https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey Working with your peers, how can you spot abuse in your school? What are some of the signs and indicators children who have been abused may give you? en-us 2022-05-31 19:33:21 UTC 2023-03-17 17:45:48 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-uploads.storage.googleapis.com/1719787715/b8bdfd3098bd659c93c38c4a384254c5/Educac_a_o_Protegida__logotipo_redondo_fundo_transparente_.png https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2352162344 2022-10-23 09:38:47 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2352162344 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2352165205 2022-10-23 09:45:23 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2352165205 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2352166724 2022-10-23 09:48:54 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2352166724 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2352167699 2022-10-23 09:51:39 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2352167699 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2352170269 2022-10-23 09:57:47 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2352170269 mbocanegra12 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2362161915 They may say that everything is fine, but they are scared.]]> 2022-10-30 16:17:04 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2362161915 mbocanegra12 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2362163055 Sadness, fear, anguish. He doesn't want to talk or be alone.]]> 2022-10-30 16:18:47 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2362163055 mbocanegra12 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2362166333 The victim may have marks on his or her body from beatings and does not want to share with his or her peers as he or she used to.]]> 2022-10-30 16:23:29 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2362166333 mbocanegra12 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2362166921 They avoid talking about it]]> 2022-10-30 16:24:10 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2362166921 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2362178475 in all types of abuse the abused is mentally affected. s/he is not focused, withdrawn and anxious. A fear or sense of insecurity is developed...]]> 2022-10-30 16:40:18 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2362178475 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2362179224 sexual abuse especially makes the child withdrawn in academics, the child stops much socializing and remain within themselves]]> 2022-10-30 16:41:19 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2362179224 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2362181090 yes, like in my culture beating a child by their parents are not an offence. This is evident from the proverb "spare the rod and spoil the child". In some type of schools in india, like boarding school, abuse, both sexual and non-sexual, are done by the senior grade students, which sometimes go unnoticed but sometimes they are neglected and ignored. ]]> 2022-10-30 16:44:02 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2362181090 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2362183126 Though the statistics says, that in every 4 boys one is abused, sexually and otherwise but its a common believe among general population, that abuse means girls. may be girls are more prone to sexual assaults than boys, but boys face emotional and non-sexual assaults by their peers in their school and play area. ]]> 2022-10-30 16:46:31 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2362183126 ausher13 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2407841946 They act out, usually by hurting another in order to get the attention of the teacher or the absent parent.]]> 2022-12-04 06:50:52 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2407841946 ausher13 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2407842458 Cry for the slightly things and use negative words to put themselves down]]> 2022-12-04 06:52:55 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2407842458 ausher13 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2407864250 The child could become overly sexual. Touching themselves or others inappropriately. Or on the other side of things refusing to touch and any physical interaction with persons of the opposite gender or generally any one.]]> 2022-12-04 08:04:26 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2407864250 bogutu2 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421558893 Since they don't feel important enough in the eyes of their parents, they make everyone around them feel insignificant to them as a way of feeling important. Or they could be very hard on themselves setting unrealistic goals in their school activities so that they earn their parents affection/attention. ]]> 2022-12-15 08:25:04 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421558893 bogutu2 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421560024 They tend to keep to themselves and seem like they are always walking on egg shells. They are also almost always looking sad. ]]> 2022-12-15 08:26:20 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421560024 bogutu2 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421562241 They struggle to relate with their peers or do so in a way that is weird/strange. Additionally, since they are angry internally, they always seem to be angry at everyone. ]]> 2022-12-15 08:28:55 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421562241 bogutu2 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421564105 They lose interest in things that they used to derive joy from. They may become less social, especially if they are afraid that someone might notice their state and the abuser may end up in trouble in the case where they are trying to protect them. ]]> 2022-12-15 08:30:56 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421564105 bogutu2 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421565501 In all cases, the child's personality changes. This is often one of the first indicators to note. Either they become withdrawn or are suddenly attracting everyone's attention by doing things that is not in their normal nature. ]]> 2022-12-15 08:32:43 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421565501 bogutu2 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421568522 Some cultures belittle children and so it would be hard for them to speak up when they are being abused. In others, children are brought up to fear....respect?....adults. In such a case, they will silently go through the abuse, especially if it is being done by someone who is a close family member or someone in authority. Some cultures also tend to be unfair to the female gender. In such a case, the girl is always made to feel like it is their fault that the abuse is happening and therefore they deserve it. ]]> 2022-12-15 08:36:37 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421568522 bogutu2 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421571127 Children, despite their gender are equally vulnerable to abuse. The difference could be in the type of abuse. One gender could be more prone to a particular abuse than the other depending on many factors in their respective environments. However, they both are at risk and deserve protection. This differences bring in the aspects of equity in coming up with policies or regulations for their wellbeing]]> 2022-12-15 08:39:37 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421571127 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421601619 Female genital mutilation is both physical and sexual abuse. We may have students in our campus who have faced this and we must be aware of this and strength our practices and support (medical, psychological...)]]> 2022-12-15 09:16:20 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421601619 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421603792 Regardless of their gender, they are vulnerable. I would also like to remark that male/female children can be a abuse by someone of the same gender. We oftentimes tend to forget this: female-female, male-male, male-female, female-male and everything in between.]]> 2022-12-15 09:18:31 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421603792 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421607211 While I understand that the actions of individuals are influenced by the norms, values, language, and other cultural factors, when we say yes to this question we may take the risk of generalizing and being bias. For example, unconciously assuming that x culture is more likely to abuse; and hence we may neglet and dismiss that abuse can happen in any culture.]]> 2022-12-15 09:22:29 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2421607211 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2427238646 2022-12-22 05:56:52 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2427238646 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2427239607 2022-12-22 05:58:56 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2427239607 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2427242050 2022-12-22 06:03:53 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2427242050 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2427244984 2022-12-22 06:08:49 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2427244984 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2427252171 We need to look out also for students who withdraw, having insomnia, sleeping during the day]]> 2022-12-22 06:25:08 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2427252171 https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2444763634 This can occur as a response to all kinds of abuse. It may be an expression of children punishing themselves because they feel guilt and shame or of wanting to reestablish control after losing it. ]]> 2023-01-15 14:41:43 UTC https://padlet.com/dantaskm/hv0sbq8htl6vmeey/wish/2444763634