sometimes it has come to the point where i need to tell my parents covid-19 is really really bad here and my parents are scared to risk it with going to the hospital im doing better these days but there are days where i just kinda thing ill die? i never rlly told this to anyone so i just idk want to let it out and have a good day and ily :)

(To rin)

Thiri_07 — 2021-03-02 10:57:49 UTC

I dont really hv good advice.. but i just wanna know you're so strong to be keeping all this to urself for all this time.. and.. just keep believing in god.. cuz.. I believe ur such a great and strong person.. and covid-19 has affected so many lives.. but i want u to know im always here to listen to ur problems and struggles if that help..? 😕and im sure once the pandemic gets better in a couple of years.. you'll get to be the energetic you once again ;)

Shish

2021-03-02 11:31:01 UTC

I have person that I cherish the most. I have jealousy issues. That person is so so so friendly to the point everyone wants to be friends with her. Then I tell her "see, she wants to be your bestfriend. I'm just scared of losing you" And she said to not worry about that person but now.. Hm you can guess it. Why do everyone gotta replace me. I'm really that replaceable huh. I forced myself to talk coldly to her WITH NO FREAKING EMOJIS. So that idk maybe she got tired of me more and leave me. I can't leave her so I want to make her leave me. I'll just get hurt now and move on. I'm not that strong to hold on seeing her with her new bestfriend.

(To shish)

Thiri_07 — 2021-03-02 12:06:33 UTC

No no no, u got it all wrong. You don't hv jealousy issues.. maybe its just her personality or smth? And did u check if she's actually replacing u.. she might not show it but u might mean alot more to her than you think ;) so chin up.. don't overthink too much or worry.. im sure if she truly cherishes u.. she'd be afraid to loose u too

Skylar

2021-03-02 14:34:15 UTC

I have been facing "depression" for 2 years , I know I sound like I'm taking it and all but yes it's true . I don't even know anymore , i don't cry myself to sleep but that I have thought of me dying(suicide) alot almost everyday. I don't know how to explain this but I "act" happy in school so no one suspects a thing . I tried telling the teacher once but I somehow manage to run to the bathroom and cry instead . I'm really grateful u did this so I can be anymous and still can talk to u , it really helps . There is more but yeah thx 4 reading this whole shitty paragraph

But really if u know me pls help me tell the teacher . Ty

Naira..

2021-03-02 23:02:55 UTC

forgot to add one detail yst.... my dad recorded me in the shower arnd 1-2 years ago... how did I know it was my dad? the answer is simple: I knew how his phone looked like, and no one in the family but him is as tall as the window in my bathroom, so the answer is already obvious that he recorded me.

(To skylar)

Thiri_07 — 2021-03-03 02:27:20 UTC

idk who u r but i know ur stronger than ur thoughts.. pls keep fighting for urself.. dont pressure urself for anyt or anyone.. and these thoughts.. keep them away by doing smth u like.. even if u hv no motivation.. after u do it.. u might be glad that u gave it a go.. but just know that i am extremely proud of u for every thing from waking up and cleaning urself to going to school to study, pls be strong and keep on fighting.. that'll make me v happy 🙂

(To naira)

Thiri_07 — 2021-03-03 02:28:35 UTC

oml- pls talk to ur mom as soon as possible cuz this just cant keep going on and if she's busy, just say that it wont take long and just pull her somewhere private and talk about it.. im really worried for u sis.. pls talk to her for me ok

Skylar

2021-03-03 05:19:33 UTC

Ty for ur reply it did help me but should I um maybe ask for help from our school therapist. I want to but I’m scared to . And the QR code in the class.... whe. I scan it everyone will see . Wont they judge? What should I do?

(to skylar)

Thiri_07 — 2021-03-03 07:39:56 UTC

u shld try to seek help ok. but pls if u feel dont feel comfortable to come up to m its fine but if ur kinda ok with it pls approach me :) and maybe scan it in the early morning or i can help u scan it when i come to school early and give it to u after maybe? but pls do seek help if ur really gg thru smth

Skylar

2021-03-03 15:33:27 UTC

Im just scared that I'd people know that it's me they will think I'm a liar so I don't know what to do . The thoughts of suiciding happens almost everyday and the thought of me being useless fat and whatever is with me every single fucking day .

I try to smile to make others happy but when I'm at home I just feel so fucking depressed . I mean won't you judge me . In class I'm known to smile and rarely be sad but every single day I'm so fucking stressed , sad and anxious . Lol I should stop talking .

^
Yes it sounds like I'm taking but it's up to you to believe me

Anyways is there any other way to maybe ask for help . I wanna talk to the school therapist but I also don't want my parents to know

(To skylar)

Thiri_07 — 2021-03-03 23:28:33 UTC

If u really wanna talk to the school's therapist, then u shld.. and if u dont want ur parents to know then when u talk to the school's therapist, u shld try to convince him/her to not tell ur parents and give a valid reason for it maybe then he or she would consider not informing them

Skylar

2021-03-04 11:01:46 UTC

I don't know thiri . I'm just sacred rn

Skylar

2021-03-04 14:48:38 UTC

Idk why but I love to talk here ... I feel safe :) anyways I'm scared ... I have been hiding the fact the I'm bi for awhile now and have a crush on a girl (yes I'm a girl) I don't even know how to tell my parents this ... But on the bright side the girl is so beautiful 🤩 I don't mind keeping it a secret but it kinda feels wrong :(

(to skylar)

Thiri_07 — 2021-03-04 15:10:08 UTC

Idk if u know this cuz its kinda obvious, im questioning my sexuality too and idk if im pan or bi but i hv a girlfriend :) its ok if u dont wanna tell ur parents cuz my parents doesnt know about it as well.. I understand.. Parents these days dont understand and r sometimes homophobic.. So im not planning to come out to them anytime soon but i dont mind telling other people besudes my family/relatives or any boomer who is part of my family tree. U can come out to me if u want but if not then its totally fine and im glad u feel safe talking here.. If u need anyt i’ll always be available <3

Dear Nct chat fwends

2021-03-15 12:09:49 UTC

Hey guys,,,ik we have drifted a bit but I appreciate yall so much,,i would have never been me without you guys. I almost let go of myself until i got to meet you guys and i love you guys a lot,,,thank you and i love you guys sososo muchh !! 💖✨ - Dynah 🐭

yohhhh

2021-04-02 06:05:35 UTC

why is it always about relationship. it's always breakup hurts more. it's always my bestfriend choose her partner and forget about me. why why why tf. last time she told me something and I really felt special. but then suddenly she said it was just a joke and that really crushed my trust to her. and then suddenly we became so distant and that hurt me a lot. then FUCKING SUDDENLY she came to me again and constantly being clingy. how can she hurt me and pretend nothing happens. do I have no heart? I wasted the last 2 months crying because of her and how she forgot me because of her partner. now she's gonna just pretend nothing happened? you know what? fuck you for playing with my feelings. hope she's happy with her partner since I can't make her happy. I still love her a lot wtf. I hate myself for this

To yohhhh

Thiri_07 — 2021-04-02 06:17:08 UTC

Maybe she knows what she did wrong and she wants you to give her another chance, but i would rlly recommend talking to her tho.. And about her partner, in a relationship, it works both ways and it takes alot of effort to be in a relationship. Maybe u can give her time for her to be with her partner and also time to be with her at the same time- like balance out her time. Cuz she can't always be with you neither can she always be with her partner. If she isn't giving u the attention u deserve, i think u need to talk to her about it.. or maybe just see how things progress over a period of time and see if she's just acting clingy or rlly wanna change for u :D